We will help you get your mom off drugs!

I like to masturbate several times a day. I often imagine the sounds a person would make if i strangled him or her. I like to steal pairs of my granmas dirty underwear and dance around in them covered in blueberry syrup listen to marilyn manson and masturbate to picures inside guns and ammo magizines but sumtimes i use popular mechanicks. I am in 9th grade. once i used a C clamp to put extreme pressure on my right teste while ejackualtion occured, i lost my other teste when i was younger. my dad is a recovered drug addict, my mom also used drugs when she was pregnat with me and my little sis, but my sister seems like a regular kid. I take ritalin but i think it could be someting else, i also have dark thoughts. I felt fine when i went thru counseling last week, both parents still drink and don;’t help me with my homework. I am on the football team and my grades are starting to get bad. i dont know what im asking here, i guess i just wanted someone else to know whats going on in my head. Thanks, mike

Sorry it’s long..

Case Study 3 – Paula Evans
Paula Evans is a 25 year old woman brought to the emergency room by her boyfriend, who has become progressively more alarmed at her complaints, demands, and errant behavior. Her chief complaint to the staff is “I keep thinking about wanting to kill myself.” Paula is a competent secretary, has her own apartment, and is self supporting. She is also attending university classes in the evening because she wants to advance her education and does not “want to stay a secretary all my life.”
The current crisis began when her boyfriend, Mark, refused to consider her demands for marriage after a 2 year exclusive relationship. Paula began to call him at work demanding more and more time, finally threatening to kill herself if he didn’t spend every evening with her. Mark reported that her demands, phone calls, and escalating threats were becoming intolerable and were making him want to break off the relationship entirely. On the evening Mark brought Paula to the emergency room, he had told her that he had to go on a business trip and would be away for several days. Paula insisted that he was doing this just to get away from her. She became severely agitated and began to talk wildly about killing herself. In the emergency room, Paula angrily belittles her boyfriend in front of the staff and accuses him of using and then rejecting her. After physically separating the arguing couple, the staff is able to obtain a history of the progressive development of Paula’s symptoms.
In response to the stress of the past several months, Paula has developed fluctuating depressive moods, a tendency to over sleep (especially sleeping in the evenings and on weekends), and a tendency to binge eat that has resulted in a 20 pound weight gain. Paula says she is constantly anxious and has been having increasing difficulty concentrating on her studies. She has continued to work throughout this stressful period, seeking support from those in her office. Attention from Mark or her co-workers produces a brightening of her mood that she is able to sustain while they are with her.
Paula experiences her most severe symptoms when she is alone. These include prolonged fantasies about hilling her boyfriend and a desire to hurt herself. She says that on several occasions she has cut her thighs with razor blades and describes watching herself do this as if from a distance, numb and dead inside and feeling little pain. Paula says that at these times she feels fat and unattractive as well as completely unlovable and worthless. At such moments, she calls Mark on the phone and threatens to commit suicide unless he comes and keeps her company. Mark reports that she has also begun to lose control of her temper. For example, shortly before he brought her to the emergency room, she attacked him with her fists in the midst of an argument.
Paula was the youngest of four children and one of two girls. Her parents separated and divorced when she was 3 years old because of her father’s alcoholism and physical abuse of his wife and children. A family secret was that Paula was sexually abused when she was 10 years old by a brother 5 years her senior.
In adolescence, Paula associated with a rebellious group and became involved in drug abuse and early sexuality to fit in. Paula said that her mother attributed Paula’s teenage rebellion to a need to “find a father” and that she thought that Paula had gotten “her sexual urges confused with wanting to be loved and cared for.” By age 16, Paula had already embarked on the pattern of chaotic unstable involvements with men that continues to characterize her adult life.
Her first drug overdose occurred at age 17 in response to a perceived rejection by her boyfriend. A series of intense relationships followed this incident, each of which followed a similar pattern: Paula would become progressively more clinging until she gradually alienated her partners. Each rejection was marked by a period of anger and self abuse, followed quickly by a new and identical relationship. Paula’s current boyfriend is only the latest in a long series of disappointing partners.

Sorry it’s long..

Case Study 3 – Paula Evans
Paula Evans is a 25 year old woman brought to the emergency room by her boyfriend, who has become progressively more alarmed at her complaints, demands, and errant behavior. Her chief complaint to the staff is “I keep thinking about wanting to kill myself.” Paula is a competent secretary, has her own apartment, and is self supporting. She is also attending university classes in the evening because she wants to advance her education and does not “want to stay a secretary all my life.”
The current crisis began when her boyfriend, Mark, refused to consider her demands for marriage after a 2 year exclusive relationship. Paula began to call him at work demanding more and more time, finally threatening to kill herself if he didn’t spend every evening with her. Mark reported that her demands, phone calls, and escalating threats were becoming intolerable and were making him want to break off the relationship entirely. On the evening Mark brought Paula to the emergency room, he had told her that he had to go on a business trip and would be away for several days. Paula insisted that he was doing this just to get away from her. She became severely agitated and began to talk wildly about killing herself. In the emergency room, Paula angrily belittles her boyfriend in front of the staff and accuses him of using and then rejecting her. After physically separating the arguing couple, the staff is able to obtain a history of the progressive development of Paula’s symptoms.
In response to the stress of the past several months, Paula has developed fluctuating depressive moods, a tendency to over sleep (especially sleeping in the evenings and on weekends), and a tendency to binge eat that has resulted in a 20 pound weight gain. Paula says she is constantly anxious and has been having increasing difficulty concentrating on her studies. She has continued to work throughout this stressful period, seeking support from those in her office. Attention from Mark or her co-workers produces a brightening of her mood that she is able to sustain while they are with her.
Paula experiences her most severe symptoms when she is alone. These include prolonged fantasies about hilling her boyfriend and a desire to hurt herself. She says that on several occasions she has cut her thighs with razor blades and describes watching herself do this as if from a distance, numb and dead inside and feeling little pain. Paula says that at these times she feels fat and unattractive as well as completely unlovable and worthless. At such moments, she calls Mark on the phone and threatens to commit suicide unless he comes and keeps her company. Mark reports that she has also begun to lose control of her temper. For example, shortly before he brought her to the emergency room, she attacked him with her fists in the midst of an argument.
Paula was the youngest of four children and one of two girls. Her parents separated and divorced when she was 3 years old because of her father’s alcoholism and physical abuse of his wife and children. A family secret was that Paula was sexually abused when she was 10 years old by a brother 5 years her senior.
In adolescence, Paula associated with a rebellious group and became involved in drug abuse and early sexuality to fit in. Paula said that her mother attributed Paula’s teenage rebellion to a need to “find a father” and that she thought that Paula had gotten “her sexual urges confused with wanting to be loved and cared for.” By age 16, Paula had already embarked on the pattern of chaotic unstable involvements with men that continues to characterize her adult life.
Her first drug overdose occurred at age 17 in response to a perceived rejection by her boyfriend. A series of intense relationships followed this incident, each of which followed a similar pattern: Paula would become progressively more clinging until she gradually alienated her partners. Each rejection was marked by a period of anger and self abuse, followed quickly by a new and identical relationship. Paula’s current boyfriend is only the latest in a long series of disappointing partners.

for those of you who don’t know my situation i am 16 and pregnant the father of my baby is violent towards me whilst i am pregnant he is also a drug addict and is trying to force me to get the baby aborted i was waying up the optins of adoption abortion or keeping the baby and i just wanted to knoiw whats it like to be a mother at a young age

I have posted on this before, my husband found out he has a daughter he knew nothing about…she’s 10 and lives in Australia with her Mother and her half brother. We were so surprised when the Mother got in touch a few months ago, did a paternity test and yes she’s my husbands. We wondered why the MOther had suddenly decided to get in touch and I was a bit suspicious, now we find out that her and her husband (who though the little girl was his) are divorcing and he is going for custody…the Mother is an ex prostitute and drug addict, it is looking like he will get custody of his son but there is a question mark over the little girl…I dont think the Mother is being straight with us…courts dont tend to award custody to Dads unless the Mother is a bad one right? Now she has asked if the little girl can stay with my husband and our family for two weeks in July whislt she the Mother goes to Ireland for a holiday with her friends…my husband has planned to go to Oz in JAn. to meet his
Daughter anyway…but I am so suspicious of the MOther…she seems to be not telling the whole story to us…she says the her ex husband is violent…but why would the court grant him custody of his son if this were the case…alarm bells are ringing in my head…my MIL and my Mum agree with me…what’s her game? My husband is naieve at the best of times…what is going on here?

I don’t remember, I watched it long ago. The British kid hangs out with these boys n they spy on these girls changing. Then when the boy grows up he gets a job as a factory worker, then a postman. He meets a girl who takes him on her house, they have sex, but she has some disease that makes her die. Later, the boy becomes an alcoholic and slaps his mother

Im fifteen now. I have had bulimea for about three years;maybe a little more. I’ve realized I always BINGE and then would work out ECESSively to burn off all i ate. Well Im in ninth grade now and my emotions with food go up and down.. i HATE it :( one day its like I eat sooooooooo much and try to throw up but i cant so I workout alot. Im not skinny. I am 120 at about 5’2 i see fat on mee… some days im anorexic and dont eat that much at all! but then other days I binge eat and work it off! ANd other days i just eat alot and dont do anything! its like bipolar eating disorder ruining me. i drink hella hot tea so i can go to the bathroom alot.. but i also take laxatives when i eat WAY toooo much like for three hours straight just eating.. I HATE THIS >:( Im so fed up with my self.. My mom took me to my doctor and she said she was gonna get a psycologist for me but my mom doesnt caree:( she doesnt think i have a problem obiously just because am not tooo skinny! ( soorry about some typing..my keyboard isnt the best) but please tell me what should i do! i kNoW something is wrong with me . but what do i havee???!!! can you tell me exactly whats wrong with me?! and the biggest question is :CAN I GET HELPED BEFORE SUMMER BREAK BEGINS IN JUNE? G0D BLESS YOU ALLL WH0 HELPP :{{

Allright so I get these “spells” where all of the sudden I snap and start being Out of control. One time I got the spell (its like i feel dizzy) and I threw a coffe all over the inside of my car, b/c it was large and not medium, than i shouted fukk you and fukkk me and hit myself in the head.

One time i got the dizzy spell and i reached for a pot and banged it on my head till i was bleeding when my dad was yelling at me.

ANyways i was walking in walmart and all of the sudden i started to panic b/c i couldnt find my mom and the “Spell” came. I felt dizzy and i started to walk faster and faster un till my my basket hit this mans hand. “EEXXXCCUUSSEE MEE” he said really sarcasticaly and all of the sudden i dont know what happened i just yelled “FUKK YOU”

I have no idea why i would do that i would never ever do it but like i said these spells keep taking me over. 2 mins later i relized what i had done and the man and lady came over to me, and was like “WHY DID YOU SAY THAT TO MY HUSBAND” and i just started sobbing and was like ” I dont know please you gotta believe me i cant control this stuff, and im having such a hard time right now I dont want to talkabout it”

The man and lady saw that i wasnt mentally stable and told me it was okay and left, than i started to hypervenalate and Fainted right in the middle of walmart! my mom came and helped me.

Here is some background info about my mental alliments:

I was anorexic, now i struggle with eating disorders, like over excercising and such but its not as bad as it used to be.

When i was little My Ocd was really bad and i would have to hit stuff 12 times or other rituals involving numbers.

umm.. and Today is my “Binge day” where i binge on foods, and on other days i diet and excercise strictly

please help whats wrong with me? I cant conrtorl these Spells!
Yes i take anti-depressents and Xanax once a night
and i know its not low blood sugar, b/c today is my binge day so i had a full stomach when i fainted

My 19 year old step son is currently in re-hab for OD on methadone. He arrived at our house 3 months ago from his mother’s. She sent with him Clonopin, Triazadone, Paxil and Loratab because she claimed he was having panic attack, addicted to Xanax etc. His father and I never saw these behaviors in him when he lived with us for 6 months. The mother has been continuously nasty and unbearing to us. I snapped and wrote her a letter asking her to please relinquish her own insecurities and identify with her own problems so that we could work together to help the son. She retaliated with a 5 page letter attacking me personally with half truths and downright lies. I do not care about her attack on me, I am concerned that the son will be coming out of rehab to live with us and “mom” is thoroughly not pleased with this. I would like suggestions from others on how a step-mother can best handle dealing with the step-son’s recovery while battling the control/craziness of the mother. Thanks
Suggested books or web-sites welcomed

This one is a tear jerker, about to make you weep
You’ll be up all through the night, unable to sleep
This world has literally raped me of my sanity
Now I’m stuck in infamy, can’t see so clearly
Abused and stepped on for believing in his own way
This psychopathic maniac that your seeing today
You’ve been warned, now at the point of no return
This world is a sad place, it deserves to forever burn

Tears start roll’n down your cheek
You stand there crying, you can’t speak
Watery eyes, runny noses, unable to stand
Tugging at you heartstrings and tear glands

Born a child with demonic evil in his devilish eyes
Still young now, but ignored for whatever he implies
Had an alcoholic dad who beat him and his sister
When he was asleep, we couldn’t play but whisper
A mother trying to put her heart in the right place
But she couldn’t do a thing and left his bad taste
He was a drunk who left his kids at a baseball game
Passed out in the bleachers, couldn’t remember his name
My Nana threaten to kill him once, take away his life
She swore on her grave it would be by a gun or knife
I haven’t even seen my dad in over three years
My sister hates him, and my mind is still unclear
He’s called couple times, saying what he did was wrong
Singing the same old song, back and forth like ping pong
I got a family that’s getting into each others throats
I’m just hoping somehow we can just stay afloat

Tears start roll’n down your cheek
You stand there crying, you can’t speak
Watery eyes, runny noses, unable to stand
Tugging at you heartstrings and tear glands

As a kid I was always the butt of the pranks and jokes
I’ve been tempted by alcohol, drugs and to smoke
But none of the devils tricks are getting into my head
I’m just trying to do the work of my own instead
People look at me and say I’m the devil or anti-Christ
I’m just curious about the world, but that won’t suffice
Like why are we here if we never learn, got me wondering
Why is this world made up of so many lies and suffering
Innocent children getting picked up off of ever corner
Man stealing lingerie in order to give himself a *****
GM going bankrupt, patriotism sinking like the DOW
Do you finally understand what’s been going on now
Crack babies dying off in the alleys, homeless beaten down
Patients being left on streets, only this arsonist making a sound
Why must I point out the obvious to those who are blind
I hope your crying somewhere in the back of your mind

Tears start roll’n down your cheek
You stand there crying, you can’t speak
Watery eyes, runny noses, unable to stand
Tugging at you heartstrings and tear glands

The Midwest Arsonist

To shut her up!
I don’t think Arsenic or Rat Poison is a good idea! I could end up in Prison!

What do you find absolutely mandatory in a partner, I mean very little room for compromise when it comes to that one or two things. Rather it’s physical, emotional, spiritual, whatever. Why do you find it unbearable to deal without?

What do you find it unbearable to deal with?

What are the top three things you have to offer in a relationship? Leave the modesty for another question lol.

I’m really into fitness and MMA, and I spend at LEAST 2 hours exercising or doing kickboxing and BJJ drills. I would have to have an active person, doesn’t have to be into fighting too *though that would be preferred*. They have to be at least mildly in to fitness. Another question does anybody else who kind of a “health nut” feel that way? Also they have to have thick skin cause I’m terribly blunt.

I can’t stand spoil brats. If you have a good upbringing I’m not hating, but if your oblivious to the fact that you got a great family, great parents, and a great life…. I can’t even talk to you. I had to work for everything I had since I was 15, live by myself since 18, dad was a drug addicted, mom was a religious nut who kicked me out, got shot at, attacked, name it I been through it. I still find numerous things to be thankful for. I just can’t stand ungratefulness, especially when your privileged.

First thing I bring into a relationship is raw honesty rather that’s good or not. Secondly, I’m protective especially over females, guys too, but more so females. Thirdly, I’m very cultured been a lot of places, *military brat* which resulted in me requiring the taste of a wide array of cuisines. I’m a great chef, like above average. I love Rachel Ray, but I could cook circles around her. Not that she ever claimed to be a gourmet chef.

So what about you…..

I was very drunk saturday night, and had a bad hangover yesterday. Could this just be an after affect of the alcohol? There’s a bug bite on my arm.

She just bitches and moans about everything! Plus she’s an alcoholic. I can’t stand the woman!!!!! HELP!!!!!

She just bitches and moans about everything! Plus she’s an alcoholic. I can’t stand the woman!!!!! HELP!!!!!

When i was 8 years old my father told me that the reason why my mother was all loopy all the time was because she was drinking. I was always told when i was younger that drinking is horrible and i couldn’t take in that my mother was lying to me all these years about her drinking problem. When I was 11 i went on a road trip with my mother and my little brother who was about 3 at the time. She was drunk driving all the way from Indiana and back. The family that we saw there saw her drunk the whole time. By the time we got back i figured out my dad was sick with cancer and i had to take care of him, my little brother, and my mother drunk on the floor. Making sure that she wasn’t doing something to light the house on fire again or end up falliing asleep with a cigg in her hand. My dad died july 8 2005 and my mother had been in and out of jail from that point on, with child endangerment and drunk driving. She seems to only care about herself, now she wants to step in as my mom again

can some1 explain (in english) and then i have to translate those in my mother tongue.

I need a song about a father (preferably an alcoholic) who hits his wife for an assignment im doing. I have to make a soundtrack for a book I’m reading.

I have a bad feeling that two glasses of wine and 3mg isn’t a good idea (my mom did this…)

…also, my dad had one glass, and took 3mg.

I have a bad feeling that two glasses of wine and 3mg isn’t a good idea (my mom did this…)

…also, my dad had one glass, and took 3mg.