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My mom left my brother, my dad and me a month back to go live by “herself” but she met someone about 2 days later. She agreed to pay the mortgage on the house every month, and my father found out her bf is a major drug addict, marijuana. Now me father believes the next step my mom will take is not pay the mortgage to support her new family, so we decided we wanted to sell the house, will my mother receive any of that by law? We live in NY State.

Like fools, my husband and I were convinced by my mother who was recently divorced and had no where to go that we should sale our small home and buy a new big home that would accomodate her moving in with us. We didn’t really want to as, the house we had was small, but very affordable, but she’s my mom and I felt bad for her.So She gave us $20k and we bought a bigger home. Now, 6 months later it is not working out to say the least, our one condition of her living with us was that her ex-husband who is a drug addict & a criminal was never allowed to be in my home. She told me he moved to the east coast & he was gone.I was suspicious cuz things in my home appered to be tampered with.I installed surveillance cameras & caught him in my home.Now I am having her evicted but she is syaing she owns 1/3 of this house.I am giving her $20K back no problem, but she really thinks she owns a 1/3.Her name is on nothing and we have no contracts or writen agreements.Does she have a case?

alcoholism has trapped his mind body and soul
for year/ this disease effected his life to the
point he couldn’t go a day with out liquor or beer/
he lost his job his family and his wife/
he lost his friends his self respect and his life/
he living all alone inside of his car/drinking
has been the only thing left that he had so far/
its this guy used to be the the man he had
every thing/he was living the American dream
a life fit just for a king/but as time went
by things slowly stared to fall apart/
his mother warned his about this
from the start/liquor was like
rent it was always billing him/
but he had no idea that liquor
was killing him/fast forward
to that tragic mourning were
he would die/he was dressed
to go some were wearing a
suit and a tie/he was driving
and then he stared drinking/
driving out of control what
was he thinking/speeding
on the high way and then
it happen his car flipped
over and crashed/ the
impacted from the
accident killed him in a flash/
if only he gotten a chance
to quit alcohol to stay out/
but it to late now its just
another sad story about
a man who couldn’t find
no way out/

The 50% owner has lived at the house with his mother (recently deceased) for over 25 years; now the 35% owner wants to have access to the house as well. Can he keep her out? She’s a drug addict and prostitute and puts the property at risk of being confiscated by the police. Thank you.

my life at home sucks.

1.father is verbally abusive
2.mother is addicted to gambling
3.younger brother is verbally abusive
4.no love
5.father has hit me a couple of times, leaving rednes and bruises
6.I have evidence that mother is cheating on father
7.live in a 1 room apartment with no breathable space.

My question is are these ^^^ valid reasons to run away? I’m gonna run anyway, but I want to know if these reasons are valid (if I get caught , what will I tell the police?)

she is on the run from the law and may go to jail and is drug Addict on meth wat do i need to get my twin sons from there grandfather im the bilogical father and want my sons

i have lots of pressure from my drunk mother ( but i moved out ) and i live with my boyfriend. my boyfriend stresses me out sometimes. i JUST started smoking. i am very small for my age. 5ft. and 110 pounds. i am very scared that i will get lung cancer because my lungs are probably very small also i really dont know. but i really need to stop being so stressed about stupid negative thoughts. if i only smoke a little, like a cigarette a day, or every other day, what are my chances of getting something wrong with me?

my mum drinks 1-2 full bottles of wine everyday at nightime , She is unhealthy and is overweight , i tell her that she is drinking too much and iam worried about the damage of her liver but she still dont care and has a bottle of wine later

Im worried if my mum is going to die of liver diease as i heard people who are overweight increaces their chances if they are drinking
will she likely die?

I had a serious conversation with my future mother-in-law today, I’m marrying her son in a month and a half. She was talking about how much there family has been surrounded by alcoholism. My fiance has always been a pretty big drinker ever since I met him, about 2 1/2 yrs ago. He used to go out 5 or 6 nights a week. Now he probably goes out 3 times a week not including the times he goes out for a beer or two after work. I’m not a nag and I don’t complain about it unless I found out that he decided to drive himself home after he’s been drinking.

But I would like to prevent his drinking from becoming a big problem in our future. I know you can’t just change or force someone to change so I won’t even try that route, but how can I start to deter him away from alcohol?

its because my dog just had two puppies minutes ago and their is one with weakness and it doesnt stop crying

My husband was admitted to a rehab facility for abuse of prescription medication and alcoholism and also to try to quit smoking weed because they all go together as any addict knows. He is in a very angry state right now though and the past two days when he calls he just gets very upset with me and acts pretty much like a smart a$$. To give you an example last night was ok… I told him I found out I had strep throat and I had been puking because of all the sinus drainage im having as well ( some kind of virus on top of it) he didn’t really say anything about it… we just kinda moved on in the conversation. This morning he called me while I was at work and I had just puked all over my desk and he said whats up and I said, well I just puked again… His response: SOoo, you want a cookie or something? (Like as in do you feel special because of that). I said, umm no and he responded with “we are supposed to be talking about me, not you.” I proceeded to ask him, so how are you doing? and he said “DO NOT ASK ME THAT!!!” very sternly. So I tried to move on I was just kind of ignoring his bull **** because I know why he is acting that way. He is mad because the medicines are not giving him a buzz anymore– thats a quote. So I mentioned Christmas (he gets to come home for Chrismas) I said so your mom is wanting to do their christmas thing on Christmas day in the evening instead of going to your grandmas house and he got extremely upset about it saying all he wanted to do was see his family and I said well maybe it’d be a good idea because your grandmas house will be full of people trying to get you to use and he said YOU DON’T NEED TO GIVE ME ADVICE OR TELL ME WHAT TO DO. I talked to his counselor who said he has not shown commitment to the program thus far and they are still working vigilently with him on this and that if I recieve phone calls like that from him I am to tell him I am not going to be talked to that way and hang up. I called my mother in law and told her all this and she offered to pick up my daughter from daycare today and take her home for the night so I can get some stuff done around the house and i told her there was no extra clothes or anything for her to take at daycare and she said we have all kinda of stuff here from goodwill we can put her in, but saturday during visitation he asked me, the next time you bring her could you put her in something a little nicer??? I just can’t take on all the responsibilities plus him being a jerk to me right now… I don’t know what to do. Any advice on this situation would be helpful… Im so sad…

The child is my 2 year old third cousin, I am in New York (Bronx County) and the child is in another county in the southwest region of New York state. She is my cousin through way of her father which has been incarcerated for over 2 years (repeat offender)

So here is some brief information on the situation. The little girls mom has been in and out of rehabilitation battling alcoholism for over 25 years. She already has 2 older children removed from her care many years ago. About a year ago, the child was placed in foster care since mom had a relapse. I found out 5 months later at which point i got involved to try to foster her while mom received the care she needed to eventually get her back. My family and I (I have a girlfriend of 4 years and a step daughter who is 5 and a half) have made several trips to inquire about her case and situation and most importantly, to try to motivate “mom” and spend time with the little girl.

Since my 2 year old cousin has been with her current foster mother for a going on a year in a couple of months and due to the fact, that mom is not showing as much progress as she should, i am thinking of filing for custody before her foster man has rights to adopt her and frankly, can do and take my cousin away from all of us.

My question is, when i file for custody, can any of the counties assistst me financially with the baby. I’m the only one working currently and my though i make “decent” money, i have entirely too many expenses to take on the additional responsibility of a child. I’m torn though because i know she belongs with family.

I have a breeding pair of lovebirds. They had one baby that is just fine and feeds itself. The next brood was also one baby, and the first baby and the father began pulling out its feathers, so we separated it to another cage where it seems to be doing fine. Now the problem. The pair has had another brood of 2 babies. The babies are about 8 weeks old. They have been covered with baby feathers for awhile now, and now have adult feathers over most of their bodies. The problem: The father, first male off spring, and even the mother are now pulling out feathers and biting the two babies. They seem to be trying to drive them from their nest. I have tried to separate the two babies into another cage, also with a nest. I am not sure if they are eating or drinking yet. I;ve tried to show them where the food and water is, but I am worried about them. I tried moving the mother in with the babies, but the male and female seem to be going crazy being separated even though they can see each other as their cages are right next to each other. I need some advise as to when the babies are old enough to survive on their own, and what to do about the other birds pulling out their feathers. Please help with some suggestions/advise. I am new at raising lovebirds, and don’t know much about them. The books I’ve gotten don’t address this problem. Should I put the male and female back together again? I don’t want one of them to die of loneliness, but I don’t want the babies to die from lack of food or water.

houses him and feeds him (his brother and mother) what should i do?

So here’s the deal. My mom has temporary custody of my daughter. My ex and I got evicted from our place, and that’s when she stepped in and tried to “help” I was never a bad mother, and he was never a bad father. I have no criminal record, and I’m not addicted to any drugs. I’m just completely lost and I feel like I’m the only person in the world who this has happened to. My mom doesn’t comply with the court order either. My mom never lets me see her. I just need some advice to ease my mind. I need some help.

I am devastated i just found out my husband of 10 years has been addicted to pornagraphy and talking to other women.. I have always been the devoted wife and mother… I’m ready to give up on our marriage and don’t think he can change… has anyone ever gone through this?. I mean i really HAD NO IDEA… he was really a good husband and father and there was no warning signs…he says he wants to change but can u?

I joked around with a girl in my class and we smelled hand sanitizer because it smelled really good. I know that it’s impossible to get high off of it, we were just joking. Some kid in my class started calling me a drug addict, and he said that “someone” is going to tell on me tomorrow. My mother will contact the school, but how much trouble could I get into if the stupid staff at my school believes the kid?

Mature advice only please. I am serious. I need honest mature opinions to this problem. I am trying to save my marriage. I have a big problem. My husband is a recovering alcoholic. He has been sober from alcohol for almost 6 months. He is also addicted to pills, mainly xanax and lortabs. He does good for a while, then relapses. I understand this is one of the hardest addictions to try and stop on your own and I am trying to give him all the support I can to help him through this. The problem is… his mother keeps giving him pills behind my back. He finally confessed it to me and now I am stuck with a hard decision to make. What to do about his mother. Do I cut her out of our lives? She is on parole for drug charges herself as she is an addict.. Family traditions huh? I am so angry, I am considering calling her Parole Officer explaining my situation and informing him that she is still doing drugs and every time they call her in for her drug test, she has been using a detox to pee clean, and the shampoo for the hair follicle test. I know this because she told me this. She has already peed dirty once and she denied it and I guess the PO let it slide. Should I go to her PO and tell him what I know to get her out of our lives and away from my husband? Shouldn’t I do something to keep her away? I need help… Please
I have talked to her repeatedly about giving pills to her son and the last time I talked to her, she said, “Well you know he’s never going to quit taking pills”, so I told her, “Not if you keep supplying them he won’t” and she left mad. She knows how I feel, but she doesn’t care. She has been giving him pills since he was a young child, only then she gave him Valium so he would go to bed early so she could stay up and party with her friends. I know this because my husband told me this. He and I are being honest with each other at last. I hate making my husband feel like he is stuck in the middle as he is going through a hard enough time trying to kick his addictions, but his mother has been an enabler to him for so long now. I told him I don’t want her coming to my home that she is not welcome because I can’t trust her to support him or me in our marriage and his recovery. He and I have been going to a church for a year now to find help through the Lord and trying to get our lives straightened out. The devil keeps sending people in our lives trying to mess things up. And on top of all that, his mother decided to come to our church this morning. But not alone…she had brought along a woman who my husband used to go out with and has recently “befriended”, and she knows I can’t stand her. She is trying to cause problems in my life. How do I put a stop to it

OK so my mother dose not like the water at her new house and she used to bred cats she is now filling up these old containers that used to have litter in it and drinnking it can she get sick from this

My husband was admitted to a rehab facility for abuse of prescription medication and alcoholism and also to try to quit smoking weed because they all go together as any addict knows. He is in a very angry state right now though and the past two days when he calls he just gets very upset with me and acts pretty much like a smart a$$. To give you an example last night was ok… I told him I found out I had strep throat and I had been puking because of all the sinus drainage im having as well ( some kind of virus on top of it) he didn’t really say anything about it… we just kinda moved on in the conversation. This morning he called me while I was at work and I had just puked all over my desk and he said whats up and I said, well I just puked again… His response: SOoo, you want a cookie or something? (Like as in do you feel special because of that). I said, umm no and he responded with “we are supposed to be talking about me, not you.” I proceeded to ask him, so how are you doing? and he said “DO NOT ASK ME THAT!!!” very sternly. So I tried to move on I was just kind of ignoring his bull shit because I know why he is acting that way. He is mad because the medicines are not giving him a buzz anymore– thats a quote. So I mentioned Christmas (he gets to come home for Chrismas) I said so your mom is wanting to do their christmas thing on Christmas day in the evening instead of going to your grandmas house and he got extremely upset about it saying all he wanted to do was see his family and I said well maybe it’d be a good idea because your grandmas house will be full of people trying to get you to use and he said YOU DON’T NEED TO GIVE ME ADVICE OR TELL ME WHAT TO DO. I talked to his counselor who said he has not shown commitment to the program thus far and they are still working vigilently with him on this and that if I recieve phone calls like that from him I am to tell him I am not going to be talked to that way and hang up. I called my mother in law and told her all this and she offered to pick up my daughter from daycare today and take her home for the night so I can get some stuff done around the house and i told her there was no extra clothes or anything for her to take at daycare and she said we have all kinda of stuff here from goodwill we can put her in, but saturday during visitation he asked me, the next time you bring her could you put her in something a little nicer??? I just can’t take on all the responsibilities plus him being a jerk to me right now… I don’t know what to do. Any advice on this situation would be helpful… Im so sad…