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He lost his cusines to foster care , his drug addict mom came back into his life and then in feburary of 07 his dad (who is biologicaly his grandfather) died. I know he is not a bad kid. The life he has had would be hard for an adult to cope with . he is doing what he feels he has to to survive. I need to know how to help him .there is alot more to his story i could right a novel . but any suggestions would help and please dont condem him . thats part of the reason he is where he is now .
he was not born to be bad
my parents adopted him from my sister they have had him since birth his real dad wants nothing to do with him

Ok, i just found a type of skin cancer on my nephew. for one, he has jet black hair and dark skin (mexican decent). he just turned 2 this past 3rd of September. i was in the middle of bathing him when i went to wash his hair i felt a little bump. first i thought it was dry skin from craddle cap, then i lifted up his hair and their it was. a pink little lump. oh my goodness. i couldn’t believe what i was seeing. get this right next to it another one seems to be growing. WHY IS THIS HAPPENING. what could have caused it. could it be from his mother who is a drug addict or her feeding him nothing but milk. poor baby he’s been through so much, now this. i plan on taking him to emergency in the morning. HIS MOTHER WON’T GIVE MY BROTHER MY NEPHEW’S INFO SO THAT WE CAN GET HIM MEDICAL INSURANCE, GEE HE JUST TURNED TWO AND HE NEEDS HIS IMMUNIZATION SHOTS, WHICH I DON’T BELIEVE SHE’S KEPT UPTO DATE ON THAT.
WHAT CAN I DO??
HOW CAN I GET FULL CUSTODY OF MY NEPHEW? AND GET HIM THE CARE HE NEEDS?

Ok I hate my aunt!!! I hate her to death!!! She is a loud mouth, obnoxious, disrespectful, crack smoking prostitute ( and I’m not just saying that cause i’m mad it’s the GOD honest truth)! I want her to just go away just vanish. I never really got along with my aunt. I kinda did when I was a child, but I guess she changed as I got older. She smokes crack as far back as I can remember. She’s a prostitute, but not a typical prostitute on the corner, she sleeps with married men people who she knows husbands even family members and they give her money. She only charges them 10-20 dollars, when she gets the money she goes and buy her crack with it. She’s been doing this FOREVER as long as I can remember. She doesn’t really work she works for this man who has a little cleaning company and he’s pays her hardly nothing when she gets the money she goes buy crack with that. She lives in a Free home that was left to her my mother and the rest of their siblings when my grandparents died. The only person stays there is her and another one of my aunts. The only thing she has to pay is half on the utilities she can’t even do that, and they stay arguing all the time about that. She comes to our home everyday her voice is SO loud and she has a very obnoxious attitude. She comes here everyday to use the phone to call her drug dealers and call her “clients” she has sex with. We live so close to each other so it’s really hard to get away from her. THE ONLY and I mean THE ONLY reason I still live with my parents at my age is because is suffer from depression and anxiety since the age of 9. I know this is my mother’s sister but It’s not right that she’s allowed to come here when my mother knows how her sister is. She gets under their skin too. I think she intimates them. I have got to do something. I don’t know what to do.

How should I handle this situation? Can the law do something??? Please give me some ideas if you can, because I can’t take this????

THIS SITUATION IS WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY WORSE THEN HOW I’M EXPALINING IT I’M JUST TRYING TO MAKE IT SHORT!!!

Thanks for the feed back!

BACKGROUND: My S.O. and I have been together for 3 years. He has a son that is almost 8 y/o. When my S.O. was with his (second) ex-wife, she ran over and killed a man while drunk driving and under the influence of drugs. She truly got away with murder by spending 30 days in jail and 10 years of probation along with drug/alcohol treatment. She was later put back in jail for another DWI and possession of drugs. During this time she was playing the role of Mommy to my S.O.’s son. He was 3-6 years old. She had told Anthony (the son) that police are mean. She told him they hit her and only fed her bread while she was in jail for “speeding”. Not sure how much he truly comprehended of that but he now fully believes police are mean and does repeat what she had told him about being hit and not being fed. The birth mother is not in the picture and we don’t know where she is. He hasn’t seen her since he was taken away from her at one year of age. I didn’t know any of these people until later.
PROBLEM: We have caught this child stealing three times. Yesterday he stole a pack of gum while at the airport. We were in a shop buying HIM a snack. The cashier and I didn’t even see the kid take the gum and he was standing on the side of me. I noticed it hours later when the gum slid out of his pocket. He is also a firebug. He tried catching the stairs on fire while everyone was sleeping during the night.
I am seriously thinking of backing out of this mess. I have NO experience with any of this stuff!
QUESTION: Does his father take him to the local police and have the sh*t scared out of him about breaking laws and going to jail? We are paranoid that what he was told in the past will be confirmed in the childs mind about police being mean rather than here to protect the innocent. At the same time, something needs to be done with this child. He is headed down a very dark road if he doesn’t change.
ADVICE??????????
BTW- this child shows no sign of anger. We have brought him to physicians, school counselor and two professionals and they just say he isn’t ADD or ADHD, he “chooses his actions” and needs to learn right from wrong. Because of his age, they say there isn’t a program available for him. We live in Florida.