We will help you get your mom off drugs!

Like fools, my husband and I were convinced by my mother who was recently divorced and had no where to go that we should sale our small home and buy a new big home that would accomodate her moving in with us. We didn’t really want to as, the house we had was small, but very affordable, but she’s my mom and I felt bad for her.So She gave us $20k and we bought a bigger home. Now, 6 months later it is not working out to say the least, our one condition of her living with us was that her ex-husband who is a drug addict & a criminal was never allowed to be in my home. She told me he moved to the east coast & he was gone.I was suspicious cuz things in my home appered to be tampered with.I installed surveillance cameras & caught him in my home.Now I am having her evicted but she is syaing she owns 1/3 of this house.I am giving her $20K back no problem, but she really thinks she owns a 1/3.Her name is on nothing and we have no contracts or writen agreements.Does she have a case?

After my dad died two years ago my mom let’s me visit her sometimes. I’m fourteen. And I way rather live with my step mom. But my mom is to selfish to let me. At my stepmoms there’s a better house better community. Plus that’s where my two very close step sisters are and my half little sister and half little brother which i love them all withh my heart and would risk everything for them and my step mom. And I have family that lives close and my two older sisters real dad and step mom live close also. And i love them dearly also. But my mother still won’t let me live with them. I have to live in alabam with Charlie my step dad who I don’t like atttt all! Which my school is filled with drug addicts, drug dealers, and there’s a fight everyday! And I don’t live in the ghetto or anything and it’s still like that. I just need a way to talk my mom into let me living with my step mom again. Any advice?

There is this Family who has lived in the United States for over 18 years.

The Mother lived in Tijuana when she met a Citizen of the U.S. He cross her across the border with two children, ages five and seven, now twenty-two and twenty-five. They married in Vegas, and the paper work was well underway, but living with him she discovered he was an abusive drunk. so, she left him, not caring if he finished the paperwork. When she left him he ripped the paper apart, and left her and two children to be labeled as illegal aliens. A year after he died of alcoholism.

When she first arrived she didn’t know the language or the law of the u.s. She didn’t know she could have appealed for her husbands abusive behavior. She does now, more than 12 years later, but the law can’t help her or her children now.

Is she really a criminal?
Who mentioned a Xenophobe?
There are plenty of U.S. citizen who marry people who end up mistreating them.
Wrong, There is a legal line between abuse and citizenship.
how would she get her citizenship after being her for that long if the gov. doesn’t open a door?
This is not a false claim. I can assure that.

just abuse even though my grandmother raised me she was just as mean as my mother. Honeslty out the too. I would say my grandmoter was the worst she did the nastiest thing. I think my mother WOULD NEVER DO. Anyway one day I asked my grandmother can she ask my mother why she dont love me or treat me so cruel, my grandmother said in a nasty tone you ask her yourself. My grandmother knew I was so, so scared of my mother even just to talk to her. me and my mom never talked I dont know why.

Now my mother is dead and I dont regret asking her, cause I was scared I just wanted to know why didn’t my grandmother wanted to do that for me, and why was she just as mean to me. Do you think she was mean to my mother. I heard my grandmother took me away from my mother so she can always have a check. My grandmother was a drug addict real bad. but why did my mother treated me so bad also.
thanks too the both of you. Anon that was pretty deep.

My mom just bought tons and tons of sweets and junk food! I mean she bought so much that you could open a whole bakery! And when she came home I almost fell over and told her that I was going to be strong and not binge. Then she said that I was almost too health consincous and to be a kid! I understand what she’s saying but I don’t think she get it. What do I do? I am scared that I am going binge and blow my whole diet! Please give me some advice on what to do!
Also if I burn 500 calories everyday on the treadmill or just by exercising will I lose weight?
Thanks!!!!!!!! :)
Thanks!!!!!!!! :)

just abuse even though my grandmother raised me she was just as mean as my mother. Honeslty out the too. I would say my grandmoter was the worst she did the nastiest thing. I think my mother WOULD NEVER DO. Anyway one day I asked my grandmother can she ask my mother why she dont love me or treat me so cruel, my grandmother said in a nasty tone you ask her yourself. My grandmother knew I was so, so scared of my mother even just to talk to her. me and my mom never talked I dont know why.

Now my mother is dead and I dont regret asking her, cause I was scared I just wanted to know why didn’t my grandmother wanted to do that for me, and why was she just as mean to me. Do you think she was mean to my mother. I heard my grandmother took me away from my mother so she can always have a check. My grandmother was a drug addict real bad. but why did my mother treated me so bad also.

I’m 16 years old and when I was age 3 I was sent to foster care because of my father who was a drug addict/abuser and not because of my mother. I stayed at my Aunt’s house until one day I was taken out of there and sent to another foster home. I always thought it was because they only wanted us for a little bit. Well I won’t tell you the whole foster care issues…..yet I remember being abused by some of the people who took care of me there. Now anyways after a year or so we were taken out of foster care because my mother got my sister and I back because of talking about things that happened when we were there. My mom told me when I came back from there I was never the same. I have been more angry and there were a lot of issues going on and something wrong with me. Also still to this day she says that’s where she thinks a lot of my problems are from. Anyways since this summer I have been remembering certain things about it but then I don’t really remember being raped/molested by my uncle. My mother told me I was and my father has said it to my sister. Right now as I sit here and think about it all I can remember is being brought to my Uncles room when I was little but nothing else. Sometimes I think maybe my mom is lying but then I don’t. I also believe I could of been molested by others in foster care but I really don’t understand how I can’t strongly remember all this stuff. What should I do? I don’t even know if there was ever any damage done to me. All I know is when I was younger I would make my barbies have sex, one time when I saw a penis in middle school because of this pervie kid it freaked me out and I started crying, I haven’t had sex because when I think about it I feel very wrong and I never really put all these things together until now. All I know this is all hitting me pretty hard right now.
I want to talk about it and get help but I feel so embarrassed. Seriously I never cry maybe a few times a year and I hardly show that I’m sad because I feel weak. Ugh I don’t know.

I’m 16 years old and when I was age 3 I was sent to foster care because of my father who was a drug addict/abuser and not because of my mother. I stayed at my Aunt’s house until one day I was taken out of there and sent to another foster home. I always thought it was because they only wanted us for a little bit. Well I won’t tell you the whole foster care issues…..yet I remember being abused by some of the people who took care of me there. Now anyways after a year or so we were taken out of foster care because my mother got my sister and I back because of talking about things that happened when we were there. My mom told me when I came back from there I was never the same. I have been more angry and there were a lot of issues going on and something wrong with me. Also still to this day she says that’s where she thinks a lot of my problems are from. Anyways since this summer I have been remembering certain things about it but then I don’t really remember being raped/molested by my uncle. My mother told me I was and my father has said it to my sister. Right now as I sit here and think about it all I can remember is being brought to my Uncles room when I was little but nothing else. Sometimes I think maybe my mom is lying but then I don’t. I also believe I could of been molested by others in foster care but I really don’t understand how I can’t strongly remember all this stuff. What should I do? I don’t even know if there was ever any damage done to me. All I know is when I was younger I would make my barbies have sex, one time when I saw a penis in middle school because of this pervie kid it freaked me out and I started crying, I haven’t had sex because when I think about it I feel very wrong and I never really put all these things together until now. All I know this is all hitting me pretty hard right now.
I want to talk about it and get help but I feel so embarrassed. Seriously I never cry maybe a few times a year and I hardly show that I’m sad because I feel weak. Ugh I don’t know.

I’m 16 years old and when I was age 3 I was sent to foster care because of my father who was a drug addict/abuser and not because of my mother. I stayed at my Aunt’s house until one day I was taken out of there and sent to another foster home. I always thought it was because they only wanted us for a little bit. Well I won’t tell you the whole foster care issues…..yet I remember being abused by some of the people who took care of me there. Now anyways after a year or so we were taken out of foster care because my mother got my sister and I back because of talking about things that happened when we were there. My mom told me when I came back from there I was never the same. I have been more angry and there were a lot of issues going on and something wrong with me. Also still to this day she says that’s where she thinks a lot of my problems are from. Anyways since this summer I have been remembering certain things about it but then I don’t really remember being raped/molested by my uncle. My mother told me I was and my father has said it to my sister. Right now as I sit here and think about it all I can remember is being brought to my Uncles room when I was little but nothing else. Sometimes I think maybe my mom is lying but then I don’t. I also believe I could of been molested by others in foster care but I really don’t understand how I can’t strongly remember all this stuff. What should I do? I don’t even know if there was ever any damage done to me. All I know is when I was younger I would make my barbies have sex, one time when I saw a penis in middle school because of this pervie kid it freaked me out and I started crying, I haven’t had sex because when I think about it I feel very wrong and I never really put all these things together until now. All I know this is all hitting me pretty hard right now.

I want to talk about it and get help but I feel so embarrassed. Seriously I never cry maybe a few times a year and I hardly show that I’m sad because I feel weak. Ugh I don’t know

I have asked this before but I’m doing it again because not all the answers I got were great.

We can’t have a baby and it is devastating. 5 people where I work are pregnant and it is like a slap in my face when other coworkers bring in their newborn babies. Which happens 2 to 3 times a week because I work for a rather large company and they are family oriented.

On top of that, most of my friends on FB can’t stop showing off their baby photos and it makes me get angry and want to cry at the same time.

It is also a rough time because my mom and I are not speaking. She was abusive to me physically, mentally, and emotionally…I thought this was normal before my husband (then bf) helped me see that I did not deserve to be treated that way. I talked with my mom still, even made her bridesmaid at my wedding (she asked and I couldn’t say no) but I drew the line when he insulted my husbands race (he is mexican) and threatened to leave the reception if they didn’t get a whole table for their family…so my husbands parents moved just so my parents could have their own table and it broke my husbands heart.

This among other things lead me to stop talking to my mom…

How do I deal with this rough mothers day?? I’m laying in bed depressed out of my mind wondering if I should start binge eating again (I stress eat when I am upset which is how I gained 20 lbs)
We can’t have baby bc we are not in the right financial position. We live in a crummy apt complex and I got laid off from a high paying job. My new job does not pay as much and health inurance is thru the roof so I had to sette for HSA
Its financial not physical

So my mom is a very good woman, but unfortunatly hasn’t made the right decisions all the time. We around 3 years ago we bought a house, and we could afford it, but now that the economy is so bad it is like we are living out of our means, and my parents don’t want to lose the house, and I understand that the bills and mortgage are first prioraty.

My mom is VERY upset because she is not going to be able to affored to give us a good christmas this year. my little brother is 5 and my sister is 12. I am 18 now, so I DO NOT expect ANYTHING! My mom doesn’t understand this because she was still getting gifts at 18 with her parents. So she is really bent out of shape over this whole christmas thing, and she reallly wants me to have some stuff, as well as the other siblings. I keep telling her no but she gets so upset.

My mom does home day care because it is the best paying job that she can get at this point, and I think it is really really getting to her. I am so scared for her heath because she is on anti depressants and other types of medication, and she is taking over the recommended doses at times, she also has started to drink heavily after wook and on the weekends, because she says it takes her stress away, but honestly, I grew up with an alcholalic and drug addict father, he is clean now as far as drugs, but he still drinks everyday when he gets home from work. I don’t want my little brother and sister to have to go through the same thing .. my mom is not herself when she drinks ..

Can someone please help me? Give me some suggestions how to deal with the problems we are facing as a family. I go to counciling, and I think it would really help my mom, too. Even my dad if he would be willing to go. I really need some help because my mom says if things keep going the way they are going she is going to break down .. and I feel the same way. I cannot take this anymore and this is not a joke, or anything like that. It is true comming from the heart.

thanks ..
By the way, my mom is also very, very tired all the time. I know daycare is a hard job, but it seems like she is in bed by 7:30 or 8:00 everynight .. it is like she doesn’t have a life anymore. On the weekends she sleeps for sometimes the entire weekend.
Just wanted to let you guys all know that i’m reading every answer, all the advise is great and thank you so much for taking me seriously, and taking the time to read what I wrote.

So my mom is a very good woman, but unfortunatly hasn’t made the right decisions all the time. We around 3 years ago we bought a house, and we could afford it, but now that the economy is so bad it is like we are living out of our means, and my parents don’t want to lose the house, and I understand that the bills and mortgage are first prioraty.

My mom is VERY upset because she is not going to be able to affored to give us a good christmas this year. my little brother is 5 and my sister is 12. I am 18 now, so I DO NOT expect ANYTHING! My mom doesn’t understand this because she was still getting gifts at 18 with her parents. So she is really bent out of shape over this whole christmas thing, and she reallly wants me to have some stuff, as well as the other siblings. I keep telling her no but she gets so upset.

My mom does home day care because it is the best paying job that she can get at this point, and I think it is really really getting to her. I am so scared for her heath because she is on anti depressants and other types of medication, and she is taking over the recommended doses at times, she also has started to drink heavily after wook and on the weekends, because she says it takes her stress away, but honestly, I grew up with an alcholalic and drug addict father, he is clean now as far as drugs, but he still drinks everyday when he gets home from work. I don’t want my little brother and sister to have to go through the same thing .. my mom is not herself when she drinks ..

Can someone please help me? Give me some suggestions how to deal with the problems we are facing as a family. I go to counciling, and I think it would really help my mom, too. Even my dad if he would be willing to go. I really need some help because my mom says if things keep going the way they are going she is going to break down .. and I feel the same way. I cannot take this anymore and this is not a joke, or anything like that. It is true comming from the heart.

thanks ..
By the way, my mom is also very, very tired all the time. I know daycare is a hard job, but it seems like she is in bed by 7:30 or 8:00 everynight .. it is like she doesn’t have a life anymore. On the weekends she sleeps for sometimes the entire weekend.
Just wanted to let you guys all know that i’m reading every answer, all the advise is great and thank you so much for taking me seriously, and taking the time to read what I wrote.

My brother Michael commited suicide on August 2nd in 2002, His son’s second birthday. His son is still alive today and lives with my mother for his mother is a stripper and a drug addict who has hit rock bottom and is in rehab.
My mother had a heart attack after hearing that my brother’s death might not have been suicide.
Now, she drinks Vodka like crazy and makes my little sister make them for her. She yells at anyone who tries to help and last week, she was drunk for the entire week and locked my little sister out of the house.
She’s slowly going into depression, what can I do to help her or does this call for professinal help?
She has blamed me for being her drunk and I try to reason with her but she instists that I am to blame.
She also blames me for his death because I was there when it happened. I couldn’t stop him at all.
He had a gun, what was I supposed to do?
The little boy’s mother called him up Friday and told him she would take him to Chuckie E. Cheese’s and now it is Monday early morning and he show no emotion about it.

So my mom is a very good woman, but unfortunatly hasn’t made the right decisions all the time. We around 3 years ago we bought a house, and we could afford it, but now that the economy is so bad it is like we are living out of our means, and my parents don’t want to lose the house, and I understand that the bills and mortgage are first prioraty.

My mom is VERY upset because she is not going to be able to affored to give us a good christmas this year. my little brother is 5 and my sister is 12. I am 18 now, so I DO NOT expect ANYTHING! My mom doesn’t understand this because she was still getting gifts at 18 with her parents. So she is really bent out of shape over this whole christmas thing, and she reallly wants me to have some stuff, as well as the other siblings. I keep telling her no but she gets so upset.

My mom does home day care because it is the best paying job that she can get at this point, and I think it is really really getting to her. I am so scared for her heath because she is on anti depressants and other types of medication, and she is taking over the recommended doses at times, she also has started to drink heavily after wook and on the weekends, because she says it takes her stress away, but honestly, I grew up with an alcholalic and drug addict father, he is clean now as far as drugs, but he still drinks everyday when he gets home from work. I don’t want my little brother and sister to have to go through the same thing .. my mom is not herself when she drinks ..

Can someone please help me? Give me some suggestions how to deal with the problems we are facing as a family. I go to counciling, and I think it would really help my mom, too. Even my dad if he would be willing to go. I really need some help because my mom says if things keep going the way they are going she is going to break down .. and I feel the same way. I cannot take this anymore and this is not a joke, or anything like that. It is true comming from the heart.

thanks ..
By the way, my mom is also very, very tired all the time. I know daycare is a hard job, but it seems like she is in bed by 7:30 or 8:00 everynight .. it is like she doesn’t have a life anymore. On the weekends she sleeps for sometimes the entire weekend.
Just wanted to let you guys all know that i’m reading every answer, all the advise is great and thank you so much for taking me seriously, and taking the time to read what I wrote.

So my mom is a very good woman, but unfortunatly hasn’t made the right decisions all the time. We around 3 years ago we bought a house, and we could afford it, but now that the economy is so bad it is like we are living out of our means, and my parents don’t want to lose the house, and I understand that the bills and mortgage are first prioraty.

My mom is VERY upset because she is not going to be able to affored to give us a good christmas this year. my little brother is 5 and my sister is 12. I am 18 now, so I DO NOT expect ANYTHING! My mom doesn’t understand this because she was still getting gifts at 18 with her parents. So she is really bent out of shape over this whole christmas thing, and she reallly wants me to have some stuff, as well as the other siblings. I keep telling her no but she gets so upset.

My mom does home day care because it is the best paying job that she can get at this point, and I think it is really really getting to her. I am so scared for her heath because she is on anti depressants and other types of medication, and she is taking over the recommended doses at times, she also has started to drink heavily after wook and on the weekends, because she says it takes her stress away, but honestly, I grew up with an alcholalic and drug addict father, he is clean now as far as drugs, but he still drinks everyday when he gets home from work. I don’t want my little brother and sister to have to go through the same thing .. my mom is not herself when she drinks ..

Can someone please help me? Give me some suggestions how to deal with the problems we are facing as a family. I go to counciling, and I think it would really help my mom, too. Even my dad if he would be willing to go. I really need some help because my mom says if things keep going the way they are going she is going to break down .. and I feel the same way. I cannot take this anymore and this is not a joke, or anything like that. It is true comming from the heart.

thanks ..
By the way, my mom is also very, very tired all the time. I know daycare is a hard job, but it seems like she is in bed by 7:30 or 8:00 everynight .. it is like she doesn’t have a life anymore. On the weekends she sleeps for sometimes the entire weekend.
Just wanted to let you guys all know that i’m reading every answer, all the advise is great and thank you so much for taking me seriously, and taking the time to read what I wrote.

So my mom is a very good woman, but unfortunatly hasn’t made the right decisions all the time. We around 3 years ago we bought a house, and we could afford it, but now that the economy is so bad it is like we are living out of our means, and my parents don’t want to lose the house, and I understand that the bills and mortgage are first prioraty.

My mom is VERY upset because she is not going to be able to affored to give us a good christmas this year. my little brother is 5 and my sister is 12. I am 18 now, so I DO NOT expect ANYTHING! My mom doesn’t understand this because she was still getting gifts at 18 with her parents. So she is really bent out of shape over this whole christmas thing, and she reallly wants me to have some stuff, as well as the other siblings. I keep telling her no but she gets so upset.

My mom does home day care because it is the best paying job that she can get at this point, and I think it is really really getting to her. I am so scared for her heath because she is on anti depressants and other types of medication, and she is taking over the recommended doses at times, she also has started to drink heavily after wook and on the weekends, because she says it takes her stress away, but honestly, I grew up with an alcholalic and drug addict father, he is clean now as far as drugs, but he still drinks everyday when he gets home from work. I don’t want my little brother and sister to have to go through the same thing .. my mom is not herself when she drinks ..

Can someone please help me? Give me some suggestions how to deal with the problems we are facing as a family. I go to counciling, and I think it would really help my mom, too. Even my dad if he would be willing to go. I really need some help because my mom says if things keep going the way they are going she is going to break down .. and I feel the same way. I cannot take this anymore and this is not a joke, or anything like that. It is true comming from the heart.

thanks ..
Just wanted to let you guys all know that i’m reading every answer, all the advise is great and thank you so much for taking me seriously, and taking the time to read what I wrote.

I have been on a 5 day drinking binge and i dont usually drink. I drank about 7 bottles of hard liquor in 5 days. im only 16. last nite a huge fight happed for no reason. my moms and my friends that were staying with uss left. me and my mom got in a huge fist fight. my bestfriends/girlfriends hate me and dont want too tlk 2 me i prolly lost my job.
my dad wont speak to me
im just sitting here i have no more booze i cant even cry but i wnt 2 so bad and iffel so sikk.
I hit my mom and my girlfriends hate me
please sum1 giv me advice i dont know what to
i keep playing songs tht i think will make me cry but i just cant cry.
please help
any advice thnk u

My mother smoked weed and used it in brownies and now she’s working full time while getting her psychology degree and manages straight As. So did she just get lucky or does weed do nothing to motivation or memory. I know that ALOT of people do or have done weed so is everybody unmotivated and can’t remember anything. I already know it’s not addicting and that was just a lie. Are the rest of the stuff like low motivation and not being able to remember anything myths to. I’ve never done weed because I’m scared of this stuff happening to me.

So my mom is a very good woman, but unfortunatly hasn’t made the right decisions all the time. We around 3 years ago we bought a house, and we could afford it, but now that the economy is so bad it is like we are living out of our means, and my parents don’t want to lose the house, and I understand that the bills and mortgage are first prioraty.

My mom is VERY upset because she is not going to be able to affored to give us a good christmas this year. my little brother is 5 and my sister is 12. I am 18 now, so I DO NOT expect ANYTHING! My mom doesn’t understand this because she was still getting gifts at 18 with her parents. So she is really bent out of shape over this whole christmas thing, and she reallly wants me to have some stuff, as well as the other siblings. I keep telling her no but she gets so upset.

My mom does home day care because it is the best paying job that she can get at this point, and I think it is really really getting to her. I am so scared for her heath because she is on anti depressants and other types of medication, and she is taking over the recommended doses at times, she also has started to drink heavily after wook and on the weekends, because she says it takes her stress away, but honestly, I grew up with an alcholalic and drug addict father, he is clean now as far as drugs, but he still drinks everyday when he gets home from work. I don’t want my little brother and sister to have to go through the same thing .. my mom is not herself when she drinks ..

Can someone please help me? Give me some suggestions how to deal with the problems we are facing as a family. I go to counciling, and I think it would really help my mom, too. Even my dad if he would be willing to go. I really need some help because my mom says if things keep going the way they are going she is going to break down .. and I feel the same way. I cannot take this anymore and this is not a joke, or anything like that. It is true comming from the heart.

thanks ..
Just wanted to let you guys all know that i’m reading every answer, all the advise is great and thank you so much for taking me seriously, and taking the time to read what I wrote.

her mother constantly bugs about me telling her that I’m not right for her. she insist that she should patch things up with her baby’s father but he is a drug addict who is currently serving time in jail. she tells me she want not to do with the loser. I need avdvice she is twenty-three and I’m 38