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Like fools, my husband and I were convinced by my mother who was recently divorced and had no where to go that we should sale our small home and buy a new big home that would accomodate her moving in with us. We didn’t really want to as, the house we had was small, but very affordable, but she’s my mom and I felt bad for her.So She gave us $20k and we bought a bigger home. Now, 6 months later it is not working out to say the least, our one condition of her living with us was that her ex-husband who is a drug addict & a criminal was never allowed to be in my home. She told me he moved to the east coast & he was gone.I was suspicious cuz things in my home appered to be tampered with.I installed surveillance cameras & caught him in my home.Now I am having her evicted but she is syaing she owns 1/3 of this house.I am giving her $20K back no problem, but she really thinks she owns a 1/3.Her name is on nothing and we have no contracts or writen agreements.Does she have a case?

my life at home sucks.

1.father is verbally abusive
2.mother is addicted to gambling
3.younger brother is verbally abusive
4.no love
5.father has hit me a couple of times, leaving rednes and bruises
6.I have evidence that mother is cheating on father
7.live in a 1 room apartment with no breathable space.

My question is are these ^^^ valid reasons to run away? I’m gonna run anyway, but I want to know if these reasons are valid (if I get caught , what will I tell the police?)

her mother constantly bugs about me telling her that I’m not right for her. she insist that she should patch things up with her baby’s father but he is a drug addict who is currently serving time in jail. she tells me she want not to do with the loser. I need avdvice she is twenty-three and I’m 38

So I’ve been having a problem with my husband driving home when he’s had too much to drink. He probably goes to the bar 2 or 3 times a week..which is fine with me because he goes for pool league and I gives me a quiet house to study in.
Last thrusday he came home and it was obvious that he should’ve have driven. I was so mad and so disappointed in him. This is not the first time, or the second or third time that this has happend…I wish I had some sort of consequence for his actions…the only thing I can do is tell him that he’ll be in jail, that he’s going to hurt someone, that he’s going to have huge fines for when he gets caught again (he got a DUI about 2 years ago). I always tell him that I’ll give him a ride, one of his friends even offered him a ride last thrusday and he turned it down! This seems to happen every couple months..and he always says that he’s going to try harder to be good..but then it happens again.
He will tell me “I know I’m in the wrong.” And by him saying that he thinks that makes it ok just because he KNOWS it was wrong.
I don’t know how to get it through his brain!!

Help!

My wife and I bid on an older home (blt 1958) seller came down $8000.00 ( which is $10,000.00 more than homes in area sold for ) after getting an inspector we found quite a few items wrong ,including foundation /pluming .Seller says work was done just can’t find paperwork (mother & father passed away) my question is do we go ahead but ask seller to come down = to repair cost or walk away . We like the house but we don’t want a money pit .all bathrooms leak ,cracks in walls ,doors hard to shut ,plus seller says roof was replaced 2 years ago but no proof /no smoke detect /no co2 detect ,I feel alot of little things add up quick.,my wife feels we could fix it up .
sorry …have a realtor ,inspector ,and have been pre-approved

He’s been in and out of jail numerous times, has been addicted to various drugs (although him and my sister say that they are off them now ) and his parents don’t like him at their house, because they do not get along. I’m 16 years old, my sister is 20 and her boyfriend is 23. He is not aloud to be here and when he is here, he in extremely rude. My mother works a lot just to support my sister and i, yet he comes here at about 9 in the morning and leaves at about 10 at night. she has to buy them cigarettes, food , etc. She doesn’t want my sister to leave and move out (because my sister keeps saying that they do not do drugs anymore, so she doesn’t want her to leave again). They both say they have anxiety problems and get a presription for Valium. My sister is supposed to take 3 a day, but went through about 150 in about 20 days. So she is over using that, and she always gets extremely mood-y when she is on it. If my mom says ” so what are you guys doing tonight” she gets VERY mad and will cry and say that she is just trying to get them to leave. It’s INSANE, I’m 16 years old!! I don’t want to be surrounded by this! My mom keeps letting it go on and I have had problems with anxiety and depression, from all this. My mom will sit down with me and she cries and yells saying that she is making a rule that he can not be here (especially because it’s illegal for him to be here) and the next second he comes over and it’s like it never happened. When that happens and I say something to her about him being here, she goes off at ME for trying to “start stuff” (and by “going off” i mean HUGE fight). If i tell my mom i’m going to talk to the police (because i’ve even heard them talk about selling drugs a few times and its illegal for him to be here) she says if I do that she’s kicking me out of the house. I really just don’t know what to do. I HATE living here with someone who is involved with stuff like that. I just wish he would go away and we could all just live normally. But my sister loves him too much (even though he gets very abusive at times and he is not aloud to drink for that reason) and won’t leave him. What should I do?!

if u no your mother has issues bipolar or sckizofranic issues and sh drinks alot. how can you and when can you actually send them 2 get help or anything like that. i really need 2 send my mother 2 get mental help.what should i do

She has had two previous duis told officers that she did not drink until she got home which is not true. Refused to take any tests for alcohol level told them when they came out thirty minutes after wreck that she went home and drank and that she was drunk. They arrested her for dui and hit and run. Will this stick?

I have been a huge fan of Home and Away forever, usually the story lines are good, with some substance and reality. Lately some of the plots have become predictable and some stupid. Colleen suddenly finding out she is Alf and Morags half sister was a bit lame. Also why is it that certain characters are introduced to the show, and move in, only a few weeks later to move out of the Bay (ie: Brads little rebellious sister and gambling addict mother) ?????

Like fools, my husband and I were convinced by my mother who was recently divorced and had no where to go that we should sale our small home and buy a new big home that would accomodate her moving in with us. We didn’t really want to as, the house we had was small, but very affordable, but she’s my mom and I felt bad for her.So She gave us $20k and we bought a bigger home. Now, 6 months later it is not working out to say the least, our one condition of her living with us was that her ex-husband who is a drug addict & a criminal was never allowed to be in my home. She told me he moved to the east coast & he was gone.I was suspicious cuz things in my home appered to be tampered with.I installed surveillance cameras & caught him in my home.Now I am having her evicted but she is syaing she owns 1/3 of this house.I am giving her $20K back no problem, but she really thinks she owns a 1/3.Her name is on nothing and we have no contracts or writen agreements.Does she have a case?

About 20 minutes ago for me.

Then she read me and my brother a poem she wrote for her graduation ceremony tomorrow (shes a nurse now!)

She’s a very talented poet. Even when she’s slobbering drunk.

My Mom came and got me out of the rehab. I was being counseled for PTSD and D.I.D. but my Mom said ” it just makes me more depressed ” being there. One good thing that happened was Im not suicidal anymore and I gave up all my drug stash.What can I do for me to make me feel happy ? I thought of smoking pot to make myself happy or whatever but thats not my most serious option. Im going to be outpatient now. I think that I just have to pray and ask God to get me through. Also, if that nasty dude comes along and insults me for asking this question again I ask him to please leave his phone number so i can call him and tell him how his mean words hurt me be4. Can anybody pray for me for the next few days ?

Here’s the deal. My mom’s in a nursing/ rehab and her husband is having an affair. He is a alcoholic and abusive POS. The truck is in HER name, his is not on it. She is wanting to give the truck to me. Should we just fill out a bill-of-sale???

Here’s the deal. My mom’s in a nursing/ rehab and her husband is having an affair. He is a alcoholic and abusive POS. The truck is in HER name, his is not on it. She is wanting to give the truck to me. Should we just fill out a bill-of-sale???

I babysit for a 3 year old full time and his 5 year old brother part time after school. Their dad is pretty much a single dad, as the kid’s mom is going to jail soon and is an alcoholic. When I first offered to be his babysitter, he said he was going to pay me, and he occasionally does, but not much. On average, I have the 3 year old 11 hours a day and the 5 year old 2 hours a day and then both of them for about 11 hours on saturdays. It’s been 3 weeks since I started and he’s only given me about $200. He keeps saying that he owes me money for last week or that he hasn’t made it to the bank yet, but then I don’t get paid. He’s a really nice guy and I feel sorry for him for all the crap he’s going thru with the kid’s mom and trying to raise them (he’s a really good dad!) and I wouldn’t mind so much if we didn’t need the money. I feel bad asking for money when I know he’s having tough times both emotionally and financially. Any advice? Thanks!

I babysit for a 3 year old full time and his 5 year old brother part time after school. Their dad is pretty much a single dad, as the kid’s mom is going to jail soon and is an alcoholic. When I first offered to be his babysitter, he said he was going to pay me, and he occasionally does, but not much. On average, I have the 3 year old 11 hours a day and the 5 year old 2 hours a day and then both of them for about 11 hours on saturdays. It’s been 3 weeks since I started and he’s only given me about $200. He keeps saying that he owes me money for last week or that he hasn’t made it to the bank yet, but then I don’t get paid. He’s a really nice guy and I feel sorry for him for all the crap he’s going thru with the kid’s mom and trying to raise them (he’s a really good dad!) and I wouldn’t mind so much if we didn’t need the money. I feel bad asking for money when I know he’s having tough times both emotionally and financially. Any advice? Thanks!

I’m monitoring my mother while she detoxes alcohol from her system. She is an alcoholic who drinks toxic amounts. I flew in last night. It’s 9:15 am here. Her last drink must have been sometime shortly before 8pm last night. She is very hypersensitive to sound right now and has what seems like repeated panic attacks. I’m 18, all alone, and I don’t know what to do for her.

and the natives didn’t know how to drive, so she came home one night with alot of bacon for breakfast the following morning, but it wasn’t really bacon?

yes i know… i’m bored

Child Protection Svs. knows, by my 16 yr old’s own admission that the complaint they were investigating had no merit, but came back again, and then a **3rd time** and accused me of “emotional abuse” because I drink alcohol. My daughter doesn’t want me to drink (I am NOT an abusive person, drinking or not, and a member of AA since 1988), because she doesn’t think it’s “fair” that she entered rehab for drug problems and I still drink. That’s a short version of the story that still continues. Bottom line is that I was forced out of *my* home and threatened with repurcussions if I didn’t enter rehab. I’m currently not allowed to be in my house when my daughter is there, though I’ve never been given any documentation that says so. (Her mother lives there too but we were never married and split up years ago. I invited them to stay with me so that my kid could have some stability, a sense of family, and that’s another story.) Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.