We will help you get your mom off drugs!

ok…my last question looked wrong. But the MOTHER of this poor child is a crack addict-for 19 years. Been arrested, in and out of rehab, total loser. We tried for cutody and $5000 later we were told that since the child wants to stay with her, that is what they are going with.
Since that court date, she is back on drugs, has ben arrested and now we believe that she is using now.
The child basically is at the grandparents all the time who we are not on good terms with since we took them to court. The grandmother is a “proud” alcoholic-she doesn’t hide it. In fact, they just got a dog and named it “Stoli”.
This crack head has tried to harass me by calling CPS on me saying that I drink wine and an drunk around the kid. (Me and my husband sometimes have a glass of wine with dinner and the kid is the type to go to the mother with exaggerated info) CPS immeadiately saw that it was just harassment and dismissed it. That’s just the beginning. Nightmare! Can anyone relate?

I know a mother of 2 who has a pot problem, she uses her money to buy pot and treats 1 of the kids like supreme crap with emotion and physical abuse. Would you rat her out to the authorities knowing full well if you did the child would be put into foster care since no one else in the family would take her in? Also this person has a weed op in their basement.

My husband and I won custody of my stepdaughter 2 years ago. Recently my stepdaughters mother lives with her current boyfriend w/child # 4 on the way. They have fights that the police have to come to their house. We didn’t know about this till 2 weekends ago when SD came home and told us the cops came cause her mom and bf were fighting physcially in front of kids. He grabbed her moms arm, she hit his head, etc. Apparently this is the 4th or 5th time cops came for domestic violence in the last 2 months, we just learned all this. Her mom says he was addicted to pills, and she got his doctor to switch his prescription and they are going to therapy now so everything should be all good again. Well she comes to get her Friday as this weekend is hers. Do we have any right to keep her from going somewhere we DO NOT feel safe for her to go? What if it does happen again & they both go to jail, does my SD goto CPS custody or will we get called to come get her?
We will violate court order if we don’t let her go, we know this. Just wondered if there is anything we can do in a situation thats bad, physcially and emotionally? Or do we have to wait till something bad happens, cause we want to avoid that at all costs!
WE HAVE CUSTODY! We won custody 2 years ago from her mother thru the court system. This is just her weekend to visit her per the court ordered agreement, TX standard visitation agreement.

denies addiction, her health is deteriorating, she fell and bruised herself…has been increasingly emotionally and verbally abusive to me (daughter)..any suggestions?
Mother is 72 years old…drugs I am concerned with are vicodin and ambien cr.