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I really need to know what to do here because I can’t seem to get the proper help from the state or from other places I’ve called. Main problem is money as well as the mothers ability to lie and deny.

The problem is me and my wife were married for 3 years, together for 5. We were on oxycontin for a year and I got off of it because I didn’t want to stay on them and continue being sick. I just got medicine and quit, and she was going to do the same. She did not, but she also had legitimate back pain and had a prescription. She did say she was weening her self down.

A year later she is still doing them and even more than before. she had resorted to shooting them up for a while. She then supposedly went into the ER twice, once in each county near here, for drugs because she ran out and then spent 3 days in a rehab type place because she was going through bad withdrawals before her prescription was filled. She was then removed from the pain meds in march she told me and had to go cold turkey and one month after that she is now back to shooting them up, but says she’s not addicted and is doing them recreationally. She has physically shown me the track marks on her wrist, not her bicep. They are on her wrist and totally visible if you look at them. Her own mother even seen and felt them.

Now I’ve called DCF twice on her about this because she will leave the child at home with her grandma and not say anything, or leave notes before the child wakes up. She spanks her with a 5 gallon paint mixing stick because she said last time she used her hand that she broke a blood vessel in her pinky. She lives in a bad neighborhood now and has told me that she knows the 2 people across the street deal drugs (surprise! she knows and I wonder why) and that she has heard 2 times of the back door handle being jiggled like someone trying to break in. She loans her car out to drug dealers because it’s about to be repossessed and she figures that if they get arrested in it and it’s taken who cares, she scored pills or money. I could go on for a while but this is the more severe stuff. Her grandmother is upset that she leaves the child with her and that she will loan her car out.

Now the problem is that she is a great liar and good at deception. I’m really starting to think she’s a sociopath for her behavior over the last year. I dunno if she was always this way but she has gotten worse over the year. She had me and her mother arrested for battery. With me she thought I was cheating on her because of her own cheaters paranoia and attacked me. The arrest is gone, never went to court because my lawyer dealt with the state attorney. She lies about stuff she has shown and told me because she’s so paranoid I’m recording everything in person or on the phone. She swore I had our house bugged before we moved out of it and wouldn’t speak of anything unless we went out in the yard that she could get in trouble in court for like lying in court or her drug use.

She told my best friends gf she was still doing the drugs and that if we broke up again she’d tell the state I molested my daughter. She did try it but it didn’t work. She lies and lies and lies some more and always seems to get away with it.

When she was on drugs and dealt with dcf, she had a prescription but did way more so she always had a reason for having it in her system. Now she’s clean and I know she’s shooting up and she still shows up clean but she also isn’t getting it as much but craves for it like when she first got hooked and said the other day to her mom she almost sold some GI pills that looked the same because she was desperate. However now that she isn’t addicted where she will get sick, she still has visible track marks on her but nothing seems to be done by the state about it and the state always seems to rush things and doesn’t let you tell them the whole story in detail as I can do here.

My 4 year old daughter never wants to go back to her mother when I bring her back. She immediately gets depressed looking and says I don’t want to see mommy, I don’t love mommy, mommies mean, mommy hits me, etc. She will not really talk about it with me much because she just gets really quiet when I ask or starts saying what she sees trying to change the subject. The most I ever got her to say was “Mommy is mean and she hurts me when she hits me and I don’t want to see Mommy” It’s a struggle to give her back to the mother and always results in me staying for hours to calm her down because she doesn’t want me to leave. My wife has admitted to hitting her at least every 3 days because she acts up.
She has even called her own mother and said that she doesn’t know what to do with the baby and I would only do things like go get groceries or take a trip to best buy.

Really the list goes on and on but this is a good summary of the situation. I’ve tried to
What can I do? nothing seems to work. DCF doesn’t ever do Sphit and the courts don’t seem to care without video proof. But I have about 50 pictures of her passed out all over from her drugs. She refuses to admit she has a problem still and says she’s a good mother. She has moved 3 times in under 3 months because of her drugs and being kicked out. No one can see this but me and her close family and I was told a march-man act won’t work because she can’t be proven a danger to herself or others. I’ve tried once with a baker act for her behavior since she admits to me she was bi polar. I really am clueless on how to stop her and get her help. I don’t want to take my daughter from her, she did it to me for a few months and it wasn’t a happy time. I just want to have at least 50% custody like now but have her a normal mother who isn’t running around for smack.
I am not with her, we got back for 2 months and that ended with the arrest because she was STILL on drugs and I confronted her about it.

The only reason the divorce isn’t active is because of how she lied to get more custody so I stopped that dead in it’s tracks and proceeded to get more evidence, which the judge didn’t care about. Pictures to a judge I was told don’t seem to work because it shows a small moment of what is going on. But the pictures of her passed out over months time span I guess don’t show she’s an addict passing out sitting up all the time and sprawled across the bed funny.

As I said the biggest part right this moment is the money. I’m so broke I can barely get by because of saturation in my market. I want to get a PI and find out. I would love to tell the cops about the drug dealings but I dunno if they’d stake her out for that. friend of hers called once and told them where she was once and they couldn’t pull her over cuz she drove perfect.
I am also not letting my daughter go back because I have to be tough and tell her to get help. I know at this point if I gave her back that she wouldn’t let me see her for a while.

It’s funny she can tell me no but I can’t say no.

She uses my daughter as a pawn claiming she’s all she has left. The truth is she has nothing because what I didn’t take in the split she sold and spent the money and then wants me to pay her more. Most of the stuff she sold was mine anyway while I wasn’t there.

I have this friend*(tasha), she’s a little rebellious but not too over the top. Underneath it all she is really nice. Especiaally when she is alone with me, she sort of tells me all her problems and we share a really special bond.
She smokes…and i know she has TRIED drugs, she isnt addicted…and she has her hips, tongue and belly button pierced.
So i understand why any mother wud be pesimistic about their daughter being friends with her. But my mum just wont listen when i tell her that she is actually a really good person.
I think she’s the way she is, mainly because her bf has tattoos, piercings etc. but he is equally as nice…its strange but people would think theyre a bunch of weirdos but they are really awsum.
Its my birthday soon and i wanted Tasha to sleep over the nite and im having trouble persuading my mum. I know im defo gnna ask tash to not smoke in the house. But how can i get my mom to understand how i feel? xx

Hi.

My husband is addicted to Everquest online adventures for the ps2. He is unable to tear himself from that game. He only gets off the eat, pee, or sleep. We have 2 children..he never helps me with them..never changes a diaper..never makes them lunch or gives them a bath..never even comes out of the room to play with them or say hello. We had a nice apartment at one point..until he lost his job because he wanted to play his game instead of going to work..now we are living with his mother and he is not working or anything…refuses to even walk over to the park with me and the kids for a “family day out”. I could go on and on but i think u get the point.

I know most of you are thinking..LEAVE HIM…but i have nowhere to go..believe me i do not want to be with this man anymore…but i cannot even afford to put the kids in daycare and get a job..he refuses to help me in any way…just plays the game day after day..

If someone can give me some advice..any..it would be great

my mother is a compulsive gambler. she can go gambling 12-20 hours straight. she always tell me that she know what she is doing. Everytime she goes to the casino Im always worried of how much she will be loosing since we do not have a liquid funding. She is not contented with one slot machine but more. She have been borrowing money from the financiers. Once I caught her lie to me that she is not in the casino. I want to talk to her but my worries is that in this process my family will be broken and my mother will be mad at my wife since most of the information I have came from wife because her family goes to the casino also for fun but not addicted to gambling.They are concerned with my moms addiction t gambling. please help me

My mother in law is a miserable person and resents her son and I being married. when we got married she had just finalized her divorce after being separated for a year. after I married her son I found out that she had been cutting her self, punching her self and doing other self destructive things. I cried for her many times and have always been kind to her but I found out that she would confront my aunt (they work together)and say that I was not good enough for her son and that she wanted him to divorce me. while a few people claim this behavior is because of her divorce many of her co-workers and other people have come forward and said she has always been mean spirited and miserable. she made similar remarks when her other son got married . the only person she cares about is her daughter and she goes to the other extreme with her claiming she is a saint and will never get a divorce.

I am to the point now where I could care less about her but she won’t stop telling every body crap about me. she continued to send her son to live with his dad when he was a child and when he came home after moving back to texas she kicked him out . now that he is married she calls constantly for him to fix things (changing light bulbs ,hearing squirrels at 3:00 am etc..) or to be nosy. she even had the nerve to call us on fathers day (his first as a step father) at 7:00 to ask him to put his sisters bed back together even though her 24 year old husband was there. we are expected to dote on little sis. it seems like she never wanted her son while he was growing up but now that he is married she want’s him to fail.

what is this woman’s problem i think she has narcissistic personality disorder . she is always having surgery or breaking bones to have an excuse to have surgery and get attention. people have to come stay with her when she is sick and I swear she is addicted to pain pills and xanax. her 2nd ex-husband left her for a woman he had been friend for over 20 years and while my mom in law is always sick,depressed,mean,and demanding the girlfriend is bubbly ,happy, always smiling, and loves life. yes she committed adultery but she has always been a cheerful woman. ( i have known her since i was 8 and my ex-boss always called her a ray of sunshine).

i also found out that my mother in law always took care of finances when she was married and that she would take her exes checks and made him ask for money or run any purchases by her. when her son and i were dating she would take his checks and pay his bill or “manage” his finances. i told him to he was 25 and old enough to handle money. now that we are married he handles all our finances and we are doing well and are never late on bills. i know this pisses her off.

my husband was in the Marines corp for 4 years and she always trashes him for this(she says he was a good man until the marine corp). he stopped drinking when he met me. we have a nice home and new truck . so we have made a nice life and have been married for 5 years and she still makes a point of telling every body at work she cant wait for us to divorce and that she hates me. i try so hard to be kind to her but now my husband is changing. he has become extremely possessive of me and gets jealous of even my time with my children,he is rough with me(is always slapping my butt, putting me in head locks or physically restraining me when he does not want me to do something.) i have Multiple Sclerosis and I have severe pain and mobility problems when it is not in remission. he knows this and sometimes i think he enjoys hurting me or thinks its funny. this is not the kind loving man i married. its like he is absorbing his moms personality. what do i do.

I know it looks like i just wrote a damn book but that felt good to get that out. my kids are teens now and know whats going and try to talk to me about this but i refuse to burden them with this. any honest opinions or similar experiences are welcomed.

she follows the same pattern every time, she gets addicted and then gets sent to rehab and then runs away from rehab with a man and shoots heroin. She nearly lost her legs cuz she injected all the heroin into them, the veins in her arms were too used up to use. Now she’s run away again from rehab with junkie and her mother is close to a nervous breakdown. My cousin is pretty and clever but she is just hooked on heroin. I know her parents are very different from her and emotionally neglected her, working and playing golf all day. What must my family do? We are losing my cousin.

Help me, I am a 24 year old college student, and I am afraid that I am highly addicted to this computer. I’ve been staring at this bright screen for about 15 hours and I can’t go to sleep without thinking about what I’m going to do next day on the computer. I’ve missed 3 days of class because I don’t want to leave this computer, I have so much fun chatting to strangers online and making new accounts for MMORPG games to explore and have fun. I eat yogurt every couple of hours and sometimes I feel sick by just looking at the computer but putting on my sunglasses makes it a little bit better. I need desprate help my siblings think that I am crazy but I am fine…I haven’t been spending much time with my cat Spiffy either I feel like a bad mother please help me I need to get off this thing!!!!
My eyes hurt so badly!

My boyfriend is addicted to adderall and call of duty. He stays up literally all night and only sleeps for a couple hours a day. Lately he’s been constantly popping adderall for work and COD taking at least 40 mg a day.. sometimes he’ll go crazy and take up to 100 mg a day.The adderall just recently started, and if he doesnt have adderall he’ll still stay up all night and play. He thinks that he is the best player at call of duty and that the adderall just makes him even better. Hes lost alot of weight and looks sickly skinny now.The adderall is not prescription right now. When he was younger he was prescribed to it and he is trying to get prescribed to it again right now. It has also been interfearing with our relationship. We’ve been together for 5 and a half years and he recently told me that he doesnt want a gf anymore.. at least not a real girlfriend.. he wants a 2 day a week girlfriend so that he can do what he wants to do (COD) and not worry about me. He also blows off his family all the time for call of duty too. He thinks that what hes doing is ok and that he doesnt have a problem, but i think that he has a serious problem that needs to be fixed but dont know how to get through to him.His friends are no help, they just make it worse because alls he does when he hangs out with his friends is play call of duty. His mother also thinks its a problem but i dont htink that she knows the extent of it, and even if she did, i dont think that anything she could say would help. Can anyone please help me?
iPengiun… theres a difference between playing a video game and being addicted to a video game.. i would be happy if he cut down to playing 5 or 6 hours a day… not literally all day and night

Hi, my daughter is 11 years old. Her father, whom I have been split from for 10 years, is addicted to meth. He is in and out of jail, and rarely sees her. Last time he saw her (at his mother’s house during a visit) he spit in her hair!!!!!!. I forbid him to see her until he gets clean. She doesn’t want to see him, but I can tell how hard it is for her. He refuses to go to a rehab. I just want her to be okay. She is always asking “will my dad ever quit taking drugs?” and i don’t know the answer. I feel horrible. On top of everything I am a struggling single mother, and haven’t ever got a penny of child support, so he is in arrears for 10 years of child support. Help!!!!!

helloo im 13 and a girl. Sorry if this is long, but i just really need help. Well my mom is 49 and she has been an alcoholic ever since she divorced my dad, so for maybe 8 years. Well, she is a type 1 diabetic and she also smokes. And this is really really difficult for me and my brother(19) and my sister (22). Welll my mom ended up gettting remarried to a man with 3 kids. And both of his kids are screwups and they do something wrong ever day, such as stealing my moms credit card to buy tickets to a weed festival, etc. Anyways. They have made her even more stressed out so now her problem is ever worse. It is soooo hard to just watch ur own mother completely drunk by 2 in the afternoon. I feel like everyday im just watching her slowly kill herself and im not doing anything about it. She is going to die, soon. There is no way she can handle all of that alcohol on her for being diabetic and nicotine addicted. guys, shes gunna die…. Trust me, me and my family have tried everything we can. But i feel really bad about this, but I almost want her to die, because i feel like life would be better and easier without her. All she really does is cause sooo much stress and anger in this house, I also have really really bad anxiety, i have an anxiety disorder most of it caused by stress from her. She is absoulutley miserable, she would be better off in heaven. I feel like we would be happier, i feel terrible saying this. but i feel like its true. is this wrong of me to think?? i feel bad for saying it….:/ anyways. what on earth should i do? Im confused, i dont wanna see her kill herself with alcohol cuz its just sooo painful for me to see, i dont even consider her a mother to me, shes always drunk and she makes no sense and she is sooo embarasssing….i dont even invite friends over cuz of her. I try to tell my friends and ask them for help, but they honestly dont care, cuz its not their mom so why sshoulld they care? It hurts me….bad. Someone help me, im confused about everything, im confused about life. the only upside is, im COMPLETELY against alcohol after ive seen what it has done to her. And my sister is a big party person, so one time she came in my room drunk from a party and i just starting crying because i saw her drunk and i love her so it made me think of my mom. And my boyfriend told me he tried drinking one time, and i starting crying my heart out because i dont want to see anyone else i love get hurt from this terrible alcohol. its really affecting me.

My father has been addicted to drugs almost his entire life and he hasn’t worked a full time job for over 6 months in 15 years. I still live at home and I’m 19 years old. My mother wants him to move out but it’s not that simple. Along with his drug problem he is very irrational and has gone on a rampage before. Calling the police on him is barely an option because he would then devote much of his time to try and “get even” I want to move out but I’m afraid that he will hurt my mother if I’m not there. He bullies my mom but he can’t bully me. Please help.

I’m totally addicted, and am using now 800mg a day, but if I try and withdraw from it, I am so ill very quickly.. I have to look after my mother, so now I have the horrible situation where I HAVE to carry on taking the codeine so I can get through the day. If I try and stop, within a few hours, I ache all over, and have terrible diarrhoea, and can hardly move.. I can’t afford a detox clinic, and I’m scared of just going cold turkey. I want to maybe get someone to look after my mum while I ‘disappear’ for a week or two and just stay in bed till it;s over… anyone ever been in this situation?

Hello all i’m a 15 year old boy living in Toronto and i have this serious issue i am very addicted to video games i play them way too much i am currently failing all my grades and i got no friends not athletic anymore like i use to be i really wanna quit these games i have a single mother and she works really hard for me i don’t want to drop out of high school but i don’t know what to do i look ugly and my tooth are twisted i don’t feel like going to school cause people gonna make fun of me i just don’t know whats life for anymore i miss my friends in Elementary school but they have all moved on =(. but i’m the only one that have not and just stayed home and play games all day long i really feel sad for myself and would like to fix this problem and move on in life i also sleep very little maybe that is why i don’t have the motive to attend school but if anyone could figure a solution for me i would be happy thanks in advance and sorry for my broken english.

My mother died 18 mos. ago & I began having difficulty sleeping. My doctor prescribed Ambien and it works great. Then, last August, my younger sister (my only sibling) died unexpectedly. I absolutely cannot get to sleep without my Ambien. I have also been prescribed Xanax. If I should awaken too early, say at 2:45am, I cannot get back to sleep so I take a Xanax. I find Xanax puts me to sleep for about 3 hours.
This morning I awakened at 3:00am and took a Xanax. At noontime I decided to take a nap so I took another Xanax.
I feel that I am addicted. Do you agree? And, if so, how do I rectify this problem??
I really need your help and would appreciate your advice.

Guys please help me with my mother. She’s always been talking about how lazy am I at the house. I’m addicted with Farm Town and I stopped being an addict but I still play it. She always use Farm Town as a reason. My 9 year old brother is addicted with his PSP and computer games but she doesn’t scold him.

I was never lazy but then one day come and I realized a things:
1. I always clean our house before but my dad, mom, ang bro always mess the house up so I stopped cleaning.
2. Every time I come home from school my mom always ask me to do this and that. I’m so tired every time I come home from school. And kept thinking what is my Mom doing all the time when I’m at school?

I feel like she just treat me as her maid! I need some advices.

A woman who has never been able to support her self as an adult, (has relied on family, friends, boyfriends, etc) how would she be able to take care of a child also? The woman is 46 yrs old and has never worked more than 3 yrs in a row, and never earned enough to rent a room and support herself. She has survived her whole adult life by moving around from guy to guy, and her family has supported her in between her relationships, (which is only a month or two) and in a 12 year period, lived with 8 different men in 11 different places. She was addicted to various presciption drugs for at least 10 years, and uses the child (who is in school) as an excuse for not being able to work. Since her emotional stabilty is suspect, will the courts automaticlly order a thorough psych evaluation before they decide custody? The father was recently injured, and can’t work for a few months, will the child become a ward of the state?

I just turned 16 years old and im addicted to cocaine. This is real and i need help and advise quick please! iv only been sniffing coke for about a year and now i am a feen for the drug all the time. Im loosing all my friends and they want to tell my family. I want to seek help without geting my family involved. For my situation telling my mother isnt going to get the situation anywhere, What do i do im realy scared and i wanna stop using but i can’t. PLEASE HELP! I am trying to loose for some help that is confidential and free… pleasee answer !

I take 3-4 pills of Excedrin PM every night to go to sleep. I started out a year or two ago with taking maybe 1 or 2 every once in a while but after a while i had to up the number of pills to get the same effect. I can sleep without them, but its very hard and i toss and turn for hours. If i don’t have Excedrin PM I will try and find some other sort of sleeping pill or take more than the regular dosage of something to try and get some sort of effect. I’ve had a history of pill-popping and mixing pills, but I stopped because they were too unpredictable and I OD’d and got sick one time from mixing 20-something pills. I am just wondering if i really am physically addicted or if I’ve just tricked my mind into thinking that i need the pills.

p.s.
My mother also takes Excedrin PM every night about the same dosage as I do, maybe a bit more.

When the Republican party picked her up in Alaska for the VP job they briefed her on a couple of things they then realized she thought Africa was a country! and that South Africa was a Region!

How can you be 44 y/o, governor of a State, mother of children and not know that Africa is a continent!!! Lets say she flopped geography in school…didn’t she help any of her children with their homework!

I can not stop making fun of her, I think I’m addicted!

Reference: New York Time November 6th, 08