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This girl I know has two Kids a boy and a girl. the boy was taken away by dyfs years ago. however they left the younger child with the mother. the mother is a drug addict and has no place to call home she sleeps were every she falls for the night. the child has been living with the father for years and he still has to pay her support. here whats happening. The mother leaves the child live with dad as long as dad keeps giving her money. when we tryed to take this to court the judge said we had no proof that the child is living with the dad. the mother makes sure the child uses her address. we have tryed to get dyfs to do something about it no one will listen and response would be great we need help bad.

This girl I know has two Kids a boy and a girl. the boy was taken away by dyfs years ago. however they left the younger child with the mother. the mother is a drug addict and has no place to call home she sleeps were every she falls for the night. the child has been living with the father for years and he still has to pay her support. here whats happening. The mother leaves the child live with dad as long as dad keeps giving her money. when we tryed to take this to court the judge said we had no proof that the child is living with the dad. the mother makes sure the child uses her address. we have tryed to get dyfs to do something about it no one will listen and response would be great we need help bad.

Please help I’m a 30 year old mother of three and wife,and I got addicted to pain pills about a year ago!!I started with loritabs now I get oxys and morphine.What should i do?When I try to quit I get real bad withdrawls,,chills,dirarya,cant sleep,ect.Please help should I go to a drug rehab for a while or what?

My birthday is 7-4-69. Hers is 3-30-45. I need the combination. I am suffering depression and severe ADD. Is there a Psychic who has the ability to give me the numbers or a way I can override the lock? Free? I’ll pay for all other readings if this works. I am no thief or drug addict, I have a controlling mother. Please help…

I saw this interesting documentary the other day about teens getting addicted to pornography. They didn’t really focus on the family much so I was just wondering how you would feel catching your son watching it. Knowing my mother, she would be extremely upset about it.

I am so stressed it’s not funny. I live with my grandparents and they are thinking about divorcing. My mother is addicted to crack and has hit rock bottom ( again ). I am worried about my diabetic 11 year old sister and Chronic Ahsmaic and C.O.P.D 6 year old brother and Brain Damaged 4 year old brother who lives with her. Plus, one of my Best friends is moving and we had a fight because I am too stressed to care or notice. Then on top of it I am trying to make a long distance relationship work. I want a normal life and to be honest with my friends. I want to stop living a lie, basically. How do I do, just stop it all?
I am 13.5 not much I can do to get away
I run cross country and is a health nut… Plus trying to rid myself of O.C.D

A kid born with disabilities because of a drug addict mother has an idea about welfare. All welfare recipients will be randomly drug tested; if they fail they are offered help while if they refuse their benefits are revoked.
I like this idea.
interesting point, there would be a raise in homeless children by parents who would rather their kids be raised by the system so they may continue using drugs,
c’mon are people really that heartless?

Should we prosecute the mother when she has a cocaine-addicted baby?

I recently found out from c.p.s. that my child had meth and t.h.c. in her system when she was born. The mother also told me that she had did meth with her son when she was pregnant. I dont want my daughter around drugs. She lives in her parents garage with my daughter.

I have a three bedroom apartment, i recently got hired for the federal goverment, I go to church, dont do drugs or alcohol. And have a good record, and driver lisense. She dosent have any of these.

She has four kids all from different fathers and one was taken away.

Mature advice only please. I am serious. I need honest mature opinions to this problem. I am trying to save my marriage. I have a big problem. My husband is a recovering alcoholic. He has been sober from alcohol for almost 6 months. He is also addicted to pills, mainly xanax and lortabs. He does good for a while, then relapses. I understand this is one of the hardest addictions to try and stop on your own and I am trying to give him all the support I can to help him through this. The problem is… his mother keeps giving him pills behind my back. He finally confessed it to me and now I am stuck with a hard decision to make. What to do about his mother. Do I cut her out of our lives? She is on parole for drug charges herself as she is an addict.. Family traditions huh? I am so angry, I am considering calling her Parole Officer explaining my situation and informing him that she is still doing drugs and every time they call her in for her drug test, she has been using a detox to pee clean, and the shampoo for the hair follicle test. I know this because she told me this. She has already peed dirty once and she denied it and I guess the PO let it slide. Should I go to her PO and tell him what I know to get her out of our lives and away from my husband? Shouldn’t I do something to keep her away? I need help… Please
I have talked to her repeatedly about giving pills to her son and the last time I talked to her, she said, “Well you know he’s never going to quit taking pills”, so I told her, “Not if you keep supplying them he won’t” and she left mad. She knows how I feel, but she doesn’t care. She has been giving him pills since he was a young child, only then she gave him Valium so he would go to bed early so she could stay up and party with her friends. I know this because my husband told me this. He and I are being honest with each other at last. I hate making my husband feel like he is stuck in the middle as he is going through a hard enough time trying to kick his addictions, but his mother has been an enabler to him for so long now. I told him I don’t want her coming to my home that she is not welcome because I can’t trust her to support him or me in our marriage and his recovery. He and I have been going to a church for a year now to find help through the Lord and trying to get our lives straightened out. The devil keeps sending people in our lives trying to mess things up. And on top of all that, his mother decided to come to our church this morning. But not alone…she had brought along a woman who my husband used to go out with and has recently “befriended”, and she knows I can’t stand her. She is trying to cause problems in my life. How do I put a stop to it?

I live in a peaceful cul-de-sac in Watertown, MA. Two weeks ago my father was hit by a drunk driver (foul mouthed, a drugs addict) on our driveway, probably black). This almost destroyed our happy suburban life. Because of this the right side of my father’s left foot is paralyzed for the rest of his life. My mother saw the disaster happen and since then, she can’t come out of the house any longer because she’s grown afraid of cars. Now I have to do all the grocery shopping. I wrote a letter to the city council, asking if they could forbid cars for two weeks in the streets surrounding our cul-de-sac. This would help her get used to the idea of leaving the house again. Would you believe the city refused to even consider it? Frankly I’m offended as a tax payer that practical considerations are superior to the delicate feelings of the citizen.

I live in a peaceful cul-de-sac in Watertown, MA. Two weeks ago my father was hit by a drunk driver (foul mouthed, a drugs addict) on our driveway, probably black). This almost destroyed our happy suburban life. Because of this the right side of my father’s left foot is paralyzed for the rest of his life. My mother saw the disaster happen and since then, she can’t come out of the house any longer because she’s grown afraid of cars. Now I have to do all the grocery shopping. I wrote a letter to the city council, asking if they could forbid cars for two weeks in the streets surrounding our cul-de-sac. This would help her get used to the idea of leaving the house again. Would you believe the city refused to even consider it? Frankly I’m offended as a tax payer that practical considerations are superior to the delicate feelings of the citizen.

I live in a peaceful cul-de-sac in Watertown, MA. Two weeks ago my father was hit by a drunk driver (foul mouthed, a drugs addict) on our driveway, probably black). This almost destroyed our happy suburban life. Because of this the right side of my father’s left foot is paralyzed for the rest of his life. My mother saw the disaster happen and since then, she can’t come out of the house any longer because she’s grown afraid of cars. Now I have to do all the grocery shopping. I wrote a letter to the city council, asking if they could forbid cars for two weeks in the streets surrounding our cul-de-sac. This would help her get used to the idea of leaving the house again. Would you believe the city refused to even consider it? Frankly I’m offended as a tax payer that practical considerations are superior to the delicate feelings of the citizen.

My ex and I have been divorced for almost 2 years now. We have joint custody where we alternate weeks of custody. 50/50. I am starting the process of fighting for full custody of our daughter because the joint custody arrangement isn’t working and because eventually my job will take me too far away to make 50/50 custody feasible.

My problem is, my ex isn’t a drug addict, isn’t an alcoholic, and isn’t physically abusive to our daughter. And it seems that just being the better parent isn’t enough to win custody over a mother. So my case is based off of her instability. Our marriage ended because of an affair that she had with one of my friends shortly after she gave birth to our daughter. During our daughter’s 3 years on this earth, her mother has lived in 5 different places, has had 10 different jobs (none of which have ever been full time), has remarried (to a man she said one time physically abused her, and with whom she had broken up with 5 times prior to getting married. they then got engaged, then called off the wedding, then got knocked up, then they got married. then in the first month of marriage, he moved out for a month, then moved back in). She has been diagnosed in the past with severe depression and anxiety.

Her parents pay for her insurance, her car, and now her and her new husband live in a house that her parents own. She doesn’t have a routine schedule for parenting, as far as bed time, meal time, or anything else. She frequently leaves her with her mom and dad so that she can go out and do other things. And when she is actually with our daughter, she is just hanging out at her parents house. She has stated that no parent is expected to take care of their child 24/7. She is routinely late in picking up or dropping off our daughter when we exchange custody. Our daughter routinely comes home and tells me that her new husband was yelling at her mommy. The list goes on and on. My ex just can’t provide a stable home life that my wife and i can provide.

I remarried over a year and a half after my divorce, and my wife and I have never split up. I have lived in the same house since my daughter was born. have had the same consistent job and good pay. i make sure that our daughter has a routine for her day. im never late in picking her up or taking her anywhere. im just a dad who is concerned for his daughter’s future and knows that she would be better off living with me full-time.

i don’t question that my ex loves her, i just question her parenting ability. i wouldn’t restrict her access to our daughter, i just want to provide her the sustained stability and opportunities she deserves.

has anyone been through a situation similar to mine. is instability a case in itself??

I live in a peaceful cul-de-sac in Watertown, MA. Two weeks ago my father was hit by a drunk driver (foul mouthed, a drugs addict, probably black) on our driveway. This almost destroyed our happy suburban life. Because of this the right side of my father’s left foot is paralyzed for the rest of his life. My mother saw the disaster happen and since then, she can’t come out of the house any longer because she’s grown afraid of cars. Now I have to do all the grocery shopping. I wrote a letter to the city council, asking if they could forbid cars for two weeks in the streets surrounding our cul-de-sac. This would help her get used to the idea of leaving the house again. Would you believe the city refused to even consider it? Frankly I’m offended as a tax payer that practical considerations are superior to the delicate feelings of the citizen.

My mom is a mother of seven kids. She has a very serious drug problem. Can anyone help me find a website or something that I can learn how to get help for her and myself? She is one of those people that never thinks she needs help. She is very immature as well because she wasn’t raised in the proper environment. PLEASE HELP!
My parents are divorced. My step father does drugs as well. She doesn’t seem to want help.
Oh and she doesn’t abuse us, but yells a lot when it isn’t needed and makes a big deal out of little things that wouldn’t have happened had she taught us the right way. Such as spilling milk. She will egt angry and just yell at my little sister instead of teaching her how to clean it up.
oh and carToon.. i would try that… but she us ALWAYS under the influence.. so there is no way to let her watch it when she is sober

I’ve been a huge fan of the Simpsons since they were on the Tracey Ulman show. And honestly, I’m a tiny bit addicted. Does anybody else feel like the Simpsons is a part of their life like me, and actually get sad when things like Homer’s mother dying happens?

I think this is pretty obvious, but nobody says it. Do u agree?
If ANS loved her son Daniel, maybe she should have provided him with a home that was not full of drugs and a mother that was coherent. Her behavior was the epitome of selfishness.
I would rather have no mother than one that would lead me to become a drug addict and die at age 20.

i would like custody but my name isn’t on the birth certificate, although he is 100% mine, but we split when she was pregnant.last night she texted me and said she was seeing her ex boyfriend who she has a 6yr old daughter with.but he is on heroin and violent and im really worried about my son , he is 7 mths old and i have him at weekends.what can i do?
i pay her money every week and i buy him clothes.
and we live in uk

My mother used to be very addicted to Yahoo Spades, now she’s not so much addicted but it’s still kinda there. She just got my husband into Yahoo Spades and he’s addicted to it! It drives me crazy..he cares about nothing else but Spades..he claims that he’s not addicted while really he is..it feels like he loves Spades more than he loves me. I know it’s weird but it’s true!

What is it about Yahoo Spades that’s so fascinating? You really don’t gain anything from it..it’s a waste of time!
To Leg: Why even reply to this answer when you can’t even give me a straight answer..oh wait..you must be a poor soul that’s addicted.