
First: I love my girl friend more than I can even say and I know I want to marry her as soon as I am able to.
At birth my girl friend was adopted and just recently we met her biological, a woman that has another child now, probably around 6 or 7, and unlike what you normally hear when a biological mom comes back into contact with the child they placed for adoption of wanting to know her, her mom was very distant. She especially when she heard my girl friend had been diagnosed with ADHD…
My girlfriend having ADHD I feel, has caused her life to be much rougher than it should have been and has caused her to feel, at times depressed and isolated from the rest of the world.
It actually hurts me when she feels that way, but even more it angers me that there is a possibility that her mother drank/did drugs/etc. while she was pregnant then just placed her baby for adoption. What should I do?
For a 21 year old girl who constantly ask why God forces her to have to deal with being over emotional and not being about to focus, sometimes even with medicine, it is a big deal.
Thanks for everything and I think most of you all really do understand why it bothers me… I would vote a best answer but I really can’t because you all really have helped me more than you think.