Mom has always been addicted to alcohol. This addiction has put a strain on our relationship. I am torn between wanting to help and concern.
What should I do in this situation? I work in East Longmeadow, Massachusetts.
Any info you can give to help would be greatly appreciated.
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I grew up with a mother who was an alcoholic. Although I was young, I still knew the only thing you can do is help. Sure, they’ll completely deny it and it’ll all blow up in your face. It’s because telling your mother “You need rehab.” is like telling you, “I’m going to take your car away.” It is an addiction…meaning she cannot stop on her own. The only thing you can do is sit down with her and explain how you feel like your relationship is fucked up. Don’t mention the alcohol until later in the conversation, though. Remember, first step of alcoholism is (1.We admitted that we were powerless over alcohol that our lives had become unmanagable.)
1st step…it’s admitting.
Take her 2 the Steve Wilkos Show no just joking sit her down and tell her how you fell about her how u feel.
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May I ask how old you are as my advice may differ slightly.
The first thing you do is to accept it is your mothers problem and all you can do is support not nag as it doesnt work.
Get as much info as you can about what its like to be a family member of an alcoholic, and how to help yourself ,and by effect the other person.
Knowledge is your only way you can help her and most of all yourself.
Telephone Family Annonymous or ideally go to a meeting. or if not ring them and ask for their leaflets. There is no stigma and if you call someone will meet you outside first.They are amazing how they can clarify the situation.
All the things you thought you knew is probably all askew and their clarity will help you. Read about co-dependancy .
This e-book is free to download and I really think you should read it. It’s called 97 steps to a happy relationship. Check it out!