My uncle has been in jail for a few months, and my mom told me that I should send him pictures of my newborn baby. So I just sent them yesterday, but he called saying that he got out of jail and was transferred to a rehab. Do you think they would forward it to the rehab? Because I put my old address on there(I wrote down the address a few months earlier) and sent it anyways. What should I do?
Problems with DYFS…need HELP!?
In 2009 I was in jail serving time because I had an illegal gun in my possion. I was cleaning it and it went off through my apartment floor. Nobody was hurt thank god. It was stupid that I had it and I regret what happened and did my time. While I was in jail my ex wife decided to go out and shoot dope, leaving our son for weeks at a time with family members. One day she tried picking up our son at my mothers and she was high and with another man that she had been cheating on me with. My mother called the cops and our son was taken and sent to live with my mother in law. I had no clue any of this was going on until I was released from jail. When I was released I had no son, no wife, no house, no car, and no money. She spent everything on drugs and tattoos and crashed my car. I wasn’t allowed to see my son for 8 months after I was release from jail because DYFS wouldn’t allow it. When we finally went to court they gave her custody back because she got her G.E.D., went to a parenting class, and was taking methodone. They granted me visitations on weekends with my mother present. They told me I needed to complete outpatient rehab (even though I am not a drug addict and have no drug charges unlike my ex), complete parenting classes, and anger managment ( even though I have no anger problems and never had any charges against me for any type of violent act). Because my son means so much to me and I refuse to walk away from him like my father did to me I am doing all of those things that the court has ordered me to do even though it is ridiculous. I feel I did nothing wrong except make one stupid mistake of having an illegal gun ( I didn’t even know it was illegal because I didn’t know the law in the state of Virginia because I had just moved there). I feel that my ex was the one who made this all happen and I am the one being penalized. The courts and DYFS are making me out to look like the bad guy when really I was always the better parent and bonded more my our son from birth. He’s my world and this is tearing me up inside. I hate seeing him go through this. My ex is still hanging out with drug addict ex cons and getting drunk on a daily basis and smokes in front of our son who has allergies, and drives illegally. She would be homeless if her mother didn’t enable her by sending her money and buy her a car. She is also getting welfare and milking the system making them pay for half of her rent…little do they know her mother pays the other half and utilities. She is a horrible mother and DYFS is on her side. I’m seeking a lawyer and I want to file a complaint against DYFS. My caseworker is the worst and can’t do her job. I’ll call her 8 times a week and leave messages and get no response. When she does finally call back she can never seem to give me a straight answer and seems to be on my ex’s side. They don’t know her and how she is….if they did they would take my son away again and I wouldn’t be able to get custody because I don’t have a car. I don’t know what to do anymore…but I’m not giving up on my boy. I just want DYFS gone. They are ruining my son’s life. They are supposed to help children not take them away from the ones you love them. I don’t blame them howver for taking my son away from his mother, just blame them for taking him away from me.
Yes I am going to a lawyer next week…hopefully this can all be worked out for my sons sake.
In 2009 I was in jail serving time because I had an illegal gun in my possion. I was cleaning it and it went off through my apartment floor. Nobody was hurt thank god. It was stupid that I had it and I regret what happened and did my time. While I was in jail my ex wife decided to go out and shoot dope, leaving our son for weeks at a time with family members. One day she tried picking up our son at my mothers and she was high and with another man that she had been cheating on me with. My mother called the cops and our son was taken and sent to live with my mother in law. I had no clue any of this was going on until I was released from jail. When I was released I had no son, no wife, no house, no car, and no money. She spent everything on drugs and tattoos and crashed my car. I wasn’t allowed to see my son for 8 months after I was release from jail because DYFS wouldn’t allow it. When we finally went to court they gave her custody back because she got her G.E.D., went to a parenting class, and was taking methodone. They granted me visitations on weekends with my mother present. They told me I needed to complete outpatient rehab (even though I am not a drug addict and have no drug charges unlike my ex), complete parenting classes, and anger managment ( even though I have no anger problems and never had any charges against me for any type of violent act). Because my son means so much to me and I refuse to walk away from him like my father did to me I am doing all of those things that the court has ordered me to do even though it is ridiculous. I feel I did nothing wrong except make one stupid mistake of having an illegal gun ( I didn’t even know it was illegal because I didn’t know the law in the state of Virginia because I had just moved there). I feel that my ex was the one who made this all happen and I am the one being penalized. The courts and DYFS are making me out to look like the bad guy when really I was always the better parent and bonded more my our son from birth. He’s my world and this is tearing me up inside. I hate seeing him go through this. My ex is still hanging out with drug addict ex cons and getting drunk on a daily basis and smokes in front of our son who has allergies, and drives illegally. She would be homeless if her mother didn’t enable her by sending her money and buy her a car. She is also getting welfare and milking the system making them pay for half of her rent…little do they know her mother pays the other half and utilities. She is a horrible mother and DYFS is on her side. I’m seeking a lawyer and I want to file a complaint against DYFS. My caseworker is the worst and can’t do her job. I’ll call her 8 times a week and leave messages and get no response. When she does finally call back she can never seem to give me a straight answer and seems to be on my ex’s side. They don’t know her and how she is….if they did they would take my son away again and I wouldn’t be able to get custody because I don’t have a car. I don’t know what to do anymore…but I’m not giving up on my boy. I just want DYFS gone. They are ruining my son’s life. They are supposed to help children not take them away from the ones you love them. I don’t blame them howver for taking my son away from his mother, just blame them for taking him away from me.
Problems with DYFS…need HELP!?
In 2009 I was in jail serving time because I had an illegal gun in my possion. I was cleaning it and it went off through my apartment floor. Nobody was hurt thank god. It was stupid that I had it and I regret what happened and did my time. While I was in jail my ex wife decided to go out and shoot dope, leaving our son for weeks at a time with family members. One day she tried picking up our son at my mothers and she was high and with another man that she had been cheating on me with. My mother called the cops and our son was taken and sent to live with my mother in law. I had no clue any of this was going on until I was released from jail. When I was released I had no son, no wife, no house, no car, and no money. She spent everything on drugs and tattoos and crashed my car. I wasn’t allowed to see my son for 8 months after I was release from jail because DYFS wouldn’t allow it. When we finally went to court they gave her custody back because she got her G.E.D., went to a parenting class, and was taking methodone. They granted me visitations on weekends with my mother present. They told me I needed to complete outpatient rehab (even though I am not a drug addict and have no drug charges unlike my ex), complete parenting classes, and anger managment ( even though I have no anger problems and never had any charges against me for any type of violent act). Because my son means so much to me and I refuse to walk away from him like my father did to me I am doing all of those things that the court has ordered me to do even though it is ridiculous. I feel I did nothing wrong except make one stupid mistake of having an illegal gun ( I didn’t even know it was illegal because I didn’t know the law in the state of Virginia because I had just moved there). I feel that my ex was the one who made this all happen and I am the one being penalized. The courts and DYFS are making me out to look like the bad guy when really I was always the better parent and bonded more my our son from birth. He’s my world and this is tearing me up inside. I hate seeing him go through this. My ex is still hanging out with drug addict ex cons and getting drunk on a daily basis and smokes in front of our son who has allergies, and drives illegally. She would be homeless if her mother didn’t enable her by sending her money and buy her a car. She is also getting welfare and milking the system making them pay for half of her rent…little do they know her mother pays the other half and utilities. She is a horrible mother and DYFS is on her side. I’m seeking a lawyer and I want to file a complaint against DYFS. My caseworker is the worst and can’t do her job. I’ll call her 8 times a week and leave messages and get no response. When she does finally call back she can never seem to give me a straight answer and seems to be on my ex’s side. They don’t know her and how she is….if they did they would take my son away again and I wouldn’t be able to get custody because I don’t have a car. I don’t know what to do anymore…but I’m not giving up on my boy. I just want DYFS gone. They are ruining my son’s life. They are supposed to help children not take them away from the ones you love them. I don’t blame them howver for taking my son away from his mother, just blame them for taking him away from me.
Thank you Becky…and yes I do pray. I will never abandon my son like mine did to me, no matter how much easier it would be to just walk away.
Thanks C C…I do not have any guns and do have a job and housing. I just am unable to drive because I don’t have a car which is something that I need in order to get my son back. I do have proof that she drinks on a daily basis and that she is hanging out with people I don’t want areound my son because they are professional scumbags. She tells me bragging all the time about how her mother buys her this and that and pays half her rent yada yada, and I know how her mother is because I have known her a long time. I’m only concerned for my son and this is a very frustrating situation because I see how it is affecting him. I have an appt. with a lawyer next week…hopefully this can all be worked out. I will ask that she has the hair follicle testing.
When a man loves a woman represents my life best. My mom was an alcoholic and my dad had to take care of my brother and I. I just watched the movie for the first time today, and I got really emotional. My dad went through a lot, and my mother didn’t make it to rehab. She just left. I barely ever see her. I just understand why my dad can be tough sometimes, he had a rough life. But I love him :)
So what movie best represents your life, or is something like what you’ve experienced?
http://gothamist.com/2010/04/22/high_driver_doesnt_feel_so_bad_abou.php
“The 18-year-old who was allegedly high on Oxycontin and Xanax when she drove a passenger van into a Hempstead, Long Island home, fatally striking the home’s owner, was hysterical when taken out of the police station yesterday. Kayla Gerdes screamed to reporters, “No, I didn’t [purposely aim for her.] Listen, stop — listen, it was an accident!
Gerdes’s lawyer said that the teen was released early from a 28-day drug rehabilitation program, because her mother’s insurance would only cover seven days.”
Obviously, if this girl were still in rehab, this death would not have happened. Thoughts?
my dad has become an alcoholic since my mom died in december. yesterday, he agreed to go to rehab, along with his new girlfriend. a few hours after he told me this, i got a call from her telling me to come get him, he won’t leave her house so she called the cops. she said she didn’t want him arrested, but he was anyway. my grandma and i went to bail him out of jail this morning, and he called me a few hours ago for no reason to tell me that my boyfriend was worthless and i needed to leave him. he was obviously drunk.
what do i do? i can’t take this anymore. i feel like i should tell him that i can’t be around him until he is better, but i am all he has since mom died. his girlfriend is leaving for rehab tomorrow, but he has to be put on a waiting list. i just don’t know how to deal.
Adelina is abused by her step brother, Derick, while her mother is in rehab and her step-dad, Paulie, is ill. The house nurse visits to take care of Paulie.. because he’s dying, but that’s the only adult that visits the house.. and she’s gone by the time Lina comes home. So Paulie’s cancer is why her mother is in rehab, she became a drunk after Paulie was diagnosed, and drinks every time she sees him the way he is.
With Derick (18) in charge of the house, he takes his anger out on the main character, Lina. (Adelina – 15) Lina becomes involved in drugs, boys, prostitution, stealing, and drinking, because she wants to feel that control over her life, when at home she has no control. If she ran away, Derick would report it and they would take her to a foster home, and then she wouldn’t have ANY control over her free time. So, she goes home each night and lets him do as he pleases, so she can hold onto that freedom.
I’m not going to tell you the actual story, bc I don’t want anyone stealing my ideas. I just want to know if this set-up is realistic. And I know it wasn’t obvious, but this is a fantasy.. and no she does not meet some mysterious boy that saves her. The fantasy elements make her life darker, actually.
My ex-husband and i are in a custody battle. I have previous drug charges, and he is a registered sex offender (over adult charges). dhs has an open case on me for failing a drug test for marijuana. some how another he passed his test. i have passed every test since, only failed the once, even went to rehab. he lives with his mother and sister in their 3 bedroom home. i live in my 3 bedroom home with plenty of room for the kids, can he get full custody of our children and step parent rights to my other child?
My daughter and her boyfriend are both heroin addicts. They have been in and out of jail, rehab and now prison for years. I have custody of their small child. My daugther lives in a halfway house and the boyfriend is back to living with his mom. I have spent a fortune in legal fees trying to keep custody of my grandchild. They of course want her back. Does anyone have any legal advice they can give me?
When I was in rehab for my anger and old drug problem we were talking about something in particular..
At any rate, afterwards, my counselor/teacher told me that I had put my hand behind my head and tried to pull my hair and that a tear ran down my cheek..
We were talkin’ about our parents and since I never had TWO parents, or a father or mother – I guess a tear slipped by that I didn’t notice.
I don’t know why I did it..
Please ONLY SERIOUS ANSWERS please.
ok, a month ago i went 2 the doctor for low blood pressure and when they checked my weight i was 10 pounds lighter so they started asking me questions. they thought i had anorexia or bulimia and wanted to put me in some type of hospital but my mom said no. they wanted me 2 eat more calories and MORE(yes more) salt and drink more water cuz i was dehydrated. MY NEXT CHECKUP IS 2MARO!!! i think i lost more weight and no matter what, i wuld be going there and miss school 2 b in rehab! i normally 8 about 1260 calories a day on really healthy food so today, i stuffed my face and 8 about 2400 calories! 2maro when i wake up i am going to eat an 18.6 ounce can of soup and a 16.9 ounce bottle of water and maybe other food before i go just 2 appear heavier. do u think i can gain any weight from how much i 8 today and what im gonna eat for breakfast 2maro? i cant get any lighter!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO JUST TO SEEM HEAVIER???!
i cant go to some rehab, im only 13 and i dont have a disorder!!!
if im going there then i am gonna miss school and i dont want to. i actually have alot of fat on me, its just that i used to have alot more before. i lost alot of water weight cuz i stopped eating alot of sodium cuz i heard it was bad. now i eat packaged meals and soup. i mean, ALL of my weight goes to my lower stomach and i look like a pregnant woman!(which by the way, i cant get rid of it now matter how many lower abdominal exercises i do) my thighs rub together and m arms jiggle. i used to be alot bigger before and thats why they are concerned. it was only a 10 pound weight loss! im actually at a healthier weight but since im naturally bigger and i have a *different* body frame then anybody else i know, my body reacts differently and my blood pressure went down. i just really dont want to go cuz im still heavy, i just lost some weight and everybody is concerned. now my metabolism is screwed up.
I’m trying to find out the name of a movie related to teenage drug dealing.
The story goes like this: A teenage girl was influenced by a punk girl (who always wore eye liners) and started to deal with drugs. Once she lied to her mother that she was sick, she wanted to stay at home and not go to study class, but really she was with two of her friends and were abusing drugs together. She got really sick later.
When her parents found out about her drug dealing she became even more rebellious. There was a scene where she threatened her mother with a knife. Her parents became desperate and sent her to a attitude rehab camp. There she met a girl who was also dealing with drug and later died of overdose. The girl finally woke up after the death of that girl and said something like “sometimes we are ready before we know..?” to the council and returned home.
There were few other scenes that I remember, the main character girl shouted to the council at rehab camp: “I’m not a bad sister”
and the council forced her to shout her anger out to a mirror and what she said was”I’m（”you’re”?) so ugly!!”
Please help me if you know. Thank you all very much!!!
So I’ve been on and off dating this guy Mark for about three years now. The only times we had ever “taken a break” (the off part) was when we each had family problems. We’re both close with each others families and everything seemed to be going well. Then December 08 his mom called me when out of the blue but i couldn’t answer cause I was in class. Her message was something along the lines of, “I know Mark really values your relationship and could use your support in this time.” Well I immediately thought something else went wrong in his family (another death or something) so I called back as soon as I could and his mom told me she sent him to rehab!!!! I was so so so shocked because I didnt think there was any basis for sending him there. None of us had discussed it and he had no communication for a whole month(over christmas and new years! =[ ) So anyways he went to a half way house in florida and is coming back in a week. We’ve obviously talked since he’s been out but I’m still concerned. I really do not understand why he went to rehab…he didnt drink and the only thing he TOLD me about was when he smoked weed. I know he was worse when he was a teen but he definitely grew out of that. So either his mom is completely whack in sending him there or he lied to me about drinking and smoking and stuff. But I think I would be able to tell if he was out of control rehab material, which he wasn’t. Well anyways, now that he’s coming back I don’t know whats going to happen. As I said we’ve been together 3 years and now I haven’t seen him since the beginning of December. I know that I want to support him in “recovery” but I’m still young and I want to party!…but dont want to be a bad influence/temptation to relapse. Gah! I dont know what to do!!! Help?
So here is the 1st chappy. hope u like it.
“You’re sending me too a boarding school?” Alayna’s perfectly glossed mouth hung open in the shape of an O. “What have I ever done to deserve this?” Alayna put her hand to her heart. Her mom rolled her eyes and sighed. “Alayna, quit being over dramatic. And are you seriously asking what you have done to deserve this?” “You kissed a boy. In the middle of class. In front of everyone. And no to mention the fact you were only in the sixth grade.” Alayna glared at her mom.
“I had to kiss him. He was the most popular guy in school. My status would have been affected if I had’nt.” Now it was her mom’s time to put her hand to her heart. “Your status?” “Alayna, are you serious? What do you know about status?” “I know that if I had’nt kissed him I would be sitting with the losers at table nine,” she muttered.
Her mom shot a desperate look at her father across the room. He acted like he was interested in the bluebird that was now sitting on the window sill of thier over sized living room. “If it helps, the school is coed,” her mother’s voice was becoming desperate. “I don’t care if it’s bi!” Alayna shouted.
Her father finally butted in. “Watch your mouth young lady. And we have a surprise for you. Jade’s going with you.” Alayna rolled her eyes. “So her parents are forcing her to go, too?” she asked. “No, she, unlike some people, doesn’t mind going,” her father answered. “So she wants to go, and your’e forcing me?” “No one’s being forced, Alayna,” her mom said. Alayna smirked. “Then if that’s the case, I’m not going.” “Oh, your’e going, even if we have to tie you up and gag you,” her father said. Her hand took its place on her heart once more. She gasped. “You’d do that?” she asked. “If we had too,” her father answered.
Alayna tried one more desperate attempt. “Haven’t I already been punished for this? You took away my credit card.” “We took away one of your credit cards. And who said this was a punishment?” “Well, if it’s not, then what is it?” she asked. “Look at it as rehab,” her mother advised. “I don’t do drugs,” she huffed under her breath. “You know what? This discussion is O-V-E-R over. Your’e going to boarding school in one week, no ifs, ands, buts about it, and your’e going to be pleasant about it.” And he walked right out the room. Her mom looked at her. “Well, here’s your credit card. Give Kingston-James a try before you say you don’t like it.” She gave her a small hug and followed her husband out the room.
Alayna pulled out her rhinestone studded iPhone and sent a text to Jade.
glamur_godess:i hate my life :(
gossip_fashionita:ur such a pessemist
glamur_goddess:ur such an optimist. did u kno the darn thing is called kingston-james?
gossip_fashionita:its not a darn thing.its a boarding school. and yes i kno what its called
glamur_goddess:whatev. i got my credit card back today
gossip_fashionita: *insert laugh here* u could have done that without that credit card.
glamur_goddes:1ce again, whatev. u comin or not?
gossip_fashionita: see u in an hour.
Alayna sat her phone down and sighed. Oh, well. At least it was coed.
so? do u like it?love it? hate it? tell me whatcha think please.
thanks
oh the part when she told jade she got her card back. i forgot a part. it was upposed to say: i got my credit card back. im goin shoppin
there are two more main characters thet will be introduced later.
Who is the crazy person in this family?
Ok so last night there was some drama with my stepbrother. First of all let me say that he has a drug and alcohol problem and a history of mental “issues”. Well he is 19 he works out of town but he recently failed a drug test and is required to go to “rehab” before he can return to work. So he has returned home and was living with my mother (his stepmother). Her husband (his father) works out of town. My 19 yr old brother also works out of town but his 19 yr old girlfiend lives with my mother. She doesnt work and she sits at the house all day. Well for the past week or so since he has been home, he has just been hanging out at home with my brothers gf. My brother doesnt like him being around his gf so much because its obvious my stepbro is trying to get in her pants. So when my brother is around is gf is mean to my stepbro but when my brother isnt around his gf and my stepbro are BFFS. But neways that is just a little history. Last night my stepbrother and my brother gf were at my cousins. My stepbrother had apparently been drinking and taking pills all day. My cousin was cutting his hair and he grabbed her ***. Then when her husband asked him about it he called her a liar and a *****. Well my cousins husband broke his nose. My stepbrother then started crying and telling everyone how much he loved them and blah blah blah. My cousin then told Samantha (bros gf) to leave and she didnt listen. It was like hello get out! Finally they left. Well on the way home my stepbrother fell asleep. So Samantha left him in the car. My mother locked him out of the house. He woke up sometime during the night and broke windows to get into the house. My mother met him in the sun room and told him that she was going to call the cops. He called her an f***** bi***. She slapped him. THIS IS WHERE IT GETS CRAZY!! He ran to my brothers room and grabbed a gun. My mom and Samantha ran into my mothers room and locked the door. He broke the door down. They told him the cops were on the way. He replied that he would kill them, kill the cops, then kill himself. Then he stuck the gun in his mouth. My mother and Samantha ran into my brothers room and locked the door, then locked themselves in the closet (it locks from the inside). Finally the cops got to the house. They couldnt find my stepbrother. Finally they found him, IN THE POND!! They got him out, got him in the driveway. He passed out in the driveway. He fell down and busted his head up again! Then when he came to, he started telling the cops that he only smokes weed to get closer to GOD because Moses spoke to GOD through a BURNING BUSH!! He is now in the hospital, waiting to be transferred to a mental hospital.
Thats all nuts right, but the part that bothers me the most is that my mom has been the one buying him all the alcohol. Like she will go to the liqour store and buy him over $100 worth of liqour, and a 30 pack of beer! She buys him beer everyday. And Samantha drives him around to buy drugs. All they do all night is drive around buying pills, weed, and who knows what else? I mean what do they expect. He has been taking Xanax and drinken Patron for a week. Even a stable person would go crazy. This is the second time my stepbrother has pulled a gun and threatened to kill everyone. The first time he was 17. If you know someone has a drug problem why would you enable them? My mother has a long history of it. My first stepfather did meth my entire life until his heart blew up when I was 17. This is the kind of unstable enviroment that I do not want my child in (im pregnant). My mother sees nothing wrong with contributing alcohol to minors. She allows them to do drugs at her house. I told my aunt today that I didnt want my child around my mom and she of course told my mother. Now IM THE BAD GUY!!!! My family thinks Im crazy because I think they are WHITE TRASH, they think that something is wrong with ME???
BTW I do not live with them all. My husband and I have our own house. But she bought a house .5 miles down the road after we bought our house. Moving is not really an option I love my home. She always brings my husband into all the drama because she knows that I do not approve and consider myself above that kind of behavior. She calls him and he ignores it, so then she texts him. Anyways what do i do? She is acting like Im the bad guy cuz I dont want my kid learning this maladaptive behavior! What do you all think?
My Mom came and got me out of the rehab. I was being counseled for PTSD and D.I.D. but my Mom said ” it just makes me more depressed ” being there. One good thing that happened was Im not suicidal anymore and I gave up all my drug stash.What can I do for me to make me feel happy ? I thought of smoking pot to make myself happy or whatever but thats not my most serious option. Im going to be outpatient now. I think that I just have to pray and ask God to get me through. Also, if that nasty dude comes along and insults me for asking this question again I ask him to please leave his phone number so i can call him and tell him how his mean words hurt me be4. Can anybody pray for me for the next few days ?
Ok so last night there was some drama with my stepbrother. First of all let me say that he has a drug and alcohol problem and a history of mental “issues”. Well he is 19 he works out of town but he recently failed a drug test and is required to go to “rehab” before he can return to work. So he has returned home and was living with my mother (his stepmother). Her husband (his father) works out of town. My 19 yr old brother also works out of town but his 19 yr old girlfiend lives with my mother. She doesnt work and she sits at the house all day. Well for the past week or so since he has been home, he has just been hanging out at home with my brothers gf. My brother doesnt like him being around his gf so much because its obvious my stepbro is trying to get in her pants. So when my brother is around is gf is mean to my stepbro but when my brother isnt around his gf and my stepbro are BFFS. But neways that is just a little history. Last night my stepbrother and my brother gf were at my cousins. My stepbrother had apparently been drinking and taking pills all day. My cousin was cutting his hair and he grabbed her ass. Then when her husband asked him about it he called her a liar and a bitch. Well my cousins husband broke his nose. My stepbrother then started crying and telling everyone how much he loved them and blah blah blah. My cousin then told Samantha (bros gf) to leave and she didnt listen. It was like hello get out! Finally they left. Well on the way home my stepbrother fell asleep. So Samantha left him in the car. My mother locked him out of the house. He woke up sometime during the night and broke windows to get into the house. My mother met him in the sun room and told him that she was going to call the cops. He called her an f***** bi***. She slapped him. THIS IS WHERE IT GETS CRAZY!! He ran to my brothers room and grabbed a gun. My mom and Samantha ran into my mothers room and locked the door. He broke the door down. They told him the cops were on the way. He replied that he would kill them, kill the cops, then kill himself. Then he stuck the gun in his mouth. My mother and Samantha ran into my brothers room and locked the door, then locked themselves in the closet (it locks from the inside). Finally the cops got to the house. They couldnt find my stepbrother. Finally they found him, IN THE POND!! They got him out, got him in the driveway. He passed out in the driveway. He fell down and busted his head up again! Then when he came to, he started telling the cops that he only smokes weed to get closer to GOD because Moses spoke to GOD through a BURNING BUSH!! He is now in the hospital, waiting to be transferred to a mental hospital.
Thats all nuts right, but the part that bothers me the most is that my mom has been the one buying him all the alcohol. Like she will go to the liqour store and buy him over $100 worth of liqour, and a 30 pack of beer! She buys him beer everyday. And Samantha drives him around to buy drugs. All they do all night is drive around buying pills, weed, and who knows what else? I mean what do they expect. He has been taking Xanax and drinken Patron for a week. Even a stable person would go crazy. This is the second time my stepbrother has pulled a gun and threatened to kill everyone. The first time he was 17. If you know someone has a drug problem why would you enable them? My mother has a long history of it. My first stepfather did meth my entire life until his heart blew up when I was 17. This is the kind of unstable enviroment that I do not want my child in (im pregnant). My mother sees nothing wrong with contributing alcohol to minors. She allows them to do drugs at her house. I told my aunt today that I didnt want my child around my mom and she of course told my mother. Now IM THE BAD GUY!!!! My family thinks Im crazy because I think they are WHITE TRASH, they think that something is wrong with ME???
BTW I do not live with them all. My husband and I have our own house. But she bought a house .5 miles down the road after we bought our house. And she always brings my husband into all the drama because she knows that I do not approve and consider myself above that kind of behavior. Anyways what do i do?
I just found out she is using again. She denies it. I just had thyroid cancer and just can’t do it anymore, the lies, etc. SHould I have her move out? She is bipolar but I have given her my all for yrs now…stress is too much now and I am single mom with a 8 yr old daughter at home too. Suggestions please….
My sister has been a drug addict for years, but has never admitted a problem [or gone to rehab]. Now that she has been let back in the house swearing she is clean and using her pregnancy as a “for the baby” reason,, not only is it obvious by her personality that she is still using, I found drug paraphernalia; needles, aluminum foil, a pipe [a tube that people use to sniff cocaine], weed, and other items. My parents are blind to this and never wanted to know that she did drugs beyond weed but I showed my mother because there is an innocent life on the line [she is about 2 months pregnant]. What are the legal actions, in the state of Nevada, that can be taken to stop her from harming the fetus?
BTW my mom hasn’t talked to her about it yet because she wants to discuss the issue with my dad first.. honestly, though, they probably won’t get much done because they still haven’t admitted there is a real issue.
Thanks in advance :) Normally I avoid family issues and stay out of it because getting to med school is my top priority, but I don’t believe that it is morally OK to know this is going on and try to do nothing about it
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