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I have been with a girl for over a year now. I do everything for this girl. She treats me & her mother really bad at times & she treat her friends like gold. Especially when she is wanting her fix. She has a major drug and alcohol problem. She disappears for hours at a time doing drugs with her friends. She runs to the bad part of town aka drug city. Its hard telling what she is doing for these drugs. She has very little money. Me and her mother are the only ones who really care & support her. I cant stand this stuff. Will this get any better? I do love her or I would have left along time ago. I have given her chances to change many times. She promises to stop but starts it all back up a week or two later. I have not talked to her in two weeks. I have been ignoring her texts and calls. I am so mad & hurt. I just don’t think she will ever change. She has already been to rehab a few times in the past for drugs. Her mom said it didn’t help much. She was off drugs for a few weeks then right back on them. Should I keep on ignoring her & move on?

Please I need rational answers, cause I’m only 15 and this time my mom might be seriouse about sending me to a rehab over the summer. Any suggestions? Or any good excuses I can use?

I have been with a girl for over a year now. I do everything for this girl. She treats me & her mother really bad at times & she treat her friends like gold. Especially when she is wanting her fix. She has a major drug and alcohol problem. She disappears for hours at a time doing drugs with her friends. She runs to the bad part of town aka drug city. Its hard telling what she is doing for these drugs. She has very little money. Me and her mother are the only ones who really care & support her. I cant stand this stuff. Will this get any better? I do love her or I would have left along time ago. I have given her chances to change many times. She promises to stop but starts it all back up a week or two later. I have not talked to her in two weeks. I have been ignoring her texts and calls. I am so mad & hurt. I just don’t think she will ever change. She has already been to rehab a few times in the past for drugs. Her mom said it didn’t help much. She was off drugs for a few weeks then right back on them. Should I keep on ignoring her & move on?

This will be kinda long so thanks in advance for reading.

Okay soo my family has alot of issues, no joke. My dad was an alcoholic while growing up. He became sober for a while but then turned too pills, when he did my mom did too. They were both addicted too pain killers (oxycotin & vicodins & perkisets) for about shit idk maybe 8 years or even longer. Pretty much since I remember when I was about 11 or so (I’m now 21). Well they spent atleast $300 a week alone on there addiction, if not more. Well my mom decided she wanted too stop about 6 years ago so she started going to methadone clinics, well she then became addicted to methadone as did my dad because she would share with him. Well two years ago my mom started having an affair with some guy, she totally desserted our family. My dad started drinking again, they lost the house Mom went a-wall. Dad went to rehab, lil bro & sis got sent to a out of state relative. Well my dad is getting better now he has been in a Christian based sober house for almost a year. He has plans on starting up the family business and living a clean life “God help us I pray he can stick through this”. Well my mom ended up moving to Florida last year, and now is living with her new boyfriend. She is still on the methadone and some other pills. She got into trouble with the law a couple times but my Aunt paid for an attorney to help her. She was suppose to go to jail last month for only 14 days. That was her complete sentance. Well turns out she never went and last night she tried killing herself because she has a warrant out for her arrest and she is scared of going to jail because of withdrwals from the methadone and for whatever else reason. Now she is facing even bigger charges for not going. So my question is this-
Should I be there for her? I mean I love my mom with all my heart, even out of all the bull ish she had put me and the family through. But it seems like she will never learn her lesson. She says she wants to get better and come back home but Idk if she will. I have been so messed up over everything, it was all very tramatizing for me and my siblings. I just don’t know If I can take the heartache anymore. Would you forgive and be there for your mom?
She is just a complete stranger now. She acts like a teenager. I know its because she had kids at a tyoung age and she feel slike she missed out on alot but she completely abanonded my 14 year old brother and 17 year old sister. What should I do?
Sorry lol
She is in a hospital in Florida now. Her boyfriend found her and called an ambulance. Also this isnt the first time in my family where someone tried killing their selves. Both my father & lil sister tried as well :(

I have been with a girl for over a year now. I do everything for this girl. She treats me & her mother really bad at times & she treat her friends like gold. Especially when she is wanting her fix. She has a major drug and alcohol problem. She disappears for hours at a time doing drugs with her friends. She runs to the bad part of town aka drug city. Its hard telling what she is doing for these drugs. She has very little money. Me and her mother are the only ones who really care & support her. I cant stand this stuff. Will this get any better? I do love her or I would have left along time ago. I have given her chances to change many times. She promises to stop but starts it all back up a week or two later. I have not talked to her in two weeks. I have been ignoring her texts and calls. I am so mad & hurt. I just don’t think she will ever change. She has already been to rehab a few times in the past for drugs. Her mom said it didn’t help much. She was off drugs for a few weeks then right back on them. Should I keep on ignoring her & move on?

I have been with a girl for over a year now. I do everything for this girl. She treats me & her mother really bad at times & she treat her friends like gold. Especially when she is wanting her fix. She has a major drug and alcohol problem. She disappears for hours at a time doing drugs with her friends. She runs to the bad part of town aka drug city. Its hard telling what she is doing for these drugs. She has very little money. Me and her mother are the only ones who really care & support her. I cant stand this stuff. Will this get any better? I do love her or I would have left along time ago. I have given her chances to change many times. She promises to stop but starts it all back up a week or two later. I have not talked to her in two weeks. I have been ignoring her texts and calls. I am so mad & hurt. I just don’t think she will ever change. She has already been to rehab a few times in the past for drugs. Her mom said it didn’t help much. She was off drugs for a few weeks then right back on them. Should I keep on ignoring her & move on?

Im 14 and my mom thinks im bubbly and happy all the time. I fake a smile to keep people happy but I cant do it much longer. I want to be in a hospital or a rehab center. How do i say that?

Mother and Me

walkin in where ya bin
you wobblin quivering wide eyes dribbling,
you got smack
50 grams of crack.
moneys gone
you talking wrong
where ya coming from
ya sapposed to be ma mom

you taking heroin faster than adrenalin again,
why ya doing this, ya killin me and our family
mom is this they it was ment to be
getting reefa of the streets
taking ecstasy like sweets

there giving out happy pills more than fire drills,
“ mom don’t do it, im through with it , ya blaming dad.
He’s gone he’s the past only memories ya neva had.

Since age 4 I didn’t no who you where anymore
I guess getting high was your way of sayin goodbye
I never ment to see you die

Dad shouting at the door
quarter ta four
like veitnam war
ya screaming for no more
face is soar
he keeps slamming it off the floor

blood streaming
but I hear no more screaming
I think im dreamin
but I don’t see breathin

(priest) “here lies the boady of mrs smith
yet her existance is a myth
the only thing she knew was how to make a good spliff
Rehab was her home
she had a drug syndrome
vodka was her water
she was her mothers daughter
but died of man-slaughter”

social services came the other day
said they where taking me away
to a happy place
without murder and hate
I guess this was my fate
I cant look at your face

TN, Nashville to be exact. Me and my boyfriend have been rasing his now 22 month old son for the past 15 months, I guess I need to start at the beginning so u may fully understand the situation. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years, I am a recovering drug addict, a liltle over 2 years clean. We didnt’ know the mother was pregnant, we didnt know the baby exsisted untill he was 4 months old. The mother of the child has a server drug problem and was a friend of mine when i was struggling with my own addiction. She had the baby in jail, and her sister came and got the baby from the hospital. We at this point stil didnt know the child exsisted. The sister pulled some strings and got the mom in a rehab where she could have the baby with her, this is when my boyfriend was notified about the baby. From the first day we knew of the child he has supported him. Every visitation day he was there, bought all the diapers, clothes, formula ect that the baby needed while they were in the rehab. When it was time for them to leave the rehab I agreed for the mom and baby to come live with me and my boyfriend. Since they had nowhere to go and the mom claimed the baby was my boyfriends i thought it was the right thing to do. For a month and a half everything went good, but one day the mom dissapeared, she was on probation from a charge from a few years ago, thats why she was in jail when she had the baby, and from what she said when we found her the pressure of being on probation and being a mom was too much, so for the next 2 months she was on the streets using drugs and being a prostitute to get money, she never called to see how the baby was, never came to see him.

Well one day we get a call from her saying she was in jail, somehow her probation violation didnt show up and they released her, I came to pick her up, me, her and the baby had a great day. Went to the park, saw a movie, then went to the lake in the afternoon. But at the lake she started drinking and on the way home she started saying she wasnt ready to be a mom and wanted me to stop the car. She became violent and started hitting the windows of the car so i stopped and she jumped out and took off down the street. A few days later some friends told me they saw her walking down a street notorious for prostitution in our city. A few weeks later ( and apparently 3 more times of being arrested and let go) we got another call from her saying she was in jail. Her probation violation had kicked in and her being well known by all the police ( shes been arrested 64 times in 4 years) she got picked up right away.

All this time i have been a stay at home mom for her child and my boyfriend works duringing the day and is home at night. She ended up having to do 13 months in jail for the probation violation, and during this time she enterd programs the jail offerd to help her fight her addiction. She Had a boyfriend who waited this whole time for her, sending her money every week, and keeping money on the phone so she could call. During this time she gave me power of attoreney over the baby. Finally 2 weeks ago she got out. When she got out she had a stable home, a car and everything she would need for her and the baby to have a happy peaceful life, she left my house with the baby and set an appointment up with vital records to add my boyfriends name to the birth certificate. They had a aggrement that she would bring the baby to us fri- sun and she would have the baby mon-thurs. last weekend she fulfilled this agreement and everything went as planned.

Yesterday she had her sister at her house and told her sister she needed to go to the store. Her sister has a 2 yr old as well who was asleep at the time so the sister said she would watch the babies. The mom of my boyfriends baby never came back. Her boyfriend found her on the same road she always goes to when she is using and she became very violent with him, saying she wasnt coming back and just talking bad to him. He saw her again today and tried to get her to come back and she broke his window on his car, and had some guy she was with threaten him with a gun. Needless to say she’s unbalanced. My only concern is protecting the baby. Her sister is bringing him back here tomorrow. I need advice, i’m not related to her or the baby, and my boyfriend’s name is still not on the birth ceritficate, also he’s not a legal immagrant. We want this baby, we are all he’s ever really kknown, and it’s not right her running in and out of his life like this, this child dosent deserve this. any legal advice would be greatly appreciated. Sorry this was so long, I just wanted however reads this to have all the facts, also we are a low income family, i just got a job at a fast food place and he only makes about 450/wk. We may be low income, but not low on love for this child, please help, thank you

Gore’s son most definitely has a drug problem and has endangered many lives by his reckless lifestyles and habits. He should be sent to prison. He has had numerous treatment for drug abuse to no avail. If there is any justice in this U.S. he needs to go to prison.

What do you think? Is justice truly blind? If he goes to ‘rehab” AGAIN is this justice for all? His father, Al., and mother are acting like 24 year old themselves at the expense of their children.

What is your opinion?

My brother got mixed up with this girl a few years back and they had a baby. He is now 2. They are no longer together but share custody equally. My brother told me on Friday that she told him she had snorted heroine a few times recently. I freaked out. I do not have any experience with drug addicts, no one i have ever known has had a problem. He says they are working out getting her help but do not believe he can do it on his own. He is not on drugs, he is a nice boy, just got mixed up with a girl from the wrong side of the tracks. Her mother was a druggie her entire life, in and out of rehab.
She is in the army reserves, should i call them. Would they be able to get her help. I do not trust that baby going back to her without her going to rehab. I do not believe that heroine is the type of drug you do only once or twice. Also, if the army tests her, how long does it stay in the body? What if she tests clean? So confused but need to do something to help my nephew. I am 26 and my brother is 23. Thanks
My brother was at my house next to me when talking to her about it. It is not 2nd hand information. This is a real situation.
Aime: cross my t’s and dot my i’s. Trying to ruin her life? ? Are you serious? I am trying to help her. I do not want to see her go down the same road her mother did. And i DO NOT want any harm to come to the baby; a defenseless little boy who lives with me every other week. I don’t know where you are from but in my book, people just to do heroine to ‘try it out’. She needs help. People die because people like you sit back and watch. Ruin her life, i think not.

Im 14 and my mom thinks im bubbly and happy all the time. I fake a smile to keep people happy but I cant do it much longer. I want to be in a hospital or a rehab center. How do i say that?

For those of you thinking that it might be FUN, help you control your weight or just make you COOL and fit in, It does all of that I guess.

My son was a recovering addict from when he was 16-18, he lived with his mom and went through rehab several times for both meth and beer. At the age of 35 he HUNG HIMSELF because he could NEVER get rid of the after affects on his brain. He was anti-social, he couldn’t concentrate and was disgnosed as being a schitzophrenic. He couldn’t hold a good job and went from one menial job to another. He was an astronomy WIZARD, but never went to school because he could not deal with the structure. He was CLEAN from crystal for over 20 YEARS and the after affects for two years of FUN and ESCAPE stayed with him for the rest of his short life.
He went from a crystal addiction to a life of looking over his shoulder because the crystal was ALWAYS there and the after affects NEVER left!
BE COOL, BE FUN and be prepared for a life of HELL!
THANKS for your answeres and you are probably right, “The people that NEED to read this won’t”. I just thought that some good could come from his story.

Bloodline, YOU got SCREWED BIG TIME and I am SORRY.

The point that I was trying to make is that crystal is NOT like smoking a REALLY GOOD joint ONCE or even several times. You get stupid, EVERYTHING is FUNNY and you wake up with NO hangover. Crystal is like inviting a nice guy to dinner that will NEVER leave and is abusive. ONE TIME and you are SCREWED.
Isn’t advanced chemistry GRAND? They have found a way to use OTC stuff to create a drug that ruins one’s life after a SINGLE USE. If one has minor issues it magnifies them so that they are no longer controllable; PS, anxiety attacks and the rest. It takes the locked door off of the hinges and everything flies out; HANG IN “Bloodline” and keep the faith; I am SORRY for what you are going through!
If I was able to SCARE the S*** out of YOU then GOOD! Do your homework!

No probing questions please just answer without any judgement. Hypothetically speaking young woman wanted to help her other girlfriend have baby as girlfriend was not able to do so. the two friends injected husband’s sperm with a turkey baster in young woman’ womb. After baby was born the couple took baby and registered her in their name. To preserve anonimity all parties moved away to different countries and lost contact per arrangement.. No legal papers were signed. Since both women have similar look and ethnic background no questions were ever raised.
Fast forward to several months ago. Couple have now split, mother has completely fallen apart. On drugs, in and out of rehab, might not make it. Father became angry with mother and blurted out secret not knowing child was listening. Child has now become obsessed in finding the donor. Donor knows this as letter was left by birth father at college reunion office. Donor has absolutely no interest in meeting girl. WHATSOEVER!!

My cousin is [bad] off on drugs. He is currently in jail. I need to find a rehab for him in Kentucky that takes unite voluchers. The voluchers are $5000. Most the rehabs we call say that the unite volucher will only cover 3 to 4 months then we have to pay for each month after that. His parents dont have any money to cover this. His dad is also on drugs and his mother isnt financially stable enough to pay $1000 a month for rehab. I would like him to be in rehab for at least 9 months to a year. He needs this bad. He is 22 and has been on drugs since he was 12, in and out of jail, stealing everything left and right. ALSO can you please let me know about any other grants of voluchers availiable in Kentucky to help pay for rehab?? Thank you very much.

How do I get him to stop drinking so much? HE gets very violent when he drinks, sometimes when he’s not too. My mom and I fear for our lives and it’s very hard to find a rehab center that translates chinese.

I know someone who, let’s say, “supplies”her prescribed medication, Oxycontin to a select group of people, and this is how she makes a living. She also supplies her medication to her 3 boys, one going on 19, one in his late 20′s, and one in his early 30′s. All 3 boys, ( and their mother), are completely reliant on the drug. They can’t go a day without it, or they will suffer from withdrawls. The oldest one just had a child of his own and has decided to go to rehab. She told him that when he gets out of rehab, he should find a doctor that will rescribe him Oxycontin and Fentanyl, due to his bad back. I tried to tell her that what she is doing is wrong. She says that her kids are grown men, and can make their own decisions, and sees nothing wrong with giving them her medication. The middle child doesn’t work, and only leaves the house to get Oxycontin if his mother runs out, and the youngest, takes 1 or 2 classes at a community college, and refuses to work. He can’t even make his own lunch. I beleive she does this so that her kids don’t leave her, cause she’ll be lonely. Am I the only one who thinks that this is unnacceptable?

Their mom has 4 children, the 2 youngest being my brothers’ kids. The mom chose a party life and is now hard on drugs, and a party animal. She is definitely an unfit mother. My brother lives with us in our apartment, he got out of rehab last year for being addicted to pain killers. He still smokes pot. Me and my husband want to get full custody of the kids, but where do I even begin? Help!

My son is 20 years old- Very bright but very cocky and rebellious- He was caught with drugs, went to rehab- but seems to just like that “cool, get high lifestyle! He wants to play the role of a “Hippy” ! He is not abused , or ill, or depressed, – and he comes from a normal family-he just doesn’t want to take responsibility for himself- grow up and be a man! He wants to live at home for free , do drugs for fun, and treat his Mom and family as if they are the out-casts that do not understand him!! He was not always like this! It just seemed to happen over a preiod of 2 years??
His Dad made him leave home after I tried to slap his face for swearing at me and he grabbed my arm and nearly broke it.
But I am so afraid for him!! He doesn’t think he has a problem, so how can he get help — or help himself?? He blames me (his Mom) for everything! I was the one who always treated him better than anyone else! I still love him!
Should I let him come home? I am his mother no matter what-, maybe its my fault ??
What would you do if I were your Mom??
Please help- I do not think i could live with the guilt if something happened to him !
Ps. I am allowing a close friend to use my acct. here -to ask this question- she is a co-worker and in desperate-need! Thanks!

I’m 15 (female btw) and lately, I haven’t smoked or drank or has sex or anything.

I’ve smoked cigarettes probably, 50 times, smoked weed 3 times and had 2 cans of beer in my life and hook up with 2 girls (im bisexual).

My father has a weed addiction and my mother us in rehab for alcohol addiction. I don’t want to be like them.

Ive now chosen to stay away from illegal drugs, non-prescription drugs, alcohol and cigarettes.

One day when I have a steady relationship or marriage, I plan to have sex.

With that, am I able to say that I am living straight edge?