We will help you get your mom off drugs!

My mom drinks one diet coke a day, but if she doesn’t drink it she goes through withdrawal. I tried to get her to quit because I don’t like the idea of her being addicted to a drug. How bad is one coke a day? I’m not wondering relatively, like, “pfft i drink a 2 liter and 3 red bulls a day ur mom has nothing to worry about” I wanna know absolutely is it bad for to be addicted to caffeine, even if it’s such a small quantity. What are some benefits to quitting?

I like to masturbate several times a day. I often imagine the sounds a person would make if i strangled him or her. I like to steal pairs of my granmas dirty underwear and dance around in them covered in blueberry syrup listen to marilyn manson and masturbate to picures inside guns and ammo magizines but sumtimes i use popular mechanicks. I am in 9th grade. once i used a C clamp to put extreme pressure on my right teste while ejackualtion occured, i lost my other teste when i was younger. my dad is a recovered drug addict, my mom also used drugs when she was pregnat with me and my little sis, but my sister seems like a regular kid. I take ritalin but i think it could be someting else, i also have dark thoughts. I felt fine when i went thru counseling last week, both parents still drink and don;’t help me with my homework. I am on the football team and my grades are starting to get bad. i dont know what im asking here, i guess i just wanted someone else to know whats going on in my head. Thanks, mike

My mom has this “friend” that is a bit stalker-ish
she’s a drug (pain killer) addict, and my moms trying to get clean
and whenever she’s around “Kathy” it drives her crazy because she’s high all the time.
Kathy has been texting my mom, asking her if she could come over or talk

she’s said before, Tell me if you want me to stop calling you, and i’ll stop
i just want to talk to you about billy!
Hey i’m in town for billys doctor appointments, can i come over for a little while??
i’m just in town to pick up my meds, can i come over and talk?

she texts my mom almost every day with excuses
every time she calls my mom she anwsers with a NO.
kathy is not the victim in this. my mom is trying to start a new clean life
and kathy will not leave her alone..
she says over and over again “are you sure you want me to leave you alone”
and my mom says yes! leave me alone, please!

I just need to know what does she need to say to make her stop trying to talk her???
Yes, everything you guys have said my mom has tried.
ignoring her, telling her to stop calling,
and she WILL NOT listen to my mom.
i need to know what my mom can say to make her stop hassling her
for good.

My step kids mom is a coke addicted useless bartender. She is not financially responsible for these kids. She gets them on the weekends. She beats her other smaller kids as does her husband. She left coke straws where her stepdaughters baby could find one and play with it. Her kids have found drugs in her purse and in her laundry. She doesnt spend time with them doing anything for them. She doesnt read to them, help them with homework, have rules, or anything. The twins are like 9 now and already have had police called on them and are dysfunctional at best. Why is it then that my step son in particular sticks up for her? She doesnt do anything to help us out, nothing for anyone but herself. WTF!!! I pray daily that she would overdose and do the world a favor.

My mom is a drug addict who doesnt love herself and neither of her seven kids. I think she just gave birth to collect money. My father doesnt care what any of us do. When i’m with brandon it feels so right. I also think I have alot of jealous people in my family because they never experienced the love we have, so they try to sabatage my relationship. Brandon brings these facts to me everytime something goes wrong. Now I live with Brandon and couldnt be more happier until my family puts there two cents in my life. I’m a grown woman who knows what I want, but its hard sometimes when all they do especially my mom opens her mouth and try’s to ruin everything? So should I just chalk my family up as a loss and do my own thing? more info about this is, my mom is divorced and lives a horrible life!!! maybe she is jealous?? what do you think?

i do and i want to see what others opinions on it are.
Heres the story behind my question:
my best friends dad HATES me.
i have only met him twice once for 15 minutes and another
for about a day.
he thinks i’m a negative person and so on.[which is the exact opposite i always try to see the silver lining]
he grounded my best friend for talking to me and yelled at her on many occasions for being my friend.
even though he barely knows me, all he knows is my first name, where i go to school and that i’m friends with his daughter.
i have had a hard life.
i was abused as a young child.
my parents are divorced
my sister is aneroxic, blemic, and addicted to drugs.
my mom could care less about me and refuses to get a job and trys to put on a “i’m rich” act.
when actually we are technically living in poverty.
and my dad moved away.
so does that sound immature to you? a 45 or older man hates his daughters 14 yr old BEST friend when she has only said about 3 sentences to him?
pimpster:
he doesn’t know anything about that,
he doesn’t know anything about me except my name, what school i go to and that i’m his daughters best friend.

My bf and I have been together for 1 1/2 years. When we first got together, my parents loved him. He treats me like a queen, is very respectful, loves my kids, and makes me truly happy. 9 mnths into the relationship he moved 900 miles away from here to be with his kids b/c their mother is a drug addict. He flies in once a month to see me and his family and we talk at least 2x a day. This works for us. We plan to get married next year when I finish college. The problem? My mom has said in the past that if I have anything to do with him she’s “done with me”. My bf is flying in for a week during christmas and I want to take him to my family’s Christmas Eve get together. How do I tell my mom that I’m bringing him with me and my kids and that if she doesn’t like it, none of will be there. Both my parents are very good to me and I couldn’t have asked for better parents. Its just that I feel, at 29, its time I live my own life and stop letting my mom act like a dictator. What do I do?
My mom has always been way overprotective. She loved him until he moved away. I feel that his reasons for leaving(his kids) were very upstanding and say alot about his character as a man. As a matter of fact, I told him to go b/c if he would of chose me over the girls I didn’t want him anyway. My mother didn’t see it this way. She seen it as I was a notch on his bedpost (a 1 1/2 yr. notch?). For anyone else who is wondering. . I already have my own place. Single mom of 2, full time job, pay my own bills, full time nursing student, ask them for nothing.

Since we know that the 4th house and the Moon can indicate Mom and her issues, what might indicate a mother’s drug abuse?

BQ: Suppositions aside, do you know anyone with this placement, and does this ring true in their real life?

Like fools, my husband and I were convinced by my mother who was recently divorced and had no where to go that we should sale our small home and buy a new big home that would accomodate her moving in with us. We didn’t really want to as, the house we had was small, but very affordable, but she’s my mom and I felt bad for her.So She gave us $20k and we bought a bigger home. Now, 6 months later it is not working out to say the least, our one condition of her living with us was that her ex-husband who is a drug addict & a criminal was never allowed to be in my home. She told me he moved to the east coast & he was gone.I was suspicious cuz things in my home appered to be tampered with.I installed surveillance cameras & caught him in my home.Now I am having her evicted but she is syaing she owns 1/3 of this house.I am giving her $20K back no problem, but she really thinks she owns a 1/3.Her name is on nothing and we have no contracts or writen agreements.Does she have a case?

I’ve been friends with a girl I’ve known since 6th grade. Up until about 4 years ago. I could only have ranted and raved about her. She fed me lunches when my mom was abusive and starving me as a child. She listened to years of my bs and was always there, always kind and always sharing. And I reciprocated the same to her. We were truly equal and good friends and it was a healthy relationship, but we were kids.

Once out of high school, she went to college 4 hours away and I had a baby. So our lives went in different paths but we talked on the phone every week at least, im’ed all the time on the computer and I went to visit her and she always made time for me when she came back home.

After her 4 years of college she moved back to our hometown and she was ready for other things in her life and me too…like dating and getting married. We were both single and ready to mingle. Well I found someone though other friends and we got very serious to the point of being engaged for a while. That is when the trouble started. She was still hitting the bars all weekend long and trying to find the love of her life and I’d found mine at the time. And I couldn’t hit the bars with her and she didn’t seem to want to do other things. It was a priority she had and I was being left out and I got mad with her and quit talking to her for a year. She wanted nothing to do with my new life b/c it was boring to her. And she wanted her bar friend back for the weekends.
So she found new bar friends that led her to other things like pot and eventually a bad boyfriend that was a meth lab cooker at 15, used herion, coke, etc.

He got her into pot and coke. She does only pot now but she drinks very heavily and they live in crack alley. (we obviously started talking again because I missed her and our friendship and my engagment ended) So I would still even try to go to her home and spend time with her hoping I could help or just to check and see how she was doing and she almost dragged me down to their level. I finally just told her that I wasn’t comfortable at her new house and that I’d still love to be her friend but we’ll have to meet up somewhere else other than there and I’d like it to be just us two and not her cracked out boyfriend. Who we all still suspect is using coke. She is blind to him and his faults and her life has become a s*it hole due to her own bad choices and being with him.

She has since only talked to me though myspace comments once a month. I’m now married of 2 months. I have a 6 year old child and I can’t figure out if the friend I once loved and couldn’t imagine not having is gone forever and if I should say see you later one last time. Or is it worth staying in the background in case she needs me and accept the fact she is never there for me, never sees me anymore and is only out for her and her boyfriends gain?

Any thoughts guys? I could really use this. We’re 26 years old now.

And if your opinion is that I should end this and say adios…what are your suggestions on how to do it other than saying you’re a drug addict, etc. and I’ve got to go? Thanks to who reads this.

my mom has several mental problmes which are up for dibs as to diagnosis. she has been diagnosed bi polar depressed drug addict etc.. in the past but i dont think theyve hit the nail on the head. one thing she IS is insanely jealous/ crazy about her ex husband. she gets in these moods where if he does not answer his phone she blows up and goes completley nuts calls up her adult children ( me included) and starts complaining and screaming that she just ‘ Knows” he is out screwing whores behind her back. i treid to tell her there could be any reason he didnt asnwer and not to jump to conclusions shes being paranoid and she blew up at me. how do i deal with her when shes liek this without me having to get abused too? ( like todya she screamed at me , and none of her kids like to tlak to her when she is in one of these moods )
i meant her husband ( not ex ) i dont know why i interjected that ex there

My husband ran off almost 2 months ago. He has done this before. He is a video game and possible prescription drug addict and lives with his sisters ex husband, but also sees his mom alot. He doesn’t want to go to work and works a commission job. We have one 14 mo old son that he has seen once since he ran off. There is an online form for my state that I can fill out to request child support. If he doesnt have the money will they just not make him pay? He wont speak to me, should I warn him first?

with her house if it meant using all the money you have in the world and there be no guarntee that you will have a place to stay the next month or she might put you out and your drug addict brother might be stealing everything of yours including food and the mother our mother never says anything to him. so would you give her every dime you had not know if she will not f*uck her money the next month and have her house in forclosure again, then you still will not have a place to stay? or should i keep it and try to pay for my own cheap apartment?
my mother is around 73 and my brother is around 43 and has been on drugs for a long time and this is not her first time f*ucking up money for the house. my other brother who was paying the bills quit his job and now she is left with no one to help pay the other 400 needed. but like i said there is no gauranntee that me and my 2 kids will have a place to stay or be safe with the brother a drug addict and all

Okay I’m 16 years old, and well… my mom is always controling me. I know I’m still young and I’m living under her roof, but she always deciding what should I wear (and i don’t like the clothes she picks out), she always deciding who should be my friends (which i kinda agree since i don’t wanna be around criminals or drug addicts) and she… well everything. Can I get some tips to get her kinda of my back cause I’m getting older and i wanna prove that i’m mature and responsible enough

I am 27 and married living in a separate state from my family. My little 12 year old brother wants to come and live with me. My mother is living with my sister, recovering meth addict, liar and manipulator. Shes had my brother in and out of different schools and his grades have started to drop. She locks herself in her room all the time with her boyfriend and no one hears from her. Is he old enough to make that decision on his own? What do I do?

I have my mother in laws daughter like if she was just a phoster child gets to visit her mom once out of the week for one hour.my husband lets them visit longer and i think it’s a problem because when she don’t see her mom she doesn’t wine or pout,but she tells her mom that i don’t feed her after she gets home from school i don’t give her a full meal just a fruite so she don’t spoil her dinner that’s at 6:00pm and her mom tells her over the phone that she needs to tell us she needs to have gram crakers and milk when she gets home from school.the kid is only phoster till June we have the choice to have her as legal guardian of adopt her my husband don’t want to adopt her because he don’t want to take her away from his mom the lady is a drug addict and munipulates the little girl when she sees her now the little girl think that what i make for all to eat she should get different.I have three kids of my own and the smallest is already trying to pout if he don’t get his way.what can i do?

She Was Special…2003

….My Mom died recently. May 26th. In the early afternoon. Sitting in a chair. In a facility with others and the people who cared for them.
….My older brother called that day and simply stated, “ It’s over ,bro”. Such silence followed, that I still can’t define the magnitude of his 3 words.
….Indeed, it was over. The physical was no longer tangible. The only thing known was the unknown. I was told it was quite a peaceful moment.
….This “it” he spoke of was monumental. These 2 simple alphabets were attached to 84 plus years of human existence. That my friend is large.
….I can say she saw more beauty than hate in her time here. She knew the wonderful feeling of selflessness. To give all to all. The seeds of her character were planted early as a “country” girl in the 1940’s.
….She was country folk in a way. Her heart was in good place. And there were all those nuns in her family. I have been with my wife for over 25 years. I’m 44. My mother and father had about 29 years together. She was special. He went to war. She waited. 2 years. Followed him back to New Orleans without having seen much outside of St. Louis. 6 kids in about 10 years. She was special. Widowed at 51 with 4 children in grade school. Never worked ( except to raise 6 kids! ) That wouldn’t last long.
….I’m not writing to tell tales, but to tell a part of her tale. She was special. I am so thankful that we found acceptance for each other long before her passing.
….84 years. You see a lot of what life has to offer in that much time. She saw her last son leave home at 13. Now a father of two. A daughter who became a mother and a school teacher. A son who would be taken from her at age 37. ( I hope her God explained that one to her ) A son who would prove that part of being a family is tolerance. His acts of selfishness pushed her limits, but her faith never wavered. I know she forgave him and I hope likewise to her. A son who would give of himself for 10 years to be there for her. I can’t fathom all the varied roles he must have played. He moved in with her three weeks after losing her second youngest. He was there when she was taken from the facility. He has always been there for all of us. And lastly, her first who kept his family close to where she was and despite his manipulations, did much to help her when it was needed. He works with drug addicts. I’m the youngest. We don’t see eye to eye. Go figure.
….She knew love. She knew what it meant to be loved. She knew how to give love. She was special. To all who knew her. I can’t say why, but I only cried for a short while after my brother called me. Sure she was in a facility. Frail, tired and day to day tasks were burdens. She chose not to eat often. She seemed willing to go forward. She seemed ready. She also knew I was coming the next day!
….I remember the best of her. I choose to. Once again, oh the tales I could tell! But I’m not here for that. I was just passing through and I thought you would like to hear a story of a special woman. She was my mother.
©rad102803

I know it is long. I wanted my friends to see it. TY

My mom was a drug addict. I couldnt save her but i feel it is my obligation to help others. What would i have to go to college for and how long?

Do I’m a recovery addict and stopped using throughout my whole pregnancy. I had a beautiful healthy girl. I’m 15 years old and my mom offers to watch my baby from 2 to 8 ? Is that wrong of me to have my mom watch my baby? And latly I’ve been drinking. I’ve drank beer and bacardi. My tolerence is really high, and I usually come home around 5 and you can’t even tell I drank, I look and act completly sober. I shower and brush my teeth so my baby doesn’t have to smell it and I take care of her so well. I’m gentle, loving and wake up and go confort her as soon as she crys. So is what I am doing wrong? Its not an evryday thing once or atmost twice a week. But I am a recovery addict .. help please? Opinions ? Am I a bad mother? Why or why not?

Does anyone know the name of a movie about a girl who wins/earns a collage scholarship? The movie was based on a true story.
The movie outlines the early years of her life growing up with both parents addicted to drugs, her mom eventually dies of a drug overdose and because they were an impoverished family with very little money, the mom ends up in a coffin cheaply made out of plywood and she gets buried in one of those mass graves they have for people who can’t afford there own plot.
The movie ends with the girl using the scholarship to get a masters degree.
The movie was based on a real life story.