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A while ago, I read an article about this girl who was put on medications for bipolar disorder when she was 2 years old. TWO! A child of two is barely any older than a baby! It’s perfectly normal for a child that young to act out and be moody. My toddler sisters act like it all the time. This girl died from taking those medications a few years later.

When I was in a mental hospital because they wanted to monitor the new medications I was on, I realized most of the other teens there weren’t depressed or suicidal. They were really bitchy, alcohol-chugging, nicotine-addicted, angsty high school drop outs. This one girl slit her wrist because she wanted to get back at her mother. I think all too often people get diagnosed and medicated because it’s easier than working out the problems themselves. And it’s people like those who are giving people who actually need medications a bad name.

Agree/disagree? Reasons?

My date, 16, is extremely bipolar, but takes Seroquil which seems to work.

In addition to being bipolar, my date also has ADD, Anxiety, Fear of Failure, and also just completed rehab for marijuana addiction.

My date also just completed 3 months in foster care becuase the bio mom was addicted to drugs.

What are some of the complications I can expect dealing with ALL these psychological issues. What are some common things I should be expecting or looking out for?
He’s also Paranoid, and theres a Schizophrenia component to his bipolar disorder.
Umm….yes he IS my boifriend and yes he IS my date. We got back together so theres NO reason to “move on.”

You can practice being an “online psychologist” somewhere else, and better yet ask for a refund because obviously your advice is worthless.
SHAME on YOU

When I was younger, my dad used to get drunk. Him and my mom would yell at each other practically every night, but it never got to physical abuse. I don’t think his alcoholism ever progressed to a state where it seriously affected me, but I could be misjudging things. When I was about ten years old, they separated, had an ugly separation and divorce filled with harassment (through me at times) and other problems. Now I live with my mom, who never drinks. She’s had a bad childhood with an adopted unmedicated bipolar mother, so she has her share of scars too. I have found out that my mother must be a co-alcoholic, she has the extreme mood swings, outbursts about tiny things when you least expect it, etc. Then after these outbursts it is like everything is fine, and most times I receive a serious apology, which doesn’t stop the cycle from repeating again. Now that you all have the story, here are my questions: How badly was I really affected by my dad’s drinking, what is going on with my mom and how badly is her behavior affecting me, and what would happen if my mom started drinking a little bit?

My husband and i have been married for about 6 years he has a 13 year old son from a previous relationship. Well his son is coming to live with us he just got out of Rehab for Heroin addiction and his mom wants nothing to do with him at all. Well hubby and i have three son’s of our own 2.4,6 and so as you can imagine i am concerned for there safty and well being but at the same time i also believe in Redemption so to speak everyone makes mistakes and i understand that so i am trying not to hold any preconceived notions about the kid but at the same time never had to really be a step parent to this kid and everything. I mean honestly i am more worried about him relapsing into it because he got into it to begin with because his gf was into it heavily and then she introduced him to it and then she died because of in OD so he got into it heavily trying to block out his pain and everything. Sorry for blabbing i just don’t know what to do with the kid hubby thinks there isn’t a threat and that he will be fine and that we just need to love on him but at the same time i don’t want him here =/. Advice?

i admit i did wrong in trying to drive drunk a cuple nights ago…but now someone (my mother) is witholding my keys and threatning to sell my car…..thing is she bought the vehicle….but im paying ins…and the title is in my name!

The child of elementary school age is being teased and harassed by other children following the execution by stoning of her mother who was found guilty of committing adultery following an evening of drinking at a local tavern.

Please note this is a hypothetical question. If possible please answer specifically the question asked. If interested in the 10 points for best answer your chances are better that way

i didn’t know it was going to be this hard to have step-children and no my husband is only on my side about 2% of the time when it comes to his kids also he makes me feel like the bad guy in front of the kids.Also in June we had all the kids(his ex-wife was homeless again).we she finally came down she had a broken foot(her husband did it to her) her husband took off with the van and left her at our house.Her city is 3hrs away.that was on a friday.she got a motel for the night.but than she came back.I told my husband she can’t stay here.when i got off work at 10pm she was still.there.when i woke up sun . she was still there.i told my husband i don’t care if he has to drive her back i don’t want her there.i came back and she was still there.i was really mad.you know what that female never asked me if she can stay.when my husband finally took her back monday(labor day) she didn’t even tell me thank you.her family lives in the same city of me.they don’t want nothing to do with her.she has 5 kids and three are my husbands.the 12yr girl father was a crack addict and never in her life.my husband is the only father she know.i told him how it was disrespectful to me that she was at house.He said there wasn’t nothing he could do she didn’t have a place she could go.see i was never asked if she can stay.They just get along for the kids but they really don’t get along.Plus i work 2 jobs and i put in more money in the household than him.He has 3 kids at the house and i put in 300 more a month.i decided not anymore.i don’t run up the bills.oh by the way he said back in June he was going to put more money in because of the extra kids.how can he he don’t make that much.so guess what i did.but that is going to change.i am going help pay the bills,but grocery’s are going to be cut way back.if something is said i will tell him you don’t do anything to get your kids to stop making pigs of them selves and they keep the TV;s and lights on allot,take long showers and his boys all they do is play video games and come and go when they want to.Don’t get me wrong i do love his kids(except one the 16yr that lives with his grandmother that came one night in the house high he has been smoking weed and i told my husband he is high ,he didn’t say anything to him ,he is not allowed to live in the house anymore i said so or i will leave)see i was divorced 14yrs i made it ,it was hard but i did.Both my kids have graduated.my daughter is married,going to school and in the Navy plus a wife and a mother to a 14month old.i made mistakes with them.but i think i did pretty good. there is only 3yrs between my husband and I.

So it was a thursday afternoon at my place of employment and there had been talk that our boss and part owner of this company(mind you a family owned company) had been heavily drinking lateley relapsing back into alcoholism. This had been very clear the way he was acting the past couple of days around the shop… so i naturally was curious, and i was on my lunch smoking when i saw him walk by. for the sake of this i will call my boss “jim” in place of his real name. I said hey jim do you have a minute he came over and said sure and i was sincereley asking him if he wanted to sell his truck anytime in the near future and he said yea and on the subject we began talking about the baja 1000 which is a truck race for those of you who dont know. ok break time ended everything was normal i go back to my building and he was there and called me out of there to come B/S about the baja 1000 again for a good 45 minutes, and was still heavily intoxicated. and keep in mind his step mother who is also part owner of this company saw us having an aimless conversation in his office that day.

The day ended fine nothing happened out of the ordinary. The next day after break i walked by his office to ask him about some orders we were getting to see if they were still coming in for us to work on i walk by the office and saw him talking to the foreman and a shipping dept. employee and walk by and continue on back to work. about 45 minutes later a fellow employee of mine who is known as my boss’ drinking buddy outside of work comes to me and says hey jim wants to see you in his office and he isnt very happy. So naturally i ask ok well whats wrong he played dumb and said i have no idea.. little did i know id be walking into one of the scariest and most violationg situations of my life.

I find him and say hey jim whats up i heard you needed to see me and he said yea come with me. We takes me into the next room over shuts the door and just gets right in my face and explodes in a drunking violent yelling rage… his face no further than two inches away… (mind you im 19 years old and grew up with an alcoholic father)… reaking of alcohol just like the past couple of weeks he is screaming things like i thought when i hired you i told you never to **** me over and things like if i find out this was you i will break your legs as well as if i find out this was you im going to shove this pole up your *** and during this intense yelling he grabbed my collar of my shirt very tightly tho the point where it started to restrict my neck and had to coax him to get off of me he then put his hand up tp my throat as you would go to choke someone and squeezed just enough to intimidate me and get his point across and said wait a minute what the hell is this even about and explains to me that his mother asked him that morning what him and i had talked about in his office and he told the truth and said baja 1000. and she slapped him across the face and said bullshit “timmy said you were doing cocaine” the name timmy refers to myself and i had never spoke those words to anyone. i then pleaded for my safetey and said you know i never said these things nor would think about and said you know you are a great guy and all sorts off *** kissing comments to keep the situation from escalating and hopefully ended and it worked.

I return to work infuriated and contemplate what my next move should be… i call my mother to see what i should do like call the police or leave or what. but no answer and i spot my friend that i work with someone who is my friend outside the workplace .. we went to high school together and are considered almost best friends to many. i told him what had happened to me….. he later goes and tells his uncle who also works there, that is who got us the jobs there. His uncle tells me we are going to solve this right now and get this straight so already an emotional wreck having thought of him as acting as mean and biligerent as my father gets when he drinks every night which is something i have had to deal with for 19 years i started to get very upset on the way to talk to the boss with my friends uncle almost to the point of crying.

We spot him outside the building where the incident took place my friend uncle kneals down in front of the boss who was sitting down and said what did you do…. the boss replies with i asked him if he said that i did cocaine, being very patient with our intoxicated boss he repeats what did you do… the boss takes myself and my friends uncle into the room where the incident originally took place. i had started crying due to my emotional distress and realating all this to the suffering i expierienced from my father. hye hugs me and just keeps on and on about how he is sorry and he shouldnt have done that i look at my friends uncle who commented on something the boss said to try and lighten the situation and o

My father recently died and he is now living with us. I am living with my mom to take care of her.. He eats, sleeps, and takes her money does not nothing around the house or offer any money for bills. She thinks she is just helping him. He tells her he needs the money for child support.

i have known i was gay ever since i can remember i never accepted it and still wish it werent true but know i can not change it. i realized that after praying and crying everynight to this god everyone seems to believe exists ….not saying gods not real just not the one most people seem to worship for hating everything thats not compatible with society…anyway this all happened for about 3 months about a year and a half ago until i tried to kill myself….my main problem now is just dealing with it and its hard being in a CATHOLIC school where the word gay and homosexual is banned from the vocabulary in ALL WAYS accept how to bash it ….anyway i have always put up a good shield to not let anyone figure me out i have come out to a couple of close friends who were completely surprised and didnt believe me for a while ….the thing is i have a deep crush on a boy couple boys at school and after accepting the fact that they are both straight i cant talk to them like i used to be able to and i have been friends with them since 3rd grade …im a junior in high school now…when they talk to me i start feeling angry sad and depressed along with completely in love with the voice im hearing ….i cant concentrate on what they are saying and i cant say anything after i did here it….i wish i could come out and i dont think it would be that big of a deal with my friends but if thier parents ever found out they would prolly get me kicked out of the school and make damn sure thier sons didnt hang around me ….they are mostly rich political and doctor kids whith parents that have a lot of power in this small town and if my parents found out i would definately be in hell …my mom is a drug addicted bar tender and my dad is a ”devout catholic” accept when hes beeing a hardcore alcoholic and my step mom wont talk to her brother at all because hes gay and she told her brother ”get the fuck out of my house you fucking faget” a week after he came out of the closet…after that i went into deep depression and tried to kilmyself because if a brother and sister could be like that then what is everyone else like….anyway my dad would prolly end up accepting it but hating me at the same time my step mom would get a divorce and my dad would drink more ALL THE TIME …i cant focus on school at all because of all the bullshit goin on between my mom myself and my dad being a different person every night….i dont know how to deal with my life right now and if i dont figure something out ill fale school and maybe try suicide again which is something i never want to do again….ill tell you some about me so you can better help….my stepdad (before my moms drug problems) was a very good mechanic he taught me everything he knows and we are still father and son even tho i can hardly get ahold of him maybe once or twice a year….i accel in trade school i have won many contests and have had a couple of jobs most grown men would kill for of course only during the summer…i was on the wieght team in 9th grade i was repping 250 and have been strongest viking at my school since i was a freshman…i have never had a girlfriend and just act not interested in havin a relationship around my friends and they accept that…i have done good for myself i have had a lot of achievements and completed a lot of goals not to mention i have built a 91 chevy c1500 that will run 7:53 on the quarter mile something i am most proud of and i currently during school work on cars in my dads garage for cash…also i get depressed when my family puts me down for wanting to be a grease monkey since they are paying for me to get a good education so i can be a doctor or lawyer ….they tell me stuff like ill never be able to make it and its hard and doesnt make a lot of money but i know better and get over that quickly and one last thing about me …..i dont want to see any kind of bullshit with you fucking flammers out there …but really why would anyone fuck with someone who barely gives a shit about his own life cus ”god” know i dont give a shit about yours, flammers
the fact is im gonna fail high school i almost failed all my classes last year the teacher passed me with a 70.1 just because they knew i was having family problems im worried about this because i can see that if i do good i could have a good future

I’m professional, very religious, I volunteer and donate blood etc. love to play piano, especially carols at this time of year — I consider myself to be a dynamic, fun, and loving person – oh and I can cook too –

My point is that I expect a lot of myself (and so do my younger sisters) but our dad, despite being a physician etc. is so NOT that way. We also lost our beloved Mother 14 years ago.

I just feel like I want to hear more recognition and credit for this from him and from the rest of my family.

I went to his house (2 hrs from my place) to go help him get ready for the holidays (shopping etc.) – I offered – but he had plans with a bunch of stupid, country club fuckers to basically have an excuse to get wasted. Both Friday and Saturday nights (remember that I came there to hang out with him etc. and he hasn’t seen me for weeks) when he left he was like, “maybe I’ll see you tomorrow….” as in – he was planning to get so fucking wasted that he wouldn’t be able to drive
today I had such a bad Mexican food craving and I had to eat by myself in my hometown because my dad had to leave to go to yet another drinking fest disguised as a get-together… It is so fucking pathetic! I would be completely ashamed of myself if I acted that way! He DID come home Friday and Saturday nights, because I guess he felt bad that I was there alone…. and both times he was so drunk that he even said, “…yeah…. I don’t know how I got home….” — he’s a somewhat prominent member of society in the town we’re from (population about 70-80K) — I think it almost would have been beneficial for him to get in a car accident so he would realize what a goddamned loser he is!
By the way, he always drank – even when Mom was around and despite the fact that she didn’t like it (obviously she didn’t like it because he’s also pretty sick, as in has pretty advanced heart disease) — all this despite the fact that he’s a doctor, who should know better…What a loser.
Thanks Shannon – but seriously I don’t really think he loves us as much as he says he does — or my Mom for that matter… I mean, she hated his drinking yet he kept doing. I just want to him to say, “you know – I’m sorry that I went every night that you were over… and came back to wasted….” — how do I make him apologize…
and by the way, I don’t want to “be caring” to him – he and others have always judged me so harshly – so naturally I achieved a lot, have a great job, and also have a great resume – so I don’t think I should have to “be caring,” to him. HE DESERVES TO BE JUDGED!!!!!
even though it seems positive that everyone judged me so much and put so much pressure on me (the end result being that I am successful etc.) but it came at such a dear price, so many tears, so much beating myself up over this issue and others…. trying to be perfect to “earn” his love and approval. what a bastard!
even though it seems positive that everyone judged me so much and put so much pressure on me (the end result being that I am successful etc.) but it came at such a dear price, so many tears, so much beating myself up over this issue and others…. trying to be perfect to “earn” his love and approval. what a bastard!
It’s my turn to judge! I HAVE DONE WHAT I’M SUPPOSED TO IN MY LIFE! HE HASN’T – HE FUCKING DESERVES TO BE JUDGED AT LEAST AS HARSHLY AS HE HAS JUDGED ME!
YOU KNOW – I AM SO FUCKING SICK AND TIRED OF PEOPLE BEING LIKE, “OH YOUR DAD,” WHEN THEY HEAR ABOUT MY MOM DYING! MY DAD, BESIDES BEING A FUCKING ALCOHOLIC AND A BIGOT, IS ALSO A MISOGYNIST! HE MADE OUR LIVES A LIVING HELL! I’M NOT GOING TO FUCKING ‘BE NICE,’ TO HIM AND ‘CATER TO HIM,’ ETC. ANYMORE! DRINKING IN EXCESS AND EMOTIONALLY SCARRING YOUR CHILDREN IS WRONG – PLAIN AND SIMPLE!

My man’s mother started chemotherapy today. I have known for months that it is time for me to man up and be there for him emotionally. However, I struggle to be open with him…to be supportive. For some reason, I continue my old patterns of clamming up and bottling up my emotions. I am so worried about saying the right thing, that I say nothing at all, and it has created a huge divide between us.
When we first met, I was a very self-destructive person…hurting myself, doing things I knew were bad for me…perpetually creating disaster…I am addicted to pain. I have come a long way since then, but my patterns are so ingrained, that I do not know how to break them. I have thought and meditated and wrote for countless hours to no avail. I have to break these patterns, otherwise my life and everyone’s who is close to me will be disaster.
Has anyone ever conquered self-destructive/emotionally closed off behaviors? Can anyone give me any kind of advice? This is very serious… please don’t respond unless you understand the gravity of this situation.

they’ve helped me out so much, stuck by me when i had a drug problem, payed for my rehab, and mental treatment center, and stood by me and told me they loved me………

im going to get locked up again!!!
but i want to leave them a sad song about how SORRY i am!!!

He’s not an emotional guy in the first place. We’ve had very deep conversations. He’s older than me and never married. He keeps in contact with his last few girlfriends. What kind of guy am I dealing with? He knows I like him. He’s said several things to me to lead me to think he likes me.

My mom, an alcoholic for over 15 years, was recently diagnosed with cirrhosis of the liver. She became diabetic two years ago and has lost massive amounts of weight, brusies extremely easy, has hair loss, and has difficulty walking as she says she often has no feeling in her feet. She decided that she does not care and is continuing to drink as much as she ever did. How long does she have left to live? I’m getting married next August and am wondering if she’ll still be alive by then.

I have 2 sons, 20 and 25. My 25 year old who is @ 6’4″ – 225lbs, is known to abuse drugs/alcohol. He and my younger son have a “co-dependent” relationship. I went to Texas to help my younger son with paperwork for a new “job adventure” that he and my older son took on, (both A.D.H.D.) my older son (with an “instigating” girlfriend) started cussing me and when told to leave me alone yanked me off the floor by my hair, hit me several times and pushing me down to the floor several times. I HAD to call the law. I put a warrant out for his arrest and had an emergency protective order put in. I told my younger son that he best call his brother and girlfriend to tell them they better get a hotel room until I got out of there and back to Alabama. He was extremely angry with me about calling the law. He did not call his brother and he and the girlfriend showed back up, I had the “deadbolt” locked. They started beating on the door really mad. My youngest son got so mad at me because I told him I was calling the police (because of the “protective order”)..he let them in anyway. I barricaded myself inside a bedroom until the law got there. My youngest son was not present at the time this happened yet kept telling me, because of the older son’s irrational behavior and temper that we were going to “get another place”. We never did. The older son was telling his little brother that I attacked him…etc… He actually believed it…( I am disabled, have neuro-vascular problems, degenerative disk disease in my total spine and muscle weakness upon repetitive or extreme exertion, 5’4″ and 125lbs) After the oldest was taken into custody, the younger son wanted to “bail” him out that very moment on a $50,000.00 bond. He couldn’t find his wallet (I was always “keeping up” with everything he kept losing) He decided to call the law on me and told the police that I stole his wallet and had his brother falsely arrested… which he called back to tell them “he found his wallet”… He and my older son’s “girlfriend” started cussing me so horribly because they were mad that I had my son arrested… I had bruises all over me and now having more difficulty walking… The youngest son would not pay me what he owed me, saying wait until HE got paid..(he has PLENTY of money already from his dad’s death in 2000).. The day before he had me to hold onto some cash for him from a refund. It was about $110.00. I wanted to get back home and away from the abuse (not the first time and I was already abused by their late father and and his father years back)… He didn’t want to pay me so I used his cash I was holding to pay a taxi to take me to an airport, I rented a car in which I was thankful I had enough money in my checking account to cover. I drove almost 8 hours to get home in quite a bit of pain. The next day I was really feeling the after affects..physically as well as emotionally… (“WHY”?) My husband took me to the hospital to get checked. As we were thier waiting we found where my oldest son had sent an extremely violent and profane text message threatening my husband and I both. I called in this to the Alabama police. They gave me a case number, etc.. He DID show for his hearing in Texas and will be “arraigned” in a couple of weeks.
I spoke with the Asst. D.A. in Texas. My son did not enter a plea at all. Was told to get an attorney. I know that my son could spend year or more in jail yet the Asst. DA asked what I would want done…?
I personally hold both of my sons responsible, including the girlfriend… I told the DA something to the effect of REHAB, counseling, probation, etc… but I really don’t think that is going to help my son(s) learn that you don’t abuse ANY women… I know for a fact that MONEY is the most important thing in their life, admitted by both sons, sadly enough. I left “money” and “abuse” to get MY life in perspective after a 16 year marriage. It seems that this “abuse” of women runs in the family… I never thought I would be traumatized again as my current husband and I have what others call and I would agree a “perfect marriage”, what I deserved and what I was blessed with after all the traumatizing events that I have endured throughout my life.

SO?… Here I am not wanting to see my sons anymore(?) because of this, my motherhood has been ripped from my heart..and it’s going to take me quite some time to heal over the emotional scars that have been “re-opened”, being betrayed by my younger son… I have thought seriously about filing a civil suit against all 3… They have plenty of money..(I am on full disabilty)

.I have had my gas turned off over 4 months ago for a $194.00 bill. They are well aware of this yet I still have to take a cold shower or heat water to take a bath? They don’t care about me… they only come around when they “need some ‘advice’, feel sick, heartbreaks, tummy aches”…etc…They expect my undvided attention…I have given it… They are never there for “me”, their own mot
BTW? I have another profile on YAHOO and I DON”T mind reading about someone else’s problems and have helped quite a few… If you feel you must give “useless” answers “to get points” then I feel sorry for you… I DO CARE about other people. I AM an empath…
To ALL of you that have given sincere responses?.. I send you my very sincere thanks!!! Bless you ALL!

I have 2 sons, 20 and 25. My 25 year old who is @ 6’4″ – 225lbs, is known to abuse drugs/alcohol. He and my younger son have a “co-dependent” relationship. I went to Texas to help my younger son with paperwork for a new “job adventure” that he and my older son took on, (both A.D.H.D.) my older son (with an “instigating” girlfriend) started cussing me and when told to leave me alone yanked me off the floor by my hair, hit me several times and pushing me down to the floor several times. I HAD to call the law. I put a warrant out for his arrest and had an emergency protective order put in. I told my younger son that he best call his brother and girlfriend to tell them they better get a hotel room until I got out of there and back to Alabama. He was extremely angry with me about calling the law. He did not call his brother and he and the girlfriend showed back up, I had the “deadbolt” locked. They started beating on the door really mad. My youngest son got so mad at me because I told him I was calling the police (because of the “protective order”)..he let them in anyway. I barricaded myself inside a bedroom until the law got there. My youngest son was not present at the time this happened yet kept telling me, because of the older son’s irrational behavior and temper that we were going to “get another place”. We never did. The older son was telling his little brother that I attacked him…etc… He actually believed it…( I am disabled, have neuro-vascular problems, degenerative disk disease in my total spine and muscle weakness upon repetitive or extreme exertion, 5’4″ and 125lbs) After the oldest was taken into custody, the younger son wanted to “bail” him out that very moment on a $50,000.00 bond. He couldn’t find his wallet (I was always “keeping up” with everything he kept losing) He decided to call the law on me and told the police that I stole his wallet and had his brother falsely arrested… which he called back to tell them “he found his wallet”… He and my older son’s “girlfriend” started cussing me so horribly because they were mad that I had my son arrested… I had bruises all over me and now having more difficulty walking… The youngest son would not pay me what he owed me, saying wait until HE got paid..(he has PLENTY of money already from his dad’s death in 2000).. The day before he had me to hold onto some cash for him from a refund. It was about $110.00. I wanted to get back home and away from the abuse (not the first time and I was already abused by their late father and and his father years back)… He didn’t want to pay me so I used his cash I was holding to pay a taxi to take me to an airport, I rented a car in which I was thankful I had enough money in my checking account to cover. I drove almost 8 hours to get home in quite a bit of pain. The next day I was really feeling the after affects..physically as well as emotionally… (“WHY”?) My husband took me to the hospital to get checked. As we were thier waiting we found where my oldest son had sent an extremely violent and profane text message threatening my husband and I both. I called in this to the Alabama police. They gave me a case number, etc.. He DID show for his hearing in Texas and will be “arraigned” in a couple of weeks.
I spoke with the Asst. D.A. in Texas. My son did not enter a plea at all. Was told to get an attorney. I know that my son could spend year or more in jail yet the Asst. DA asked what I would want done…?
I personally hold both of my sons responsible, including the girlfriend… I told the DA something to the effect of REHAB, counseling, probation, etc… but I really don’t think that is going to help my son(s) learn that you don’t abuse ANY women… I know for a fact that MONEY is the most important thing in their life, admitted by both sons, sadly enough. I left “money” and “abuse” to get MY life in perspective after a 16 year marriage. It seems that this “abuse” of women runs in the family… I never thought I would be traumatized again as my current husband and I have what others call and I would agree a “perfect marriage”, what I deserved and what I was blessed with after all the traumatizing events that I have endured throughout my life.

SO?… Here I am not wanting to see my sons anymore(?) because of this, my motherhood has been ripped from my heart..and it’s going to take me quite some time to heal over the emotional scars that have been “re-opened”, being betrayed by my younger son… I have thought seriously about filing a civil suit against all 3… They have plenty of money..(I am on full disabilty)

.I have had my gas turned off over 4 months ago for a $194.00 bill. They are well aware of this yet I still have to take a cold shower or heat water to take a bath? They don’t care about me… they only come around when they “need some ‘advice’, feel sick, heartbreaks, tummy aches”…etc…They expect my undvided attention…I have given it… They are never there for “me”, their own moth

I have 2 sons, 20 and 25. My 25 year old who is @ 6’4″ – 225lbs, is known to abuse drugs/alcohol. He and my younger son have a “co-dependent” relationship. I went to Texas to help my younger son with paperwork for a new “job adventure” that he and my older son took on, (both A.D.H.D.) my older son (with an “instigating” girlfriend) started cussing me and when told to leave me alone yanked me off the floor by my hair, hit me several times and pushing me down to the floor several times. I HAD to call the law. I put a warrant out for his arrest and had an emergency protective order put in. I told my younger son that he best call his brother and girlfriend to tell them they better get a hotel room until I got out of there and back to Alabama. He was extremely angry with me about calling the law. He did not call his brother and he and the girlfriend showed back up, I had the “deadbolt” locked. They started beating on the door really mad. My youngest son got so mad at me because I told him I was calling the police (because of the “protective order”)..he let them in anyway. I barricaded myself inside a bedroom until the law got there. My youngest son was not present at the time this happened yet kept telling me, because of the older son’s irrational behavior and temper that we were going to “get another place”. We never did. The older son was telling his little brother that I attacked him…etc… He actually believed it…( I am disabled, have neuro-vascular problems, degenerative disk disease in my total spine and muscle weakness upon repetitive or extreme exertion, 5’4″ and 125lbs) After the oldest was taken into custody, the younger son wanted to “bail” him out that very moment on a $50,000.00 bond. He couldn’t find his wallet (I was always “keeping up” with everything he kept losing) He decided to call the law on me and told the police that I stole his wallet and had his brother falsely arrested… which he called back to tell them “he found his wallet”… He and my older son’s “girlfriend” started cussing me so horribly because they were mad that I had my son arrested… I had bruises all over me and now having more difficulty walking… The youngest son would not pay me what he owed me, saying wait until HE got paid..(he has PLENTY of money already from his dad’s death in 2000).. The day before he had me to hold onto some cash for him from a refund. It was about $110.00. I wanted to get back home and away from the abuse (not the first time and I was already abused by their late father and and his father years back)… He didn’t want to pay me so I used his cash I was holding to pay a taxi to take me to an airport, I rented a car in which I was thankful I had enough money in my checking account to cover. I drove almost 8 hours to get home in quite a bit of pain. The next day I was really feeling the after affects..physically as well as emotionally… (“WHY”?) My husband took me to the hospital to get checked. As we were thier waiting we found where my oldest son had sent an extremely violent and profane text message threatening my husband and I both. I called in this to the Alabama police. They gave me a case number, etc.. He DID show for his hearing in Texas and will be “arraigned” in a couple of weeks.
I spoke with the Asst. D.A. in Texas. My son did not enter a plea at all. Was told to get an attorney. I know that my son could spend year or more in jail yet the Asst. DA asked what I would want done…?
I personally hold both of my sons responsible, including the girlfriend… I told the DA something to the effect of REHAB, counseling, probation, etc… but I really don’t think that is going to help my son(s) learn that you don’t abuse ANY women… I know for a fact that MONEY is the most important thing in their life, admitted by both sons, sadly enough. I left “money” and “abuse” to get MY life in perspective after a 16 year marriage. It seems that this “abuse” of women runs in the family… I never thought I would be traumatized again as my current husband and I have what others call and I would agree a “perfect marriage”, what I deserved and what I was blessed with after all the traumatizing events that I have endured throughout my life.

SO?… Here I am not wanting to see my sons anymore(?) because of this, my motherhood has been ripped from my heart..and it’s going to take me quite some time to heal over the emotional scars that have been “re-opened”, being betrayed by my younger son… I have thought seriously about filing a civil suit against all 3… They have plenty of money..(I am on full disabilty)

.I have had my gas turned off over 4 months ago for a $194.00 bill. They are well aware of this yet I still have to take a cold shower or heat water to take a bath? They don’t care about me… they only come around when they “need some ‘advice’, feel sick, heartbreaks, tummy aches”…etc…They expect my undvided attention…I have given it… They are never there for “me”, their own mothe

This is long but I appricate if you read it. I’m crying so heard I can barely see the keyboard so sorry for any mistakes.

So I’m 14 and I want to get older but I’m regressing into infant behaviors and I feel like I’ve lost my mind.

To begin the story…

I was born of teenager parents, both were drug addicts. Mom shot up herion and smoked meth, dad liked herion and crack cocaine. At 8 months old I was given up for adoption. I don’t remember my real parents but it really hurts that they just threw me away like I was nothing!!!! I shouldn’t even have been born! I am caucasian, and was adopted by an African American mother and a Caucasian dad. They were in their late 20s/early 30s. They couldn’t have children because my adopted mom (Bernice) had ovarian cancer and had a hyserectomy, and she tells me everyday that I was the miricle child that she always wanted. But I have trouble connecting to her because we’re different races. I don’t know why I’m not racist, I mean it’s special right when a mother and daughter look alike? We don’t. I was crying about this the other day and she always tells me I’m always her bioligcal baby to make me feel better. I never knew my real mom, she was taken to a rehab center when I was a few months old. My real dad we had open contact with but haven’t heard from him in years, we aren’t sure if he is dead or is hiding from the law (he’s been in jail for domestic violence and drug possesion) I’m just sooo sooo sad about this!!! Then my boyfriend wants to break up with me because he says I’m clingy and annoying but I can’t help it I just want someone to love me!!!! And I don’t think I’ll find another boy ever again!

I started watching Cailou, my fav childhood show

Then I watched Little Bill, Kipper the Dog, Seseame Street, and Barney and the Sprout Network

I started sucking my thumb

Then I started sleeping with stuffed animals

Then I got my favorite blankey

Then I picked out a favorite stuffed animal. It had no special connection I just won it out of a claw machine a few years ago!

I always want my mommy to hold me

When I’m upset I cry really bad and I hold my cat and bawl

I don’t know what to do my boyfriend says I’m too clingy and when I don’t take my prozac he can tell (I’m on 30 mg) How do I keep him?

And why am I acting like this help me!!!

my boyfriend is being falsely accused of molesting his son’s mom’s 2 sisters 2 years ago. It just came up recently after his son’s mom got back from a coke binge to stay with her parents and now she’s trying to get custody back of their son. What does he do? He’s been arrested for it and can’t afford an attorney. His son’s mom put her sisters up to this because since she lost her son and put her other one up for adoption she wants him back.
anyone can be arrested for child molestation accusations without proof!! they go solely on the statements of the alleged victim. its procedure to arrest them then have a trial. he pleaded not guilt. his ex girlfriend is a coke head and her family has many unstable issues too. they are known liers and trouble makers. i know that doesn’t mean squat if he did it but a public defender won’t fight to investigate and get all the facts! i thought we were innocent until proven guilty in this country?!