if a breast feeding mother drank two beers how many days should go by before she breastfeeds again?

Thursday, September 8th, 2011

and formula fed too. not just breast fed.

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is my mother going to die from drinking?

Tuesday, September 6th, 2011

my mum drinks 1-2 full bottles of wine everyday at nightime , She is unhealthy and is overweight , i tell her that she is drinking too much and iam worried about the damage of her liver but she still dont care and has a bottle of wine later

Im worried if my mum is going to die of liver diease as i heard people who are overweight increaces their chances if they are drinking
will she likely die?

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My mother says I was raped at age 3 but can’t really remember?

Tuesday, September 6th, 2011

I’m 16 years old and when I was age 3 I was sent to foster care because of my father who was a drug addict/abuser and not because of my mother. I stayed at my Aunt’s house until one day I was taken out of there and sent to another foster home. I always thought it was because they only wanted us for a little bit. Well I won’t tell you the whole foster care issues…..yet I remember being abused by some of the people who took care of me there. Now anyways after a year or so we were taken out of foster care because my mother got my sister and I back because of talking about things that happened when we were there. My mom told me when I came back from there I was never the same. I have been more angry and there were a lot of issues going on and something wrong with me. Also still to this day she says that’s where she thinks a lot of my problems are from. Anyways since this summer I have been remembering certain things about it but then I don’t really remember being raped/molested by my uncle. My mother told me I was and my father has said it to my sister. Right now as I sit here and think about it all I can remember is being brought to my Uncles room when I was little but nothing else. Sometimes I think maybe my mom is lying but then I don’t. I also believe I could of been molested by others in foster care but I really don’t understand how I can’t strongly remember all this stuff. What should I do? I don’t even know if there was ever any damage done to me. All I know is when I was younger I would make my barbies have sex, one time when I saw a penis in middle school because of this pervie kid it freaked me out and I started crying, I haven’t had sex because when I think about it I feel very wrong and I never really put all these things together until now. All I know this is all hitting me pretty hard right now.
I want to talk about it and get help but I feel so embarrassed. Seriously I never cry maybe a few times a year and I hardly show that I’m sad because I feel weak. Ugh I don’t know.

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how can I get my mother to stop drinking alcohol?

Tuesday, September 6th, 2011

well my parents got a divorce about 4 years ago… and ever since then she has been drinking ALOT! when my parents were together she never drank at all…. so when they broke up she sid she felt “free” and that she wanted to have fun (she left him) but shes gone alittle bit to far… she never has anymoney, she has to borrow money off of me and my sister, not to mention me and my sister are just getting by with the little money we have. although my mom still goes to work she is always drunk after work everyday… she only calls me when shes drunk or when she needs money.. what should I do?
I have tried to talk to her about it and she just says “I work for a living so why cant I have a few beers when I get home?”

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My mother says I was raped at age 3 but can’t really remember?

Sunday, September 4th, 2011

I’m 16 years old and when I was age 3 I was sent to foster care because of my father who was a drug addict/abuser and not because of my mother. I stayed at my Aunt’s house until one day I was taken out of there and sent to another foster home. I always thought it was because they only wanted us for a little bit. Well I won’t tell you the whole foster care issues…..yet I remember being abused by some of the people who took care of me there. Now anyways after a year or so we were taken out of foster care because my mother got my sister and I back because of talking about things that happened when we were there. My mom told me when I came back from there I was never the same. I have been more angry and there were a lot of issues going on and something wrong with me. Also still to this day she says that’s where she thinks a lot of my problems are from. Anyways since this summer I have been remembering certain things about it but then I don’t really remember being raped/molested by my uncle. My mother told me I was and my father has said it to my sister. Right now as I sit here and think about it all I can remember is being brought to my Uncles room when I was little but nothing else. Sometimes I think maybe my mom is lying but then I don’t. I also believe I could of been molested by others in foster care but I really don’t understand how I can’t strongly remember all this stuff. What should I do? I don’t even know if there was ever any damage done to me. All I know is when I was younger I would make my barbies have sex, one time when I saw a penis in middle school because of this pervie kid it freaked me out and I started crying, I haven’t had sex because when I think about it I feel very wrong and I never really put all these things together until now. All I know this is all hitting me pretty hard right now.

I want to talk about it and get help but I feel so embarrassed. Seriously I never cry maybe a few times a year and I hardly show that I’m sad because I feel weak. Ugh I don’t know

I have asked this before but I’m doing it again because not all the answers I got were great.

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What is it like having a caring mother?

Sunday, September 4th, 2011

I just want to know what it feels like to have a mom who loves you, and who you love as well. I’m 15, and I only knew my mom for 4 years, during that time she was an abusive drunk with an abusive boyfriend. I don’t know if this sounds weird or not, I’m just curious how it feels.

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Why Is My Mother Such An Attention Seeker, And Will She Ever Follow Anything Through?

Saturday, September 3rd, 2011

My mum has a drink problem. She doesn’t see it as a problem, and therefore no help is available. I left home at 16 to get away from her. I’m at uni now, living with my partner. But she’ll drink, and call me/text me and shout about how my partner isn’t grateful for any help she’s given us (when she’s sober) and then about how I don’t love her. But sometimes she’ll say “Goodbye” and she threatens suicide. I’m over 100 miles away and can’t run home to check. Her mother commited suicide when I was 5, and I have taken her to hospital several times when I was living at home when she was suspected of trying to overdose. Will she ever go through with it? It scares me silly! But I don’t want to spend the rest of my life worrying about her – but if something does happen I’ll feel guilty! (Another complex she gave me!) As well as this, teher are other ways she seeks attention – by saying she might have cancer etc. I’m tired of it, and want to have my own life. What should I do?

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How old do my kittens need to be to start them on food other then the mother.?

Wednesday, August 31st, 2011

Ok the mother cat only has two nipples and is feeding six kittens we have supplemented when we needed to but they wont take a bottle so when can I start them on regular food or get them to drink formula without having to force it. They are three weeks old.

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What should i do about an alcohalic mother?

Tuesday, August 30th, 2011

I have a friend that has a alcohalic mother. All she does is sit around at home and drinks and is lazy. Thier home is dismembered, and scattered and kind of disturbing. What should my friend do to help her mother in this situation??

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My mother in law is saying i need to feed my kids some junk food once in awhile??

Monday, August 29th, 2011

My mother in law explains that once in awhile i should buy my children Mcdonalds, Or some other Fast food joint. I limit the amount of soda & juice,and potato chips in my house. I want my children to be healthy. She said let them be kids, eat junk all day. However, my husband agrees with me, who do you agree with?

For lunch they eat sandwiches with an apple on the side and milk for a drink.

Am i doing anything wrong?

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If i drink mother how long till it kicks in?

Sunday, August 28th, 2011

This is just a one off its for sports day

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Step daughter and custody what’s going on with her Mother!?

Sunday, August 28th, 2011

I have posted on this before, my husband found out he has a daughter he knew nothing about…she’s 10 and lives in Australia with her Mother and her half brother. We were so surprised when the Mother got in touch a few months ago, did a paternity test and yes she’s my husbands. We wondered why the MOther had suddenly decided to get in touch and I was a bit suspicious, now we find out that her and her husband (who though the little girl was his) are divorcing and he is going for custody…the Mother is an ex prostitute and drug addict, it is looking like he will get custody of his son but there is a question mark over the little girl…I dont think the Mother is being straight with us…courts dont tend to award custody to Dads unless the Mother is a bad one right? Now she has asked if the little girl can stay with my husband and our family for two weeks in July whislt she the Mother goes to Ireland for a holiday with her friends…my husband has planned to go to Oz in JAn. to meet his
Daughter anyway…but I am so suspicious of the MOther…she seems to be not telling the whole story to us…she says the her ex husband is violent…but why would the court grant him custody of his son if this were the case…alarm bells are ringing in my head…my MIL and my Mum agree with me…what’s her game? My husband is naieve at the best of times…what is going on here?

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why do doctors try and blame the mother if a child is born premature?

Saturday, August 27th, 2011

when my daughter was born at 24 weeks the doctors said my wife had drunk during her pregnancy the baby was tested and no and was clean then they changed their tune. During her second pregnacy a hormone defficiancy was found to be the reason for her difficulties with pregnancy. my wife has never drank in 11 years i have never seen her take a drink. to this day she blames herself for our daughters disabilities

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is it normal for a newborn puppy to cry a lot and not be able to drink milk from mother?

Friday, August 26th, 2011

its because my dog just had two puppies minutes ago and their is one with weakness and it doesnt stop crying

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My Mother in law told me to drink gasoline- I’m pregnant!?

Thursday, August 25th, 2011

My mother in law told me that drinking gasoline while

preganant can help induce labor and that a glass of gasoline a

day can help keep my and my baby healthy while also keeping

my weight down. I also heard that it’s good for the skin and

nails. Like prenatal vitamins.

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My Mother in law told me to drink gasoline- I’m pregnant!?

Thursday, August 25th, 2011

My mother in law told me that drinking gasoline while

preganant can help induce labor and that a glass of gasoline a

day can help keep my and my baby healthy while also keeping

my weight down. I also heard that it’s good for the skin and

nails. Like prenatal vitamins.

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Mother Teresa gave this to people to heal them of any pain. What was it?

Wednesday, August 24th, 2011

So i was at my mom’s friend’s house. I noticed that she had this vase with some orange looking water and some white things floating. I noticed that the white things floated up and stayed up and them came down like nothing. She told me that the white things reproduced and that Mother Teresa gave them to people to heal any pain. They would just drink the orange liquid.

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Am I the only one who thinks its ironic that a mother can legally drink while pregnant BUT…

Sunday, August 21st, 2011

the mother who gave her sons beer for a party was arrested.
Not particularly. I’d rather see the woman who drinks while pregnant and gets a child with FOS than a woman who gave my son a beer at 17.
I ment id rather see her arrested.
Oh wow, yes lol. I do know it starts with an A.

Sorry, my mistake.

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how do i have a mother and daughter relationship with my mother?

Saturday, August 20th, 2011

Me and my mom know nothing about each other. when i was just a month old she was sent to a mental hospital when i started elementary school she came back home she also started working so i barely saw her.she would leave before i was gone and would not be hope until 10 and i would be sleeping by that time when she was not working she went to bingo so i would barely see her.when i was in the 7th grade she stopped working then she started to drink she would hit me and have arguments with me and she still does i currently in the 11th grade. sometimes i wish she was not my mother. what should i do ?

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Mother not really over son’s death, blames others…?

Friday, August 19th, 2011

My brother Michael commited suicide on August 2nd in 2002, His son’s second birthday. His son is still alive today and lives with my mother for his mother is a stripper and a drug addict who has hit rock bottom and is in rehab.
My mother had a heart attack after hearing that my brother’s death might not have been suicide.
Now, she drinks Vodka like crazy and makes my little sister make them for her. She yells at anyone who tries to help and last week, she was drunk for the entire week and locked my little sister out of the house.
She’s slowly going into depression, what can I do to help her or does this call for professinal help?
She has blamed me for being her drunk and I try to reason with her but she instists that I am to blame.
She also blames me for his death because I was there when it happened. I couldn’t stop him at all.
He had a gun, what was I supposed to do?
The little boy’s mother called him up Friday and told him she would take him to Chuckie E. Cheese’s and now it is Monday early morning and he show no emotion about it.

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