My mother in law told me that drinking gasoline while
preganant can help induce labor and that a glass of gasoline a
day can help keep my and my baby healthy while also keeping
my weight down. I also heard that it’s good for the skin and
nails. Like prenatal vitamins.
My mother in law told me that drinking gasoline while
preganant can help induce labor and that a glass of gasoline a
day can help keep my and my baby healthy while also keeping
my weight down. I also heard that it’s good for the skin and
nails. Like prenatal vitamins.
…But her child is born with no defects, and is really smart and gifted, but acts weird and not like other children? Some times the kid acts like he has Asperger’s and sometimes regular. Did the alcohol not affect him or did it?
@Lois, he’s not my kid.
Child is now 13.
…But her child is born with no defects, and is really smart and gifted, but acts weird and not like other children? Some times the kid acts like he has Asperger’s and sometimes regular. Did the alcohol not affect him or did it?
@Lois, he’s not my kid.
Child is now 13.
My mother drank heavily while she was pregnant with me. So I was just wondering if, because of her drinking, I would have a high tolerance for alcohol. I don’t drink, it’s just a random thing I was wondering about.
My mother drank heavily while she was pregnant with me. So I was just wondering if, because of her drinking, I would have a high tolerance for alcohol. I don’t drink, it’s just a random thing I was wondering about.
I agree that drinking while pregnant is stupid and should never be done. And no, miraculously I don’t have FAS.
My mother drank heavily while she was pregnant with me. So I was just wondering if, because of her drinking, I would have a high tolerance for alcohol. I don’t drink, it’s just a random thing I was wondering about.
My mother drank heavily while she was pregnant with me. So I was just wondering if, because of her drinking, I would have a high tolerance for alcohol. I don’t drink, it’s just a random thing I was wondering about.
I agree that drinking while pregnant is stupid and should never be done. And no, miraculously I don’t have FAS.
My mother drank heavily while she was pregnant with me. So I was just wondering if, because of her drinking, I would have a high tolerance for alcohol. I don’t drink, it’s just a random thing I was wondering about.
My mother drank heavily while she was pregnant with me. So I was just wondering if, because of her drinking, I would have a high tolerance for alcohol. I don’t drink, it’s just a random thing I was wondering about.
I agree that drinking while pregnant is stupid and should never be done. And no, miraculously I don’t have FAS.
My name is Amina Kaur and i’m 15 years old.
I live on a tower block estate in the Ladywood area of Birmingham with my mum and 2 sisters and I was drinking, smoking weed with my mates on the estate and I had a one night stand with this lad called Abdul and now i’m pregnant and I don’t know how to tell my mum and my family, they will be ashamed of me and dis-own me, i’m even contemplating having a abortion and not telling anyone but I really don’t want to have an abortion as it’s a scary and evil thing to do i’m even thinking about runing away, this is how scared I am of telling my family how can I tell them??
Shall I bring them all together and tell them at the same time or tell them each seperately?? or tell them via a phone-call??
Thing is I have a strong feeling my family will dis-own me for good if I tell them and I wont be able to handle that mentally or physically, my life is ruined im just scared and I fell like i wish i could die right now to relieve the mess I’m in.
I hate living on this estate in Ladywood in Birmingham as there’s many other single teen mothers living here too and I don’t want to be associated with them as a stereotpe, if I do have this baby I don’t want to live here on this estate in Ladywood in Birmingham, as there’s loads of violence, crime crack addicts and hookers/prostitutes around.
I am scared of what to do right now someone please give me some advice, thank you so very much.
Amina Kaur from Ladywood in Birmingham.
First: I love my girl friend more than I can even say and I know I want to marry her as soon as I am able to.
At birth my girl friend was adopted and just recently we met her biological, a woman that has another child now, probably around 6 or 7, and unlike what you normally hear when a biological mom comes back into contact with the child they placed for adoption of wanting to know her, her mom was very distant. She especially when she heard my girl friend had been diagnosed with ADHD…
My girlfriend having ADHD I feel, has caused her life to be much rougher than it should have been and has caused her to feel, at times depressed and isolated from the rest of the world.
It actually hurts me when she feels that way, but even more it angers me that there is a possibility that her mother drank/did drugs/etc. while she was pregnant then just placed her baby for adoption. What should I do?
For a 21 year old girl who constantly ask why God forces her to have to deal with being over emotional and not being about to focus, sometimes even with medicine, it is a big deal.
Thanks for everything and I think most of you all really do understand why it bothers me… I would vote a best answer but I really can’t because you all really have helped me more than you think.
My wife developed a really bad addiction to prescription pain killers and cleaned us out in August of 2007. I filed for a divorce and took custody of our two children. I soon discovered she had been having an affair with her dealer after I cut her off of our finances.
In December of 2007 she returned home asking me to take her to rehab, which I did. The day after I dropped her off she called me and told me she was pregnant. I had a vasectomy back in 2005.
We stayed apart until July of 2008 when we reconciled and she moved back home. The paramour has been in and out of rehab four times in 2008 for alcoholism and immediately relapsed upon completing his most recent round.
My wife had informed him that he was the father and he told her there was no way in hell he’d ever give her a dime. When the baby was born I signed the birth certificate and we named the baby after me.
He and his mother call occasionally and he leaves voice mails saying we are going to here from his attorney. He has never seen the baby. His parents barged into the hospital the day our son was born, but we have refused to answer their phone calls since. They also call my wife’s family and try to ascertain her location. I don’t believe that he’s interested in taking legal action, but his mother appears to be pushing the issue.
We obviously don’t want this guy anywhere near our family. He has done enough damage. Can anyone offer any insight?
I’m 20 my boyfriends 21. We have been together off and on since I have been 15. We have found out I’m 5 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend struggles with indulging in alcohol and when he’s drunk it leads him to drugs. he got in a car reck and had to go to icu where he couldn’t even get out of his bed. He received a dui and already had warrents at the time. After that he changed and wanted to be clean so we got an apt together and have been there for 4 mnths. He has never acted bad except foer last nite. He spent his entire check 400.00 dollars on alcohol and drugs in ONE night. I didn’t even see him and he blaming me and my dad that we stole 200 frm him. The day b4 he was drinking as well and told me he didn’t want a bigger woman as his babys mom. I jus got my hair cutt and he said maybe he would be nicer if I didn’t look like a dike. He also too my bag of baby stuff frm rachels house who confirmed I was prgnant and riped the papers up as well as the diaper and threw the toy monkey and baby cup on the floor when the cup cracked. I don’t know if he’s scred about the baby and lashing out or what’s going on??? I went to my moms last night. I’m thinking abiut going back even though there is no room for me and this baby when it comes. I’m so confused. I don’t know what to do? What would you do?
I’ll try to make this as short as possible.
I began dating the father of my baby a few months ago. I knew of him going a rehab a couple months prior for a heroin problem. He’s my age. He was loving, caring, really sweet, and sober! Within just a few weeks, things began to drastically change. Signs definitely pointed toward him using again. A couple months into it and I ended it.
Only to find out, about a week later I missed my period. I ended up telling my mother who purchased some pregnancy tests for me and long story short, I’m pregnant.
When he first found out the news, he was in shock (I had already given him the heads up that I was suspecting I was pregnant). The day I saw him we had a conversation about it, where it pretty much consisted of me wanting to keep it and him crying/freaking out and wanting an abortion. A fight ended up occurring where he pushed me around. He left and that was it.
Exactly a week later he ended up going to jail for 4-5 days for something that occurred earlier on. He was calling me from jail, obviously sober, so I think that’s why he was being nice. Apologizing, asking about the pregnancy, wanting to be with me, wanting to make it work and making plans for how we could make things work with the baby. The day he got out I went and saw him and it was good at first but then turned into another fight where he was scared and upset about the pregnancy.
Once again, we didn’t talk for a couple of weeks. He called me one day after leaving one of his rehab meetings so we could “talk” more. He came over and it was good at first, he doesn’t want an abortion but kept saying “this should have been OUR decision” (although I gave him the opportunity for days to come and talk to me about our options and the one time he came over, it resulted in a fight). So again, it turned into a fight where the cops were called, he pushed me around again and somehow I ended up getting a fat lip. Cops come and find a crack pipe that belonged to him.
So, I have an order or protection against him now, which ends in december, I’m due in January.
We haven’t had any contact since that incident which was about three weeks ago. I’m doing a lot better without the stress of him. I stay home with my mom everyday to just relax, I’m taking courses this summer to graduate early right when my baby is due, and I feel more and more content and confident that I’m going to be okay.
I still think about the father though, I block him out throughout the day but I often dream about him. The dreams are dreams of situations we were in when we were happy with each other, before he started using. I can’t help but think, he’s 17!, he hasn’t been using long, he still has an opportunity to sober up and fix his life. But no one thinks this, his parents have kind of given up hope on him pretty much. I’m the only one that steps in and tells him it’s not right, the only person who hasn’t given up hope.
Is it wrong of me to want to talk to him, want to encourage him to correct things? After all these times of hurting me and doing things that could have harmed the baby, I should stay away. But while he was sober in jail, he was truly caring about it all and I can’t help but think he’s not the real person. The drugs have changed him but the good in him is still there somewhere. Should I stop thinking this and just move on? I want him to change for himself, and for this baby. I just don’t know what to do, should I contact him or leave it be?
If I continue to not speak to him and decide that I don’t feel it’s safe for him to be with the baby, how easy is it for me to fight for him not having any rights? The thought of him not being sober scares me thinking he could easily just come and want to see the baby. With his criminal background, of drug arrests, robbery, etc., how likely is it that he could have rights towards the baby? What if I don’t put him on the birth certificate?
It’s not MY father, it’s the BABY’s father. Thankyou though so far for the answers.
To the last answer, I never once stated that I was even considering getting an abortion. Why would you give me all that information? It has NOTHING to do with what I asked.
I am prochoice when it comes to abortion .
If you make a decision to carry a child to term you should not smoke , do drugs or use alcohol
I have some cognitive issues derived from my biological mom smoking and drinking and taking arbituates when she had me
My brother on the otherhand is a pediatric cranial plastic surgeon
this is not a pity party i have had a job for 12 straight years but every day anything technical or word processing like is a challenge for me
i recently saw a friend hand a ciggarette to a pregnant lady . it offended me but i dont know how to approach it .
I do not think in this day and age a woman should smoke when she has a baby .
Do you agree ? How do you approach this if you agree?
If you do not agree tell me why ?
i think some of you missed a detail or just dismissed the detail .
my beliefe is that a woman can and should exercise my body my choice when it comes to carrying or aborting a pregnancy
i do not believe she should have the right to seriously hinder a childs life
i do believe i have “LICENCES” to say this . My verbal iq is a 135 . My spatial task iq is an 80 . Those lopsided numbers are the result of my bilogical mother smoking and drinking .
So i firmly believe it is my bussness you will never convince me otherwise that it is not my bussniess
(last question about MTV’s shows)
MTV is trying to teach about pregnancy prevention and all that, but yet they show Jersey Shore( with people into promiscous sex, alcohol) 30 minutes later.
i admit i watched one episode of JS and it was with those two guys and they were trying to get some girls to sleep with? one minute they were with two girls, the next they were with another.
I got out of a horrible relationship where the father (5 years of living together, I guess he cracked when he found I was pregnant) smoked weed in the house while I was pregnant. He threw stuff at me, hit me while I was pregnant so I left him.
However, my family has huge morals for me and my father and mother can’t stand that I am a “single mom”. Should I tell them how much of a druggie he is? He wasn’t into drugs until I got pregnant. It’s like he lost his mind… why does my family hate me? Because I didn’t get married and am a sinner?
My sister has been a drug addict for years, but has never admitted a problem [or gone to rehab]. Now that she has been let back in the house swearing she is clean and using her pregnancy as a “for the baby” reason,, not only is it obvious by her personality that she is still using, I found drug paraphernalia; needles, aluminum foil, a pipe [a tube that people use to sniff cocaine], weed, and other items. My parents are blind to this and never wanted to know that she did drugs beyond weed but I showed my mother because there is an innocent life on the line [she is about 2 months pregnant]. What are the legal actions, in the state of Nevada, that can be taken to stop her from harming the fetus?
BTW my mom hasn’t talked to her about it yet because she wants to discuss the issue with my dad first.. honestly, though, they probably won’t get much done because they still haven’t admitted there is a real issue.
Thanks in advance :) Normally I avoid family issues and stay out of it because getting to med school is my top priority, but I don’t believe that it is morally OK to know this is going on and try to do nothing about it
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