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Hi,
I’m 18
5’3 96.6 pounds
I might want to reach 90 pounds, but I’m not sure
I don’t like to say I have an eating disorder, but I do
I have anorexia and bulimia
I see a psychiatrist for anxiety and depression
My mom hates it when I don’t eat
I can see why
She doesn’t want to be around me
She sometimes makes jokes
I want her to understand me and not get angry with me

Today I starved for most of the day but tonight i binged and purged
I might binge and purge again tonight

How do I get my mom to care and understand me ?

Hi,
I’m 18
5’3 96.6 pounds
I might want to reach 90 pounds, but I’m not sure
I don’t like to say I have an eating disorder, but I do
I have anorexia and bulimia
I see a psychiatrist for anxiety and depression
My mom hates it when I don’t eat
I can see why
She doesn’t want to be around me
She sometimes makes jokes
I want her to understand me and not get angry with me

Today I starved for most of the day but tonight i binged and purged
I might binge and purge again tonight

How do I get my mom to care and understand me ?

I read an article a little while ago about a mother who killed her brain damaged son with heroin.
He suffered a severe brain injury after falling out of a moving ambulance (How does one fall out of an ambulance?).

She said she could no longer watch him suffer and she did it with love in her heart. She didn’t believe he’d ever get better (Even though doctors thought he might recover) so she couldn’t watch him live in such a helpless condition (Oh, she tried killing him one year before she actually succeeded).

Her entire family supported her and apparently everyone who knew her son didn’t see what she had done as murder, but as a loving and courageous act.

Can someone please lead me to somewhere that i can get him help or get him removed so i don’t have to put up with the stress he gives me.

I’m really pissed off. I don’t deserve to be yelled at because I refuse to feed her addiction. Getting my stepdad on my side is really hard because he doesn’t like people angry at him… I feel horrible for him, but he needs to stand up and say, no, i’m not getting you alcohol…help?

Not chugging it but she drank frequently.

I find myself yearning for wine even though a second ago, I spit it out, hating it. And had to fight off cravings for a month.

And when I start eating some type of food I really like, I can’t stop eating though my stomach’s bulging. But no, I’m not fat. Underweight, in fact.

when i say you get addicted to cause your mom used them, i mean you were born with an addiction cause she used them when she was pregnant with you.

Background:

I’m 24 now…my dad started drinking about 3 years ago after 12 years of sobriety, which was devastating to me, because he was the only person in my family I could turn to for advice and comfort. He was also kind, wise and always interested in my life, even when I could be a jerk as a teenager or young woman. Since he started drinking again, I feel like I’ve lost him; he has said inappropriate things around me, lies a lot, doesn’t return calls and loses track of events….the worst is that he doesn’t seem to care about me as much anymore. He used to call or email, especially if I hadn’t contacted him in a while.

And therein lies my problem; we haven’t talked since I was visiting my hometown in late March. I accept that I am part of the problem……it’s hard for me to explain; although I miss him and want to talk to him, I get anxious about calling him and just don’t because it’s heartbreaking to hear him impaired/drunk. But as the parent, I expect him to call me, at least to know I’m OK….

The third part to this problem is that I think my dad is adopting the attitude of his mother; throughout my life, she has always expected me to make the effort to be close to her and doesn’t try herself. For example, I had to take the public bus to her house on Christmas, and then walk 25 minutes in the snow, because she didn’t want to pick me up. She is a pessimist and full of self-pity. Lately, they have gotten so close because I believe she is a co-dependant. He is hyper-sensitive about anyone criticizing her (my siblings think of her as I do) and I wonder if he’s taking on her “poor me, nobody calls me, so damed if I call them” type attitude.

So; how do I communicate with my dad again? Is he acting this way because of alcoholism, his mother, or both? Thoughts?

my mom is 49 and is having her menopause, her mood swing uncontrolably. since i’m always at home, i’m always the one being targeted at. she scold me for every minor thing, for these 2 years, i can’t think of a day that i’m not being scolded at. at first, it was still ok, but now, i felt like i’m being mentally abused.. it’s almost like brainwashing, i seriously can’t stand anymore..

i love my mom, when she’s calm, she’s a loving and caring mom. but i really hate her for making me the victim of her swinging mood. i tried to fix our relationship and tell her how i feel, but whenever i do so, she becomes very aggressive and start arguing. i tried telling her to calm and all i want is just a talk, she’ll become furious and said she’s not scolding or arguing…

and cos of this, i started become extremely depressed from time to time, even when we’re not arguing, i’d depressed for no reason. i’d lock myself up and cry or sometimes even try hurting myself., but i never let my parents know that. i tried to help myself by talking less to my mom, but she’s still the same old her, finding things to scold me even i tried to keep out contact minimal, and this makes me even more depressed.

and these few months, i think i maybe suffering from binge eating also.. half a year ago, i was actually a little underweight, but now, i’m on the verge of overweight, i’ve gained 15lbs in 6 months.. whenever i felt depressed, i will FORCE myself to eat cakes, desserts and all kind of junk food.. just last nite, i’ve ate 5 regular size chocolate cakes.. i was not hungry, i just want to eat for no reason. but everytime after i eat like this, i’ll feel extremely guilty, and last nite, i’ve tried to make myself vomit for the first time, tho not successful..
so this morning, i tried to told my mom i seems unable to control myself from eating junk food, but turned out i was being scolded again and when i ask her if she can just be calm and listen, again, she became even furious…

i dunno how much longer can i stand this before i developed any other disorder…i really has had enough… but i dunno what can i do..
i dont want to tell my dad about it.. cos he’s super loving and i know if i tell him, he’ll probably can’t focus on his work.. i don’t want my problem to be a burden to him.. also, i don’t think he’ll be able to understand how hurtful my mom’s words are to me.. u know, my parents love each others.. he may just think i take her words too personally..

i did tell my friend about my depression cos of my mom, i felt relieved everytime i talked to them, but the problem is still there.. also i don’t want to tell my friends about my binge eating problem..

Person does not drive so how will he be arrested? Will they go to his job? He has custody of child, so what happens to the child if he is arrested? Mother is dope addict/alcoholic.

Think of all the hours of work lost….Children left unattended in their poor lil cribs alone while Mothers typed away!

All the hours housewives around the world should have been cleaning their homes but couldn’t stop!

What about the numerous Carpel tunnel cases?

It is endless!

Any shady lawyers out there? lol

Not chugging it but she drank frequently.

I find myself yearning for wine even though a second ago, I spit it out, hating it. And had to fight off cravings for a month.

And when I start eating some type of food I really like, I can’t stop eating though my stomach’s bulging. But no, I’m not fat. Underweight, in fact.

Not chugging it but she drank frequently.

I find myself yearning for wine even though a second ago, I spit it out, hating it. And had to fight off cravings for a month.

And when I start eating some type of food I really like, I can’t stop eating though my stomach’s bulging. But no, I’m not fat. Underweight, in fact.

What would you do to save the life of your child? Would you die? Would you kill? Would you put your personal beliefs aside if it meant saving your child’s life?

In Minnesota right now there is a mother who may well be sentencing her son to death because of her beliefs. Colleen Hauser is the mother of 13-year-old Daniel Hauser who was diagnosed with Hodgkin’s lymphoma in January of 2009. Her son received one chemotherapy treatment and Ms. Hauser has since refused to allow her son to have treatment. She states that they are using nutrition and water with a higher pH to “alkalize” the body. Ms. Hauser asserts membership in an American Indian religious organization called Nemenhah, though they don’t claim to be Indians/Native Americans.

Ms. Hauser has been quoted in several articles that she learned about the alternative healing techniques “on the Internet.” She reports that she believes that her son “is getting better” contrary to all medical evidence.

Part of being a mother is knowing that there are times that the needs of your children have to surpass your own. For centuries mothers have put their needs aside to make sure that their children have everything they need. Mothers have skipped meals, scrimped and saved every dime, postponed their own medical care in order to provide for their children.

Every parent I know who has fought cancer has shared gratitude that it was they and not their child who was ill. I would go through any possible treatment if it means that they don’t have to.

Ms. Hauser has every right to choose any type of treatment or no treatment at all when she is ill. Daniel Hauser is 13 years old, not old enough to drink, marry, drive, not even old enough to get a learner’s permit. The decision about this young mans life and future now lie in the hands of Judge John Rodenberg. Let’s hope that he has the wisdom to make a decision that his mother is unwilling or unable to make.

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I’m really pissed off. I don’t deserve to be yelled at because I refuse to feed her addiction. Getting my stepdad on my side is really hard because he doesn’t like people angry at him… I feel horrible for him, but he needs to stand up and say, no, i’m not getting you alcohol…help?

I’m really pissed off. I don’t deserve to be yelled at because I refuse to feed her addiction. Getting my stepdad on my side is really hard because he doesn’t like people angry at him… I feel horrible for him, but he needs to stand up and say, no, i’m not getting you alcohol…help?

the pregnancy? Does Children Services get involved? What can happen to the mother? (and no it is NOT me). Thanks.

born in pittsburgh pa. dad left when i was 2. my mom moved back in with my grandparents. they raised me instead of her till i was 14. they die in a car accident when i was 14, which put me back in the care of mother who rejected me and put me out in streets. i fought through. found a job traveling the country selling books when i was around 18 or 19. came back to PA. after about a year of that. was homeless again. found stability with friends for a while. bouncing from house to house. trying to make it on my own a few times, and things would always happen to fall out from beneath me, no matter how hard i tried to keep them together. i don’t drink. i don’t do drugs. it was just 1 thing or another messing up my living situations. i recently moved in with my real dad, who again split when i was 2,and kinda just met the guy. He is a violent alcoholic, and i tried to talk to him about getting treatment to quit. he kicked mo out of his house saying “If i don’t like what he does in his house to get out and never come back.” He really kicked me out…I now have no where to go. I’m homeless, and don’t have many friends,and none that i could rely on for help in a situation like this. what do i do?

My God daughter spent the night with me last night and her mom has been telling me that my God daughter has been being awful to her and her boyfriend. She said that nothing is helping with it either.

So last night she spent the night with me and this morning I asked her what was goin on at home and why she has been being so mean to her mom and her mom’s boyfriend.

She told me that her mom drinks the stuff she’s not supposed to ALL the time and she doesnt like it. And that her mom and the boyfriend will go into the bedroom and lock the door and her mom wont come out when she needs her and will stay in their for a long time even during the day.

My God daughter is seven years old. I asked her if she told her mom how this stuff bothers her and she said she did but it only gets her in trouble and her mom tells her to stay out of her business.

She takes care of her physical needs, however she is not there for her emotionally at all.

My friend is VERY defensive when you try to talk to her about anything and she can get flat out mean. How can I go about telling her that what she is doing is wrong. She’s not putting her daughter first, instead she is more worried about screwing her new boyfriend and going out parying 5 or 6 nights a week.

Should I put together an intervention or somthing?
oh and the biological father is not in the picture…he never has been.