We will help you get your mom off drugs!

im gone for 3 hours a day – and child care is expensive.. shall I look around :-(

It’s been 7days today! Tomorrow going to remove the breathing tube and put it in her throat and put in feeding tube, move her to ventilator floor and move her to nursing home friday! Im concerned about if she has another stroke how will they know???? Not going to order rehab and i think she a least deserves a chance for rehab, she is responding to me on command.. HELP

Dang. I’m recovering from an eating disorder, and I binged. It was so random. I told my mom, “I’m about to eat a lot of food.” and she was like, “Good!! Should I take a picture?” (She was kidding about the picture thing.)

So anyways, I just ate a huge peanut butter and jelly sandwich, chocolate protein shake, chocolate pudding, fruit loops, crackers, Easter candy, and a ton more. I have a tummy ache now, and I’m feeling a bit weird. Like, I don’t feel guilty. The worst par about it is that I’m waiting for the biscuits to get done cooking in the oven, and once they get done, I[‘m going to melt cheese on them and force them down my throat. Then, I’m going to go watch Sex and the City.

I’m like 5’3 and 98 pounds. Will I look any different tomorrow?

I have to ask this because people give the information to those who have barely even possibly conceived and drank without knowing that their child may be born with serious birth defects or fetal alcohol syndrome. I have never heard of this happening, and I’d be blown away to hear someone who has..I’m talking about the first few weeks of pregnancy, not a case where someone drinks throughout pregnancy. Any thoughts, stories, or opinions?
So far, my point exactly….. I wish people would stop telling others who are concerned about drinking 2 weeks after conception that their baby might have fetal alcohol syndrome.
Oh, this isn’t for my concern.. I was just reading another question of someone who was concerned about herself, and I was wondering who has actually witnessed a case of FAS such as this?
emilie- your question is what led me to ask mine! :) I responded to yours. I think you’re fine!! Wouldn’t worry if I was you! ;)

So, I’ve been on a diet for the past few weeks, it’s been more exercise, but tonight my mom bought Salt and Vinegar chips, my weakness, I caved and ate almost the whole bag. (I threw the rest away) and now I feel like shit. What should I do? I’m not going to worry about it too much, but right now, I have such a bad stomach ache. I know it’s bad to binge, but I’ve been stressed and anxious and ish.

Ideas?

Hi

So, as you can see, I just talked to my mother and it has been about 10 years. My mom and dad had me when they were teenagers and started taking drugs when I was 3. Due to drugs, they were in rehab for a majority of my life, so my aunt’s looked after me. My dad got clean after I became pregnant at 14. We still talk and he is very involved in my life now. As for my mom, she told me that she hated me when she found out I was pregnant and told me she didn’t love me.

I was able to raise my daughters with my husband and I finished school,went to law school, and now I am a lawyer. I am currently 2 months pregnant with my third child and I have been thinking that I want my children to know their grandmother because my daughters have never met her. I want them to know that she is my mother and that I still love her.

So, earlier today at work, she called me and had a very awkward conversation. It is really weird talking to her after all that has happened between us and she asked me if I wanted to meet her up for lunch sometime and I said yes. But I don’t know how I will react to seeing her and what to say. I just need some advice on how to handle lunch with her.

Thank You:)
Riley

my mom died over three years ago from alcoholism, i had a very tumultous relationship with her never rly got closer. it was definetly a love-hate relationship.

anyways i was in a different state the night she died. i was with my boyfriend and at 4 AM my body jolted up in the bed and i could barely breath because in my sleep i saw something so horrific (i want to say it was like a demon’s face… im not trying to be cliche thats seriously what i feel i saw) i was completly shaken and started to cry alittle, i woke up my boyfriend who told me to go back to sleep, even though i was completly spooked i fell asleep. then at 7 am my cell phone rings and my sister was crying saying mom died. i know this situation is definitly unique to me, and it really wouldnt apply to most, but iv been dreaming horrible dreams about her lately, and ever since she died i never had one good dream about her, they’v all been nightmares (and shes the enemy in them all).

i dont even know why im talking about it here, i guess its really been bothering me i dont know where else to bring something like this up. i know this topic has no scientific proof for anybody to say “oh yeah that was ur mom” or “ur mom is visiting you in ur sleep”.

i dont even know what else to say, its been consuming my mind and bothering me more and more, and i feel stupid asking if any of you think its her. so i dont know why i posted this… i guess it felt a little better typing it down in hopes of somebody actually giving a shit.

I had a pretty broken home. My mother was a severe alcoholic and she dated a guy that later started to freebase (basically smoking crack). That was not really a big problem though because I figured out they were losers at a young age. The biggest problem was they both totally controlled my life and I had very little contact to the outside world so I was already socially awkward. When I started to get older 15-16ish things got really bad and I completely shut my self off from society, only going to school and work. After I turned 18 I joined the military hoping that I would kind of be able to get my life together but while in the military I got the living sh1t hazed out of me. Beaten up pretty badly, even had my rack urinated on and called a homo because I did want to have sex with random girls because I had never had even had any type of relationship or even kissed a girl for that matter. Now I am in my 20′s I have no friends and will be getting out of the military soon and have a horrible time socializing or even meeting people.

he has no child and (only) his two parents inherit him why in Islam if a person die his mother shall have the third and the rest is for his father ?
so how you can say in qoran and islam women have the same right that men have and they have equal rights , according to this verses of qoran a mother havent the same portion right of her child as her husband have about his child . please don’t write me because fathers support a child from financial aspects because this is not a general rule for example
1. Nowadays there are women who work out and they can afford their child
Or suppose a child has a father who is addicted so the mother of this family have to work out and provide for his childerns
2 .When a child grew up out of his family and none of his mother or father hadnt play a role in his life for getting his wealth
In any situation in islam a mother inherit of her child only 1/3 of herchild possessions and the rest is for the father and that’s not fair

allah enjoins you concerning your children: the male shall have the equal of the portion of two females; then if they are more than two females, they shall have two-thirds of what the deceased has left, and if there is one, she shall have the half; and as for his parents, each of them shall have the sixth of what he has left if he has a child, but if he has no child and (only) his two parents inherit him, then his mother shall have the third; but if he has brothers, then his mother shall have the sixth after (the payment of) a bequest he may have bequeathed or a debt; your parents and your children, you know not which of them is the nearer to you in usefulness; this is an ordinance from allah: surely allah is knowing, wise (11)
يُوصِيكُمُ اللّهُ فِي أَوْلاَدِكُمْ لِلذَّكَرِ مِثْلُ حَظِّ الأُنثَيَيْنِ فَإِن كُنَّ نِسَاء فَوْقَ اثْنَتَيْنِ فَلَهُنَّ ثُلُثَا مَا تَرَكَ وَإِن كَانَتْ وَاحِدَةً فَلَهَا النِّصْفُ وَلأَبَوَيْهِ لِكُلِّ وَاحِدٍ مِّنْهُمَا السُّدُسُ مِمَّا تَرَكَ إِن كَانَ لَهُ وَلَدٌ فَإِن لَّمْ يَكُن لَّهُ وَلَدٌ وَوَرِثَهُ أَبَوَاهُ فَلأُمِّهِ الثُّلُثُ فَإِن كَانَ لَهُ إِخْوَةٌ فَلأُمِّهِ السُّدُسُ مِن بَعْدِ وَصِيَّةٍ يُوصِي بِهَا أَوْ دَيْنٍ آبَآؤُكُمْ وَأَبناؤُكُمْ لاَ تَدْرُونَ أَيُّهُمْ أَقْرَبُ لَكُمْ نَفْعاً فَرِيضَةً مِّنَ اللّهِ إِنَّ اللّهَ كَانَ عَلِيما حَكِيمًا ﴿11﴾
خداوند به شما در باره فرزندانتان سفارش مى‏كند سهم پسر چون سهم دو دختر است و اگر [همه ورثه] دختر [و] از دو تن بيشتر باشند سهم آنان دو سوم ماترك است و اگر [دخترى كه ارث مى‏برد] يكى باشد نيمى از ميراث از آن اوست و براى هر يك از پدر و مادر وى [=متوفى] يك ششم از ماترك [مقرر شده] است اين در صورتى است كه [متوفى] فرزندى داشته باشد ولى اگر فرزندى نداشته باشد و [تنها] پدر و مادرش از او ارث برند براى مادرش يك سوم است [و بقيه را پدر مى‏برد] و اگر او برادرانى داشته باشد مادرش يك ششم مى‏برد [البته همه اينها] پس از انجام وصيتى است كه او بدان سفارش كرده يا د ينى [كه بايد استثنا شود] شما نمى دانيد پدران و فرزندانتان كدام يك براى شما سودمندترند [اين] فرضى است از جانب خدا زيرا خداوند داناى حكيم است (11)
@ my friend mandana
if we should accept some part of quran doesnt seems to be fair or agreeable for todays or they come to the society that have lack of intelligence so how can tell islam is the last and the best religion for any time and any people in any where suppose there are a lot of wrong laws in some backward society like arab communites but do you really think it convince us to believe these laws or things that has told in islam or qoran is true and agreeable ?
Yes you are true there are alot of muslims who act in differents ways but its nt reason to accept islam is right
i believe most of things that has told in qoran or prophet sayings isnt suitable for todays even muslim says these are things that came for people who had lack of intelligence in those time not now

he has no child and (only) his two parents inherit him why in Islam if a person die his mother shall have the third and the rest is for his father ?
so how you can say in qoran and islam women have the same right that men have and they have equal rights , according to this verses of qoran a mother havent the same portion right of her child as her husband have about his child . please don’t write me because fathers support a child from financial aspects because this is not a general rule for example
1. Nowadays there are women who work out and they can afford their child
Or suppose a child has a father who is addicted so the mother of this family have to work out and provide for his childerns
2 .When a child grew up out of his family and none of his mother or father hadnt play a role in his life for getting his wealth
In any situation in islam a mother inherit of her child only 1/3 of herchild possessions and the rest is for the father and that’s not fair

allah enjoins you concerning your children: the male shall have the equal of the portion of two females; then if they are more than two females, they shall have two-thirds of what the deceased has left, and if there is one, she shall have the half; and as for his parents, each of them shall have the sixth of what he has left if he has a child, but if he has no child and (only) his two parents inherit him, then his mother shall have the third; but if he has brothers, then his mother shall have the sixth after (the payment of) a bequest he may have bequeathed or a debt; your parents and your children, you know not which of them is the nearer to you in usefulness; this is an ordinance from allah: surely allah is knowing, wise (11)
يُوصِيكُمُ اللّهُ فِي أَوْلاَدِكُمْ لِلذَّكَرِ مِثْلُ حَظِّ الأُنثَيَيْنِ فَإِن كُنَّ نِسَاء فَوْقَ اثْنَتَيْنِ فَلَهُنَّ ثُلُثَا مَا تَرَكَ وَإِن كَانَتْ وَاحِدَةً فَلَهَا النِّصْفُ وَلأَبَوَيْهِ لِكُلِّ وَاحِدٍ مِّنْهُمَا السُّدُسُ مِمَّا تَرَكَ إِن كَانَ لَهُ وَلَدٌ فَإِن لَّمْ يَكُن لَّهُ وَلَدٌ وَوَرِثَهُ أَبَوَاهُ فَلأُمِّهِ الثُّلُثُ فَإِن كَانَ لَهُ إِخْوَةٌ فَلأُمِّهِ السُّدُسُ مِن بَعْدِ وَصِيَّةٍ يُوصِي بِهَا أَوْ دَيْنٍ آبَآؤُكُمْ وَأَبناؤُكُمْ لاَ تَدْرُونَ أَيُّهُمْ أَقْرَبُ لَكُمْ نَفْعاً فَرِيضَةً مِّنَ اللّهِ إِنَّ اللّهَ كَانَ عَلِيما حَكِيمًا ﴿11﴾
خداوند به شما در باره فرزندانتان سفارش مى‏كند سهم پسر چون سهم دو دختر است و اگر [همه ورثه] دختر [و] از دو تن بيشتر باشند سهم آنان دو سوم ماترك است و اگر [دخترى كه ارث مى‏برد] يكى باشد نيمى از ميراث از آن اوست و براى هر يك از پدر و مادر وى [=متوفى] يك ششم از ماترك [مقرر شده] است اين در صورتى است كه [متوفى] فرزندى داشته باشد ولى اگر فرزندى نداشته باشد و [تنها] پدر و مادرش از او ارث برند براى مادرش يك سوم است [و بقيه را پدر مى‏برد] و اگر او برادرانى داشته باشد مادرش يك ششم مى‏برد [البته همه اينها] پس از انجام وصيتى است كه او بدان سفارش كرده يا د ينى [كه بايد استثنا شود] شما نمى دانيد پدران و فرزندانتان كدام يك براى شما سودمندترند [اين] فرضى است از جانب خدا زيرا خداوند داناى حكيم است (1

he has no child and (only) his two parents inherit him why in Islam if a person die his mother shall have the third and the rest is for his father ?
so how you can say in qoran and islam women have the same right that men have and they have equal rights , according to this verses of qoran a mother havent the same portion right of her child as her husband have about his child . please don’t write me because fathers support a child from financial aspects because this is not a general rule for example
1. Nowadays there are women who work out and they can afford their child
Or suppose a child has a father who is addicted so the mother of this family have to work out and provide for his childerns
2 .When a child grew up out of his family and none of his mother or father hadnt play a role in his life for getting his wealth
In any situation in islam a mother inherit of her child only 1/3 of herchild possessions and the rest is for the father and that’s not fair

allah enjoins you concerning your children: the male shall have the equal of the portion of two females; then if they are more than two females, they shall have two-thirds of what the deceased has left, and if there is one, she shall have the half; and as for his parents, each of them shall have the sixth of what he has left if he has a child, but if he has no child and (only) his two parents inherit him, then his mother shall have the third; but if he has brothers, then his mother shall have the sixth after (the payment of) a bequest he may have bequeathed or a debt; your parents and your children, you know not which of them is the nearer to you in usefulness; this is an ordinance from allah: surely allah is knowing, wise (11)
يُوصِيكُمُ اللّهُ فِي أَوْلاَدِكُمْ لِلذَّكَرِ مِثْلُ حَظِّ الأُنثَيَيْنِ فَإِن كُنَّ نِسَاء فَوْقَ اثْنَتَيْنِ فَلَهُنَّ ثُلُثَا مَا تَرَكَ وَإِن كَانَتْ وَاحِدَةً فَلَهَا النِّصْفُ وَلأَبَوَيْهِ لِكُلِّ وَاحِدٍ مِّنْهُمَا السُّدُسُ مِمَّا تَرَكَ إِن كَانَ لَهُ وَلَدٌ فَإِن لَّمْ يَكُن لَّهُ وَلَدٌ وَوَرِثَهُ أَبَوَاهُ فَلأُمِّهِ الثُّلُثُ فَإِن كَانَ لَهُ إِخْوَةٌ فَلأُمِّهِ السُّدُسُ مِن بَعْدِ وَصِيَّةٍ يُوصِي بِهَا أَوْ دَيْنٍ آبَآؤُكُمْ وَأَبناؤُكُمْ لاَ تَدْرُونَ أَيُّهُمْ أَقْرَبُ لَكُمْ نَفْعاً فَرِيضَةً مِّنَ اللّهِ إِنَّ اللّهَ كَانَ عَلِيما حَكِيمًا ﴿11﴾
خداوند به شما در باره فرزندانتان سفارش مى‏كند سهم پسر چون سهم دو دختر است و اگر [همه ورثه] دختر [و] از دو تن بيشتر باشند سهم آنان دو سوم ماترك است و اگر [دخترى كه ارث مى‏برد] يكى باشد نيمى از ميراث از آن اوست و براى هر يك از پدر و مادر وى [=متوفى] يك ششم از ماترك [مقرر شده] است اين در صورتى است كه [متوفى] فرزندى داشته باشد ولى اگر فرزندى نداشته باشد و [تنها] پدر و مادرش از او ارث برند براى مادرش يك سوم است [و بقيه را پدر مى‏برد] و اگر او برادرانى داشته باشد مادرش يك ششم مى‏برد [البته همه اينها] پس از انجام وصيتى است كه او بدان سفارش كرده يا د ينى [كه بايد استثنا شود] شما نمى دانيد پدران و فرزندانتان كدام يك براى شما سودمندترند [اين] فرضى است از جانب خدا زيرا خداوند داناى حكيم است (1

he has no child and (only) his two parents inherit him why in Islam if a person die his mother shall have the third and the rest is for his father ?
so how you can say in qoran and islam women have the same right that men have and they have equal rights , according to this verses of qoran a mother havent the same portion right of her child as her husband have about his child . please don’t write me because fathers support a child from financial aspects because this is not a general rule for example
1. Nowadays there are women who work out and they can afford their child
Or suppose a child has a father who is addicted so the mother of this family have to work out and provide for his childerns
2 .When a child grew up out of his family and none of his mother or father hadnt play a role in his life for getting his wealth
In any situation in islam a mother inherit of her child only 1/3 of herchild possessions and the rest is for the father and that’s not fair

allah enjoins you concerning your children: the male shall have the equal of the portion of two females; then if they are more than two females, they shall have two-thirds of what the deceased has left, and if there is one, she shall have the half; and as for his parents, each of them shall have the sixth of what he has left if he has a child, but if he has no child and (only) his two parents inherit him, then his mother shall have the third; but if he has brothers, then his mother shall have the sixth after (the payment of) a bequest he may have bequeathed or a debt; your parents and your children, you know not which of them is the nearer to you in usefulness; this is an ordinance from allah: surely allah is knowing, wise (11)
يُوصِيكُمُ اللّهُ فِي أَوْلاَدِكُمْ لِلذَّكَرِ مِثْلُ حَظِّ الأُنثَيَيْنِ فَإِن كُنَّ نِسَاء فَوْقَ اثْنَتَيْنِ فَلَهُنَّ ثُلُثَا مَا تَرَكَ وَإِن كَانَتْ وَاحِدَةً فَلَهَا النِّصْفُ وَلأَبَوَيْهِ لِكُلِّ وَاحِدٍ مِّنْهُمَا السُّدُسُ مِمَّا تَرَكَ إِن كَانَ لَهُ وَلَدٌ فَإِن لَّمْ يَكُن لَّهُ وَلَدٌ وَوَرِثَهُ أَبَوَاهُ فَلأُمِّهِ الثُّلُثُ فَإِن كَانَ لَهُ إِخْوَةٌ فَلأُمِّهِ السُّدُسُ مِن بَعْدِ وَصِيَّةٍ يُوصِي بِهَا أَوْ دَيْنٍ آبَآؤُكُمْ وَأَبناؤُكُمْ لاَ تَدْرُونَ أَيُّهُمْ أَقْرَبُ لَكُمْ نَفْعاً فَرِيضَةً مِّنَ اللّهِ إِنَّ اللّهَ كَانَ عَلِيما حَكِيمًا ﴿11﴾
خداوند به شما در باره فرزندانتان سفارش مى‏كند سهم پسر چون سهم دو دختر است و اگر [همه ورثه] دختر [و] از دو تن بيشتر باشند سهم آنان دو سوم ماترك است و اگر [دخترى كه ارث مى‏برد] يكى باشد نيمى از ميراث از آن اوست و براى هر يك از پدر و مادر وى [=متوفى] يك ششم از ماترك [مقرر شده] است اين در صورتى است كه [متوفى] فرزندى داشته باشد ولى اگر فرزندى نداشته باشد و [تنها] پدر و مادرش از او ارث برند براى مادرش يك سوم است [و بقيه را پدر مى‏برد] و اگر او برادرانى داشته باشد مادرش يك ششم مى‏برد [البته همه اينها] پس از انجام وصيتى است كه او بدان سفارش كرده يا د ينى [كه بايد استثنا شود] شما نمى دانيد پدران و فرزندانتان كدام يك براى شما سودمندترند [اين] فرضى است از جانب خدا زيرا خداوند داناى حكيم است (1

he has no child and (only) his two parents inherit him why in Islam if a person die his mother shall have the third and the rest is for his father ?
so how you can say in qoran and islam women have the same right that men have and they have equal rights , according to this verses of qoran a mother havent the same portion right of her child as her husband have about his child . please don’t write me because fathers support a child from financial aspects because this is not a general rule for example
1. Nowadays there are women who work out and they can afford their child
Or suppose a child has a father who is addicted so the mother of this family have to work out and provide for his childerns
2 .When a child grew up out of his family and none of his mother or father hadnt play a role in his life for getting his wealth
In any situation in islam a mother inherit of her child only 1/3 of herchild possessions and the rest is for the father and that’s not fair

allah enjoins you concerning your children: the male shall have the equal of the portion of two females; then if they are more than two females, they shall have two-thirds of what the deceased has left, and if there is one, she shall have the half; and as for his parents, each of them shall have the sixth of what he has left if he has a child, but if he has no child and (only) his two parents inherit him, then his mother shall have the third; but if he has brothers, then his mother shall have the sixth after (the payment of) a bequest he may have bequeathed or a debt; your parents and your children, you know not which of them is the nearer to you in usefulness; this is an ordinance from allah: surely allah is knowing, wise (11)
يُوصِيكُمُ اللّهُ فِي أَوْلاَدِكُمْ لِلذَّكَرِ مِثْلُ حَظِّ الأُنثَيَيْنِ فَإِن كُنَّ نِسَاء فَوْقَ اثْنَتَيْنِ فَلَهُنَّ ثُلُثَا مَا تَرَكَ وَإِن كَانَتْ وَاحِدَةً فَلَهَا النِّصْفُ وَلأَبَوَيْهِ لِكُلِّ وَاحِدٍ مِّنْهُمَا السُّدُسُ مِمَّا تَرَكَ إِن كَانَ لَهُ وَلَدٌ فَإِن لَّمْ يَكُن لَّهُ وَلَدٌ وَوَرِثَهُ أَبَوَاهُ فَلأُمِّهِ الثُّلُثُ فَإِن كَانَ لَهُ إِخْوَةٌ فَلأُمِّهِ السُّدُسُ مِن بَعْدِ وَصِيَّةٍ يُوصِي بِهَا أَوْ دَيْنٍ آبَآؤُكُمْ وَأَبناؤُكُمْ لاَ تَدْرُونَ أَيُّهُمْ أَقْرَبُ لَكُمْ نَفْعاً فَرِيضَةً مِّنَ اللّهِ إِنَّ اللّهَ كَانَ عَلِيما حَكِيمًا ﴿11﴾
خداوند به شما در باره فرزندانتان سفارش مى‏كند سهم پسر چون سهم دو دختر است و اگر [همه ورثه] دختر [و] از دو تن بيشتر باشند سهم آنان دو سوم ماترك است و اگر [دخترى كه ارث مى‏برد] يكى باشد نيمى از ميراث از آن اوست و براى هر يك از پدر و مادر وى [=متوفى] يك ششم از ماترك [مقرر شده] است اين در صورتى است كه [متوفى] فرزندى داشته باشد ولى اگر فرزندى نداشته باشد و [تنها] پدر و مادرش از او ارث برند براى مادرش يك سوم است [و بقيه را پدر مى‏برد] و اگر او برادرانى داشته باشد مادرش يك ششم مى‏برد [البته همه اينها] پس از انجام وصيتى است كه او بدان سفارش كرده يا د ينى [كه بايد استثنا شود] شما نمى دانيد پدران و فرزندانتان كدام يك براى شما سودمندترند [اين] فرضى است از جانب خدا زيرا خداوند داناى حكيم است (1

he has no child and (only) his two parents inherit him why in Islam if a person die his mother shall have the third and the rest is for his father ?
so how you can say in qoran and islam women have the same right that men have and they have equal rights , according to this verses of qoran a mother havent the same portion right of her child as her husband have about his child . please don’t write me because fathers support a child from financial aspects because this is not a general rule for example
1. Nowadays there are women who work out and they can afford their child
Or suppose a child has a father who is addicted so the mother of this family have to work out and provide for his childerns
2 .When a child grew up out of his family and none of his mother or father hadnt play a role in his life for getting his wealth
In any situation in islam a mother inherit of her child only 1/3 of herchild possessions and the rest is for the father and that’s not fair

allah enjoins you concerning your children: the male shall have the equal of the portion of two females; then if they are more than two females, they shall have two-thirds of what the deceased has left, and if there is one, she shall have the half; and as for his parents, each of them shall have the sixth of what he has left if he has a child, but if he has no child and (only) his two parents inherit him, then his mother shall have the third; but if he has brothers, then his mother shall have the sixth after (the payment of) a bequest he may have bequeathed or a debt; your parents and your children, you know not which of them is the nearer to you in usefulness; this is an ordinance from allah: surely allah is knowing, wise (11)
يُوصِيكُمُ اللّهُ فِي أَوْلاَدِكُمْ لِلذَّكَرِ مِثْلُ حَظِّ الأُنثَيَيْنِ فَإِن كُنَّ نِسَاء فَوْقَ اثْنَتَيْنِ فَلَهُنَّ ثُلُثَا مَا تَرَكَ وَإِن كَانَتْ وَاحِدَةً فَلَهَا النِّصْفُ وَلأَبَوَيْهِ لِكُلِّ وَاحِدٍ مِّنْهُمَا السُّدُسُ مِمَّا تَرَكَ إِن كَانَ لَهُ وَلَدٌ فَإِن لَّمْ يَكُن لَّهُ وَلَدٌ وَوَرِثَهُ أَبَوَاهُ فَلأُمِّهِ الثُّلُثُ فَإِن كَانَ لَهُ إِخْوَةٌ فَلأُمِّهِ السُّدُسُ مِن بَعْدِ وَصِيَّةٍ يُوصِي بِهَا أَوْ دَيْنٍ آبَآؤُكُمْ وَأَبناؤُكُمْ لاَ تَدْرُونَ أَيُّهُمْ أَقْرَبُ لَكُمْ نَفْعاً فَرِيضَةً مِّنَ اللّهِ إِنَّ اللّهَ كَانَ عَلِيما حَكِيمًا ﴿11﴾
خداوند به شما در باره فرزندانتان سفارش مى‏كند سهم پسر چون سهم دو دختر است و اگر [همه ورثه] دختر [و] از دو تن بيشتر باشند سهم آنان دو سوم ماترك است و اگر [دخترى كه ارث مى‏برد] يكى باشد نيمى از ميراث از آن اوست و براى هر يك از پدر و مادر وى [=متوفى] يك ششم از ماترك [مقرر شده] است اين در صورتى است كه [متوفى] فرزندى داشته باشد ولى اگر فرزندى نداشته باشد و [تنها] پدر و مادرش از او ارث برند براى مادرش يك سوم است [و بقيه را پدر مى‏برد] و اگر او برادرانى داشته باشد مادرش يك ششم مى‏برد [البته همه اينها] پس از انجام وصيتى است كه او بدان سفارش كرده يا د ينى [كه بايد استثنا شود] شما نمى دانيد پدران و فرزندانتان كدام يك براى شما سودمندترند [اين] فرضى است از جانب خدا زيرا خداوند داناى حكيم است (1

he has no child and (only) his two parents inherit him why in Islam if a person die his mother shall have the third and the rest is for his father ?
so how you can say in qoran and islam women have the same right that men have and they have equal rights , according to this verses of qoran a mother havent the same portion right of her child as her husband have about his child . please don’t write me because fathers support a child from financial aspects because this is not a general rule for example
1. Nowadays there are women who work out and they can afford their child
Or suppose a child has a father who is addicted so the mother of this family have to work out and provide for his childerns
2 .When a child grew up out of his family and none of his mother or father hadnt play a role in his life for getting his wealth
In any situation in islam a mother inherit of her child only 1/3 of herchild possessions and the rest is for the father and that’s not fair

allah enjoins you concerning your children: the male shall have the equal of the portion of two females; then if they are more than two females, they shall have two-thirds of what the deceased has left, and if there is one, she shall have the half; and as for his parents, each of them shall have the sixth of what he has left if he has a child, but if he has no child and (only) his two parents inherit him, then his mother shall have the third; but if he has brothers, then his mother shall have the sixth after (the payment of) a bequest he may have bequeathed or a debt; your parents and your children, you know not which of them is the nearer to you in usefulness; this is an ordinance from allah: surely allah is knowing, wise (11)
يُوصِيكُمُ اللّهُ فِي أَوْلاَدِكُمْ لِلذَّكَرِ مِثْلُ حَظِّ الأُنثَيَيْنِ فَإِن كُنَّ نِسَاء فَوْقَ اثْنَتَيْنِ فَلَهُنَّ ثُلُثَا مَا تَرَكَ وَإِن كَانَتْ وَاحِدَةً فَلَهَا النِّصْفُ وَلأَبَوَيْهِ لِكُلِّ وَاحِدٍ مِّنْهُمَا السُّدُسُ مِمَّا تَرَكَ إِن كَانَ لَهُ وَلَدٌ فَإِن لَّمْ يَكُن لَّهُ وَلَدٌ وَوَرِثَهُ أَبَوَاهُ فَلأُمِّهِ الثُّلُثُ فَإِن كَانَ لَهُ إِخْوَةٌ فَلأُمِّهِ السُّدُسُ مِن بَعْدِ وَصِيَّةٍ يُوصِي بِهَا أَوْ دَيْنٍ آبَآؤُكُمْ وَأَبناؤُكُمْ لاَ تَدْرُونَ أَيُّهُمْ أَقْرَبُ لَكُمْ نَفْعاً فَرِيضَةً مِّنَ اللّهِ إِنَّ اللّهَ كَانَ عَلِيما حَكِيمًا ﴿11﴾
خداوند به شما در باره فرزندانتان سفارش مى‏كند سهم پسر چون سهم دو دختر است و اگر [همه ورثه] دختر [و] از دو تن بيشتر باشند سهم آنان دو سوم ماترك است و اگر [دخترى كه ارث مى‏برد] يكى باشد نيمى از ميراث از آن اوست و براى هر يك از پدر و مادر وى [=متوفى] يك ششم از ماترك [مقرر شده] است اين در صورتى است كه [متوفى] فرزندى داشته باشد ولى اگر فرزندى نداشته باشد و [تنها] پدر و مادرش از او ارث برند براى مادرش يك سوم است [و بقيه را پدر مى‏برد] و اگر او برادرانى داشته باشد مادرش يك ششم مى‏برد [البته همه اينها] پس از انجام وصيتى است كه او بدان سفارش كرده يا د ينى [كه بايد استثنا شود] شما نمى دانيد پدران و فرزندانتان كدام يك براى شما سودمندترند [اين] فرضى است از جانب خدا زيرا خداوند داناى حكيم است (1

he has no child and (only) his two parents inherit him why in Islam if a person die his mother shall have the third and the rest is for his father ?
so how you can say in qoran and islam women have the same right that men have and they have equal rights , according to this verses of qoran a mother havent the same portion right of her child as her husband have about his child . please don’t write me because fathers support a child from financial aspects because this is not a general rule for example
1. Nowadays there are women who work out and they can afford their child
Or suppose a child has a father who is addicted so the mother of this family have to work out and provide for his childerns
2 .When a child grew up out of his family and none of his mother or father hadnt play a role in his life for getting his wealth
In any situation in islam a mother inherit of her child only 1/3 of herchild possessions and the rest is for the father and that’s not fair

allah enjoins you concerning your children: the male shall have the equal of the portion of two females; then if they are more than two females, they shall have two-thirds of what the deceased has left, and if there is one, she shall have the half; and as for his parents, each of them shall have the sixth of what he has left if he has a child, but if he has no child and (only) his two parents inherit him, then his mother shall have the third; but if he has brothers, then his mother shall have the sixth after (the payment of) a bequest he may have bequeathed or a debt; your parents and your children, you know not which of them is the nearer to you in usefulness; this is an ordinance from allah: surely allah is knowing, wise (11)
يُوصِيكُمُ اللّهُ فِي أَوْلاَدِكُمْ لِلذَّكَرِ مِثْلُ حَظِّ الأُنثَيَيْنِ فَإِن كُنَّ نِسَاء فَوْقَ اثْنَتَيْنِ فَلَهُنَّ ثُلُثَا مَا تَرَكَ وَإِن كَانَتْ وَاحِدَةً فَلَهَا النِّصْفُ وَلأَبَوَيْهِ لِكُلِّ وَاحِدٍ مِّنْهُمَا السُّدُسُ مِمَّا تَرَكَ إِن كَانَ لَهُ وَلَدٌ فَإِن لَّمْ يَكُن لَّهُ وَلَدٌ وَوَرِثَهُ أَبَوَاهُ فَلأُمِّهِ الثُّلُثُ فَإِن كَانَ لَهُ إِخْوَةٌ فَلأُمِّهِ السُّدُسُ مِن بَعْدِ وَصِيَّةٍ يُوصِي بِهَا أَوْ دَيْنٍ آبَآؤُكُمْ وَأَبناؤُكُمْ لاَ تَدْرُونَ أَيُّهُمْ أَقْرَبُ لَكُمْ نَفْعاً فَرِيضَةً مِّنَ اللّهِ إِنَّ اللّهَ كَانَ عَلِيما حَكِيمًا ﴿11﴾
خداوند به شما در باره فرزندانتان سفارش مى‏كند سهم پسر چون سهم دو دختر است و اگر [همه ورثه] دختر [و] از دو تن بيشتر باشند سهم آنان دو سوم ماترك است و اگر [دخترى كه ارث مى‏برد] يكى باشد نيمى از ميراث از آن اوست و براى هر يك از پدر و مادر وى [=متوفى] يك ششم از ماترك [مقرر شده] است اين در صورتى است كه [متوفى] فرزندى داشته باشد ولى اگر فرزندى نداشته باشد و [تنها] پدر و مادرش از او ارث برند براى مادرش يك سوم است [و بقيه را پدر مى‏برد] و اگر او برادرانى داشته باشد مادرش يك ششم مى‏برد [البته همه اينها] پس از انجام وصيتى است كه او بدان سفارش كرده يا د ينى [كه بايد استثنا شود] شما نمى دانيد پدران و فرزندانتان كدام يك براى شما سودمندترند [اين] فرضى است از جانب خدا زيرا خداوند داناى حكيم است (1

I really care about my cousins, one is 14 the other is 3.The 14 year old feels a great amount of hate for his mother who has been in a “drug rehab” program for 3 years.I dont know how true this is about the rehab thing but its what my family says.She wants to visit them since their father has passed away only a week ago.The 3 year old loves his mother dearly and hopes to live with her one day.I am afriad that when she visits the 3 year he will want to go back with her,and this may cause more stress in his life.Should I tell her that she can not visit? 3 year old is having trouble sleeping,eating,and playing with other,kids,and is now getting help.I dont want this to make her visit with him have a more negative affect than his father’s death.

Hello, I’m 16. I went through a hell of a lot when I was a kid. My mother and aunt were alcoholics. My aunt died from it. I moved away. My father ditched me, so I live with my granny.
Now,
I can’t focus on most things because my mind wanders and I daydream when someone is telling me a story or something. I always get distracted by noises, my mind always gets focused on the noise that distracts me then starts to irritate me sometimes. I walk out places and can’t remember what was said.
I cry and almost everything. I have sad feelings and feelings of not wanting to be here anymore. I constantly worry about things that bother me or when someone is nasty to me I get butterflies and continue to worry. I’m scared to talk to people because I’m so shy and have no confidence. I keep to myself alot also.
My mind goes blank and ‘zones’ out most times when people talk.
Things like this. What is this? I really need help before I got nuts. Please don’t tell me to go to a doctor. I just wanted other opinions.

Thank you:)

she found out the truth about me trying E and going to parties and drinking. I first lied to her thinking i could get away with it but somehow she found out. i now want to tell her the truth but i dont know how, helpppp pleaseeee!