We will help you get your mom off drugs!

Do they go to heaven?

If so, which would be worse spiritually:

#1: A mother has aborted it

Or

#2 A mother gives birth to a heroin/coke/crack addicted baby and gives it up for adoption?

what are some EFFECTIVE tips on how to STOP BINGE EATING FOR GOOD?
i need to eat normal….will i ever be normal again?
im so young so i cannot get help and i will not tell my mom soo dont say that

im promising myself today i WILL NOT binge…hopefully im strong enough!
tips on how to say no to BINGE!!

we just got in a huge fight.
i told her she doesnt give a s*** about anyone but herself.
she tells me that shes going to do things, but she never does.
our house is a disaster….trash and whatnot everywhere.
its horrible.
i want to go live with my dad, but im scared of him too… he abused my mom.
i really dont know what to do.
please,please help me.
anyone.
please.

this character is also an actress of theater, and over dramatic.
Yes …. thankyou…. you are absolutely right d291173!!! It’s a surreal serial killer drama.

what are my rights as being the mom? i’m 16 and 26 weeks pregnant.. and the dad of my baby keeps threatening me that hes gonna take my baby and it bothers me. he says hes gonna tell the court that my mom is a pill head and my dad is a crack head.. which isn’t true at all, they are very supportive and the only pills my mother takes is prescribed and my dad has a newborn and a 4 yr old and a good girlfriend.. he deff does NOT smoke crack.. but he does smoke weed. but I got pregnant when i was living with my dad in Maine ( and thats where the dad of my baby lives) and now i moved back in with my mom in Florida. Me and the dad of my baby never really talk much. and when we do hes an asshole. He says i’m crazy? and i’m not really mentally crazy though. He said he has a lawyer that can go around the unfit mother shit? can they really do that? and he lives in a trailer in Maine. Middle of no where.. I don’t even think he has a car yet. i doubt it. and i know i have a more stable life then him.
and could he do anything if i didn’t want him to come down to Florida for my due date? I just don’t want him here.. i doubt he is but IF he does end up telling me he has a way down here.. do i have to let him? my mom hates him.. and i’d feel VERY uncomfortable anywhere near him giving birth. or him staying at my house because i just dislike him since he’s a piece of crap since he found out i was pregnant.
oh, and what could he do if i named my baby whatever i wanted? cause he said he doesn’t like the name i picked out. and he thinks he has every right to name him.

Since we know that the 4th house and the Moon can indicate Mom and her issues, what might indicate a mother’s drug abuse?

BQ: Suppositions aside, do you know anyone with this placement, and does this ring true in their real life?

To start off I’m 14 years old, I moved to the state of Oregon about four years back from Hawaii. Well, my mom claims we moved here for a better life for my father who is a alcoholic. When we lived in Hawaii my dad actually had a job, now that we moved here, all he does is sit on his *** all day and do nothing! My mom however, has become obsessed with the lottery and does Powerball & Megabucks about everyday, she has this retarded idea that theres a pattern in the numbers, She spends most her days at work or at the casino. My father now has started getting more verbally abusive to my mother and I, I’m half japanese and these words really hurt me, I cant turn to my mother for help, she just runs away from her problems, I’ve comfronted my mom about this habit of hers, she just shrugs it off, my dad doesn’t really care, he doesn’t have a job. I’m worried about not having any food, and clothes, or anything like that, Anyone have any sugestions? Any help would be greatly appreciated, Thanks.

I’m a mother of 3. Former alcoholic. So what are the chances of one of my kids having alcoholism?
& how can i tell ahead of time? like do alcoholics at an early age act a certain way before they start drinking? Any certain emotions or anything like that?

he…this a stupid question reckless question and i know it but ive never tried any drugs …and i think its really retarded to do so … and theres no point to it…& now u’ll probably think im crazy but its alrite i just want you to stick to the point … I want to try Heroin or ecstasy to see what it feels like … but just only once…& i dont think ill get addicted by just trying it i think im strong enough to lay off of it… and not do it again…i feel very positive about the fact that i know i wont become addicted just by trying any of these 2 drugs…but i was talking to my friend da other day and he said “believe me ive had friends who only wanted to try it and they r either dead now or who knows where…

See now i dont want that to happen to me… & dont think im a stupid reckless Teenager just like everyone else… but b/c of the way i live … the way my mom has raised me and b/c of the mental strength i believe i have.. i think i wont become an addict …& that if after i try it i cant stop myself from keep doing drugs ill get help myself..or i will tell my friends da first time i do it ..so if anything THEY help ME…

Now just people please try to stick to my question … & if u havent experienced any of these or have any friends that have been thru it your answer really doesnt matter to me…but thanks anyway …i want some good..Real Life experience Answers thanks ;)

I know shes gonna be pissed no matter what i just need something to ease the tension, I went out to a dance and got really drunk my dad came and picked me up 10 minutes later. I woke up from my sleep with a hangover and my mom looked mad because this wasnt the first time. :(

I had taken care of my Grandson for 19 months through the court and I need to know, if I should get outside legal advise. CPS told him @ birth because of his Mother drug expose and this is her 8 children within the CPS system. She been on drug for years and has been in and out of drug rehab and just lately she when AWOL from a program for 7 days and needs anger management direction. We are schedule for an hearing 9/2010 an I need to be prepare for this hearing. My Son’s is the Father of this child and she is putting him through pure hell.

I wish I could enjoy a glass of wine, my husband is always after me drink a little to take the edge off after a stressfull day, I have three kids 8yr, 5yr, and 9 month old. I’m scared it will make me sleep to hard and I won’t be able to take care of the baby properly. Man I need to get over that because I really need a drink sometimes.

My husband’s mother has been a self-centered, selfish, lying, alcoholic, drug abuser, loser since he was 3. She has been nothing but a thorn in both our sides and a waste of life. Luckily in the last 6 years she has been living 3 hours away with her sister and we only hear from her 1-2 times a year. She has no other children, no job, no life insurance, no capitol or property, no money, no will, and no spouse. She does, however, have 4 sisters and various nieces and nephews. She is probably not going to live much longer considering all the drugs, alcohol, and cigarettes she has consumed all her life. My question is this: Is my husband legally responsible for arranging and paying for a funeral that we cannot afford? We are low income at the moment and possibly for the next couple of years till we get back on our feet. We cannot use credit cards, get a loan, or anything. What happens if we cannot pay? Does the state handle it? Any advice would be great. Thank you.
For everyone who is jumping down my throat about mother-in-law: I do not hate her, I never said I did. My husband is the one who says he hates her. I’m the one who reminds him of mother’s day and stuff. I even told him she was in the hospital and he said why should I call her, she’s never done anything for me, she’s a waste. I am not the hater here it is my husband. I do however, hate the way she is and what she does. I pray for her, I’ve even tried to help her about 5 years ago, but I realized that an alcoholic, drug abuser can only help themselves with support. She has never tried to help herself. She has tried to murder my husband’s father a few times. She snorted cocaine and smoked pot with my husband (her son) when he was 10 years old etc etc etc etc. So don’t try to judge a situation you know nothing about. Maybe she has some kind of mental illness, who knows, but I don’t have to like her, and I’m angry that I may be financially burdened with her funeral.
To Wise Guy: I do not talk about my children’s grandmother in any negative way to my children. They love everyone unconditionally and I would never do anything to make them think their grandmother (who they see once a year) is bad. As a matter of fact, she is suppose to be visiting for the weekend, and I have been getting them excited about the visit and about how much she loves them and so on. Since she is an alcoholic and she’s not allowed to drink here, I may have to send her home if she doesn’t stay sober. I will not let her around my children if she does this. I will tell them she is sick, but I will not bad mouth her. You should think before you type “Wise Guy”. I have three children that I love and that love me very much. They will never have to endure what my husband did with his mother, and I don’t preach hate. Get a Life!!!

I read an article a little while ago about a mother who killed her brain damaged son with heroin.
He suffered a severe brain injury after falling out of a moving ambulance (How does one fall out of an ambulance?).

She said she could no longer watch him suffer and she did it with love in her heart. She didn’t believe he’d ever get better (Even though doctors thought he might recover) so she couldn’t watch him live in such a helpless condition (Oh, she tried killing him one year before she actually succeeded).

Her entire family supported her and apparently everyone who knew her son didn’t see what she had done as murder, but as a loving and courageous act.

well lets see this may be a long one. i am 21 years old. i have a 14 year old brother who still lives with our mom in ohio. (im in tn). our mother is not a good mother at all. i will give you some examples of what she did to me when i was younger: lets see at the age of 15 i held a belt around my moms arm so she could shoot up god knows what. when i was around 16 she cut her wrist wiped her blood on me and said it was my fault. when i was 13 she let me and my friends smoke cigarettes. at 15 she let us smoke weed and drink alcohol. and at 17 we were smoking crack together(i’ve been clean for 2 years now) she has been in and out of jail/prison she has a few domestic violence’s a few dui’s and her most recent one from last year trafficking crack/cocaine. now out of all these charges my little brother has not been taken out of her home. i have a clean record me and my husband own our house. shes on “disability”. me and my husband both work. now for the question!

do u think i can get custody of him? if so how would i go about doing this? i don’t think i could afford an attorney! also ive asked my mother if he could move down here. and her answers always no! also my brother wants to live down here!!!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!
also she is an alcoholic. and lets my 14yr old brother smoke and drink. its killing me the way hes growing up. hes cussing and shes already called the cops on him for domestic violence. she oushed him so he pushed her and she called the co[s. hes failing all his classes too!!!

How are your kids doing 10 years later, and what types of problems did you or still are encountering? I have heard jokes about “crack” babies, but in real life “BeBe’s kids are no laughing matter! They tend to have attention disorder and various other physical and emotional disorders I have noticed being the grandmother of 6 of them/ By the way I am not lumping all infants that tested positive as going to have these problems, but over the years all of my grand children have had some sort of disorder.