We will help you get your mom off drugs!

we fight constantly, she screams n cusses at me for no reason all the time, and she gave our rent money to my drug addict “father” so we also have received 2 eviction notices. the last one was a final notice telling us to b gone by the end of november. she somehow talked our landlord into letting us stay a little longer but i would like to move out now. if i have a safe place to go can she stop me from leaving?

I’m 16 years old and when I was age 3 I was sent to foster care because of my father who was a drug addict/abuser and not because of my mother. I stayed at my Aunt’s house until one day I was taken out of there and sent to another foster home. I always thought it was because they only wanted us for a little bit. Well I won’t tell you the whole foster care issues…..yet I remember being abused by some of the people who took care of me there. Now anyways after a year or so we were taken out of foster care because my mother got my sister and I back because of talking about things that happened when we were there. My mom told me when I came back from there I was never the same. I have been more angry and there were a lot of issues going on and something wrong with me. Also still to this day she says that’s where she thinks a lot of my problems are from. Anyways since this summer I have been remembering certain things about it but then I don’t really remember being raped/molested by my uncle. My mother told me I was and my father has said it to my sister. Right now as I sit here and think about it all I can remember is being brought to my Uncles room when I was little but nothing else. Sometimes I think maybe my mom is lying but then I don’t. I also believe I could of been molested by others in foster care but I really don’t understand how I can’t strongly remember all this stuff. What should I do? I don’t even know if there was ever any damage done to me. All I know is when I was younger I would make my barbies have sex, one time when I saw a penis in middle school because of this pervie kid it freaked me out and I started crying, I haven’t had sex because when I think about it I feel very wrong and I never really put all these things together until now. All I know this is all hitting me pretty hard right now.
I want to talk about it and get help but I feel so embarrassed. Seriously I never cry maybe a few times a year and I hardly show that I’m sad because I feel weak. Ugh I don’t know.

im 14

i am struggling with my weight, i eat barely anything for a week and then binge and pile the weight back on, i need to be thin… i have tried healthy eating and exercise but i feel so guilty after i eat its unbearable…

and my mom is never there for me anymore, nor is my dad, and my brother is moving away in a few days. me and my moms boyfriend don’t get on, he is a nasty man. he has swore at me before, pushed me around and generally makes me feel small and worthless. my mom takes his side.

im getting suicidal thoughts again, i don’t want to go on being this ugly fat and worthless…

I’m 16 years old and when I was age 3 I was sent to foster care because of my father who was a drug addict/abuser and not because of my mother. I stayed at my Aunt’s house until one day I was taken out of there and sent to another foster home. I always thought it was because they only wanted us for a little bit. Well I won’t tell you the whole foster care issues…..yet I remember being abused by some of the people who took care of me there. Now anyways after a year or so we were taken out of foster care because my mother got my sister and I back because of talking about things that happened when we were there. My mom told me when I came back from there I was never the same. I have been more angry and there were a lot of issues going on and something wrong with me. Also still to this day she says that’s where she thinks a lot of my problems are from. Anyways since this summer I have been remembering certain things about it but then I don’t really remember being raped/molested by my uncle. My mother told me I was and my father has said it to my sister. Right now as I sit here and think about it all I can remember is being brought to my Uncles room when I was little but nothing else. Sometimes I think maybe my mom is lying but then I don’t. I also believe I could of been molested by others in foster care but I really don’t understand how I can’t strongly remember all this stuff. What should I do? I don’t even know if there was ever any damage done to me. All I know is when I was younger I would make my barbies have sex, one time when I saw a penis in middle school because of this pervie kid it freaked me out and I started crying, I haven’t had sex because when I think about it I feel very wrong and I never really put all these things together until now. All I know this is all hitting me pretty hard right now.
I want to talk about it and get help but I feel so embarrassed. Seriously I never cry maybe a few times a year and I hardly show that I’m sad because I feel weak. Ugh I don’t know.

I’m 16 years old and when I was age 3 I was sent to foster care because of my father who was a drug addict/abuser and not because of my mother. I stayed at my Aunt’s house until one day I was taken out of there and sent to another foster home. I always thought it was because they only wanted us for a little bit. Well I won’t tell you the whole foster care issues…..yet I remember being abused by some of the people who took care of me there. Now anyways after a year or so we were taken out of foster care because my mother got my sister and I back because of talking about things that happened when we were there. My mom told me when I came back from there I was never the same. I have been more angry and there were a lot of issues going on and something wrong with me. Also still to this day she says that’s where she thinks a lot of my problems are from. Anyways since this summer I have been remembering certain things about it but then I don’t really remember being raped/molested by my uncle. My mother told me I was and my father has said it to my sister. Right now as I sit here and think about it all I can remember is being brought to my Uncles room when I was little but nothing else. Sometimes I think maybe my mom is lying but then I don’t. I also believe I could of been molested by others in foster care but I really don’t understand how I can’t strongly remember all this stuff. What should I do? I don’t even know if there was ever any damage done to me. All I know is when I was younger I would make my barbies have sex, one time when I saw a penis in middle school because of this pervie kid it freaked me out and I started crying, I haven’t had sex because when I think about it I feel very wrong and I never really put all these things together until now. All I know this is all hitting me pretty hard right now.

I want to talk about it and get help but I feel so embarrassed. Seriously I never cry maybe a few times a year and I hardly show that I’m sad because I feel weak. Ugh I don’t know

I have asked this before but I’m doing it again because not all the answers I got were great.

Hi. I’m eighteen years old and still live with my parents. I go out at least once a week and take home applications to try to get a job. I’ve been trying for almost two years now, and I’ve had no luck. I’ve been told many times how bad the economy is, so it’ll be hard for me to get one, but anyway.

I still live with my parents, and every single day my mother gets drunk. Sometimes she’ll start drinking before it’s even noon. She drinks a lot, and no matter how many drinks she’s had she always claims she isn’t drunk. Whenever my dad and I confront her about this, she screams and yells and tells us she hates us etc.

This has been going on for years. Whenever she starts drinking, she gets mean and vicious. There are times when I won’t even be in the same room as her and she’ll start yelling at me, telling me I’m lazy and fat and that I’m a loser (and to be fair, yeah, I don’t have a job, but I have a 3.4 GPA in college and I’m majoring in nursing, I can’t say I’m a loser. She didn’t even go to college.) and how much she hates me. Then she and my dad will get into a fight, and once he leaves (either to go to work or because he’s had enough of her) she screams at me saying I always ‘stick up for him’ even when I’m not involved in the conversation. She then tells me how I treat her like sh*t because I’m not there to stick up for her in a fight and that I’m useless etc.

When she’s drunk she’ll do mean and rude things and she doesn’t care when I confront her about it. She’ll tell me it’s my fault for her alcoholism and when I ask her why, she can’t give me an answer. She usually replies with “I don’t want to talk to you anymore” or “I can’t stand you” etc. and then won’t let me get a word in.

I can’t explain all the things she does when she’s drunk but she’s insufferable. She’s mean and cruel to me and my dad, and she’ll yell and scare my dogs to badly that they hide under tables and stuff. I don’t understand what made her this way, but I can’t take it anymore.

The problem is, I don’t have the money (no job) to move out or get a dorm, and I don’t know if what she’s doing constitutes as illegal and/or abusive because she’s not physically hitting me or anything.

But I really need help, and I need out of this. I’ve tried taking her to family counseling before, which ended badly. We (my dad, her, and myself) were trying to work things out when my mom just got up and left. I feel helpless and I don’t know what to do. Please help.
Please don’t tell me to try to talk to her because my dad and I have been trying for years and she doesn’t care at all, she always blames us for it (and can never explain why).
My dad has tried to divorce her but she… for a lack of better terms, won’t let him. As well, almost all our family lives in a different state.
I need this question answered: Is what she’s doing illegal?

Can she get arrested for it?

We met in Jan 08 got serious in Mar 08. He seemed so composed until out of nowhere he fell off the wagon. That weekend he broke up with me for a stupid reason, his mom got sick(cancer), and he went on an alcohol and cocaine binge. I am so scared- I never expected him to relapse just like that.He said he went to a hotel, and in 24hrs had 2 bottles of vodka, 18 beers, $300 worth of cocaine, $300 worth of crack. He’s acting so strange since then I am almost scared to be around him. Please help. I dont what to do. I am respecting his wishes of not discussing this with my friends. I’m lost. I am not in AA by the way, and dont know what hes going through. Im scared he will do this next time we argue. In fact, I dont even want to have aboyfriend like that anymore. How do I break up with this person?
Hels also possesive, gets mad if I dont answer his calls, or dont want to stay at his house all night.
I live by myself.

Here it goes: I am in my mid-twenties, I am in college, I have a good job (somewhat) for the moment, but I feel like nothing is going right. My parents cheated on each other when I was young, and that led to the death of my father due to alcoholism and drug abuse. I never really trusted women because of that…

I have sought help, but I feel that it has done nothing for me. However, there was this one girl I have taken a liking to — and it was odd. She is my supervisor, so we are not really allowed to date. I got to know her better, and it turns out she is exactly like me. Even the same life experiences. Her parents cheated on each other as well at a young age.

She read the same books I have, knows the same quotes, everything. Therefor, I was comfortable being myself around her. I have always shunned women away when they advance; I was always scared to get hurt. This woman I liked, and developed feelings for her. She complains all the time about how nobody likes her, that she is stuck up, etc. I talk to her about it.

I have taken her to places outside of work to sit and talk. She told me she was seeing another guy. I know of the guy, and he is a person who is divorced — she always said she wanted to feel important and get married and stay together forever. Why would you want to be with someone who has already been divorced? When a marriage ends, it is because BOTH people aren’t willing to make it work; regardless of what the other tells you — it is mutual.

I was devastated… So, I told her we couldn’t really talk anymore like that. She said she wasn’t really ready for me to stop talking to her. I told her it was my decision. She then put her head down and said she had a lot to think about. Well, a couple weeks later, my friend said she was crying. So, I took her out again and did something special for her.

I purchased a 2-cent penny and showed it to her. I told her it was over 140 years old — that is 2 lifetimes in this one coin. I told her we will both make a wish, and since there is only one coin, as long as our wishes do not contradict, they will come true.

I told her that there is something coming up in the month of August, and that it is something you can only do once in a lifetime. I told her to call me and let me know if she wished to go. She finally got back with me, saying she cannot. I asked her why, and she said it was because she was my supervisor.

I told her I am not talking to my supervisor; I am talking to the person outside of work. I told her to tell me the real reason. She said she can’t because of her relationship — one that she says she regrets being in, but yet she keeps going back. Perhaps it is because he has money.

I live at home to help my mother out because when my father died, he left her with loads of debt. If I do not stay here, she will be thrown out on the street. We really haven’t any other family, so it sucks. I feel trapped. I feel like a complete loser — and I can’t help it. I do things with friends, but yet I always feel empty. I work out and I am toned — I like my body, but yet I feel there is something wrong with me.

So… I texted her back and told her that our wishes contradict. I know they did…because I wished for her. I told her good luck in her relationship and that it is really over — which I do mean. The greatest gift you can give somebody is comfortability enough to be themselves — without having to prove themselves or worry about being judged. I gave her that. I felt I was actually warming up to someone. I did…but one of the rare times I did, I get shunned.

Now, I begin thinking about everything going wrong with my life… I have no other family except my mother, brother and sister… I have to live at home in my mid-twenties. I haven’t enough care in me now to even try in school. I feel like I am alienated in my family as well because I am the only one attending college. I cannot stand this feeling.

People say there is someone out there for you, but where? I mean, is there, really for someone like me? I literally jump at the thought of a relationship, but yet I want one. I want to show a girl things that really haven’t ever been seen before, yet, I look for the first reason to call off a relationship. What is wrong with me? She keeps saying she wants to be important to someone, yet she completely overlooked me for some other guy after I told her how I felt about her. I didn’t confess love, for I don’t, but I really liked her and thought there was something there. I felt I was meant to meet this person for a reason. When I say felt, I MEAN I FELT I WAS SUPPOSED TO MEET THIS GIRL FOR A REASON. I would have never done anything like that before. I know this is nothing new in the world. Perhaps it is cliche, but this stuff will always be new to me; I was never any good at it. Is there something wrong with me? What can I do?

My mother in law forbid me to bring beer to her house last Christmas. I drink maybe once a month and never get drunk (3-4 beers tops). She’s just very religious. So in turn, I forbid her from bringing chocolate bars into my home since she’s a diabetic and it actually harms her. She’s always eying up sweets, so I compare her to a drug addict. Needless to say, she doesn’t appreciate this analogy. What do you think.

Here it goes: I am in my mid-twenties, I am in college, I have a good job (somewhat) for the moment, but I feel like nothing is going right. My parents cheated on each other when I was young, and that led to the death of my father due to alcoholism and drug abuse. I never really trusted women because of that…

I have sought help, but I feel that it has done nothing for me. However, there was this one girl I have taken a liking to — and it was odd. She is my supervisor, so we are not really allowed to date. I got to know her better, and it turns out she is exactly like me. Even the same life experiences. Her parents cheated on each other as well at a young age.

She read the same books I have, knows the same quotes, everything. Therefor, I was comfortable being myself around her. I have always shunned women away when they advance; I was always scared to get hurt. This woman I liked, and developed feelings for her. She complains all the time about how nobody likes her, that she is stuck up, etc. I talk to her about it.

I have taken her to places outside of work to sit and talk. She told me she was seeing another guy. I know of the guy, and he is a person who is divorced — she always said she wanted to feel important and get married and stay together forever. Why would you want to be with someone who has already been divorced? When a marriage ends, it is because BOTH people aren’t willing to make it work; regardless of what the other tells you — it is mutual.

I was devastated… So, I told her we couldn’t really talk anymore like that. She said she wasn’t really ready for me to stop talking to her. I told her it was my decision. She then put her head down and said she had a lot to think about. Well, a couple weeks later, my friend said she was crying. So, I took her out again and did something special for her.

I purchased a 2-cent penny and showed it to her. I told her it was over 140 years old — that is 2 lifetimes in this one coin. I told her we will both make a wish, and since there is only one coin, as long as our wishes do not contradict, they will come true.

I told her that there is something coming up in the month of August, and that it is something you can only do once in a lifetime. I told her to call me and let me know if she wished to go. She finally got back with me, saying she cannot. I asked her why, and she said it was because she was my supervisor.

I told her I am not talking to my supervisor; I am talking to the person outside of work. I told her to tell me the real reason. She said she can’t because of her relationship — one that she says she regrets being in, but yet she keeps going back. Perhaps it is because he has money.

I live at home to help my mother out because when my father died, he left her with loads of debt. If I do not stay here, she will be thrown out on the street. We really haven’t any other family, so it sucks. I feel trapped. I feel like a complete loser — and I can’t help it. I do things with friends, but yet I always feel empty. I work out and I am toned — I like my body, but yet I feel there is something wrong with me.

So… I texted her back and told her that our wishes contradict. I know they did…because I wished for her. I told her good luck in her relationship and that it is really over — which I do mean. The greatest gift you can give somebody is comfortability enough to be themselves — without having to prove themselves or worry about being judged. I gave her that. I felt I was actually warming up to someone. I did…but one of the rare times I did, I get shunned.

Now, I begin thinking about everything going wrong with my life… I have no other family except my mother, brother and sister… I have to live at home in my mid-twenties. I haven’t enough care in me now to even try in school. I feel like I am alienated in my family as well because I am the only one attending college. I cannot stand this feeling.

People say there is someone out there for you, but where? I mean, is there, really for someone like me? I literally jump at the thought of a relationship, but yet I want one. I want to show a girl things that really haven’t ever been seen before, yet, I look for the first reason to call off a relationship. What is wrong with me? She keeps saying she wants to be important to someone, yet she completely overlooked me for some other guy after I told her how I felt about her. I didn’t confess love, for I don’t, but I really liked her and thought there was something there. I felt I was meant to meet this person for a reason. When I say felt, I MEAN I FELT I WAS SUPPOSED TO MEET THIS GIRL FOR A REASON. I would have never done anything like that before. I know this is nothing new in the world. Perhaps it is cliche, but this stuff will always be new to me; I was never any good at it. Is there something wrong with me? What can I do?

We met in Jan 08 got serious in Mar 08. He seemed so composed until out of nowhere he fell off the wagon. That weekend he broke up with me for a stupid reason, his mom got sick(cancer), and he went on an alcohol and cocaine binge. I am so scared- I never expected him to relapse just like that.He said he went to a hotel, and in 24hrs had 2 bottles of vodka, 18 beers, $300 worth of cocaine, $300 worth of crack. He’s acting so strange since then I am almost scared to be around him. Please help. I dont what to do. I am respecting his wishes of not discussing this with my friends. I’m lost. I am not in AA by the way, and dont know what hes going through. Im scared he will do this next time we argue. In fact, I dont even want to have aboyfriend like that anymore. How do I break up with this person?
Hels also possesive, gets mad if I dont answer his calls, or dont want to stay at his house all night.
I live by myself.

Idrink way 2 much i passed out had seizures and was dry heaving 4 ours i peed on my friends they had to drag me everywhere i was completely knocked out its been 2 days ndi still feel sick but im 15 cant go o the doctor they will call my mom

I’ve come to the conclusion that I can’t trust anyone anymore, not even my parents, or best friends. My family is messed up and on the very edge of collapsing. It’s barely hanging and I can’t really cope with it much longer. My “father” is my step-father, and I’ve never gotten to see my real father. I’ve been told that he was an alcoholic and disabled from my uncles, cousins, and other relatives. I feel that his traits passed onto me (I don’t mean the alcoholism ), but I was once considered “disabled.” I couldn’t do well in school and I will admit that my temper is unusually hot, to the brink that I occasionally abuse my siblings. Because of this, I feel that I’m turning into my tyrant blood father. This has caused major problems with my parents, my mom especially.
I’m the oldest son and only son of my blood father. My parents divorced when I was 2 and I stayed with my mom. 2 years later, she married and had 2 kids.
My siblings always argue among each other, including with me, my parents are never home; therefore I have a distant relationship with them. My mother always tells me that she will support me, and love me until the end, but I’m beginning to doubt that. I’ve recently found out that my mother has been talking behind my back and won’t tell me anything. She tells my sister and brother everything. I’ve heard from them that I’ve become sort of a nuisance in the family and I’m turning into my dumb, helpless blood father. After hearing that, my mind went down. My trust for anyone has disappeared. I feel that I have no reason to live and that I was a mistake. I’ve considered suicide a few times in my life, but I don’t have the mental ability to do so. I don’t know what to do and I’m stuck living through this hell. There are too many problems that I can’t cope with. What’s there to live for when I’m being secretly backstabbed by my own parents? My life is going through a spiral depression.

I’ve come to the conclusion that I can’t trust anyone anymore, not even my parents, or best friends. My family is messed up and on the very edge of collapsing. It’s barely hanging and I can’t really cope with it much longer. My “father” is my step-father, and I’ve never gotten to see my real father. I’ve been told that he was an alcoholic and disabled from my uncles, cousins, and other relatives. I feel that his traits passed onto me (I don’t mean the alcoholism ), but I was once considered “disabled.” I couldn’t do well in school and I will admit that my temper is unusually hot, to the brink that I occasionally abuse my siblings. Because of this, I feel that I’m turning into my tyrant blood father. This has caused major problems with my parents, my mom especially.
I’m the oldest son and only son of my blood father. My parents divorced when I was 2 and I stayed with my mom. 2 years later, she married and had 2 kids.
My siblings always argue among each other, including with me, my parents are never home; therefore I have a distant relationship with them. My mother always tells me that she will support me, and love me until the end, but I’m beginning to doubt that. I’ve recently found out that my mother has been talking behind my back and won’t tell me anything. She tells my sister and brother everything. I’ve heard from them that I’ve become sort of a nuisance in the family and I’m turning into my dumb, helpless blood father. After hearing that, my mind went down. My trust for anyone has disappeared. I feel that I have no reason to live and that I was a mistake. I’ve considered suicide a few times in my life, but I don’t have the mental ability to do so. I don’t know what to do and I’m stuck living through this hell. There are too many problems that I can’t cope with. What’s there to live for when I’m being secretly backstabbed by my own parents? My life is going through a spiral depression.

I’ve come to the conclusion that I can’t trust anyone anymore, not even my parents, or best friends. My family is messed up and on the very edge of collapsing. It’s barely hanging and I can’t really cope with it much longer. My “father” is my step-father, and I’ve never gotten to see my real father. I’ve been told that he was an alcoholic and disabled from my uncles, cousins, and other relatives. I feel that his traits passed onto me (I don’t mean the alcoholism ), but I was once considered “disabled.” I couldn’t do well in school and I will admit that my temper is unusually hot, to the brink that I occasionally abuse my siblings. Because of this, I feel that I’m turning into my tyrant blood father. This has caused major problems with my parents, my mom especially.
I’m the oldest son and only son of my blood father. My parents divorced when I was 2 and I stayed with my mom. 2 years later, she married and had 2 kids.
My siblings always argue among each other, including with me, my parents are never home; therefore I have a distant relationship with them. My mother always tells me that she will support me, and love me until the end, but I’m beginning to doubt that. I’ve recently found out that my mother has been talking behind my back and won’t tell me anything. She tells my sister and brother everything. I’ve heard from them that I’ve become sort of a nuisance in the family and I’m turning into my dumb, helpless blood father. After hearing that, my mind went down. My trust for anyone has disappeared. I feel that I have no reason to live and that I was a mistake. I’ve considered suicide a few times in my life, but I don’t have the mental ability to do so. I don’t know what to do and I’m stuck living through this hell. There are too many problems that I can’t cope with. What’s there to live for when I’m being secretly backstabbed by my own parents? My life is going through a spiral depression.

I’ve come to the conclusion that I can’t trust anyone anymore, not even my parents, or best friends. My family is messed up and on the very edge of collapsing. It’s barely hanging and I can’t really cope with it much longer. My “father” is my step-father, and I’ve never gotten to see my real father. I’ve been told that he was an alcoholic and disabled from my uncles, cousins, and other relatives. I feel that his traits passed onto me (I don’t mean the alcoholism ), but I was once considered “disabled.” I couldn’t do well in school and I will admit that my temper is unusually hot, to the brink that I occasionally abuse my siblings. Because of this, I feel that I’m turning into my tyrant blood father. This has caused major problems with my parents, my mom especially.
I’m the oldest son and only son of my blood father. My parents divorced when I was 2 and I stayed with my mom. 2 years later, she married and had 2 kids.
My siblings always argue among each other, including with me, my parents are never home; therefore I have a distant relationship with them. My mother always tells me that she will support me, and love me until the end, but I’m beginning to doubt that. I’ve recently found out that my mother has been talking behind my back and won’t tell me anything. She tells my sister and brother everything. I’ve heard from them that I’ve become sort of a nuisance in the family and I’m turning into my dumb, helpless blood father. After hearing that, my mind went down. My trust for anyone has disappeared. I feel that I have no reason to live and that I was a mistake. I’ve considered suicide a few times in my life, but I don’t have the mental ability to do so. I don’t know what to do and I’m stuck living through this hell. There are too many problems that I can’t cope with. What’s there to live for when I’m being secretly backstabbed by my own parents? My life is going through a spiral depression.

I’ve come to the conclusion that I can’t trust anyone anymore, not even my parents, or best friends. My family is messed up and on the very edge of collapsing. It’s barely hanging and I can’t really cope with it much longer. My “father” is my step-father, and I’ve never gotten to see my real father. I’ve been told that he was an alcoholic and disabled from my uncles, cousins, and other relatives. I feel that his traits passed onto me (I don’t mean the alcoholism ), but I was once considered “disabled.” I couldn’t do well in school and I will admit that my temper is unusually hot, to the brink that I occasionally abuse my siblings. Because of this, I feel that I’m turning into my tyrant blood father. This has caused major problems with my parents, my mom especially.
I’m the oldest son and only son of my blood father. My parents divorced when I was 2 and I stayed with my mom. 2 years later, she married and had 2 kids.
My siblings always argue among each other, including with me, my parents are never home; therefore I have a distant relationship with them. My mother always tells me that she will support me, and love me until the end, but I’m beginning to doubt that. I’ve recently found out that my mother has been talking behind my back and won’t tell me anything. She tells my sister and brother everything. I’ve heard from them that I’ve become sort of a nuisance in the family and I’m turning into my dumb, helpless blood father. After hearing that, my mind went down. My trust for anyone has disappeared. I feel that I have no reason to live and that I was a mistake. I’ve considered suicide a few times in my life, but I don’t have the mental ability to do so. I don’t know what to do and I’m stuck living through this hell. There are too many problems that I can’t cope with. What’s there to live for when I’m being secretly backstabbed by my own parents? My life is going through a spiral depression.

My mother has been struggling for 3-4 years with a problem inside of her head. Symptoms include pressure, tingling, and severe pain in the morning to one side of her head ” the feeling of being beat ” , when she feels the tingle in her head, she says that she is able to follow the tingling movement with the tip of her finger. She has been referred to mental health dr’s and they diagnosed her with stress, anxiety, and depression. She has been prescribed lorazepam and that did help with the most part of it, however she is now addicted the pill. She says she even feels as if the lorazepam has done damage to her brain. She moved away from the area where she was seeing the mental health therapist and they dropped her as a patient. she is no longer on the meds but still suffers daily with pain and symptoms above. They have looked at her over and over and find anything physical. Also she is uninsured (since she cannot work due to this unknown illness) and hospital or dr’s wont give or order MRI. Thank you to everyone in advance for your answers..
she has been in and out of the ER for 3-4 years now. and I will check into seeing about getting her what i can as far a medical insurance ( medicare) in our state. (thank you :) _) also i applied for social security for her and she was quickly denied. She has worked in the hotel industry all her life and needs help. She cannot work , rarely attends family gatherings, and is always wanting to lay down. i feel so sorry for her because i know she has always been a stronge working woman.

I just don’t understand it! I 15 and right in puberty but I just don’t understand why I can’t drop 15 pounds. I’m not fat, but I’m a little chubby and I want to lose it! Mostly for soccer, but also because I want to feel good. It’s not that I don’t exercise because I exercise almost EVERYDAY! It’s not that I don’t eat healthy either because I do! I literally just have a healthy breakfast, a nice lunch, a snack like an apple or yogurt or fiber one bar when I get home from school then dinner. I don’t binge and I really don’t overeat. My mom’s a chef and we know all about bad foods and we eat low or no fat stuff, tons of fruits and veggies and meat. So why can’t I lose weight? I used to be really heavy and dropped 25 pounds. Could it just be with puberty and the fact that I already lost a great sum of weight that my body is not ready to release anymore? What do you think?