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This happened in Minnesota! Please that note that I apologize if I have this thread posted in the incorrect subforum. Since,my issue is complicated enough that it span just more than the local police officers. In addition,if you guys need more information,please tell me to do so.

I admit that I am a hoarder,but not the complusive type. I only buy things that I need or want as in eating out,well sometimes at my so called parents’ house. There is nothing that I want to eat,so I buy some fast food. So,on one day,my so called mother in which we will call her by her first inital which is H. H threw some away some of my foods that I leave out,since I forgot and it was in some of the family’s bowls. Well,after I got home,I read note that I should clean all of the bowls that I left out in the living room. So,I got mad at her,since I told what give her the right to throw away my properties. Oh,she told me that she was just cleaning some of the bowls,then I told her that there was no reason to write a note to tell me to go clean them,if you were going to clean some of the bowls. As a result,I went on to smash her bowls onto the ground,since in the past,I repeatledy told her just because I happen to live here right now until I cannot move out it does not mean you can throw anything you want that happen to be not your own property(ies). Eventually,she call my so called father,which we now call him “X”. So,she goes to the police station,I assume.

Okay,that this point,so can I sue her for unnecessary distress and for damaged properties? You guys tell me,okay!

Before I knew it,I got a call from a police officer,in which I was not too surprised to get a phone call from. The police officer told me to meet him at the front door or the side door. I told them that I would meet them at the front door. In my mind,I thought oh,I would go meet them at the police station. Before I knew it,I just opened the garage door,I got a police officer with a gun drawn out. A police officer with a K-9 and another police officer. In addition,another police officer and a medic. So,I got arrested in the garage and I was interrogated into the house. Eventually,the police officer that was interrogating me asked me about the knife that I lefted on the couch. I told him that I was threatened to harm myself if H was going to call X. Knowing myself,I knew that if H was going to call X,that she did not care about me enough and would risk it by calling him. In addition,I told the police officer that I never harm myself and I was only trying to prevent H from making this a big scene,since I knew that if she called X,then the police would get involved. Not to mention,I told the police officer that in the past,X and H would physically abuse me in to teach a lesson in the past. The police officer did not seem to care that happened to me. I forgot to tell the police officer that X at one point in early 2009 almost stabbed me with a knife,but I did not called the police on him,since he apologized.

So,did the police needed a search warrant or was there any police misconduct?

Before I knew it,I got send to a psych ward at the Hennepin County Medical Center. I was on a 3 days discharged. Now,since there was a bed issue,I was in the holding unit overnight. Then,I should have been to the unit whre there they have the rational people in it in which they were holding volunteer patients for alcoholism and people that have sucidial thoughts. Since,they did not have a bed for me yet,I was send to the unit where most of the people did not have barely,if any,rational thinking. There was a female that happen to be in the unit in which there were irrational patients and we were both rational people that got stuck in there. She mentioned to be that this guy kept on touching her and she kept on reporting him to the workers there. Eventually,after a dozen times or so,the cops came into the unit and arrested the guy. If the psych ward suppose to be a safe place for everybody,then the workers should have got the cops to arrest the guy after the female reported on him the first time. I want to state that everybody worked there that asked about my story made me feel like that I am the wrongdoer. In my mind,I would think what rational person in the world would not be mad if you have warn someone to not mess with their property(ies). So,I was suppose to be discharged at 1:25 A.M. and I asked a worker there to see if I can just take a walk and come back,since X was not going to pick me up until 3 or 4 in the afternoon. The worker denied my request and I was just put on a volunteer request status. Later that morning,like 8 or 9,I asked Kari (a mental health worker) to see if I can go to the gym nearby,since I have a membership there and the day before I asked Gloria (another worker,there) if it was alright. She told me that it was alright. Well,I asked Kari if I can leave and come back,but I forgot to tell that Gloria said it was fine. (The day that I asked Kari,Glori
Later that morning,like 8 or 9,I asked Kari (a mental health worker) to see if I can go to the gym nearby,since I have a membership there and the day before I asked Gloria (another worker,there) if it was alright. She told me that it was alright. Well,I asked Kari if I can leave and come back,but I forgot to tell that Gloria said it was fine. (The day that I asked Kari,Gloria was not at work,today!) As a result of my question,Kari told me along the lines that it wa too late to get a 20 minutes pass. The only thing that the psychatrist think that I might need is a mood stabilizer medication. The thing is that I would have taken if I snapped at H without warning her in the past multiple times not to mess with myself. I know that I cannot get mad at H at every time that she make me mad,since I would be too tired. Well,since the doctor did not order me to take the medication,I did not take anything.

So,can I sue the Hennepin County Medical Center for endangering me with a sexual harasse
So,can I sue the Hennepin County Medical Center for endangering me with a sexual harasser,since it took them after a good old five or more times of harassing this female in order to them to call the police? Can I sue them for not letting me go after I was officially discharged at 1:25 A.M. and they had no reason to let me stay there besides waiting until someone to pick me up,not to mention that I was lied to about being able to go to the gym?

I had written down some of the patients’ phone numbers if I ever need them to testify on my behalf on my mental well-being!
To be honest,I wish that I was someone else,so X & H can physically abused me in order to teach me a lesson in the past. They do not get in trouble. I let X off with pulling a knife on me. Not to mention,when I was little,I was raped in the anus (I am a male),the time that I remembered about it. X & H tell me to try to forget about it,since the guy moved out of state. Eventually,H saw his sister that happen to be in Minnesota told her that the guy died. In the end,have X & H telling me to try to forget about being raped,but do not tell me to try to deal with it. All of this happened to me and I get punished. Yeah,that is life for ya!

Ok I have a 12 year old girl, and My wife (her step mother) and I had found out last minute that we were to go to a function. my dad and Alchie said he would watch her. when we came back 4 hrs later he was TRASHED he could not see straight and he did not know where he was/what he was doing

Much to my disappointment and my wife’s Shock

I have not said anything to him, he stayed the night because he could not drive. Or make it down the 3 flights of steers and left this am about 9 ish back to his mothers house…

He does not admit he has a prob or that he needs help.

I have already cut all unsupervised access to my daughter by my dad, He is removed from the authorized pickup list at my daughters school, He has 1 OUI/DWI . Probably not necessary but at this point I’m securing her as much as i can..

I grew up in a dysfunctional home. I Survived an Abusive childhood and will Never subject my daughter to what I went through , By 10th grade I had been to more AA meets than
most recovering alcoholics have been to in 3 years, I had to make sure he went. 3 nights a weekend 2 on Sat and 2 on Sunday… (I never went with the “Cool kids” to drink because I knew the road they were heading down and i didn’t want that ride… )
I’ve read the “Big Blue Book” 3 times and can recite any of the hit rock bottom stories..

To put it mildly I don’t drink.

I need to protect my daughter from the affects of alcoholism. She has already had a rough life. He mother broke it off with me and marred/divorced a deadbeat and my daughter was being taken for the emotional ride.

What do i do..

Other than know the i cant do anything does not help. the Serenity prayer just doesn’t work for me

I’m 17 years old and a high school student. My mom and dad are both divorced and me and my sister live with my dad. My mom lives about 30 minutes away from us and we go and visit her pretty often, since she’s always alone and we just like seeing her. But she has a serious alcohol problem, and sometimes she’ll get seriously drunk and stay like that for a week or so and then get normal again, and shed do her best to deny ever drinking. I NEVER want to see her while she’s like that, but it happens all the time, shes been doing this for many years, which led to the eventual divorce in the first place. I’m just sick and tired of looking forward to doing something with her, and then the next day she gets all bad again. She wants us to see her as much as possible each week, but I’m starting to think its somehow affecting her problem. What should I do about this?

this involves a drug addict mother who was in jail and a unethical lawyer who she hired to defend her. I am the father and need to know if what they have done is legal. The notary never went to the jail or was in the physical presents of the mother when the response to custody issue was notarized.thanks to the people who answer please help bring a kidnapped child home safe.HOEY

Mom is very addicted to crack. What can I do in this personal issue? I am a resident of Durant, Iowa. Are there any government or charitable or professional group would help me take the right steps?

Ever since I separated from her adopted son about 5 years ago, who was addicted to drugs and very abusive, and now going to prison for three years for other offenses he committed couple of months ago, she (grandma) never calls or even notice our kids 8 and 6 years of age. I now married this very nice guy about 3 years ago and he’s been an excellent father for my kids. After I married I remember speaking to my her (grandma) about 3 or 4 times and her concern was for me to remove my children last name (which is the grandpa and fathers last name last name) and to change it to my new husband last name and I didn’t understand why, but her theory was that their real father is never going to be there for them. I really didn’t seem interested in doing that, so I never did. So like five months ago, I send her pictures and drawings of her grandchildren and she turned around and send them to her son (the kids father) who has never cared for his children emotionally or financially, and that has been in and out of rehabilitation, when they were actually address to her. Well I felt hurt when my ex told me that he had the pictures because I really wanted her to part of the kids’ life or at least to respond back to them. But she never did. So anyway my son and my daughter had many unanswered question this past week about who she (grandma) was like “who is she?” “She’s our grandma, then why doesn’t she call us or visit us?” So I said to them that were something that she had to answer herself. So I couple of days later they keep insisting so I finally called her and I let her know that the children had many questions for her but she really didn’t really seem interested at all she kept saying ” let’s don’t get them confused” she said that many times. I don’t know what she meant. So anyway my son was so anxious to talk to her and I passed the phone on to him and she basically cut him off because he passed back to me, they didn’t even last 15 seconds. I need somebody to help understand what she means because I’m so confused because her being a psychologist for children and her husband being a physiatrist why would they act that way? What does it mean that she doesn’t want to get the kids confused, in what way? Sometimes I wonder if they think that way because they are from a higher social class I mean my education is not that bad I’m getting my associates in criminal justice and thinking of transferring to the California University. I don’t want to think this way but I wonder if it’s because I’m Mexican and they are white? I don’t know if their prejudice?

Ever since I separated from her adopted son about 5 years ago, who was addicted to drugs and very abusive, and now going to prison for three years for other offenses he committed couple of months ago, she (grandma) never calls or even notice our kids 8 and 6 years of age. I now married this very nice guy about 3 years ago and he’s been an excellent father for my kids. After I married I remember speaking to my her (grandma) about 3 or 4 times and her concern was for me to remove my children last name (which is the grandpa and fathers last name last name) and to change it to my new husband last name and I didn’t understand why, but her theory was that their real father is never going to be there for them. I really didn’t seem interested in doing that, so I never did. So like five months ago, I send her pictures and drawings of her grandchildren and she turned around and send them to her son (the kids father) who has never cared for his children emotionally or financially, and that has been in and out of rehabilitation, when they were actually address to her. Well I felt hurt when my ex told me that he had the pictures because I really wanted her to part of the kids’ life or at least to respond back to them. But she never did. So anyway my son and my daughter had many unanswered question this past week about who she (grandma) was like “who is she?” “She’s our grandma, then why doesn’t she call us or visit us?” So I said to them that were something that she had to answer herself. So I couple of days later they keep insisting so I finally called her and I let her know that the children had many questions for her but she really didn’t really seem interested at all she kept saying ” let’s don’t get them confused” she said that many times. I don’t know what she meant. So anyway my son was so anxious to talk to her and I passed the phone on to him and she basically cut him off because he passed back to me, they didn’t even last 15 seconds. I need somebody to help understand what she means because I’m so confused because her being a psychologist for children and her husband being a physiatrist why would they act that way? What does it mean that she doesn’t want to get the kids confused, in what way? Sometimes I wonder if they think that way because they are from a higher social class I mean my education is not that bad I’m getting my associates in criminal justice and thinking of transferring to the California University. I don’t want to think this way but I wonder if it’s because I’m Mexican and they are white? I don’t know if their prejudice?

Ever since I separated from her adopted son about 5 years ago, who was addicted to drugs and very abusive, and now going to prison for three years for other offenses he committed couple of months ago, she (grandma) never calls or even notice our kids 8 and 6 years of age. I now married this very nice guy about 3 years ago and he’s been an excellent father for my kids. After I married I remember speaking to my her (grandma) about 3 or 4 times and her concern was for me to remove my children last name (which is the grandpa and fathers last name last name) and to change it to my new husband last name and I didn’t understand why, but her theory was that their real father is never going to be there for them. I really didn’t seem interested in doing that, so I never did. So like five months ago, I send her pictures and drawings of her grandchildren and she turned around and send them to her son (the kids father) who has never cared for his children emotionally or financially, and that has been in and out of rehabilitation, when they were actually address to her. Well I felt hurt when my ex told me that he had the pictures because I really wanted her to part of the kids’ life or at least to respond back to them. But she never did. So anyway my son and my daughter had many unanswered question this past week about who she (grandma) was like “who is she?” “She’s our grandma, then why doesn’t she call us or visit us?” So I said to them that were something that she had to answer herself. So I couple of days later they keep insisting so I finally called her and I let her know that the children had many questions for her but she really didn’t really seem interested at all she kept saying ” let’s don’t get them confused” she said that many times. I don’t know what she meant. So anyway my son was so anxious to talk to her and I passed the phone on to him and she basically cut him off because he passed back to me, they didn’t even last 15 seconds. I need somebody to help understand what she means because I’m so confused because her being a psychologist for children and her husband being a physiatrist why would they act that way? What does it mean that she doesn’t want to get the kids confused, in what way? Sometimes I wonder if they think that way because they are from a higher social class I mean my education is not that bad I’m getting my associates in criminal justice and thinking of transferring to the California University. I don’t want to think this way but I wonder if it’s because I’m Mexican and they are white? I don’t know if their prejudice?

ok so im having some major problems with my mom. i went and spent my summer with her in arizona well im a drug addict i was clean for 3 years and i started using again when i was there. (im only 17) he husband was giving me pain killers i got into a car accident with her husband cuz he was driving under the influence. and alot of other bad things happened when i was there. me and my mom have always had a ok relationship but we have never really got along that great. well i pretty much wanna write my mom off she dosent do anything but make my life a living hell. i just wanna break from her but whats the best way to tell her i just need time away from her and not to have nothing to do with her. i love my mom but shes never been there for me really when i was in rehab she never called to check on me or anything. my cousin and my aunt are pretty much my mother figures in my life right now. i live with my dad and my grandparents but my cousin is like my mother more.

i just dont know what to do.

any advice?
after all these years i highly dount my mom will change. i mean she didnt even invite me to her wedding