We will help you get your mom off drugs!

You might want to step back if your faint of heart
Because soon the tears of sorrow are about to start
This one is a tear jerker, about to make you weep
You’ll be up all through the night, unable to sleep
So get out the tissues, as your tear ducts build up
I’m gonna talk about some sad and crazy stuff
You’ve been warned, now at the point of no return
This world is a sad place, it deserves to forever burn

Tears start roll’n down your cheek
You stand there crying, you can’t speak
Watery eyes, runny noses, unable to stand
Tugging at you heartstrings and tear glands

Born a child with demonic evil in his devilish eyes
Still young now, but ignored for whatever he implies
Had an alcoholic dad who beat him and his sister
When he was asleep, we couldn’t play but whisper
A mother trying to put her heart in the right place
But she couldn’t do a thang and left his bad taste
He was a drunk who left his kids at a baseball game
Passed out in the bleachers, couldn’t remember his name
I haven’t even seen my dad in over three years
My sister hates him, and my mind is still unclear
But I’ve moved on trying to forgive my own father
But that inside hatred has got me thinking why bother
My Nana threaten to kill him once, take away his life
She swore on her grave it would be by a gun or knife
A family mentally screwed up, at each others throats
It’s a miracle itself that we stayed together and afloat

Tears start roll’n down your cheek
You stand there crying, you can’t speak
Watery eyes, runny noses, unable to stand
Tugging at you heartstrings and tear glands

As a kid I was always the butt of the pranks and jokes
I’ve been tempted by alcohol, drugs and to smoke
But none of the devils tricks are getting into my head
I’m just trying to do the work of the lord instead
People look at me and say I’m the devil or anti-Christ
I’m just curious about the world, like that won’t suffice
Like why are we here if we never learn, got me wondering
Why is this world made up of so many lies and suffering
Innocent children getting picked up off of ever corner
Man stealing lingerie in order to give himself a boner
GM going bankrupt, patriotism sinking like the DOW
Do you finally understand what’s been going on now
Crack babies dying off in the alleys, homeless beaten down
Patients being left on streets, only this arsonist making a sound
Why must I point out the obvious to those who are blind
I hope your crying somewhere in the back of your mind

Tears start roll’n down your cheek
You stand there crying, you can’t speak
Watery eyes, runny noses, unable to stand
Tugging at you heartstrings and tear glands

The Midwest Arsonist

This one is a tear jerker, about to make you weep
You’ll be up all through the night, unable to sleep
This world has literally raped me of my sanity
Now I’m stuck in infamy, can’t see so clearly
Abused and stepped on for believing in his own way
This psychopathic maniac that your seeing today
You’ve been warned, now at the point of no return
This world is a sad place, it deserves to forever burn

Tears start roll’n down your cheek
You stand there crying, you can’t speak
Watery eyes, runny noses, unable to stand
Tugging at you heartstrings and tear glands

Born a child with demonic evil in his devilish eyes
Still young now, but ignored for whatever he implies
Had an alcoholic dad who beat him and his sister
When he was asleep, we couldn’t play but whisper
A mother trying to put her heart in the right place
But she couldn’t do a thing and left his bad taste
He was a drunk who left his kids at a baseball game
Passed out in the bleachers, couldn’t remember his name
My Nana threaten to kill him once, take away his life
She swore on her grave it would be by a gun or knife
I haven’t even seen my dad in over three years
My sister hates him, and my mind is still unclear
He’s called couple times, saying what he did was wrong
Singing the same old song, back and forth like ping pong
I got a family that’s getting into each others throats
I’m just hoping somehow we can just stay afloat

Tears start roll’n down your cheek
You stand there crying, you can’t speak
Watery eyes, runny noses, unable to stand
Tugging at you heartstrings and tear glands

As a kid I was always the butt of the pranks and jokes
I’ve been tempted by alcohol, drugs and to smoke
But none of the devils tricks are getting into my head
I’m just trying to do the work of my own instead
People look at me and say I’m the devil or anti-Christ
I’m just curious about the world, but that won’t suffice
Like why are we here if we never learn, got me wondering
Why is this world made up of so many lies and suffering
Innocent children getting picked up off of ever corner
Man stealing lingerie in order to give himself a *****
GM going bankrupt, patriotism sinking like the DOW
Do you finally understand what’s been going on now
Crack babies dying off in the alleys, homeless beaten down
Patients being left on streets, only this arsonist making a sound
Why must I point out the obvious to those who are blind
I hope your crying somewhere in the back of your mind

Tears start roll’n down your cheek
You stand there crying, you can’t speak
Watery eyes, runny noses, unable to stand
Tugging at you heartstrings and tear glands

The Midwest Arsonist

refuses to get out of house or have a man in her life
i know its sounds like a mess but life turns sometimes into a tough directions .why should she worried so much?

My nephew is 21 and won’t look for a job. When his mother tells him to, he makes her life hell. His father left to live with someone else and is no help. In fact he is the reason why he is worthless. His father’s father was a worthless alcoholic who only worked occasionally. And ended being taken care of by the mother until he died. In fact all of the uncles from that side of the family are or were worthless. The father was abusive and always relied on his mother or my parents to help him and my sister out of being in trouble. He smokes pot all the time so you know that the kids do to. My sister is so neurotic from being in an abusive relationship for 26 years that she can’t or won’t do anything about this now abusive self proclaimed drug addict. She can’t throw him out because she is afraid that he will do something bad to himself. Also he won’t go anyway. Plus he starts trashing everything in the house and then leaves before the cops show up. And even when they do show up, there is nothing that they will do. Plus I don’t think that my sister will really follow therough with anything either.I told my mother that I need to sit that little bastard down and talk to him man to man. But she says don’t rock the boat. All I want to tell him is that it is time to be a man and get a job and start contributing. But the women (my mom and my sister) say all that will do is make things worse. I tell them that I will not be his victim like they are. But sinse I take care of my mother now, one way or the other, I am now. I say that it is time for a man to deal with this and set things straight no matter what anyone thinks. Especially since its my life and my mother’s life that is also being effected here. Sooner or later they will probably end up moving in with me and I won’t have that crap in my house. He says that he is addicted to pot so he can’t work. And he won’t get help. I say that its just an excuse and its time to tell him how it is. But if I do then all hell will break loose. I say let it break. Let him go and experiance the real America. Has anyone else had to put up with this garbage? There was a time when get the hell out! used to work. Now the women say don’t rock the boat and now I’m the bad guy. Sooner or later there comes a time when a man has to step in and clean house. What say you????

She vomits after every meal,or at least once a day.She’s not bulimic coz she doesn’t really binge,she just finishes her plate…I often hear her coughing and gagging in the bathroom and then she comes up to us and says “ouch my stomach hurt really bad that I had to vomit”,so she makes my dad believe that she vomits unintentionally,but she puts her fingers,I know,she says it’s cause she feels all the food going up and she has to get it out,so she’ll feel better…If she eats like,a lot of peanuts(well let’s say a handful or 2 while watching a movie)she’ll feel guilty and touch her stomach saying it’s bloated…The thing is,it doesn’t seem as she knows it’s bad,she actually thinks it’s good,like her body’s telling her to do it since the food comes “up”…I once told her it’s bad in front of my dad and he was like”of course it isstop doing it”,then she gets so upset and says her stomach felt uncomfortable and it goes up by itself and said she would stop but yesterday I saw her…

Dang. I’m recovering from an eating disorder, and I binged. It was so random. I told my mom, “I’m about to eat a lot of food.” and she was like, “Good!! Should I take a picture?” (She was kidding about the picture thing.)

So anyways, I just ate a huge peanut butter and jelly sandwich, chocolate protein shake, chocolate pudding, fruit loops, crackers, Easter candy, and a ton more. I have a tummy ache now, and I’m feeling a bit weird. Like, I don’t feel guilty. The worst par about it is that I’m waiting for the biscuits to get done cooking in the oven, and once they get done, I[‘m going to melt cheese on them and force them down my throat. Then, I’m going to go watch Sex and the City.

I’m like 5’3 and 98 pounds. Will I look any different tomorrow?

Here is my story. I am a 29 yr old single mother of 2 boys and currently live with my parents until next month. I hang out at my cousin’s house (who lives 5 min. away)on the weekends, and maybe a day or two out of the week. Since I am with family, my 9yr old and 1yr old are well fed, clean and taken care of.

This is not my home state, so I do not have many friends, it feels good to have grown up time and have a normal conversation with other adults. My family seems to think otherwise, they do not want me to hang out because I come home after midnight, but they do not want to watch my children to give me a little break sometimes.

Everywhere I go and do, I am with my kids and other kids are always there so its not like my kids are around adults only. They play while the adults talk and drink. And I never drive drunk, ever…

I love my kids, but sometimes I just need to let go and have good adult time, that’s all. My family makes it seem like I am out smoking crack with my kids or something. Does it make me a bad mom because I hang out with my family and sometimes come home after hours??? It’s the summer time for crying out loud, and my kids are safe and healthy. WTF is the big deal? Maybe you guys will see something that I do not. I know this is a long story. Please help. Thx
Thanks for your answers so far. Just for clarity, my kids are always with me when all the time. No one ever offers to watch them and give me a break, and hey I understand because they are my kids. It’s like a catch 22, when i take them with me, I am a bad mom. But they do not offer to help, and even if they did and I went out, I would still be a bad mom. I’m so tired of family trying to run my life just because I have no husband, they feel they have a right to tell me how to raise my kids.
Let me reiterate: My family never watch my kids,,, nor do i ask them to. They have a problem with me AND the kids being out together. I do not dump my children on anyone, they are with me at all times, because I don’t even let friends watch them. Sorry if I was not clear about that. Thanks

He jokes around a lot about a lot of things, but this is the only thing that really worries me.

I know he used to do heroin when he was a kid, but he quit. he didn’t go to any fancy rehab, or anything, he said he just straight up quit it, that’s what he always told my mother.

He is kind of sick. He has emphysema (won’t quit smoking), glaucoma (just got a cornea transplant and is starting to gain back his sight), and some problem with his kidneys.

I’m 16 and I see him once a week, because that’s all my mother allows me to spend with him, because of his record, and such.

I just don’t know what to do. Sometimes I feel like I’m the adult, and he’s the child.

He jokes around a lot about a lot of things, but this is the only thing that really worries me.

I know he used to do heroin when he was a kid, but he quit. he didn’t go to any fancy rehab, or anything, he said he just straight up quit it, that’s what he always told my mother.

He is kind of sick. He has emphysema (won’t quit smoking), glaucoma (just got a cornea transplant and is starting to gain back his sight), and some problem with his kidneys.

I’m 16 and I see him once a week, because that’s all my mother allows me to spend with him, because of his record, and such.

I just don’t know what to do. Sometimes I feel like I’m the adult, and he’s the child.

My nephew is 21 and won’t look for a job. When his mother tells him to, he makes her life hell. His father left to live with someone else and is no help. In fact he is the reason why he is worthless. His father’s father was a worthless alcoholic who only worked occasionally. And ended being taken care of by the mother until he died. In fact all of the uncles from that side of the family are or were worthless. The father was abusive and always relied on his mother or my parents to help him and my sister out of being in trouble. He smokes pot all the time so you know that the kids do to. My sister is so neurotic from being in an abusive relationship for 26 years that she can’t or won’t do anything about this now abusive self proclaimed drug addict. She can’t throw him out because she is afraid that he will do something bad to himself. Also he won’t go anyway. Plus he starts trashing everything in the house and then leaves before the cops show up. And even when they do show up, there is nothing that they will do. Plus I don’t think that my sister will really follow therough with anything either.I told my mother that I need to sit that little bastard down and talk to him man to man. But she says don’t rock the boat. All I want to tell him is that it is time to be a man and get a job and start contributing. But the women (my mom and my sister) say all that will do is make things worse. I tell them that I will not be his victim like they are. But sinse I take care of my mother now, one way or the other, I am now. I say that it is time for a man to deal with this and set things straight no matter what anyone thinks. Especially since its my life and my mother’s life that is also being effected here. Sooner or later they will probably end up moving in with me and I won’t have that crap in my house. He says that he is addicted to pot so he can’t work. And he won’t get help. I say that its just an excuse and its time to tell him how it is. But if I do then all hell will break loose. I say let it break. Let him go and experiance the real America. Has anyone else had to put up with this garbage? There was a time when get the hell out! used to work. Now the women say don’t rock the boat and now I’m the bad guy. Sooner or later there comes a time when a man has to step in and clean house. What say you????

My nephew is 21 and won’t look for a job. When his mother tells him to, he makes her life hell. His father left to live with someone else and is no help. In fact he is the reason why he is worthless. His father’s father was a worthless alcoholic who only worked occasionally. And ended being taken care of by the mother until he died. In fact all of the uncles from that side of the family are or were worthless. The father was abusive and always relied on his mother or my parents to help him and my sister out of being in trouble. He smokes pot all the time so you know that the kids do to. My sister is so neurotic from being in an abusive relationship for 26 years that she can’t or won’t do anything about this now abusive self proclaimed drug addict. She can’t throw him out because she is afraid that he will do something bad to himself. Also he won’t go anyway. Plus he starts trashing everything in the house and then leaves before the cops show up. And even when they do show up, there is nothing that they will do. Plus I don’t think that my sister will really follow therough with anything either.I told my mother that I need to sit that little bastard down and talk to him man to man. But she says don’t rock the boat. All I want to tell him is that it is time to be a man and get a job and start contributing. But the women (my mom and my sister) say all that will do is make things worse. I tell them that I will not be his victim like they are. But sinse I take care of my mother now, one way or the other, I am now. I say that it is time for a man to deal with this and set things straight no matter what anyone thinks. Especially since its my life and my mother’s life that is also being effected here. Sooner or later they will probably end up moving in with me and I won’t have that crap in my house. He says that he is addicted to pot so he can’t work. And he won’t get help. I say that its just an excuse and its time to tell him how it is. But if I do then all hell will break loose. I say let it break. Let him go and experiance the real America. Has anyone else had to put up with this garbage? There was a time when get the hell out! used to work. Now the women say don’t rock the boat and now I’m the bad guy. Sooner or later there comes a time when a man has to step in and clean house. What say you????

My nephew is 21 and won’t look for a job. When his mother tells him to, he makes her life hell. His father left to live with someone else and is no help. In fact he is the reason why he is worthless. His father’s father was a worthless alcoholic who only worked occasionally. And ended being taken care of by the mother until he died. In fact all of the uncles from that side of the family are or were worthless. The father was abusive and always relied on his mother or my parents to help him and my sister out of being in trouble. He smokes pot all the time so you know that the kids do to. My sister is so neurotic from being in an abusive relationship for 26 years that she can’t or won’t do anything about this now abusive self proclaimed drug addict. She can’t throw him out because she is afraid that he will do something bad to himself. Also he won’t go anyway. Plus he starts trashing everything in the house and then leaves before the cops show up. And even when they do show up, there is nothing that they will do. Plus I don’t think that my sister will really follow therough with anything either.I told my mother that I need to sit that little bastard down and talk to him man to man. But she says don’t rock the boat. All I want to tell him is that it is time to be a man and get a job and start contributing. But the women (my mom and my sister) say all that will do is make things worse. I tell them that I will not be his victim like they are. But sinse I take care of my mother now, one way or the other, I am now. I say that it is time for a man to deal with this and set things straight no matter what anyone thinks. Especially since its my life and my mother’s life that is also being effected here. Sooner or later they will probably end up moving in with me and I won’t have that crap in my house. He says that he is addicted to pot so he can’t work. And he won’t get help. I say that its just an excuse and its time to tell him how it is. But if I do then all hell will break loose. I say let it break. Let him go and experiance the real America. Has anyone else had to put up with this garbage? There was a time when get the hell out! used to work. Now the women say don’t rock the boat and now I’m the bad guy. Sooner or later there comes a time when a man has to step in and clean house. What say you????

My mother used to be very addicted to Yahoo Spades, now she’s not so much addicted but it’s still kinda there. She just got my husband into Yahoo Spades and he’s addicted to it! It drives me crazy..he cares about nothing else but Spades..he claims that he’s not addicted while really he is..it feels like he loves Spades more than he loves me. I know it’s weird but it’s true!

What is it about Yahoo Spades that’s so fascinating? You really don’t gain anything from it..it’s a waste of time!
To Leg: Why even reply to this answer when you can’t even give me a straight answer..oh wait..you must be a poor soul that’s addicted.

I know of several people that no matter what the circumstance it’s blown into a huge drama, Nothing is ever just what it truly is– it’s morphed into a world shattering event.
It can be something as simple as a child being gone for the weekend with Dad and the mother calling at 3am to tell them how horribly empty her life is because they are gone for 48 hours.

What makes people act so ridiculous about everyday life?
Sure life has it’s dramas… but to go out of one’s way to create it is silly– Why?

There is no-way to fight Cancer weaken, beaten, sicken from chemo that only makes-mo physician-mo richer and richer and make-mo patients-mo sicker and sicker and sicker. Put simply, you must say and mean with your hold heart and soul, when you suddenly find cancer in your world, NOT WITHOUT A FIGHT OF A LIFE TIME “CANCER”. Remember, there is no-way to fight Cancer weaken, beaten, sicken until death treated with chemo-radiation, or simply put,, no-one has yet to do so. Just say no-to chemo …

Acid reflux treatment in pregnancy can be a little tricky. Balancing cures, diet and exercise with what’s good for both avoiding reflux and sticking to doctor’s orders for the baby’s sake can be tough.

Let’s face it, sleeping can be difficult enough during pregnancy and the third trimester’s the worst. Unfortunately, this is generally when acid reflux tends to rear its ugly head.

That’s right. That awful burning feeling in the back of the throat, discomfort that feels like fire and a general sick feeling that makes sleeping almost impossible.

To deal with reflux in pregnancy, it’s a good idea to understand first why it is so common. There are a lot of reasons acid reflux and pregnancy go hand-in-hand along with the typical heartburn many experience right out of the gate.

First off, pregnancy hormones can simply wreak havoc on the body and then there’s the simple fact that the wonder of life that is your baby can, and does, press on organs in ways a first-time mother could never imagine. Sleeping can be hard enough without acid reflux, but it’s an unfortunate side effect that can hamper the last few weeks.

So, what’s a mom-to-be to do?

The first thing is to relax. While acid reflux is a nightmare, keep in mind that unless it’s a medical condition that was present before the pregnancy, it will likely go away as soon as the baby is born. There is a light at the end of the tunnel.

When trying to treat reflux in pregnancy, remember pregnant women cannot or should not take a lot of the medications that are suggested for acid reflux under normal conditions. Thus, some pre-emptive strikes to avoid the condition are in order.

Here are some things that can help a pregnant woman avoid horrible bouts of acid reflux and things to do to relieve the symptoms if they start:

How to avoid an attack:

* Stay away from foods that can cause reflux. This means just say no to chocolate! Sorry. It also means steering clear of acidic foods such as juices and fruits, tomatoes, vinegar and fried and fatty foods.

* Since you’re pregnant and should already be staying clear of caffeine this hopefully won’t be an issue, but if you’ve been having a few sodas or coffees a day, cut that out of your diet right away.

*Limit food intake. Don’t overeat.

*Don’t eat right before bed.

*Drink tons of water. This is not only good for helping stave off an acid reflux attack, it’s also good for you and the baby.

*Elevate yourself when you sleep. Acid reflux involves a “backflow” of stomach contents into the esophagus, stop it before it starts by careful placement of pillows.

Even the best-laid plans don’t always work for a woman nearing term. If acid reflux strikes, check with your doctor about what you can take. Some find that pregnancy-friendly Tums help, others find getting up, walking around for a little bit followed up by some water does the trick.

Don’t get discouraged and just do your best to relax and let the symptoms pass. Remember, acid reflux in pregnancy tends to go away completely after the baby’s birth. Think of it as a little bump in the road on the way to something fantastic and you’ll do fine!

My husband grew up with a mom who was an alcoholic. He has a lot of trust issues. I want to understand.