Would your dad being a drug addict, always getting high, doesn’t really support your family, has no job, and you mom being a gamble addict a good reason to get emancipated? Please i need real answers before i can decide if I should get emancipated. My family has been like that sence i was in first grade.
First of all, I’m 14.
I’m kind of ugly. I’ve never had a boyfriend and I’m a loser in school. Now that it’s summer, I’ve been sleeping most of the time and when I’m awake, I don’t like to eat. So far I’ve lost 11 pounds and my mom is worried because I always say I’m not hungry. I am, but I go to bed so I can ignore my hunger. Sometimes I give in and binge on a bunch of stuff. I’ve threw up once this summer. I used to throw up almost everyday a few months ago. My mom has never known and I don’t plan on telling her.
I used to go to therapy once for a few months. I learned that I had depression and anxiety. I got tired of it and just asked my mom if I could stop going. That was a few months ago.
Anyway, I feel really ugly but pretty at the same time. I LOVE to stare in the mirror at myself and feel beautiful and put on makeup and straighten my hair. I’m not going to lie, I have a bit of a shopping problem and I always want clothes. Clothes make me feel happy and loved since I don’t feel like I can get it from anyone else.
I also listen to Justin Bieber music a lot. Ever since he’s been famous, I’ve been a “Belieber.” I have over 200 Justin Bieber posters and I collect anything I can. I know a lot about him. My mom thinks I’m too obsessed, and I admit, I am. I sometimes let it take over my life. I “Stalk” him. I read news about him everyday on the internet and always want to know where he is. He’s all I think about and he makes me feel like my life is actually worth something. I even have dreams about him sometimes . I want to be beautiful like his girlfriend Selena Gomez. I just want to be able to go to a concert of something and for him to notice me. I don’t want to marry him, since I know I’ll never have a chance, but I just feel like I have a deep connection with him. I know, I’m an idiot. Whatever.
If you’re wondering, I don’t cut myself or anything. Sometimes I really feel like doing it, but I don’t. I’ve never done it and I hope I never do. I have wanted to die sometimes, but I knew I could never kill myself.
Do my problems sound bad enough for therapy?
I forgot to include this, but I HATE people. I’m nervous about what they’re thinking and I freak out if someone, preferably attractive, is starring at me
thanks. :) I really feel like talking to someone would help. Plus, those aren’t even half of my problems. I just need to let it out and get help. Last time, I didn’t feel comfortable explaining my problems, but not I’m willing to get help for myself.
I am an Egyptian. born and raised in America. I fell in love with a girl during a period of time that I was losing grip in life. I looked upon It as a sign and a gift from God. I got to know her and we really kicked it off. It was just like those movies, like the notebook. I decided I would want to marry her and spend the rest of my life with her.
Now here is the issue,and it seems to get worse by the day : her mother is a devoted Christian. Her dad is a muslim but not very close to the way of life. In Egypt,society matters about what class you are,what is your last name,where do you live and how rich you are. Her dads first question was “what is his last name?”. Her mom apparently does not find me good enough for her daughter cause I do not have “rich or royal blood” in me,I do not have unique features such as blue eyes,blonde hair, I do not have a valuable name in this country and my family is close to the religion (something she frowns upon deeply). Her daughter loves the fact my family is close to the dean and that we are good muslims. My sisters been trying to help her start praying and such. Her mom found that threatening. Her mom forbid her to see me and my family again,but ask her daughter to hang out with people her “level”. Those people her mom tried to suggest for her to go out commit sins such as occasionally drinking,adultery, smoking and the “normal” thing that society is known for now.
It got worse yesterday when her mom cornered the daughter,threaten to kill her or me if we keep seeing eachother and warned us the worst. The mom called me up and told me some mean things,such as I am not her class,I am not worthy, and some things I would not like to mention.
To make it clear, everyone around us,even her parent’s friends, agree for us and are trying to help. They all met me and gave their approval. I met her brother and he liked me,but he is too scared to get involved and asked to stay out of it. So the only two people against us is her parents. I met her cousins,a few uncles know about me. They all said the parents have an issue and have the utmost worst thinking. then just last night, she text me. Telling me everyone is against us now. Her mom apparently scared them all to back off and they all are trying to pull us apart.
I need help. The girl is very sick (has a rare heart disorder), and all her life her parents been caging her (she never allowed herself to hang out with such people and do what her parents want,which is usually against the right way of life). She really is a good pure girl, apparently born different than her parents, and she does not want to give in to the things they want. I tried to look at the point of view that maybe the parents are doing this because they love and care for her. All day do to her all day is yell and make her feel bad. She is born very unique and beautiful so her parents want to use that to let her marry someone in their standards and her looks. We really do not know what to do..
shes 21 AND NOT ONCE in her life her parents let her make her own decision. they make her wear her watch the way they want to, make her eat what they want, shoot man they make her walk the way they approve. Shes been complaining to me long before we even got together, how she can not take it anymore and she can never live life. I showed her how to love by being free, eating out (her family never eats out! ever, not even ice cream). We just had a time of our lives. I am not a fan to take a girl from her parents. Why i told her if her family was good to her and if they were really caring for her and doing things cause they love her (they do things to show off to the public and everything is done for public show), then i would have backed out right away. shes always begged me that what ever happens, never leave her because she cant stand living that kind of life style. Her brother is 25 and the kid has not grown up yet! he actually cracked because of all that things their parents are doing to them that he literally acts like a child now.
Me and my life is hard so far. When i was four i did cooking cleaning, because my mom is addicted to drugs and my dad beat me. When i turned seven i moved in with my grandparents. One died from cancer and one had a heart attack.
There is so much more that i can go on and on. I have guilt and i don’t want to tell my foster parents so what can i do to get rid of all the crappy thoughts in my life.
I need help i cant sleep, eat, drink, and when ever my step dad touches me i think about bad things that can happen.
Plz help I feel like Killing my self:( And i want to
I cant go another day without Sleep
first off , my mother is a single mother . i’m thirteen . my mom is a heavy alcoholic & smoker . all she does is drink alcohol, smoke, & sleep . i have to rely on other family members & her boyfriend for me to get everything i need. she doesn’t have a job , & she used to get by on prostitution . she doesn’t provide me of any of my neccesities like food & clothing . i recieve everything i need from my mother’s boyfriend, & he’s not even my legal guardian . we live with him . it seems the only time she’s awake is when she’s buying alcohol or cigarettes . once , i witnessed her have a seizure from withdrawals when she didn’t have enough money to buy alcohol . i called the police, because i was the only one in the house . she is always too drunk to take me anywhere . when i express my anger to her , about her alcoholism ; she constantly says, ‘ well , do you want me to have another seizure or something ? you want me to die , don’t you ?’ it hurts me so much to think that she thinks i want her to die . i’m just concerned . she seems to think that if she keeps drinking nothing will happen to her. it causes me alot of emotional trauma , to keep thinking about her having that seizure , & i feel like she’s blaming me for it . i thought she was going to die that day .
Seriously, people, think about this. It’s manslaughter, possibly homicide if you do this trying to get to the hospital. Arrogant idiots like Moats are more dangerous than drunk drivers because they think having a dying MIL or a pregnant mother gives them the right to drive like an idiot.
Why do people think Moats was justified?
Not chugging it but she drank frequently.
I find myself yearning for wine even though a second ago, I spit it out, hating it. And had to fight off cravings for a month.
And when I start eating some type of food I really like, I can’t stop eating though my stomach’s bulging. But no, I’m not fat. Underweight, in fact.
Not chugging it but she drank frequently.
I find myself yearning for wine even though a second ago, I spit it out, hating it. And had to fight off cravings for a month.
And when I start eating some type of food I really like, I can’t stop eating though my stomach’s bulging. But no, I’m not fat. Underweight, in fact.
Not chugging it but she drank frequently.
I find myself yearning for wine even though a second ago, I spit it out, hating it. And had to fight off cravings for a month.
And when I start eating some type of food I really like, I can’t stop eating though my stomach’s bulging. But no, I’m not fat. Underweight, in fact.
Not chugging it but she drank frequently.
I find myself yearning for wine even though a second ago, I spit it out, hating it. And had to fight off cravings for a month.
And when I start eating some type of food I really like, I can’t stop eating though my stomach’s bulging. But no, I’m not fat. Underweight, in fact.
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