We will help you get your mom off drugs!

I have a kitten that is the same age as the others and it is much smaller then the others. I bought a bottle and a syringe.

I don’t think I am…

I try to help her. She takes wine in her car. She’s gotten a DUI , she’s been to rehab, and when she’s drunk she hits me. Some times I want to commit suicide because I can’t stand it any more. I have NO ONE to talk to. The councilors just say the typical line ” It’s not you” or ” there is nothing you can do” there must be! I can’t just sit back and watch it all go crashing down. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!
I can’t tell any of my relatives because either they dn’t care, don’t know what to do, or they just say yo ignore it and I can’t do that.
I tried talking to her but then she get even more depressed and says ‘Oh so now every thing is MY FAULT!?” stomps away, slams the door, and all I hear is the burdening sound of more wine being pored. I’m 14 years old by the way.
Calling the cops DOES NOT HELP!!! All they do is yell at my mom, me, and tell me to step outside. Police Officers are complete @$$holes where I live. They take things way too seriously. Thy’ll bring 2 cop cars for one drink lady? Why?! Then they take my mom away in an ambulance and all my neighbors see and than when she gets home she drinks again.
Last time the cops came they sprayed me and my dog with pepper spray and I had to walk around school with huge, burning, red rashes everywhere! My dog was allergic to it and had serious effects! I HATE COPS WITH THE DEEPEST PASSION!

im 13 years old and i had to move out of my mom’s place because her drug addiction and alcohol addiction got out of hand. Her boyfriend is also an alcoholic, and well, basically, the guy’s an idiot. He called me and started yelling at me for forgetting to say good bye to his family at his dinner party. I know I should’ve said good bye, but i just wanted to get out of there because i felt weird since i didnt know anyone and because my mom was drunk. he also said that i didnt help with the dishes, WHICH ISNT true and he said a bunch of other lies. he called me mean, a spoiled princess, and that he didnt like me. he then told my dad that he was going to get 4 guys to beat him up and then hes started cussing him out. at that point, i knew i had to leave. so i packed my things and told my mom i wasnt coming back until she got better. which i know will take years. my mom had to go to the ER room because she took to much drugs. My moms boyfriend got drunk and prank called my dad, which caused the police to come to their house because he said something that scared my dad. they found my mom passed out in the laundry room drunk. i just really need some help :( i miss my house, my pets, and i even kinda miss my mom. now, i live with my aunt and my dad and my cousin. im not really used to this place, so are there any tips to help me get more comfortable here? I AM SO STRESSED OUT. whose been through something similar to this?

I’m going to cut her out of my life unless she decides to go to rehab. What is the best way to say this to an addict? Will the message even get through the drug haze? Do I have to do it in person?

My name’s Carl, I’m a 17 year old african american and my father raped me 3 days ago because of his alchoholism.

I love my father despite everything he’s done to me, he came home drunk and bust down my door, and smacked me in the side of the head with a beer bottle and the next thing you know I was being raped, apparently he thought it was my mother, I’m not sure how, but my mother found out about this and now she wants a divorce.

My dad drinks about 4 bottles of beer a day, and is 160lb, so he can’t handle alchohol that well, I don’t want my parents to get divorced, should I lie and say that I made the whole thing up to protect my dad?

I want him to get help
To the stupid wench below, he was DRUNK, extremely DRUNK, please stop being 12

I think it was a Lifetime channel movie. All I remember is that after it happened the mother of the girl made the “drunk driver” write her a check for $1 every week for a certain amount of time – so he would remember as much as she had to remember the loss of her daughter. If anyone has a clue – I would appreciate it. Thanks.

I binged ate for the month of oct and a day or two in November thinking it was because of my breakup with my boyfriend when it turned out to be the lack of support i was getting from my mom

she tells me that i have big hips
then on another day she tells me that i’m noting eating and i’m getting too skinny
I don’t know what to do.
how can i reach my goal
i’m 4ft 10 and gained 3 lbs from 105 in 3 days

i want to reach my goal at 100 lbs
advice

born in pittsburgh pa. dad left when i was 2. my mom moved back in with my grandparents. they raised me instead of her till i was 14. they die in a car accident when i was 14, which put me back in the care of mother who rejected me and put me out in streets. i fought through. found a job traveling the country selling books when i was around 18 or 19. came back to PA. after about a year of that. was homeless again. found stability with friends for a while. bouncing from house to house. trying to make it on my own a few times, and things would always happen to fall out from beneath me, no matter how hard i tried to keep them together. i don’t drink. i don’t do drugs. it was just 1 thing or another messing up my living situations. i recently moved in with my real dad, who again split when i was 2,and kinda just met the guy. He is a violent alcoholic, and i tried to talk to him about getting treatment to quit. he kicked mo out of his house saying “If i don’t like what he does in his house to get out and never come back.” He really kicked me out…I now have no where to go. I’m homeless, and don’t have many friends,and none that i could rely on for help in a situation like this. what do i do?

Can I break my apartment lease?
Help! I am a single mother of a three year old daughter. I moved into my apartment 7 months ago and within the last two months it has gotten very bad. My apartment is across from the laundry room and all times of the day and night people go in there to smoke crack. I have a clear view of the room and they do it in the open. I know that my neighbor is the one selling the drugs because he leaves a pot in the door so they can get in. I have to keep about three towels under the door so the smell doesnt come in. I live on the bottom floor and everyone knocks on my window all times of the night for me to open my door. Recently my daughter asthma was bothering her so I took her to the hospital and when I opened my door they were smoking crack right there. I am scared to call the cops because the drug dealer lives right next to me and the walls are paper thin. He can hear my every word.

My question is, can I break my lease for unsafe conditions. Remember I cannot call the cops because they will know its me I am the only apartment facing the laundry room. I have found another apartment and need to move asap. I also asked management to put a bar on my window and locks, to date that has not been done and anyone can open my window from the outside. Please help me!!!

I think I am going to leave anyway. I forgot to mention that last night someone was banging on my window and they tried to open my screen. I asked one of my neighbors about three times to stop banging on my window because it wakes up my three year old and he just wont listen. I think it was him again. Every night I push my dresser in front of the door because I am scared. ALso I live in a very good middle class neighborhood. This is not the ghetto and I would have never expected this.

Hi,
I’m 18
5’3 96.6 pounds
I might want to reach 90 pounds, but I’m not sure
I don’t like to say I have an eating disorder, but I do
I have anorexia and bulimia
I see a psychiatrist for anxiety and depression
My mom hates it when I don’t eat
I can see why
She doesn’t want to be around me
She sometimes makes jokes
I want her to understand me and not get angry with me

Today I starved for most of the day but tonight i binged and purged
I might binge and purge again tonight

How do I get my mom to care and understand me ?

My older sister is extremely immature. She is 17 and I am 14. She shoplifted (and got arrested) she drank (and had to be taken to the hospitol) she told me she used to smoke crack (she never got busted for that) She drew with sidewalk chalk (and got warned by the police) shes bragged to me about her sex life (just plain disgusting!!) and she likes to make fun of me…

Im a good kid, but all my parents ever do is talk about her. “Chelsea’s in a bad mood, she must be back with eric. Chelsea got in trouble again.” its chelsea this chelsea that AND I AM SICK OF IT!!! the worst part is that my mother is a frickin psychiatrist!!! and she hasn’t even noticed how depressed Ive been lately (even though I TOLD HER!!) nice parents aren’t they!!

I am almost at the point where i think that I should do something bad just for my parents attention (luckily i have some sense of self preservation.) What do i do?? I dont feel like i even belong in my family anymore!

Married for over one year now, I have come to realize that my wife is not what she seemed. She is immature, irresponsible and and overspends. I had to take away (my) credit cards finally. She had a hard time finding work so I supported her ( and her kids). The first year was really hard for all of us, but my wife became a drunk and I had to send her kids to live with her parents while she sobered up. Now she is sober and is working making some money but its not enough to support her own bills. Kids stayed with grandparents cause I literally could not afford her and them. My wife decided to stay with me instead of her kids. She does not get along with her folks and has no job prospects where they live. She says that she wants to stay with me until she gets her education for a better paying job and then raise the kids. Needless to say, we are having problems. The biggest one for me is that I cannot believe that my wife is such a terrible mother. When we met, it did not appear that way. Them we married and I saw how much of a truely inactive parent she was. Truth be told, I kinda jumped into this marriage. Fell in love too quickly without knowing the person. Stupid. And I am no kid! I do love her but her abhorrent parenting skills and the money thing and the stint with alcoholism (she went to rehab) is too much. I go back and forth but ultimately I do not respect her anymore.

Not chugging it but she drank frequently.

I find myself yearning for wine even though a second ago, I spit it out, hating it. And had to fight off cravings for a month.

And when I start eating some type of food I really like, I can’t stop eating though my stomach’s bulging. But no, I’m not fat. Underweight, in fact.

I have custody of my 4 mo. old niece who was born addicted. My sister was using during her pregnancy and cannot care for her. A comment was recently made by a family member that my sister did not deserve to give birth to a healthy baby when so many other people can’t even conceive and that this child shouldn’t be alive. She has also commented that family should not “clean up” messes like that for another family member (meaning my taking custody). Advice on how to handle this please?

Hi,
I’m 18
5’3 96.6 pounds
I might want to reach 90 pounds, but I’m not sure
I don’t like to say I have an eating disorder, but I do
I have anorexia and bulimia
I see a psychiatrist for anxiety and depression
My mom hates it when I don’t eat
I can see why
She doesn’t want to be around me
She sometimes makes jokes
I want her to understand me and not get angry with me

Today I starved for most of the day but tonight i binged and purged
I might binge and purge again tonight

How do I get my mom to care and understand me ?

Hi,
I’m 18
5’3 96.6 pounds
I might want to reach 90 pounds, but I’m not sure
I don’t like to say I have an eating disorder, but I do
I have anorexia and bulimia
I see a psychiatrist for anxiety and depression
My mom hates it when I don’t eat
I can see why
She doesn’t want to be around me
She sometimes makes jokes
I want her to understand me and not get angry with me

Today I starved for most of the day but tonight i binged and purged
I might binge and purge again tonight

How do I get my mom to care and understand me ?

I read an article a little while ago about a mother who killed her brain damaged son with heroin.
He suffered a severe brain injury after falling out of a moving ambulance (How does one fall out of an ambulance?).

She said she could no longer watch him suffer and she did it with love in her heart. She didn’t believe he’d ever get better (Even though doctors thought he might recover) so she couldn’t watch him live in such a helpless condition (Oh, she tried killing him one year before she actually succeeded).

Her entire family supported her and apparently everyone who knew her son didn’t see what she had done as murder, but as a loving and courageous act.

Can someone please lead me to somewhere that i can get him help or get him removed so i don’t have to put up with the stress he gives me.