I am adult. For the past 10 years or so after my parents divorced, she been involved with a man who came with A LOT trouble. He’s didn’t have a place to live, so she allowed him to move in with her. Couple years later he loses his job, was fired, for failing drug tests several times.
He wont get a job….she supports him financially 100%. Hes a grown man but yet is not responsble for anything in his life. He appears to be a alcoholic and a drug user has been in and out of rehab several times.
Even his family smooches off her and has been known to steal from my mother. Lastly, he dissapears days at a time getting high and then she allows him to come back home where he sleeps it off.
Because of this, I feel i cannot respect my mother nor do i want to be that involved with her because of him.

Everyone in my family has spoken to her about him. She is AWARE of all the trouble he’s been in. yet it doesnt seem to bother her in the least!!!

What do I do?

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