but like its so ridiculous. ive mentioned it to one of my friends and shes goes “you dont have all those problems you think you have!” and ive been mentioning a few things i think is wrong with me to my mom recently and she goes “oh you dont have that”. theres more things i think i have problems with but no one will believe me! i feel so messed up!
and i really want a therapist but my mom would never pay for one but i need to tell someone all my probs especially personal ones like my eating disorder to someone i dont know and only is there to help me. my friends would just tell and id feel betrayed although i know theyre trying to help, and my mom it would be awkward. i want to talk it out with a therapist, and NOT my school guidance counselors or “trusted adults”.

please please please help!

Well, all was good until she moved school. She got into the wrong crowd – the kind of girls that are skipping school, smoking and causing problems all at age 13. She comes from a fantastic family and her mum is up to her wits end and cracked last night – saying she could ‘do whatever you want, i don’t care anymore’
Personally i think a mother should never give up on a child like that, but her daughter has been lying to her about certain things and its caused a massive fight between them.

Now, her daughter isn’t at school and she is at work.

This concerns me because i live with them, and my boyfriend is very depressed over it. He’s hardly spoken a word since, and his mum keeps trying to drag him into a battle that isn’t his. His parents are divorced.

Her mum is keeping tabs on her school attendance, she rings every morning to ask if she is at school and her daughter knows that.

She has also been spoiled her whole life, which is making her think she can do whatever she wants as she has no discipline.

What can we do? Sorry its so long :(
lol, alright

10 PTS BEST ANSWER!!!!!!!!!!!! EVEN IF ITS A BAD ONE SOMEONE HAS TO GET IT!!!!!!!

to your liking? :P

What should i do? Thanks SO MUCH

I wish to complain that my father hurt his ankle very badly when he put his foot in the hole in his back passage

the lavatory is blocked; this is caused by the boys next door throwing their balls on the roof

this is to let you know that there is a smell coming fro the man next door

the toilet seat is cracked: where do i stand?

I am writing on behalf of my sink, which is running away from the wall

I request your permission to remove my drawers in the kitchen

our lavatory seat is broken in half and is now in three pieces

can you please tell me when our repairs are going to be done, as my wife is about to become an expectant mother

I want some repairs done to my stove as it has backfired and burnt my knob off

I am still having trouble with smoke in my built in drawers

the toilet is blocked and we cannot bather the children until it is cleared

the person next door has a large erection in his back garden, which is unsightly and dangerous

will you please send someone to mend our cracked sidewalk? Yesterday my wife tripped on it and is now pregnant

our kitchen floor is very damp, we have two children and would like a third, so will you please send someone to do something about it

will you please send a man to repair my downspout. I am an old age pensioner and need it straight away

could you please send someone to fix our bath tap? My wife got hr toe stuck in it and it is very uncomfortable for us

I want to complain about the farmer across the road. Every morning at 5.30 his cock wakes me up, and it is getting too much

When the workmen were here hey put their tools in my wife’s new drawers and made a mess. Please send men with clean tools to finish the job and keep my wife happy
**** means c-o-c-k

p.s. i forgot about this as well. so were kinda going through some money troubles because of the economy (im not sure how severe they are cause my dad doesnt like talking about it and i can never trust my mom) so i got to an expensive private school and have pretty rich friends, well my mom always trys to make me feel guilty about it (when my parents dont even pay for my school) and now she has to go back to work. well she conplains about it all the time and says how unhappy she is at the thought of working again. its jsut so annoying because i understand that she doesnt want to work, i do, but she i work everyday in school, my dad works everyday, most people work and have jobs, and we sure dont like it but they do it cause they have to, to support themselves and there families. she just tries to act like shes doing some hugley special heroic thing by going back when shes made it abundantly clear how much she doesnt wast to.

maybe im overreacting to everything. im truly not sure and thats why i need your help. i dont know if what shes doing is normal and im just being a spoiled brat or if there actally is a problem there. please help me and tell me what to do about it. thankyou so much, i really appreciate it.

But instead the direct result was him while sober becoming so violent that he tried to strike me because I referred to him by the name of his dad who died from alcoholism. I did this reference on purpose mind you, in an attempt to bridge a link to what he is doing will eventually kill him, and that I care enough to step up to the plate of the futile task of trying to talk sense to him.

But when he who is 48 yrs old is also addicted to playing facebook poker from 5pm-2:30am on average while slamming the beer when he knows he has work at 5:30am is unacceptable and it has gotten to the point where I am loosing sleep at night because I have to wake up at 5:30am when his alarm goes off to pester my mother (whom which her and I are currently unemployed and job searching actively) to wake up my dad to make sure he goes to work, and frankly I am tired of reverse parenting, because a 24 yr should be seeking guidance from his 48 yr old father, not raise him!

His habits have grown to become out of control he calls off work because he has a crap load of paid vacation days but still it’s unacceptable especially when your a professional IT like he is. Also he has almost all together given up eating supper claiming he is never hungry all he does his play facebook poker, and farm town all day, refuses to do regular house chores like a responsible adult. He has not taken a shower since last year around this time not even once, but washes his hair only when he has work. He stopped grooming himself, except for shaving because he is not allowed to have a full beard.

He has become recluse for the most part only going to Walmart for groceries, going to work, taking the car to the garage during inspection time, beer runs including cigarettes, and on occasion out to eat. But he fails to go visit my brother to see his grandchilden which is awful because my brother only lives on the other side of town which is only a 10 min drive…..see my point?

My mother and I physically, emotionally, and mentally can not continue with baby sitting a drunk. We are thinking about calling his boss to inform him of why he is missing work and why his habits changed. This has been made aware to my dad by me personally when I confronted him that I will not stay silent very long before going to his older brother for help, his boss whatever I can do that will help him forcefully because I’m not concerned whether he likes it or not mind you, because to me that’s trivial and unimportant, as he stated that he doesn’t care if he dies from alcoholism and sadly I believe him.

Sorry for making this long but there is just no way to simplify it to get a good proper answer from someone who is just not looking to score an easy 10 points, because unfortunately this is the only place I myself have to turn for council so please don’t give me moronic answers, that would be highly appreciated.

Thanks for your time!
other information I live in the commonwealth of PA if that is needed I dunno. :)