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My mom left my brother, my dad and me a month back to go live by “herself” but she met someone about 2 days later. She agreed to pay the mortgage on the house every month, and my father found out her bf is a major drug addict, marijuana. Now me father believes the next step my mom will take is not pay the mortgage to support her new family, so we decided we wanted to sell the house, will my mother receive any of that by law? We live in NY State.

The 50% owner has lived at the house with his mother (recently deceased) for over 25 years; now the 35% owner wants to have access to the house as well. Can he keep her out? She’s a drug addict and prostitute and puts the property at risk of being confiscated by the police. Thank you.

i lived with my mother for fourteen years before I married and always paid half of everything. We bought a TV together and I drew portraits and other artwork that I gave to her. My sister has been living there for two years, no job, drug and alcohol addict, mooching off of my mom. My mom was disabled and drew SS check; no other money coming in. My sister and her girlfriend are on the verge of being arrested for forging and cashing one of my mom’s checks while my mom lay dying in ICU. My other sister and I are not greedy; we do not want to take everything. We just want a few things. Can my sister prevent us from doing this or try to have us arrested?
I live in Georga USA.
No one was executor of estate. My name is on her checking account, that’s it.

My brother is 25 years old and he drinks everyday beer, when he gets drunk he becomes verbally abusive, he has got into violent arguments with me, he also tells my little brothers bad things, he also plays his music very loud and smokes pot, my mom won’t kick him out of the house,me and my mom and my little brothers are scared of him, we cannot help him with his alcoholism only he can, I’m living at my mom and step dad’s house I’m a single mother of a 2 year old and pregnant, that is why I cannot get my own place, I won’t get hired nowhere at this period of time, how can we deal with this family member?

My mother complains that the electric has gone up nearly $100 bucs this month. I am always at work, on the other hand my father is ADDICTED to the computer. He is on LITERALLY for hours upon hours. I would say MOST of the entire day until evening. (they are both retired). I also need a website if anyone knows of one that will show PROOF to my mother that it IS HER husband who is causing the increase in the bill. Pls Help!

He’s been in and out of jail numerous times, has been addicted to various drugs (although him and my sister say that they are off them now ) and his parents don’t like him at their house, because they do not get along. I’m 16 years old, my sister is 20 and her boyfriend is 23. He is not aloud to be here and when he is here, he in extremely rude. My mother works a lot just to support my sister and i, yet he comes here at about 9 in the morning and leaves at about 10 at night. she has to buy them cigarettes, food , etc. She doesn’t want my sister to leave and move out (because my sister keeps saying that they do not do drugs anymore, so she doesn’t want her to leave again). They both say they have anxiety problems and get a presription for Valium. My sister is supposed to take 3 a day, but went through about 150 in about 20 days. So she is over using that, and she always gets extremely mood-y when she is on it. If my mom says ” so what are you guys doing tonight” she gets VERY mad and will cry and say that she is just trying to get them to leave. It’s INSANE, I’m 16 years old!! I don’t want to be surrounded by this! My mom keeps letting it go on and I have had problems with anxiety and depression, from all this. My mom will sit down with me and she cries and yells saying that she is making a rule that he can not be here (especially because it’s illegal for him to be here) and the next second he comes over and it’s like it never happened. When that happens and I say something to her about him being here, she goes off at ME for trying to “start stuff” (and by “going off” i mean HUGE fight). If i tell my mom i’m going to talk to the police (because i’ve even heard them talk about selling drugs a few times and its illegal for him to be here) she says if I do that she’s kicking me out of the house. I really just don’t know what to do. I HATE living here with someone who is involved with stuff like that. I just wish he would go away and we could all just live normally. But my sister loves him too much (even though he gets very abusive at times and he is not aloud to drink for that reason) and won’t leave him. What should I do?!

I’m a teenager and I want to have a party in like a month and I really want there to be alcohol. My mom said it was ok if I had one. I just don’t think they know what kind of party I want to have. So what are some good possible ways I can have/serve alcohol at my party?

Also, I want it to be poppin, so should I turn the lights off, keep them on, or what should I do with the lighting?

I told her we were going to his grandma’s (which we were at the time) and that we were doing that because his other friend, Joe was having a really ridiculous party and my friend was going we didn’t want to be around drugs or alcohol. (LOL) so she was totally cool with that.
Now, he changed his mind and wants to go to Joe’s so what do I do? =/ please help :(

My friend has been bulimic since she was 12. But now she is binging so much now like about 30 times a day and now she starts doing it when she goes to my house after we eat something. I really don’t want someone throwing up in my bathroom about 10 times and I don’t want to tell my mom because she won’t ever let her back in. Everytime her family and I tell her she needs help she just starts to throw things and throws a fit. But I just don’t want her to binge at my own house. I find that a little disgusting. She has never done this before but she has been binging at my house for the past 4 months and I am starting to get to my breaking point. Is there someway I can tell her to not binge at my house anymore that won’t make her so upset? She doesn’t like it when I or anyone talks about her being bulimic.

My mother is a gambling addict. Here house was completely paid off until last fall when she took out a 30K mortgage. She blew the entire amount on slot machines. I took over her checking account and thought those were safe until she went to the bank last week and clean it out (1200.00). I had been paying the mortgage with her Social Security check and that is even a bit ahead.

My sister and I worry she’ll go a get a second mortgage on the house behind our backs and are entertaining the idea of putting ourselves on the deed to prevent her from doing this. Mom would mostly likely support this.

I know we should (and will) talk with a real estate attorney, but does anyone have any advice? Have you done something similar?

Im now 15 years old. I wasn’t involved in my moms life for about 13 years. When me and my siblings were younger she walked out on us. I believe people change and so when I turned about 13, I wanted to be involved with my mom and see if she had changed. I started talking to her over the phone for a little bit but then it got to the point where I wanted to see her. My dad and my step mom thought i was taking it fast. I was 14 when I started seeing her. I would see her as much as often. The more I saw her, the more i got to see. I got to see my cousins, the newborns, my aunts and uncles and grandparents. That was all great. But some things I didnt want to see. I saw that my little sister was spoiled and that the middle child (my younger brother) had to do a lot of stuff and got yelled at for the smallest things. I figured it was a stage for the kid. After a year, I wanted to live with my mom. My dad didnt take that well and we got into the biggest fights ever between us. Of course after that I really wanted to move. And he did what any father should want to do and made is daughter happy. My dad warned me and told me it wouldn’t be the same as when I visited her. And he was right. I Stayed over there and the house was a mess. Couldnt walk on one part of carpet. I was constantly cleaning and trying to settle things out. I felt like the two grown people and the two kids were my children. We didnt live in a house, it was an appartment. Then, I saw the parents always faught…..faught to the point where the neighbors were banging on the walls. I got tired of everything and realized I was always hidding in my room and I kinda felt old. It didnt help that 3 months later my mom said were moving 1 mile away from where we lives. I hate moving so that stressed me out. But the new house looked clean and new. I thought, maybe this is kinda like a new start. I was completely wrong. Her husband drank alot. You could call him an alcoholic. My mom is now working 2 jobs and trying to take care of 3 kids. I soon found out he was hitting her and she had bruises all over. After a visit from the cops, a restraning order was put over his head. They said they were getting a divorce. Until about 5 days before the oder expired, she told me he was coming home. I was very dissapointed and mad. I told her i was moving back with my dad. But she convincced me other wise. After he moved back he promised things would be different…They werent. They still argue and yell every night. I am fed up with everything theyve got. The only thing keeping me from moving back with my dad is my baby sister and my little brother. I am concerned about there health and how they will take things. So I need help, should I move out? I’m not sure what to do.

he came home after his 3 day binge. After i told him 2 days ago i wouldnt tolerate his binges anymore. MY mom let him in at 2 am !!! I have to go right now and he cant stay here. He is about to sleep for 3 days straight since hes been up for days already. I HAVE TO TAKE THE COMFORT OUT OF HES DRUG USE. how do i WAKE him and tell him to go somewhere else. THis is really hard and i know he has nowhere to go. What to do? or how do i start???? i have to keep my word… its been to long of this abuse on the family :”C
actually, its my house. My mom came to stay w me to help me around since i just had surgery on my right collarbone. Point is he was living here because he got kicked out of mmy moms house 3 weeks ago. She is weak and scared and always gives in. That is why he never learns. i got so mad when she let him in because WE HAD ALREADY DISCUSSED THIS SCENERIO!!!!!!!

My mom is thinking about leaving my alcoholic dad. There’s no physical abuse. He half-owns the house, but my mom’s getting tired of his bullsh*t. So am I. How can she legally kick him out for good. We can survive without him. Can we legally throw his crap in the driveway and change the locks if his name is on the house without? We live in California.

something is going on with my friends mom she is not sleeping and keeps walking around the house singing and says she is just praying. and she is paranoid thinking that people are out to kill her. she never done drugs or alcohol in her life for a fact. i dont know what this is, please let me know what i should tell my friend to do for his mom. greatly appreciated

I moved out when i was 17yrs old with my ex-boyfriend I got into drugs and at 20yrs old i ended up in rehab. My ex boyfriend got deported to honduras for selling drugs. The only reason I left my house is because my mother and I used to fight about my ex. Well he is out the picture now. I am now married to a wonderful hardworking man, My mother is going through finanical problems and wants us to move in to help her pay half the rent. I would benefit because I am having a new baby and it would really help me out a lot. I am just scared about arguing with her or my little sister she is 12 and argues with my kids non stop. I want to help my mom cuz she always been there for me, But i am scared of problems arguing. What should I do??

im 13 years old and i had to move out of my mom’s place because her drug addiction and alcohol addiction got out of hand. Her boyfriend is also an alcoholic, and well, basically, the guy’s an idiot. He called me and started yelling at me for forgetting to say good bye to his family at his dinner party. I know I should’ve said good bye, but i just wanted to get out of there because i felt weird since i didnt know anyone and because my mom was drunk. he also said that i didnt help with the dishes, WHICH ISNT true and he said a bunch of other lies. he called me mean, a spoiled princess, and that he didnt like me. he then told my dad that he was going to get 4 guys to beat him up and then hes started cussing him out. at that point, i knew i had to leave. so i packed my things and told my mom i wasnt coming back until she got better. which i know will take years. my mom had to go to the ER room because she took to much drugs. My moms boyfriend got drunk and prank called my dad, which caused the police to come to their house because he said something that scared my dad. they found my mom passed out in the laundry room drunk. i just really need some help :( i miss my house, my pets, and i even kinda miss my mom. now, i live with my aunt and my dad and my cousin. im not really used to this place, so are there any tips to help me get more comfortable here? I AM SO STRESSED OUT. whose been through something similar to this?

Growing up was really hard hes had a drinking problem ever since i could remember. Lately hes switched from drinking beer to liquor and he drinks until he blacks out. Ive distanced myself from him as much as possible because you cant get through to him he gets mad calls me names. Ive in a sence given up because theres no getting through to him. Hes in denial about his addiction allllll the way. I dont understand alcoholism….Tonight my mother went to my fathers house to pick up my lil brother because they were arguing. and next thing i know my moms calling me telling me hes shooting a damn gun in the house……i dont know what to do or what i should do…..the cops are over there as far as i know right now, but is there anything to do to help him???

I just need advise on how to deal with her. She is constantly blaming everyone for everything (even things that happend 10+ years ago. She is going to rehab a second time but i cant wait that long. I constantly explode and have to see a shrink/ take medicine. She has also spent all my dad’s money but anywho theres more issues i can list. I have also developed an extreme irratibilaty to any repetative noise. Someone please tell me how to deal with this!