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If you have been thorough this but never got help:

12- parents divorced
14- first love killed himself
15-grandfather died of skin cancer
15-step-dad committed suicide
17-close friend dies in drunk driving accident
19- very close friend dies on xmas eve from someone runnin redlight
17-23 was verbally/physically abused by b/f
Brother is a drug addict
Mom has horrible anxiety and work-a-holic

I am sad alll the time. I just want to be able to smile. I wonder why I am so sad, and think maybe I should face all these things? i am almost 25.
I think I am bi-polar. Should I of gotten help a long time ago? Or does everyone go through this and i am just complaining?

There’s no evolutionary reason for people to be born gay. Two people of the same sex can’t reproduce. I read an article written by a “homosexual” that said he unconsciously made the “decision” to be gay. He labeled homosexuality as a detachment disorder. He never had any physical contact with his father, which caused him to crave intimacy with another male. He said that he only sexually desired males, but romantically desired women. He also said that his mother was very cold to him and acted as if he was never good enough. His first sexual encounter with a female was not very pleasant. This made him fear relationships with women and he felt as if he would never be “good enough” for women. People brought up in these kinds of homes may turn to other outlets such as alcoholism or drugs.

Before you go off the deep end and respond with childish knee jerk reactions and name calling (homophobic, bigot, etc.), at least think about and consider the possibilities that homosexuality may in fact be an emotional detachment disorder. Do you think that homosexual feelings may possibly be because of emotionally damaging experiences like the ones listed above?
*, You’re calling ME irrational when you’re the one using the ‘reasoning’ that there is no reason, they just are? There has to be an evolutionary reason for homosexuality. If not, then it’s either a choice, disorder, or birth defect.

Im 13 and am writing a story, Basically it’s about this girl (Alana) who has an abusive father, a mother addicted to drugs, her little sister is depressed and her older brother has tried to commit suicide twice. She then finds a shining light in her life, Jake. They fall in love and Jake introduces her to the world of mythical creatures and when Jake gets in trouble for telling Alana all about this they go on the run from the leaders of this world.
I talked to my older sister about this and she wasn’t sure if I was old enough to write about the things her family is going through. What do you think?
I think i will change it a bit. The main male’s name is now Lucas not Jake. The father is still abusive and the mother is just to scared to prevent it. The brother and sister are normal. It is a little bit similar to Twilight and a little smiliar to Harry Potter but it will have my twist on it and wont be much like them.

she smothers me to death, babies me, steals my medications(which i take for depression), messes with them, telly phyciatrist wut meds he should prescribe me, forgets things CONSTANTLY, controls everythng in my life, controls every1 in my life, has a history of alcoholism, steals my dads girlfriend’s medications(which we haven’t quite proven yet) and as she does all this i get closer and closer to her but when i relize it, i push myself away from her again. but she doesnt like people knowing about my mood disorder. so what the fridge is wrong w/ her? No normal mother is like that.

my dad and mom sometimes drink wine/ alcohol but they aren’t addicted to it at all! how come some people are like that? my dad drinks more than my mom but he knows when to stop. both of them dont smoke nor do any drugs? the question i really want you to answer is that WHY DO SOME PEOPLE GET ADDICTED TO WINE/ALCOHOL BUT OTHERS ARENT? does what mean when i drink alcohol will i also get addicted or not? is it REALLY that bad to drink alcohol once in a while when your legal?

OK, here goes. I plan on leaving the father of my two year old baby girl. He’s already stated that he’ll get custody, though I’m not sure why he says that… Let me give you some details. I live in New York State. He works during the day, I stay home with my little girl all day. At night, three nights a week, I work from five to ten thirty. He has her till eight those nights, ans at eight o’clock, she goes to bed. He had my nine year old daughter watch her a lot on the nights I work, and I would be working more, except that he really won’t let me, though after I move, I’ll be able to get more hours. I have custody of my oldest child, not through the courts, but her dad has no problem with her being with me at all, he sees her every weekend, and that’s working out just fine. I haven’t got a drinking problem, drug problem or alcoholism. I am going to school to be a teacher, and I have never abused or been mean to my children. Actually, I think I’m a really good mom. And so do my kids, my oldest and I are extremely close, and my baby and I are as well. I love them so damn much, and it’s stressing myself and my oldest out to be here, he’s possessive, controlling and mean spirited. He yells a lot, and I can’t do a thing, can’t leave the house, can’t do anything without being interrogated. I’m almost developing a nervous condition, and it’s time to go… My question is, I’m terrified when I go to court, he’ll make something up about me, in order to get my kids. My ex’s mother and sister are going in to be witnessed for me, but I’m not sure what is going to happen, and I can’t allow her to be raised by a short tempered man. I’m so scared I could lose her, and I need some advice or experiences from you guys… Please please take the time to answer me today… I’m sick over this, and paralyzed by fear of losing my baby. Please help. I want my life happy, with BOTH of my children.
John, Happy Hunter and KK. Thank you SO much. I need some reassurance through this time.. Unfortunately, Happy Hunter, I can’t put school off, since I’m already halfway through. In NYS, I know I need to have PHYSICAL witnesses, not just statements, or else I would have had a lot more. I know the law guardians will also talk to my eldest, and she will tell them what’s happening, although if I had it my way, I would leave her out of it altogether… On a more personal note, John and KK thank you for the complimentary answers as well, I needed the self confidence boost. Fighting for your child is like fighting for your life… Thank you so much.

She’s 42, lives with my mom and her son and she also has bi-polar disorder. My mother is fed up because she’s listening to my sister puke her guts up after every binge meal. she’s gone from 128 lbs to 86 lbs in the past year and getting worse. She is in therapy, but she refuses to tell her therapist about this problem, because she doesn’t see it as a problem, she tells my mom, it’s her body and stay out of her business, she’s an adult and all, but she’s also my best friend and every time I mention something about bulimia, she plays stupid and pretends she doesn’t have it. She knows the risks, she knows everything, my mom had brought home pamphlets, talked to her doctor, but the doctor told her to call the crisis hotline. He didn’t do anything. I fear for her life, she’s already had so many physical aliments that have led to surgery these past six months. I’m afraid she’s going to die right in front of us and there’s nothing we can do.
She’s killing herself and doesn’t see it as a problem. I know you can help anyone who doesn’t want it, but is there any advice you can give me on what to say to her?
edit..I know you can’t help anyone who doesn’t want it

My mother in law explains that once in awhile i should buy my children Mcdonalds, Or some other Fast food joint. I limit the amount of soda & juice,and potato chips in my house. I want my children to be healthy. She said let them be kids, eat junk all day. However, my husband agrees with me, who do you agree with?

For lunch they eat sandwiches with an apple on the side and milk for a drink.

Am i doing anything wrong?

Has anyone else tried this and what kind of results, if any, did you get??

I AM COMPLETELY AND UTTERLY FEED UP! PLEASE SOMEONE I NEED HELP! I NEED SOME STRESS RELIEVING TECHNIQUES TO HELP ME CALM DOWN! I HAVE TRIED ALMOST EVERYTHING FROM LONG HOT BATHS TO SLEEP! PLEASE ANYONE HAVE ANY IDEAS?!?!?!

(the following is just background information on why i am stressed out and if you have specific information about any of the below that would be great too! you really don’t have to read it if you don’t want to…)

I’m 17 and most of you out there will say oh normal teenager stuff…haha NO it’s not! If you were in my shows then you would understand.
My family has been pushing me and pushing me, and today was the last straw! I’m completly feed up with all their $h*t!! Seriously! They tell me how to rule my life, they call me fat, they diss my boyfriend and his family all the time tell me that they don’t do anything the mother has no responsibility makes her kids do all the work!
Ever since the accident, I haven’t been the same.everyone has noticed this, and I have too. Especially my fiancee. He says he doesn’t love me any less, and wants us to go back to the way it was in our early relationship and add some new things to it. Im am game, but as i said before…my grandmother is a monster!
(background Information on the accident:On my birthday, i got into a car accident. I went into the medium on the highway and hurt the front end of my bummer, cracked the windshield, and threw the alignment off and that’s it. I came so close to loosing my life along with my fiance’s life. When I got out of the car, I was so worried about the car and how my grandmother (the person i live with and her car) was going to kill me. When we got home, my grandmother and my dad did just that. They didn’t believe me and my fiancee (boyfriend to them) that I really just got into a car accident and they thought me and him went off roading at the beach.) my family even makes fun of me when the things that happened are really tramatic (they laugh at me cuz I got into a car accident after flippin out that there was a bee in the car which I am extremely allergic to…)
I am sick and tired of my entire family! expecially my grandmother AGH! Another things is, I have to put up with her BS 24/7. AHH it is so annoying! She constantly calls me fat, tells me how to live my life (along with my aunt), tells me that my bf (fiancee)will never amount to anything, constantwhinesins and b****es about everything! AH i cant take it!!!!! She does what she likes. She is also very contradictive! like she will tell me to do my laundry, but then she does it for me! (i only do it when i dont have anything to wear…reasonable for a 17 year old i think). Plus she also has to ALWAYS know where I am, who Im with, when Ill be home etc! She doesnt trust me at all. When I say im out with friends and ill be home later i dont know when, SHE FLIPS OUT AND SAYS IN SNEAKY! WHAT?!?!?! AGH! i could go on and on about her and write the length of the China Wall with things I hate about her, but there are other things that are worrying me at this moment. I am soo stressed out to the max about the stuff she puts me though, I don’t want to go home anymore! I have serious issues with my entire family! My family has pushed me so far that I used to cut myself, drink excessivly, smoke, and do other stuff just to defy them! I stop on account of my own health. I don’t do any of the above anymore.
Plus on top of the stuff my family desides to put me though, I also have to deal with the following….
School, grades (they have been slipping), working at my TWO jobs, friends, pimples (they are like everywhere on my face), PROM (OH THATS A BIG ONE, ITS MAY 15, AND I ONLY HAVE A DRESS AND A DATE no shoes, no limo, no hair appt. no nail appt, no nada…AHHH), school play tryouts (had them today), my boyfriend, worrying if im pregnant or not (long story! and yes i took a test but it was negative but i still feel like i am), worrying about my sister (she lives with her mother and her other sister who SHE [my sister] hates), being forced to worry about my dad (family is using the guilt trip thing cuz my dad lost his job and just lost his house), the talent show this friday (im dancing in it, and i still have to make up like 3 8 counts ahh), my dance crew, my theater class/company and soooooooo much more.
I can’t take it anymore their driing me crazy! Once I hit 18 in April of 2010 I’m moving out and moving in with my fiancee! Me and him have already talked about it, and its deffinitly going to happen if they still pull their $h*t! Of course I am going to finish schooling and everything and hoping that they will still pay for college, but if they dont, I have already started saving the money from my 2 jobs that I work.

Please help me! I am so tired of this stress and its killing my body! headaches, backaches, feetaches, everything hurts and aches. Im just feed up! Please help me! Any and all advise is welcome! Thanks to all!

i was in love with a mature girl. She left me i cracked up bla bla. i should have been more manly. Anyways I saw her last time i got drunk, i messed it up. I m smoking too much cigarettes lately. And i called her today her mom answered and told me not to call her anymore. I feel used, stupid, emotional, reckless. But i have learned. I never ever thought i would reach such a place in my life where i get disrespected by a mother of an ex. Cause i know i was the one who messed it up but i wanted to make it work again but it was too late i kept on messing it more and more. Its like gambling i never knew when to stop. untill i got disrespected. How would i consider looking at that girl again in my life ? she lives close
And is he happy ?

My mother drinks. A lot. I mean, a LOT. She drinks beer every single day. She comes home from works, drinks, then eventually goes to sleep. On her days off, she drinks. All she does is sit on her desk chair playing some tedious card game on the computer and drink. She’s gotten SO immune to the alcohol that she can put down like ten beers without being sh*tfaced.

But even after she’s had a few, she gets abusive. Verbally. This has gone on for YEARS. She’ll drink, then start tearing into me about how I’m fat and lazy and a disgrace, etc. etc. I find it ironic that she’s calling me a disgrace even though I’m the first in the family to go to college ((she didn’t even get her highschool diploma!)) But it’s always something she’s saying, and it’s very hurtful.

My problem is, I can’t talk to her. I can’t talk to her when she’s sober, let alone drunk. If I try to make a point, she either tells me she doesn’t want to deal with me anymore and says to shut up, or just laughs at me. I CAN’T get through to her. In her eyes, she’s perfect. She does absolutely nothing wrong and if I try to defend myself I’m defying that.

We’ve been to a counselor and even she couldn’t get through to her. I’m really at a loss. Her verbal abuse is ruining my life, I;’m already on depression and anxiety medication and I’m not the most stable person out there, she knows this and uses it against me.

For years I have fought back the urge to stop trying to reason with her and just beat her, but now I am seriously condisering it. I’ve called the cops on her before, but my dad got scared and bailed her out. He can’t talk to her either. I’ve tried everything and I’m out of ideas. Please help me before I make a mistake, please!
I’m seventeen. And when we tried to get her help, she wouldn’t listen to the counselor. She yelled and argued with the counselor. And unfortunately, I used to love her at one point, but I don’t now.

‘Twas the day before Christmas, and all through the house, beer in abundance, and liquor about.

The children pissed off, possibly drugged as well, for there were shitty presents under the tree…what the hell?

“The fuck is this shit?”, the one child did utter, “A holiday sweater? We must murder our mother.”

“Later”, the other decreed, “I talked to Mason Day, talkin’ about some kind of pineapple weed. I know you don’t smoke ,Beau Blanchard my chap, but I’m George Almonte, if I’m not high I swear to god I’ll snap.”

“Good shit”, Beau replied, “Let’s hit it after I grab some supplies.”

So Beau loaded a bag, with his father’s liq and beer, unworried about his anger, for he will be drunk until the next year. They walked out the house, when they heard such a clatter, it was Abel Perez , getting madder and madder.

“FUCK YOU MOM, YOU IMMIGRANT BITCH, I HOPE YOU BURN, YOU INSUFFERABLE WITCH!!” Business as usual, he was always pissed.

So Beau cracked a joke, they laughed and moved on, George skipped merrily singing metal songs.

They walked and walked till they came to their stop, when to their horror they saw a number of cops.

Beau hid the bag, and went up to the officer, “What seems to be the problem?…lobster.”

“Well my young delinquent, we caught this other boy, a-smokin’ and drinkin’.”

To none of their surprise, it was Mason indeed, got impatient waiting and smoked a half ounce of weed.

The cars drove off, the boy’s Christmas was screwed, all except for Beau, who had his own brew.

“Fruck this shipt, what we gonner do noaww?”, said Beau shitfaced who was stumbling around.

“My friends do not wail”, George said, “We’ll break his ass out of jail.”

For some retarded reason the others agreed, they’ll get their friend and his big bag of weed.

They got some tools and a ride as well, they’d get their weed (and Mason) even if they go through hell.

Dropped off at the police station, they needed a plan to get out Mason.

“Wow, we got this far?”, Abel said, “I didn’t even think we’d get a ride in a car.”

So it was hopeless again, our three heroes(?) did think, when old St. Nicholas made a mischievous wink.

He worked his magic, more powerful than Jesus, and furthered this story in order to please us.

“Fear not my children! This magic comes with a full tank of gas!” And out of thin air comes the ghost of Hummer past.

“It’s Mason’s old hummer! From the car accident this month!”, Abel surprised, “Except with a jet engine in the back of the trunk.”

The two hopped in, with Beau falling inside. They prepared themselves for a bad ass holiday ride.

The engine roared with the spirit of St. Nick, damn this story is badass, a book would be sick.

It decimated the station except for two parts, the cell holding Mason and weed filled carts.

All four loaded up, the place they were robbin’, as they flew out the bitch, Mason yelled, “W3 b St3@dY M0bbIN!!”(we be steady mobbin for you whiter readers).

They went to the park, right by 7-11, they were so high it could’ve been heaven.

Munchies and weed mixed with liq and bud light, it was truly a most excellent night.

For all you out there who had a good laugh, you’re going to hell for liking this crap. And for those who think, I’m some twisted jerk, get your bum ass off facebook if you’re offended and hurt. But for everyone else, and even these groups as well, merry Christmas to all, and to all I’ll see you in hell!

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conceive during the middle of January. Is that healthy for the baby? or can I(the mom) not drink or smoke but my hubby can? or both can? or both can’t? and why? thanks in advance.

My mom is a heavy drinker and i want to find a way to get her to stopp before it ruins my family.
im 14 and shes hgotton alot worst. My dad works alot and im worried that my little brother and sisters wont get ot school on time or they just wont go to school becasue i can;t be there ot help them

Recently I had a small sip (trust me, I’m just 14 here) of my mom’s drink at a restruant and it didn’t taste alcoholic at all. She also said that that’s the case with Mike’s Hard Lemonade but is this correct? Or is it just a preference that some people have?

Raven Von Trese
she is 16 years old and weighs 120 pounds.She is very short for her age.She a moon pale skiontone with big brown eyes and dark Black hair with blue streaks.
her family was tron apart by drug addicted hooker for a mother and a father thats never around no one really gets her she only has one firend Benji Lewis who cam from the same background as her he is the only person who dosen’t hate her.

Velma Von Trese
Raven’s Mom
36 years old
weighs 100 pounds
is about 5’6 tall
She is a very skiny has bleched blonde hair and a fake tan with light green eyes.
She dosen’t care at all about her daughter and is normally to wasted to walk so most of the time she passed out on the floor or out on the streets looking for cleints.or she at the local bar getting wasted.and somtimes she hits her daughter just for fun.
heres the other two main people

Benji Lewis
he is 15 years old
weighs 130
around 6’11 tall.
He has dark black hair with beautiful blue eyes
he has snow white skin.
Benji has know Raven all of his life.His mom left him and his dad on his 13th brithday for a billanroeHe hasn’t been the same ever since.He eats lunch away from the back stabing,curel,evil preps that try to make his and raven’s life even worse than it is by tping their small little trailers every Halloween.
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Marcy A.K.A the most popular gril in school
she is 17 she failed two grades
weighs 90 pounds
she was platium blonde hair with baby blue eyes and has tan skintone
she loves two ruin other people’s lives like raven and benji because ther emo and she thinks there wired so her and her group chose to make fun of them and sya they have grems and are freaks just becaue.

My sister is a drug addict. She’s done everything you can think of but the main problem is the Coke and Ecstasy. She promised she’d go to rehab and my mother found her one. But she changed her mind and took off tonight. I don’t know what I should do. She’s going to end up dead. Please any advice you can give me. She’s 19 so I can’t force her to go but she does so much I just know she will die from it. Any Advice you can give me about what I should do or anything would be very appreciated. Thank you.
Yor can’t force an adult to do anything.

i was diagnosed with anorexia a while ago. i just got out of the hospital for good a few months ago. even though i reached my goal weight, i cant stop gaining weight. i gained like 10 pounds in a week! im at a loss of what to do! i tried purging but my mom caught me. i get these urges to binge and sometimes give into them. i need to loose weight but its even harder to starve myself. im at a total loss of what to do. i dont need anorexia advice persay. just a little advice as to where to go from here? please?

Ooookay, so my mother-in-law and i are going to do some mother-daughter bonding soon and i want to know what to do!!!! The thing is: she is an alcoholic, she doesn’t have a job and she doesn’t have a car right now. I DONT WANT ANYONE CRITICIZING MY FAMILY EITHER. if i see any comments that say anything bad about her i will report you immediately. she is my family and i love her. i just want to know activities that dont involve alcohol and/or a lot of money.