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My younger brother is 20. He has been in rehab twice for drug/alcohol problems. At one point he was taking 30+ Xanax ‘bars’ a day until we got him into a program and detoxed.

Every time he gets out of rehab, he eventually goes out and gets his ‘fix’ again and gets hooked.

He even moved 2,000 miles away for a while to live with my Mother in CA. He did not know a soul there and still managed to find dope.

I think the reason he has such a hard time giving everything up is because he also has antisocial personality disorder. He seems to have no regard for other people’s feelings. He is very impulsive and a terrific liar and con. He plays on our (his family’s) emotions because he knows we want him to get help and always want to believe he is getting better….and then he will steal from us right under our nose.

I have been reading about antisocial personality disorder and know that the treatment of the disorder must be done first. He needs real behavior modification therapy to improve decision making skills. He could also use a mood stabilizer to help manage anger issues.

I guess what I would like to know is….how do you talk to someone about this disorder who has such blatant disregard for other people’s rights/feelings and even his own well being? How do you talk to someone who is virtually impossible to communicate with? How do you talk to someone who only indulges in conversation when there is some hidden motive to get something he wants?

How do you make someone realize the need for therapy?

For as long as I can remember, my mother and I have not been close. Since I was born, to when I was about the age of 14 she would always relapse, and sometimes we would have light physical fights. I would always have to stay with my grandparents, I would even have to change schools periodically, and leave all my friends, and become secluded while she would drink. Then, when she would want “help”, I would always have to take care of her, empty out her puke buckets, feed her, ect. I even remember when I was about 9, for about two weeks I took care of her by myself, I mean I was so young, I didn’t know what was wrong with her. We have had a few boyfriends move in with us, but I mean she always changes when a new one comes along, and she acts fake, and anytime we fight, she always acts like the victim.

I mean she has been a year and a half solber now, but the pain I endured from my childhood is not going away, and she can’t understand why I cannot get over it. She says that emoitonal pain is mine now, and I have to deal with it myself. I do not think its fair to say that when she caused me deep pain, for years on end, and she just expects when she is clean, for me to just deal with it. It makes me feel like since she is okay now, then all of my pain is just my problem, not hers. Like she just forgot about it, and now for the rest of my life, I have to deal with it.

Sure, she takes me to therapy, and gives me the essentials, and ect. But, I just don’t think I can forgive her, I mean its not like I can forgive her. She shouldn’t have drank, I mean sure, she has her everyday stresses about life, and other alcoholics do, but they went through it all, without drinking.

I mean, I am an alcoholic also, but she acts like my disease affects her more, and she makes it about her. She always has to be the victim, which I never understood.

So my question is, what should I do?
Should I just avoid this pain, that I have endured for a good part of my life, or should I move on, and forget about her?

Please help me.

(I am almost sixteen by the way)
I am not too young to be an alcoholic.

My mom has a history of drug addiction but has gone through rehab and has been of probation for about six months. My father moved out of state and cannot return because he is remarried. Do you think the judge will give custody to my mother even though her past is not the greatest? This is in the state of texas by the way. Thanks!

I was just wondering because some people have told me that yes even if the mother did not use drugs or alcohol but the father did the baby can still have major problems and even possibly be addicted as well.

I am not trying to get pregnant. But I was just wondering if this is true or not. Because my boyfriend does weed, and other drugs so I was just wondering.

THX.

My dad is hooked on prescription pills and he is making my family go bankrupt…. someone please help me. My dad had a car accident about 6 years ago and he broke his neck. Well they operated on him putting plates into his back to help support his neck and he became addicted to pain pills. He draws a disabilty check now but he takes between 10-15 prescription pills aday and when he runs out he goes and buys them off drug dealers. He draws a disability check, my mother works, and i work and we still cannot pay our bills for his problems. Recently I have thought about sucicide and have dreams of dieing. I really just want to die because of his problems. Someone please help me.

i don’t have any contact with my natural mother and haven’t for a long time, my whole life she hasn’t been around and on my 21st bday, she called and told me that it was another year that i ruined her life. she has lots of problems and i wish there was a way to help her, but i honestly don’t want any contact with her, this is mainly for my grandmothers sake who has had to deal with all this and i want to help her so she won’t have to anymore. any ideas?

Him and his girlfriend have a problem with me and my fiance’. they say they dont like her because of shit she has done in her past. My philosophy. The past is in the past. the past stayed in the past because it wasnt strong enough to make it to your future. i love my fiance to death and my brother is a nothing in my eyes . nothing but a worthless piece of shit drugg addict mother abuser who likes to think he runns the show since my father passed away. I need advice about what to do and how do u get a 20 yr old to go to a rehad willingfully.How do u get a girl to understand how much you love her no matter what the fucked up family says to and about her?

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relationship with my family is shit

how that thing i was talking about last time ended up working out, it was very fucked and interesting- fuck you to you too mom.

The frustration and unease a woman faces when she is not getting pregnant can be easily understood by anyone. It is very hard for any woman to go through this situation. They live in depression and many of them do not share their inner feelings with others that make them sad.  There are millions of women who face trouble getting pregnant after trying much effort.

There are many different reasons that are responsible for this condition in a woman.

7 common problems for not getting pregnant

1. Overall Health – The overall health and physical condition are very important for a woman who wants to get pregnant. Many women are overweight and they do not eat the right amount of nutrition in their diet that is vital for conception. You need to eat a good healthy diet like whole grains, fruits, vegetables, nuts etc. Keep your weight in ideal proportion and eat healthy, it will help for regular menstrual cycles that are required for ovulation and conception.

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2. Ovulation Time – Another thing that creates trouble getting pregnant is having intercourse at the time when you are not ovulating. If you take time to learning about your ovulation cycles, then it will help you decide perfect time for intercourse. You can use an Ovulation Kit or Basal body temperature that will help you determine your ovulation time, so that you can plan intercourse.

3. Stress – A lot of women put stress on their mind and body. They keep worrying about their situation and that result in depression sometime. And, when there is too much stress, it leads to affect many things like the menstrual and ovulation cycles. So, do not worry as that is not a solution. Always think positive and be happy.

4. Addiction – A lot of women drink and smoke. Expecting pregnancy with these things is really like praying for something impossible. Alcohol and tobacco makes the situation worse for a woman who wants to get pregnant. So, stay away from these things if you really want to get pregnancy.

5. PCOS – Polycystic Ovary Syndrome is an endocrine disorder. Nearly 5% of all women are affected of it. I can affect a woman during their reproductive age of 12-45years old. It is one of the major infertility causes. So, visit a Doctor and determine if you may have PCOS.

6. Partner – Many women do not know that there may also be something wrong with their male partner. Your partner may be affected with low sperm count that creates problems for you to get pregnant. Ask him to see a Doctor.

7. Caffeine – You may not know that even caffeine is an element that can affect your fertility to some extent. Coffee and chocolate are two common sources of this element. If you cannot leave drinking coffee, then try to reduce the number of cups you drink daily.

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The female reproductive system consists of the external and internal genital organs. Breast disorders may be noncancerous (benign) or cancerous (malignant). Most are noncancerous and not life threatening. Often, they do not require treatment. In contrast, breast cancer can mean loss of a breast or of life.

Thus, for many women, breast cancer is their worst fear. However, potential problems can be detected early when women regularly examine their breasts themselves and have mammograms.

Symptoms

Common symptoms include breast pain, lumps, and a discharge from the nipple. Breast symptoms do not necessarily mean that a woman has breast cancer or another serious disorder. However, if a woman has any of the following symptoms, she should see her doctor:

A lump that feels distinctly different from other breast tissue or that does not go away

swelling that does not go away

puckering or dimpling in the skin of the breast

scaly skin around the nipple

changes in the shape of the breast

changes in the nipple, such as turning inward

Discharge from the nipple, especially if it is bloody.

Herbal Treatment

Apply a warm compress for 15-20 minutes on your breast, by using a heated towel or a heating pad to get relief from breast tenderness. This problem occurs mainly before, after or during your monthly period. For such times you can use a cold compress with the help of ice packs or frozen packets of fruits and vegetables wrapped in towel.

Sometimes not wearing bar can be a good enough reason for breast pain. Wear bras that support your breasts. See to it that the bras are well-padded if you are wearing an under-wired bra. If nothing works try a sports bra.

Soya products contain isoflavones which lessen breast tenderness. Include soy food such as soybeans, soy milk, soy burgers and other soy products in your diet. Cutting down on your salt intake will help reduce water retention which in turn relieves pain. Avoid caffeine in any form as it contains methylxanthine that stimulates breast tissue and causes pain.

Food: sensitivity or allergy can disrupt hormone balance, and it may be that either eliminating certain culprit foods, or increasing your nutrition to make up for deficiencies causing allergies, or both, will help the body to regain its balance.

Aromatic seeds, such as anise, cumin, fennel, caraway, coriander, and dill increase milk production and tone the digestive system. Their powers are carried through the breast milk, curtailing colic and indigestion. To brew, simply put a heaping spoonful of dried seeds in a cup and fill to the top with boiling water. Let steep for 5-10 minutes. Drink warm with honey. Up to two quarts a day can be consumed.

Avoid soap, cologne, deodorant and powder on your nipples or breasts. Do not wash nipples with soap. Soap predisposes the nipples to chapping and cracking.

Nourishing herbs, such as raspberry leaves, stinging nettle, oatstraw, and red clover blossoms – prepared as strong infusions*, not taken in pills, capsules, tinctures, or teas – not only encourage a plentiful supply of breast milk, they support the overall health of mother and child. The minerals in these herbs are amazingly abundant, so they counter mineral loss from nursing, and help keep mom calm and alert during those first few weeks of round-the-clock infant care.

The female reproductive system consists of the external and internal genital organs. Breast disorders may be noncancerous (benign) or cancerous (malignant). Most are noncancerous and not life threatening. Often, they do not require treatment. In contrast, breast cancer can mean loss of a breast or of life.

Thus, for many women, breast cancer is their worst fear. However, potential problems can be detected early when women regularly examine their breasts themselves and have mammograms.

Symptoms

Common symptoms include breast pain, lumps, and a discharge from the nipple. Breast symptoms do not necessarily mean that a woman has breast cancer or another serious disorder. However, if a woman has any of the following symptoms, she should see her doctor:

A lump that feels distinctly different from other breast tissue or that does not go away

swelling that does not go away

puckering or dimpling in the skin of the breast

scaly skin around the nipple

changes in the shape of the breast

changes in the nipple, such as turning inward

Discharge from the nipple, especially if it is bloody.

Herbal Treatment

Apply a warm compress for 15-20 minutes on your breast, by using a heated towel or a heating pad to get relief from breast tenderness. This problem occurs mainly before, after or during your monthly period. For such times you can use a cold compress with the help of ice packs or frozen packets of fruits and vegetables wrapped in towel.

Sometimes not wearing bar can be a good enough reason for breast pain. Wear bras that support your breasts. See to it that the bras are well-padded if you are wearing an under-wired bra. If nothing works try a sports bra.

Soya products contain isoflavones which lessen breast tenderness. Include soy food such as soybeans, soy milk, soy burgers and other soy products in your diet. Cutting down on your salt intake will help reduce water retention which in turn relieves pain. Avoid caffeine in any form as it contains methylxanthine that stimulates breast tissue and causes pain.

Food: sensitivity or allergy can disrupt hormone balance, and it may be that either eliminating certain culprit foods, or increasing your nutrition to make up for deficiencies causing allergies, or both, will help the body to regain its balance.

Aromatic seeds, such as anise, cumin, fennel, caraway, coriander, and dill increase milk production and tone the digestive system. Their powers are carried through the breast milk, curtailing colic and indigestion. To brew, simply put a heaping spoonful of dried seeds in a cup and fill to the top with boiling water. Let steep for 5-10 minutes. Drink warm with honey. Up to two quarts a day can be consumed.

Avoid soap, cologne, deodorant and powder on your nipples or breasts. Do not wash nipples with soap. Soap predisposes the nipples to chapping and cracking.

Nourishing herbs, such as raspberry leaves, stinging nettle, oatstraw, and red clover blossoms – prepared as strong infusions*, not taken in pills, capsules, tinctures, or teas – not only encourage a plentiful supply of breast milk, they support the overall health of mother and child. The minerals in these herbs are amazingly abundant, so they counter mineral loss from nursing, and help keep mom calm and alert during those first few weeks of round-the-clock infant care.

Couples across the state struggle to find a solution to their infertility problems. Finding treatment that helps to solve these problems can seem like a daunting task, although help does exist for couples or individuals who seek it. Fertility doctors in Florida have helped many couples and individuals overcome their infertility by utilizing a variety of treatments and procedures. Patients who are interested in these treatments will find further information from a medical professional specializing in the field.
There are many infertility treatments available, and depending on the specific cause of each couple’s infertility, a variety of different treatments may be helpful. In some cases, doctors recommend combining treatments to reach optimal results.

Infertility could be caused by any number of factors. Fertility doctors in Florida will help couples and individuals pinpoint the likely cause of their infertility and will work with them to find a solution. Patients are advised to discuss all of their options with a doctor so that they fully understand each option and what is involved with each treatment. The various causes of infertility may vary greatly from case to case, while male infertility and female infertility may be caused by different factors as well.

Generally, infertility may result if there is a problem with any male or female reproductive organs. There are lifestyle habits or factors that may be a cause of infertility as well. Heavy alcohol consumption, smoking, drug use and advanced age may play a role in both male and female infertility. Fertility doctors in Florida will be helpful in explaining the possible causes of infertility and helping patients determine the specific cause of their own problem.

A wide variety of treatments are available and patients are encouraged to speak to a medical professional for a full list of all available infertility treatments. In vitro fertilization involves combining the male’s sperm and female’s eggs in a dish in a laboratory to create an embryo. This is perhaps the most widely known fertility treatment, but it is one of several assisted reproductive technologies.

Male infertility treatments are available at most clinics, as is tubal reversal. Reversing a tubal ligation is necessary for women who have undergone the procedure, but wish to once again have children. Still, egg freezing and egg donation services are available at many clinics across the state and patients and couples who are interested in learning more should speak to a professional at a fertility clinic in their area.

I have a big problem. Well actually my sister does. She’s 28 and still lives at home with my Mom but that’s not the bad part. She has a really bad drug problem and takes all sorts of perscription meds and she’s constantly casuing all sorts of problems for my mom. My mom is always worrying about her and its literally killing my mother slowly. I tell my mom to kick her out of the house but, she just can’t do it cause my sister really does have some serious issues she’s dealing with. How can i get her out of my mom’s house and into a helathy living situation where she can quit abusing prescription drugs? Also we’ve already tried rehab a couple times and it hasn’t helped.

My mom and dad were/are both alcoholics (its what drove my dad to his young death at age 45) my dad regularly drunk hard liquor my mom and sometimes my sis. are binge drinkers, also of hard liquor.
Also my mom is suicidal,and depressed and has ADD.

As of now I plan to stay away from all alcohol when I’m older (i’m 12 right now) I’m not suicidal, and considering the circumstances I think I’m holding up pretty well. I really want to get away from here though but I trust myself enough to know that I probably will not end up leaving my house (running away..)

What are my chances of doing all the things my mom,dad and sis (16 w/ 3 accounts of drinking, and 2 underage tickets) did?

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k…quick run down. she was sober the whole time i was growing up and a very good parent. then my lil bro killed himself and she became a drunken crackhead (seriously). that was year 2000. before that she only drank on occasion. then after my bro died and her and my step dad split up she has been on a NON STOP drinking binge along with many other drugs from time to time. i know crack, heroin, pills, and god only knows what else. well here recently she has been having some problems with her health (not too surprising). and finally me and my grams got her to go to the doc. she has OUTRAGIOUSLY high blood pressure and liver enzyme count, an enlarged liver, alcoholic hepatitus, acute liver something or other icr, and about 5 other problems i cant remember the names. she has diarreah all day long (sorry tmi) and bleeds during sex, cant hardly get up off the couch since she is so lazy and tired. she is talking with a doc about this and they have advised her to immediately stop drinking. she is on a bunch of meds but still drinking (docs know that too). she said today she felt a bit better and had more energy…but did she mess herself up for good? i have distanced myself from my mom cuz the way she is and refuses to get treatment. i have kids of my own now and dont want them around it. but i am worried for her. also when she gets drunk…she isnt like a normal person while drinking. she turns into friggin jekyll and hyde!! her eyes dialate and she goes NUTS. throws knifes and destroys the house etc. its like she has a mental problem on top of everything. i want an honest answer…can she die? i know in the long run this will catch up and take her sooner than a healthy person but im talking about now…or soon. her stomach is sooo swollen…not like beer belly but i mean swollen. could it be too late even if she does stop now?

please dont beat around the bush…give me facts. i love my mom but ive worried too much about her in the past that it doesnt effect me like it used to. i want the good bad and ugly please thanks

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OK now i use to smoke and drink and all that crap to just chill with friends and just to socialize but now because this girl i like i can’t get her out of my head and mind and she already has a bf and i asked her out before she said “she couldn’t b/c of her mom” so she said no to me and were still relay good friends but so far in my life Ive never liked a girl more then her and b/c of this i started using drugs to get away from my life to get away from the thoughts i already had a small depression but now its worse and the only time i don’t think about her (sometimes) its when im smoking , drinking or doing graffiti but i can’t always do this I KNOW im addicted to the drugs and i was going for a drink with my friends but when i brought the alcohol they were calling me crazy for drinking it seance it was so powerful , they had a sip but that’s it and now im addicted to other illegal drugs when im not doing any of these things i just sit there thinking about her…i want to tell her what she means to me but she already has a new BF and now i found out that her mom wants to move to Maine and i might never see her again after that i drank so much and smoked A LOT and passed out at my buddy’s house…she said she might move but still i can’t get it out of my head i fell that no girl will ever love me…she knows i like her because i asked her out…and now i fell like she security hate’s me…i don’t know why i think she hates me i don’t know a reason why she would we text each other and we hug and stuff but i don’t know any time i think about her i just fell like dying and then the thought comes to my head “would anyone relay care if i die?” “would she care if i was dead?” “what will my friends think?” “will she blame herself?” and i don’t care if i die so far i haven’t try ed to kill myself but the thought of it has passed my mind like when i was walking past a knife in my house…and i want to do stuff that i know have a good chance to kill me like i want to jump off this bride in my town its only like 2 story’s high into some water but my friends are always stooping me from doing it….so , so far now im addicted to drugs and alcohol , suicidal , emotionally crippled now what? this can’t end good the only thing that i see that may be a glimmer of hope is if she says yes…but i want her to be happy and if she’s happy with her bf now that’s 2 people happy…i can suffer id rather have 1 person sad and suffering rather then 2….what should i do i seriously need advice…