Archive for January 10th, 2010

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Sunday, January 10th, 2010

Risk Factors of Smoking

Smoking – however controlled – has been linked to serious health risks. It affects the:

Lungs: It has been revealed that smoking alone is accountable for about 90% of the deaths due to lung cancer. Moreover, it may result in chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD), which also includes emphysema and chronic bronchitis. Asthamatic smokers who give up smoking can improve their lung function in as little as a week. Therefore the harmful effects of smoking can be easily reversed.

Cardiovascular System: Tobacco, in all its forms (smoking, chewing tobacco and inhaling second hand smoke), is known to raise the risk of heart attacks. Smokers face a risk up to three times greater of having a heart attack compared to non-smokers. The risk of heart attacks among those who have stopped smoking slowly decreases over time.

Effects on Male Fertility and Impotence: Smoking negatively affects a man’s sexuality and fertility. It is said to be a contributory factor in impotence because it decreases the blood flow into the penis. In men with high blood pressure, smoking causes an almost 26-fold increase in impotence.

Smoking weakens sperm motility, decreases sperm lifespan, and has the potential to cause genetic changes that can affect the offspring. In addition, smokers (both men and women) are found to have lower success rates with fertility treatments. Moreover, studies have revealed that male smokers have a decreased libido and therefore less frequent sex.

Effects on Female Infertility, Pregnancy, and Childbirth: In women, smoking is linked to many reproductive problems. Smoking during pregnancy may affect the health of the foetus. Negative effects of smoking on female fertility include:

Greater risk for infertility (in women who smoke one or more packs a day or start smoking before the age of 18 Earlier menopause (because toxins in cigarette smoke damage the eggs) Pregnancy complications (smoking increases the risk for ectopic pregnancy and miscarriage)

Medical Advice for Stop Smoking

It is the nicotine in cigarettes that causes the addiction. However, nicotine replacement products help in smoking cessation. They deliver small, measured doses of nicotine into the body. This helps relieve cravings and withdrawal symptoms and thus help people quit smoking.

These nicotine replacement products prevent the person from inhaling tobacco smoke which contains many toxic and cancer-causing substances. Even long-term use of nicotine replacement products is not known to be associated with any serious harmful effects.

All the approved nicotine replacement products are equally effective. They are:

Nicotine Patch is available without a prescription. This patch is changed daily and worn on a different location everyday. It sends a steady amount of nicotine into the body. The nicotine patch comes as pat of an 8-week quit smoking treatment. As the treatment progresses, nicotine doses are gradually lowered. However it is not advisable for people who are allergic to adhesive tape or who have skin problems. In addition, people who experience side effects like vivid dreams must opt to wear the patch only during the day.

Nicotine Gum is an over-the-counter treatment and comes in 2mg and 4mg strengths. A new gum every 1 or 2 hours releases steady amounts of nicotine into the bloodstream through the lining of the mouth. The 4mg dose works better for the highly dependent smokers, smoking 20 or more cigarettes per day. However, nicotine gum might not be suitable for people with dentures and bridges or for people with temporo-mandibular joint (TMJ) disease. When on nicotine gum, use of beverages like coffee, juice or other acidic beverages must be curtailed.

Nicotine Lozenge is also available without a prescription in 2mg and 4mg strengths. Acting in a similar fashion to the nicotine gum, the lozenge is placed between the cheek and gum tissue and allowed to dissolve, releasing nicotine into the bloodstream through the lining of the mouth. A new lozenge can be sucked every 1 or 2 hours. Consumption of coffee, juice and other acidic beverages must be stopped while sucking on the nicotine lozenge.

Nicotine Nasal Spray is a prescription only drug. It comes in a pump bottle and can be inhaled when the urge to smoke arises. This is the fastest absorbing nicotine replacement therapy. However, this product is not recommended for people with nasal or sinus conditions, allergies, asthma or young tobacco users. Side effects from this product include sneezing, coughing, and watering eyes which usually go away with continued use.

Nicotine Inhaler, also available on prescription only, delivers the vaporized form of nicotine. It is inhaled through a mouthpiece attached to a plastic cartridge but like a cigarette it does not deliver nicotine directly into the lungs. Most of the nicotine is absorbed through the mucous membranes in the mouth and the throat. Common side effects include throat and mouth irritation and coughing. People with a bronchial problem such as asthma must use this product with caution.

Various nicotine replacement therapies can be combined upon recommendation from a health care provider. In addition, it is advisable to for smokers to quit using tobacco products before starting the use of nicotine replacement products because nicotine overdose can cause nausea, vomiting, dizziness, diarrhea, weakness and rapid heartbeat.

Non-nicotine drugs that help people quit smoking are:

Zyban® (Bupropion) is approved for the treatment of nicotine addiction. It helps reduce nicotine withdrawal symptoms as well as the urge to smoke. It can also be used safely with nicotine replacement products. Some of its common side effects are dry mouth, difficulty sleeping, headache, dizziness, and skin rash. People who are on other medicines that contain Bupropion hydrochloride and people who have been diagnosed with a seizure condition such as epilepsy or an eating disorder such as anorexia nervosa or bulimia must not take this medication. Combining alcohol with Bupropion increases the risk of a seizure.

Champix™ Varenicline is a prescription smoking cessation drug. It helps with quit smoking by easing the withdrawal symptoms and blocking the effects of nicotine if smoking is resumed. Some common Varenicline side effects include nausea, vivid dreams, constipation, gas, and vomiting. People with kidney problems, pregnant women and lactating mothers should not use this drug.

Although Nortriptyline and Clonidine are not currently approved, doctors sometimes do prescribe these drugs to help people quit smoking.

Alternative approaches for stop smoking are:

Hypnosis Acupuncture Acupressure Laser therapy Electro-stimulation

Some people claim that alternative approaches may help in reducing the symptoms associated with nicotine withdrawal. However, clinical studies have not been able to prove this point.

How Champix is a better smoking cessation treatment?

Champix is a non-nicotine smoking cessation drug. It targets the same receptors that nicotine does. While, most other smoking cessation drugs contain nicotine in varying amounts, with Champix, the person is safe and will no have to gradually wean off it as is the case with nicotine based smoking cessation therapies that could prove to be addictive.

Champix is a prescription drug which contains the active ingredient Varenicline. It works by stimulating the same receptors in the brain as nicotine. This helps relieve the craving and withdrawal symptoms when trying to quit smoking. Varenicline blocks nicotine’s action on these receptors. As a result, smoking no longer comes across as enjoyable. In certain individuals stopping the use of Champix may result in:

A craving to smoke Irritability Depression Insomnia

However, gradually tapering off the dose at the end of the treatment may help in reducing these problems. As with all prescriptions medications, Champix too has its share of side-effects and this could put people off from using the drug. But, some people may not be suitable for this treatment. A medical professional is the best person to take a call on this.

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2 Year Old Boy Is Dead After drunk mom Passed-Out and Crushes him

Sunday, January 10th, 2010

INDIANAPOLIS — A 2-year-old boy was pronounced dead after he was found beneath his passed-out mother — who investigators say admitted she’d been drinking — in an Indianapolis motel room early Wednesday, according to police. Latasha McMorris’ boyfriend found the two on the floor of an EconoLodge motel room on North Shadeland Avenue and, noticing that the boy wasn’t breathing, called 911 at about 12:30 am, police said. The boy, Sheldon Bartley Jr., was taken to Community East Hospital.

Mother charged in toddler death had troubled history

Jeremy Brilliant/Eyewitness News

Indianapolis – A toddler was found dead in a motel and now his mother is being charged in his death. It’s not the first time LaTasha McMorris, 24, has been in trouble for a crime involving alcohol and her children.

Last summer, a judge convicted her of neglect of a dependent. In fact, she was on probation when officers arrested her early Wednesday morning.

On July 19th, 2007, neighbors called police to report two children running loose in the street in the 100 block of Bosart Avenue. Their mother, witnesses said, was clearly under the influence of alcohol. McMorris was arrested for felony neglect of a dependant and public intoxication.

imageAccording to court documents, LaTasha was so drunk she fell to the ground while talking to a police officer.  Her blood alcohol level was nearly three times the legal limit.

McMorris pleaded guilty and in October was sentenced to one year probation. In the four months since the conviction, she violated the terms of probation at least twice by not getting a job, not completing 24 hours of community service and failing a sobriety test. 

McMorris told a probation officer she “has had a drinking problem and never stopped drinking. She further stated that she has been drinking for ten years and everyone in her immediate family has a problem drinking.” In the past two months, police arrested McMorris on four separate occasions for public intoxication: twice in December and twice in January.   

After the October conviction, her children, two-year-old Sheldon Bartley and a six-year-old daughter, were both placed in the custody of their grandparents. Who took care of them after that is unclear. According to a statement from Child Services:  “DCS will conduct a complete and intensive review to verify all information and facts.”

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RUMORS!!! What have you heard about the future mother in law of Palin’s daugter?

Sunday, January 10th, 2010

She was arrested in connection to a prescription drug, oxycontin.

http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5hR4UTSCTAK37YLQG9AtmTFk0CybQD9565ST00

Yet I have already heard the woman was a “crack whoar” (actual misspelling) and that she was “running a meth lab.”

There have already been joked that if Bristol has a girl, they should name her Crystal (as in meth)

And why should we care about the arrest of the mother of the boyfriend of the daughter of the running mate of the Republican candidate for president?

SO What is the most outlandish thing you heard!?

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And I know there were some crazy things said about Obama as well. I am NOT trying to say the liberals are the only ones guilty of such rumors. I know it happens on both sides.
BlahBlahBlah – That is how rumors go.
Obama & Bush both have some drug history, with the emphasis on the word ‘history.’ I doubt if either has done drugs in many, many years.
doughboy – I am against rumors. If you look at my history, you will find I also speak out against the “fake birth certificate” rumors. I voted against Obama but defended him agianst the rumors.
Huffington Post???

Check my most link. This is the most recent & most official report.
And it is from the Associated Press.
Mary Alice – the Anchorage Article doesn’t say anything about what kind of drug, much less Meth, nothing about any lab & nothing about any kind of whoring.

And if you look at the article I linked you to, it states that the arrest was in connected to Oxycontin, a prescription drug.

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Fertility Doctors Help Those with Infertility Problems

Sunday, January 10th, 2010

Couples across the state struggle to find a solution to their infertility problems. Finding treatment that helps to solve these problems can seem like a daunting task, although help does exist for couples or individuals who seek it. Fertility doctors in Florida have helped many couples and individuals overcome their infertility by utilizing a variety of treatments and procedures. Patients who are interested in these treatments will find further information from a medical professional specializing in the field.
There are many infertility treatments available, and depending on the specific cause of each couple’s infertility, a variety of different treatments may be helpful. In some cases, doctors recommend combining treatments to reach optimal results.

Infertility could be caused by any number of factors. Fertility doctors in Florida will help couples and individuals pinpoint the likely cause of their infertility and will work with them to find a solution. Patients are advised to discuss all of their options with a doctor so that they fully understand each option and what is involved with each treatment. The various causes of infertility may vary greatly from case to case, while male infertility and female infertility may be caused by different factors as well.

Generally, infertility may result if there is a problem with any male or female reproductive organs. There are lifestyle habits or factors that may be a cause of infertility as well. Heavy alcohol consumption, smoking, drug use and advanced age may play a role in both male and female infertility. Fertility doctors in Florida will be helpful in explaining the possible causes of infertility and helping patients determine the specific cause of their own problem.

A wide variety of treatments are available and patients are encouraged to speak to a medical professional for a full list of all available infertility treatments. In vitro fertilization involves combining the male’s sperm and female’s eggs in a dish in a laboratory to create an embryo. This is perhaps the most widely known fertility treatment, but it is one of several assisted reproductive technologies.

Male infertility treatments are available at most clinics, as is tubal reversal. Reversing a tubal ligation is necessary for women who have undergone the procedure, but wish to once again have children. Still, egg freezing and egg donation services are available at many clinics across the state and patients and couples who are interested in learning more should speak to a professional at a fertility clinic in their area.

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35 Free Law FAQ

Sunday, January 10th, 2010

What is a legal constraint? And What is a commecial constraint? I’m confused are they the same thing or diff?
Is there a difference or what? Legal constraints are laws that tell you not to do something. For example, if you’re 12 years old, you can’t work. You are restricted by the law (constrained). Commercial constraints are usually intuitive.

Estate Laws and Wifes rights in the commonwealth of kentucky?
If a husband dies with no will, and owns property what are the rights of the wife, and his childern from previous marragies? Thanks As schz told you, INTESTATE SUCCESSION controls. Although schz told you were to read a website’s opinion, the CORRECT link is here:

What is a legal contract?
So, my roommate promised to sell a parking pass to a person for a price written in an email. But, then we decided to not sell it 2 days later. The person who wants to buy the parking pass tells us that we have to sell it to her because its illegal if we.

Law abiding citizen. Illegal Aliens. I think not.?
Recently, I was pulled over for a routine traffic stop. I’m 19 years old and born in the United States. My parents are asian and Italian. Therefore, I’m a deep dark tan with jet black hair and a squnity hispanic features. I’ve been mistaken for a Mexican many times. Anyway, the.

Law can i kick my child out of home who is 16yrs old and also has ADHD a mental health problem?
he is rude aggresive vile and is spliting my family up what is the law on my behalf You will have to present a case to a judge and petition the (juvenile) court to place the child elsewhere..

Law Degree from University of Buenos Aires.can he work in the US?
My Boyfriend is from Buenos Aires, Argentina. He has his law degree from the University of Buenos Aires and is thinking of coming to the US to see if he can work for a couple of years. He has an ‘Abogados’ degree which is an Attorney-At-Law and.

Law enforcements/offenders-courts?
where can i find information about 1.the number of felony and misdemeanor cases annually 2. type of alternatives to incarceration that are available 3. the requirements for obtaining a sentence that involves an alternative 4 if restitution programs are avaialble and how the programs operate 5. success or failure of the program i need it in the.

Law for posting sex offenders at apartments?
While looking up something on our local police website, i learned that a tier 2 sex offender lives just yards away from me in my apts. (offended two girls ages 7 and 9). I live in a family friendly apt complex, big grassy areas, lots of kids and pets. I thought that.

Law on an 18 year old can drinking alcohol??
well this co-worker on mine said that there is a law in California stating that an 18-20 year old person CAN drink alcohol but they have to be under their parent/legal guardian supervision AND at their house. I never heard of anything like this, sounds more like a myth or.

Law on verbal abuse?
I live in a large apt. complex in ontario,canada. Two months ago I was walking my dog and returnig with him a lady came out with her two dogs. The dogs bolted when they seen my dog causing this woman hand to hit her self in the mouth and broke the skin. I was knocked.

Law question , Pls help me!?
On January 5, Amy wrote a letter to Benny offering to sell her van for $160,000. Amy stated in the letter that Benny had to reply by January 15 or she might sell to someone else. On receiving the letter in Jan 8, Benny immediately sent a letter to Amy asking whether she.

Law question..?
Peter, a businessman residing in Singapore enters into a contract to supply toys to Mike who is a citizen of Malaysia. The letter of acceptance is received by Mike in Malaysia. Mike then receives the consignment of toys but refuses to pay $100,000 being the price of the goods. Peter wants to know what are his contractual.

Law suit or.?
I posted a question regarding an incident on my son’s school bus last month.well, once again another incident has happened.TODAY! I have the incident report from the 1st one (it was a bump on the head from the window.he’s 4yo btw) and I’m in the process of getting the incident report for today’s accident as well..

Law? to be pregnant under age?
is there a law that says that you can’t be pregnant under age? nope – NO – Nope.you can get pregnant at any age. Really, theres no law preventing it. I wouldn’t do it, but it’s legal – depand on the country you are living in.. – There is a law that probits.

Laws about advances on a paycheck?
My husband and I both worked at the same restaurant. About a month ago my husband asked for an advance on his paycheck. I had nothing to do with it We didn’t even talk about it. They gave it to him but labout 3 weeks ago my hiusband had some words with our.

Laws for renters on satellite/cable choices?
I thought there was some type of federal law that required apartment complexes or renters to allow people the choice of their television providers? I live in a relatively large apartment complex. They offer cable through themselves (from Time Warner) for 40$ a month for BASIC cable. (only 50 channels) Everyone around us.

Laws on sexual assault?
How long does the law protect a victim? I’m not talking about rape or anything just unwanted sexual contact. If it happened about a year ago can anything be done? I believe the guy is now labeled as a sex offender for other things he has done in the past two years, so does that.

Laws on stealing a dog?
ok their was a dog next door who was left over night because owners left. My next door neighbor found it at her house, so she dicieded to keep it until they come home. But she gave it to her sister. Do you think it was wrong and they should get in trouble. yes.

Laws on trespassing?
I recieved a ticket in the mail for trespassing and fishing without consent. The guy caught us fishing on his property and stole the keys outta our truck and held us there until police came. They didnt arrest us but sent us a ticket 3 weeks later. The date on the ticket is wrong. What are.

Laws that deal with matters such as contracts, equal treatment and property ownership are known as what?
Contracts fall under the UCC Uniform Commercial Code of the U.S. or on the state level, either the Business Code or commercial code of the state. Equal Treatment, depending on what you mean by that phrase, can fall under the U.S..

Lawsuits. Why can’t America have a loser pay system.?
In most industrial countries they have a loser pay system. If a lawsuit is filed, the loser of the suit pays all expenses. This makes a person think twice before filing a lawsuit or frivolous lawsuit. Why can’t America have this. Is it that the lawyers and their lobbyists are.

Lawyer fucked me?
my brothers wife was found murdered in the kitchen of their house she had been shot 3 times. i own a gun for protection and the bullets she was murdered with was the same fit for my gun. my lawyer really fucked me over and im in deep * with the case and if im convicted.

Lawyer in Texas?
I am looking for a lawyer in Texas around Alpins or Marfa. That is about 3 hours from Midland. I need a lawyer that can help me with a child support case. I am having a really hard time and I just have a couple of questions for them. PLEASE HELP ME! Any information would help!.

Lawyer info help?
I am looking to hire an attorney in a different state than I am currently residing in, as per courts wishes for a resolution/ammendment of a divorce decree. My problem is that I have found one, and seems very nice but at the same time I believe she might have a mouth on her as well.

Lawyer-In-The-Making.tips??
I’m in high school and I want to be a trial lawyer. I’m already involved in mock-trial type things, but is there anything else I can do? I still am not very good at looking at things and being able to tell, for example, if someone is lyign by that evidence. What should I do? Two things you.

Lawyer’s advice and absolution from accountability?
Does anyone know what the US law is concerning getting advice from a lawyer and that advice absolving you from accountability? Although it is being used in other veins, it is my understanding that some criminals would go to their lawyers to get advice about an issue. When it came to being prosecuted,.

Lawyers and other people who know the law?
If a woman throws a drink in a man’s face or slaps him for being verbally abusive or inappropriate, can he file charges against her, for assault, battery, things like that? Just theoretically . . . Yes. Basically any unwanted contact constitutes a battery. If the guy felt threatened, or in.

Lawyers are required to pass a comprehensive bar exam to be licensed to practice law?
What effect should this have on the number of lawyers, the wages they receive, and the price people have to pay to receive legal services? I agree with the first answerer. The Bar Exam is generally pass fail, though it is extensive. In NY.

Lawyers only please!! if a 13 year old was raped and the 19 year old got 3 years in jail then the 13 year old?
said it was consensual how much time would be knocked off including involuntary deviate sexual intercourse, criminal tresspassing, rape, etc. i know he could still get in trouble for messing with a 13 year.

Legal action after purchasing a house in Michigan?
My husband and I purchased a house in Michigan in December 2006. We didn’t realize or have any clue that there would be leaking in the basement when we bought the house because it was winter. There were no obvious signs of dampness in the basement. This spring we found out..

Legal action against T.B. man Andrew Speaker?
This man Andrew Speaker a lawyer from Atlanta knowingly boarded a transatlantic flight while he was a carrier for an extremely resistant strain of tuberculosis possibly infecting hundreds of people along the way and even flying back after the CDC called him in Rome and told him to report to the Italian.

Legal advice about my employer.?
I started waiting tables at a restaurant in nyc and got my first pay check for 22 hours of work for a total of $104.50 before deductions. The deductions for this first check were: FIFCA: $14.41 FED WT: $9.82 NY ST: $2.45 NY DIS: $.60 Total of deductions:$29.28 My net take home pay was:.

Legal advice for a renter in Virginia.?
There is no lease. The bastard doesn’t even claim the house as a rental. We’ve paid the first, and last months rent, plus the thing that pays for damages for when we move out.(I’m blonde.) Someone dropped a puppy (lab) off in our yard. We decided to keep it. We already have.

Legal advice in NY State- regarding criminal conviction?
I am feeling very desperate, here and am hoping someone can help. My stepmother was found guilty today on forgery charges regarding a POA, and can face serious prison time 2-7 years. She had provided her attorney (public defender) with evidence, that the attorney decided not to use, she wanted to.

Legal advice needed?
However it’s in my husbands name and he has a private mortgage through his mothers ex boyfriend. My husband is in boot camp right now and he told me to tell the house, I have Power Of Attorney so I can do it. BUT, there was a promisary note written up and I need a copy.

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Prescription Drug Abuse / PSA Video

Sunday, January 10th, 2010


Prescription Drug Abuse / PSA Video. From the public domain. Most people take medicines only for the reasons their doctors prescribe them. But an estimated 20 percent of people in the United States have used prescription drugs for nonmedical reasons. This is prescription drug abuse. It is a serious and growing problem. Abusing some prescription drugs can lead to addiction. You can develop an addiction to: Narcotic painkillers Sedatives and tranquilizers Stimulants Experts don’t know exactly …

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Dr. Phil – How to Escape a Bad Marriage, Part 2

Sunday, January 10th, 2010


If you’re a woman living in constant fear of an abusive mate, Dr. Phil dedicates this show to you. He documents the tumultuous journey of a mother of four who flees to a shelter to escape what she says is a violent marriage. When Star last appeared on the show, she admitted that she was addicted to prescription drugs and was unfaithful to her husband, Isaac. Now clean and sober for seven months, she says that her problems are just beginning. Star says Isaac is verbally abusive to her and …

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How To Break An Addiction

Sunday, January 10th, 2010

You need to evaluate the problem and find what triggers your addicts and what specific need it is using. Once you have determined that, you can begin breaking yourself of the habit one step at a time. Addiction is a disease that affects your brain and your behavior. You have control over your choice to start using drugs, but once you start, the pleasurable effect of drugs makes you want to keep using them. Over time, your brain actually changes in certain ways so that a powerful urge to use drugs controls your behavior. This is what it means to be addicted to drugs. Someone who is addicted uses drugs without thinking or caring about the consequences.

1. Take Back Your Life

This may be why daily affirmation can help you start taking control back. If you find though journaling that your addiction is controlling you and use affirmations to think of ways to start over coming that control. Then you can release the need for the things you are addicted to and let go of what you cannot control.

2. Addictions Are Hard To Break

I was addicted to sleeping pills and booze every night for three years. I took a sleeping pill after 5-6 drinks to blot out life and sleep never realizing the lengths to that I was going to avoid growth. I had terrible colitis from stress – would spend days in bed with a heating pad. After using this technique, never another sleeping pill – no more booze. After a year I finally can choose to have an occasional glass of wine – never any more colitis. This woman has been clean and sober, without a single pill or a drink in over a year after using the release the need technique. She located the trigger to her problems and she worked to correct them. She also used the release the need to greatly reduce her stress levels.

3. Changing Feelings

When I first started using the release the need technique I was surprised to find how smooth my first week was and how clear I seemed to be. I now realize that using alcohol is a choice over that I have control. What a freeing feeling to know that I dont have to have a drink to relax, but that I can just release. This may seem inconsequential, but this is something I’ve had to watch since I had an alcoholic brother who committed suicide.

4. Release The Need Technique

The man in this example used to suffer from extreme alcoholism. The disease was affecting his entire family and his older brother had even committed suicide because of the illness. After only his first week using the release the need technique the man noticed that he was thinking a lot clearer, he suffered very minimal withdraw effects, and he now has a firmer control on his life now than he did when he was trying to control it.

5. Relax For A Natural High

My father was an alcoholic who drank himself to death. By my late teens I was acting out and using drugs. My mother convinced me to try the release the need techniques. The release the need technique is a simple, yet powerful method for letting go of negative, unwanted feelings. Prior to this technique, I didnt know what to do with all of these painful feelings. I had to carry drugs in my purse at all times so I could get through each day. As soon as I began using this technique, I stopped using. No white knuckling, no withdrawal, no relapsing – I didnt miss using at all. I didnt even want to use. The release the need techniques took away my need for the drugs. I had been using them to relax and get away from all the pain and trauma I was carrying. The techniques taught me how to let go of the hurtful feelings, to relax and get high naturally. I didnt need the drugs anymore.

6. No Conflict With 12 Step Program

Since the release the need technique is nothing more than an effective way of letting go with no philosophy or belief system attached to it, there was absolutely no conflict with the 12-Steps. In fact, the technique enhanced my ability to work my 12-Steps. As you can tell, I highly recommend this technique to anyone who would like to speed up his or her personal recovery progress. It worked wonders for me. I have been clean and sober for 15 years now.

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How To Break An Addiction

Sunday, January 10th, 2010

You need to evaluate the problem and find what triggers your addicts and what specific need it is using. Once you have determined that, you can begin breaking yourself of the habit one step at a time. Addiction is a disease that affects your brain and your behavior. You have control over your choice to start using drugs, but once you start, the pleasurable effect of drugs makes you want to keep using them. Over time, your brain actually changes in certain ways so that a powerful urge to use drugs controls your behavior. This is what it means to be addicted to drugs. Someone who is addicted uses drugs without thinking or caring about the consequences.

1. Take Back Your Life

This may be why daily affirmation can help you start taking control back. If you find though journaling that your addiction is controlling you and use affirmations to think of ways to start over coming that control. Then you can release the need for the things you are addicted to and let go of what you cannot control.

2. Addictions Are Hard To Break

I was addicted to sleeping pills and booze every night for three years. I took a sleeping pill after 5-6 drinks to blot out life and sleep never realizing the lengths to that I was going to avoid growth. I had terrible colitis from stress – would spend days in bed with a heating pad. After using this technique, never another sleeping pill – no more booze. After a year I finally can choose to have an occasional glass of wine – never any more colitis. This woman has been clean and sober, without a single pill or a drink in over a year after using the release the need technique. She located the trigger to her problems and she worked to correct them. She also used the release the need to greatly reduce her stress levels.

3. Changing Feelings

When I first started using the release the need technique I was surprised to find how smooth my first week was and how clear I seemed to be. I now realize that using alcohol is a choice over that I have control. What a freeing feeling to know that I dont have to have a drink to relax, but that I can just release. This may seem inconsequential, but this is something I’ve had to watch since I had an alcoholic brother who committed suicide.

4. Release The Need Technique

The man in this example used to suffer from extreme alcoholism. The disease was affecting his entire family and his older brother had even committed suicide because of the illness. After only his first week using the release the need technique the man noticed that he was thinking a lot clearer, he suffered very minimal withdraw effects, and he now has a firmer control on his life now than he did when he was trying to control it.

5. Relax For A Natural High

My father was an alcoholic who drank himself to death. By my late teens I was acting out and using drugs. My mother convinced me to try the release the need techniques. The release the need technique is a simple, yet powerful method for letting go of negative, unwanted feelings. Prior to this technique, I didnt know what to do with all of these painful feelings. I had to carry drugs in my purse at all times so I could get through each day. As soon as I began using this technique, I stopped using. No white knuckling, no withdrawal, no relapsing – I didnt miss using at all. I didnt even want to use. The release the need techniques took away my need for the drugs. I had been using them to relax and get away from all the pain and trauma I was carrying. The techniques taught me how to let go of the hurtful feelings, to relax and get high naturally. I didnt need the drugs anymore.

6. No Conflict With 12 Step Program

Since the release the need technique is nothing more than an effective way of letting go with no philosophy or belief system attached to it, there was absolutely no conflict with the 12-Steps. In fact, the technique enhanced my ability to work my 12-Steps. As you can tell, I highly recommend this technique to anyone who would like to speed up his or her personal recovery progress. It worked wonders for me. I have been clean and sober for 15 years now.

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Detoxification Dangers – Ten Things To Watch Out For

Sunday, January 10th, 2010

You might not think this is important, but in today’s day and age everything around us contains harmful chemicals and pollutants. It has never been more important to detoxify our bodies to keep them healthy. It is said that by removing and eliminating the toxins within the body, it can help protect from disease and boost health. The process of detoxification concentrates on our internal organs, especially those that detoxify our bodies – the liver and colon in particular.

1. What Is Detoxification?

This term relates to the removal of toxins in the body, such as drugs or alcohol. Detoxification treatments range from consuming special foods like brown rice and organic fruits and vegetables to herbal cleansing mixtures, to colonic irrigation.

As with any medical program, a doctor should be consulted before starting. In addition, there are some precautions to take before undergoing a diet detoxification. There are side affects and certain groups of people should not use detoxification programs at all. The following are ten things to watch for when detoxifying your body and a list of those who should not detoxification at all.

2. For Children And The Elderly

Those with eating disorders should not attempt detoxification. Many elderly are already experiencing an inadequate immune system and should not undergo a detoxification program. People with diabetes or low blood sugar should also not attempt detoxification programs. It is generally agreed that detoxification should not be performed on children or the elderly. Children and elderly are not good candidates for detoxification. A doctor should be consulted first. Teenagers need good nutrition and diets that involve fasting deplete needed nutrition. Some diets such as detoxification can become addictive.

3. For Pregnant And Nursing Mothers

Women who are pregnant or nursing should not undergo a detoxification program. Detoxification depletes the body of many important nutrients important to pregnant mothers and those who breastfed. In addition, if using herbs, consult a doctor. There are many natural herbs that should not be used during pregnancy.

4. Spreading Infection

Those who choose to detoxification their body through colonic irrigation should be aware of the risk of spreading infections to the intestinal tract. There is also a danger of puncturing the bowel from this procedure. During irrigation, up to fifteen gallons of water or herbal mixtures are fed into the colon. The colon is rinsed and the result comes out of another tube. There is research to suggest that this procedure is neither safe nor helpful to the body.

5. Prescription Drugs

If you take prescription medication, you are at risk if you detoxify your body. Seek medical advice before attempting a detoxification regimen. Master cleanser detoxification diets should not be attempted without strict and severe concequences unless under the supervision of a doctor.

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Allan Clelland-Goddard sings about Street Children

Sunday, January 10th, 2010


Twelve year-old Allan Clelland-Goddard hails from the sunny climes of Trinidad & Tobago. His passion is music and singing his forte. Not only that, but he is also compassionate and genuinely cares about the well-being of so many millions of children around the globe who have no place to live. This song, written by him mom, Deborah, is a testament to that fact. ***************************************************** Lyrics: To all the World Leaders I bring my song today Search for some …

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Hemorrhoid Treatment – The Best Hemorrhoids Cure

Sunday, January 10th, 2010

If you suffer from painful, itchy, burning, or bleeding hemorrhoids – then your #1 concern may be “what is the best hemorrhoids cure?”

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There are many proven ways to treat hemorrhoids that are effective for long term hemorrhoid relief. Because, while hemorrhoids, like many other diseases have a genetic component – if your mom or dad had them you are more likely to get them – they also are influenced by lifestyle. Some of the things that contribute to the occurrence of hemorrhoids are chronic constipation, sitting for long periods of time, and a couch potato lifestyle. Therefore, hemorrhoids can be cured or at least put into significant remission by using some common sense lifestyle techniques. I will focus on the easiest of these techniques to implement.

Since the biggest cause of hemorrhoids is strained bowel movements and hard stools (chronic constipation), many people will find long term relief from hemorrhoids by finding a solutions that allows them to “go” more frequently and easily. Chronic constipation is caused in great part because as a society we are a fast food nation. We eat lots of processed food, and not nearly enough natural or fresh foods. I challenge you to take a look at the labels on your food for “dietary fiber content” if you suffer from constipation. My guess is that you will find on most foods you eat the dietary fiber content to be low.

Dietary fiber is what makes you poop regularly and easily. The target range for dietary fiber consumption for adults is between 20 and 25 grams a day of dietary fiber, but most of us only consume half that amount. The big question is “How do I get more fiber without having to take one of those nasty orange fiber drinks?”. The most effective way to add dietary fiber is in your diet. I know this sounds rather obvious, but it’s amazing how well it works and how easy it is to use. If your looking for the best hemorrhoids cure, adding dietary fiber is one of the best long term ways to get permanent relief.

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Here is an example of a great way to add fiber to your daily diet.

#1 Start with breakfast. Have a fiber rich bowl of cereal. Shredded Mini Wheats, Raisin Bran, and Smart Start are all good choices that actually taste good. Add a piece of fruit – raisins, bananas, or strawberries are all good for cereal. Also, to maintain sustained energy until lunch and add extra fiber top off your cereal with a handful of nuts.

#2 Smart Snacks.

While chips and cookies are fine as treats and for an occasional snack, try substituting Kashi bars or fresh fruits and veggies. Apples travel very well and don’t need to be refrigerated

#3 Lunch and Dinner. Gradually add real fruits and veggies to your meals, and substitute whole grains for white flour and pasta for an extra fiber punch.

If you are not eating like this already, a gradual shift to this type of eating will greatly improve your ability to “go” and also reduce or eliminate your hemorrhoid symptoms. Follow these steps and you are on your way to the best hemorrhoids cure.

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Lyrica questions and answers

Sunday, January 10th, 2010

About lyrica?
How to reverse type-2 diabetes in five medically-proven steps http://www.newstarget.com/How_to_Reverse? http://www.lyrica.com/content/main_side_?? Yes, weight gain is a side effect, but if you watch what you eat, you should be ok.

Does lyrica put mass on?
My mom is taking lyrica 2 times a day and is concerned that she will gain weight. Does anyone have experience with this anti inflammatory – Some of the most adjectives side effects of LYRICA are dizziness and sleepiness. Others are dry mouth, swelling of hands and feet, blurry vision, weight gain, and trouble concentrating. You may own…

Does lyrica spawn my foot and legs swell?
Since I started taking lyrica 3 weeks ago my feet and legs are swelled and painful, ne ver before. – it’s not a common side effect, but it is quoted among possible side effects when taken contained by combination with other antiepileptics (i.e.carbamazepine ) if you have diabetes and you’re taking lyrica for diabetic neuropathy,…

Lyrica – third trimester?
To be short n to the point, how great would the risk be if 300 mg of lyrica was taken during the third trimester. Only once! I know now much is known about the drug and pregnancy but would one time be ample to cause damage? – Most studies in lab rats and rabbits indicate that only extremely big…

Lyrica and methadone, my palms peel?
my doctor put me on methadone and lyrica, i was on norco and soma for back pain and general entire body smarting, he thinks i may have fibromyalgia, anyway after about a week of taking these two meds i generally did not consistency well, the lyrica helped me sleep ok, but my palms got very itchy and peel entirely…

Question going on for Lyrica?
Ok so I’m on lyrica and it says not to drink alcohol. Is it because it makes you really drowsy or what? – It makes you drowsy and gives you the *worst* headache feasible… well, it does for me, but I’m guessing people are affected differently. Do NOT try it. Not worth the risk.

Take Lyrica for fibromyalgia and obtain FAT! Or be within stomach-ache?
I gianed 20bls taking lyrica for my fibro. It really helped the pain but I can not stand all the fat! I hold been off it for 3 weeks I can’t move or sleep! What can I do? – if your main concern is how you look–than live withthe pain– …

Taking Lyrica for neuropathy: Can I up my dosage?
Right now I am a diabetic taking lyrica for neuropathy/anti-anxiety. It’s working wonderfully on my anti-anxiety, but I still have slight pain in my legs. I am taking 50mg twice a time, and I am wondering if I should up my dosage? Any information would be great. Thanks Not before calling your doctor,Lyrica is a…

Was taking xanax / hydrocodone, very soon methadone and lyrica?
What do I take for my anxiety? can I take my xanax with it? my xanax is about to run out, i in a minute have the methadoen and lyrica for my pain, but what about my anxiety? what should i take for that? i hold been on xanax for years, and norco for my…

What are the lyrica to the song “Rock da Juice” by The Dude?
I have searched evrywhere, but cannot find them any where and I can’t even find the copyright to the song. And no one have posted lyrics anywhere. Its from the movie Kangaroo Jack and the game Splashdown from EA games. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hnv09eHLn?? it shouldn’t be too hard to figure it…

What is Lyrica used for?
Is lyrica a pain medication as well? Will it make me very sedated? Thanks – its a niggle medication used for fibromyalgia…its a level 5 controlled substance hence it could cause drowsiness so do not take it with alcohol or drive until you know how it react to your body… it comes in 25,50, 75, 100, 150,…

Has anyone ever taken the drug lyrica?
I have been taken 2 – 75mg of lyrica for 3 months now and stopped it cold turkey 3 days ago because of extreme irritability, moodiness, and depression, now I constantly have a feeling sick and feel messed up in the head but deffinitely not going back on them. I be on them for 2 herniated thoracic discs…

I hold to pinch a urine drug check I know the cut past its sell-by date for the question paper sticks is 50ng/ml and the gas spec is 15ng/ml?
I am a 52 250 lbs poor health in a pain management program for the ultimate 10 years Taking morphine 15mgx3 with lyrica 100mgx3 a day I also smoke weed moderate use 30 years I last…

Is it risk-free to lug lyrica while pregnant?
I would ask a doctor not DrugsFreeFAQ.com. this come straight from the information website lyrica has, “Before you start LYRICA, tell your doctor if you are planning to father a child, or if you are pregnant, plan to become pregnant, or are breast-feeding. If you have had a drug or alcohol problem, you may…

Is it risky to help yourself to lyrica when there’s no actual want to?
My friend has been taking lyrica, but he doesn’t have a medical need to. Could he possibly be getting buzzed/high bad if it? (If you can). Is it dangerous? What are the effects? – I have used Lyrica on and off for the last couple of years. It is…

Has anyone have experience near taking Lyrica?
Dr said i had lyrica and gave me this drug. Bad reaction. My legs got really numb and my speech be slurred.. I thought i was having a stroke but it was a reaction to this pills – Lyrica Lyrica Side Effects: The most commonly reported adverse reactions of LYRICA (Pregabalin) are dizziness and…

Has anyone used the medication lyrica for fibromyalgia? i would love to hear your comments pious and desperate?
Yes I’m on Lyrica three times a hours of daylight . for nervous pain … I hope to be off soon .. My yahoo blog ,hgntex , I have an enter here that explains what happen to me .. , this lyrice has help…

Has anyone using lyrica have consignment gain as a side effect?
– Yes. The drug info in the package insert states that up to 16% of people in initial clinical trials reported bulk gain. That’s pretty significant. Have you tried Neurontin? It’s a similar drug that works for a lot of people, and only about 2-3% of nation in trials…

Have you hear of lyrica for niggle beside scoliolsis?
I have scoliosis and have had 2 lumbar lamenectomies. Degenerative joint disease is the idea. Also, have had anuerysm sugery in my brain. Have you ever heard of lyrica for treatment to scoliosis? Wondering why the side effects of dizziness are so disturbing. I enjoy a patient on this medication (I am…

How positive is lyrica for neuropatic pains; what are the side effects?
The person is suffering with constant and debilitating foot pain. She have high sugar and arthritis. She is also very weak and cannot sleep at night. – Lyrica is designed for foot and leg affliction and people who have diabetes. So this is really an ideal medication for your friend.

I am taking lyrica for carpal tunnell is this medication death-defying?
Rather unusual choice of medication for carpal tunnel syndrome. More useful for pain of peripheral neuropathy, (which carpal tunnel syndrome isn’t) associated with diabetes. Since it is so different, the overall safety really isn’t known yet. I bet its expensive too. Source(s): MD

I am taking lyrica for seizure. Is lyrica locked to rob during pregnancy?
it is better to consult your doctor. sometimes some medicines are not good to take during pregnancy. discuss your strength to your doctor and she’ll give u another medicine which is better or u can continue to take it. You can look it up on the network also.

I just this minute started taking lyrica and presently the muscles surrounded by my legs are hurting. is this cause by the medication?
That isnt listed as a possible side effect . Check with your Dr.

I own fibromyalgia and I clutch cymbolta,and lyrica can I expect to gain counterbalance beside these med’s?
Umm I am taking Valium and Lyrica and have lost weight so I really hope you do not gain it, now that I lost it? In other words I lost it, who get it? Alot of medications(also call Allopathic, or english) medicenes have been to…

I pocket Lyrica and enjoy be dropping things. Is this mundane?
My w ill give out with warning and it seem like thing slide through my hand. – Have you tried a Yahoo search for lyrica + “side effects”?

I started on lyrica 2 weeks ago. I hold developed petechia. Is this motivation for alarm? How adjectives is it?
Yes and yes! Check out his site for more detailed info… http://www.ic-network.com/forum/showthre?? No, petechiae (burst capillaries that produce small red spots on the skin) can come from my factors. Did you hold blood drawn recently, Are they itchy? Lyrica does…

I started taking lyrica for my rear legs today?
now I am so dizzy. is this common. My doctor is out of town so I can’t get thru . Can someone explain the effect of this more. kinda scarey I take this for fibromyalgia. At first I was very out of it, tired, dizzy, swollen, and gained counterbalance. Once my body got used to it,…

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The Steve Wilkos Show: STEVE SAVES A PREGNANT PROSTITUTE

Sunday, January 10th, 2010


Running out of time Jenny’s a 20-year-old illiterate prostitute who believes selling her body is the only way she can survive. Even at 9 months pregnant, she refuses to stop her dangerous line of work and is now putting her unborn baby in danger. Jenny’s mom, a former prostitute and rehabilitated drug addict, needs Steve’s help to get Jenny off the street and into a new life. … steve wilkos show pedophile child abuse dad mom drug addict molester confront love rehab jail police officer marine …

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Addiction Brain Science – so We Can All Understand It!

Sunday, January 10th, 2010

Current base theory for most Treatment

What is the essence of addiction from a scientific standpoint? What facts support the foundation that supposes that an “addict” has no control and that free will has nothing to do with their ability to stop? What indicates that without help, they have little or no hope of recovering, from this “state of addiction” that has occurred in their brain?

The overwhelming, compulsive, uncontrollable use of drugs is a central factor in the life of an addict. Their need to satisfy the cravings becomes dominant in all behavior. It does not matter what drug they choose. Nothing will satisfy the overwhelming craving except their drug-of-choice. Meth users will not settle for heroin. Heroin users will not be satisfied with marijuana. Crack users have no desire for downers (sedatives, painkillers, etc). It is not about coming down, fearing dramatic withdrawal symptoms, or anything like that, that produces continued cravings (though an addict will use these to justify and rationalize illegal, immoral things that they do to obtain the drug). In fact, there are few withdrawal symptoms associated with crack and methamphetamines, two of the most addictive substances known. It is not the physical part that matters. It is truly the psychological aspect of addiction that produces cravings that result in continued use of and progressively, using more and more of the chosen drug. It’s actually more like “the drug chose them”, for the addict. Free will and the ability to turn away from drugs is no longer an option. An addict cannot do this for his job, his health or, sadly, even his mother or his wife; not even for his own children. Physical harm, jails and prisons, and often even the possibility of death are just obstacles to be overcome in the insatiable need for, and quest to obtain, the addicts’ drug-of-choice! Having lost the ability to choose not to use the drug, the addicts’ life progressively centers more and more on the drug. Drugs become the reason to get up and get out of bed. Drugs become the excuse not to do things that discourage their use. They are “thee pleasure” in the addicts’ life. Addicts in later stages of addiction will even choose that, drug-of-choice, over the euphoric pleasure of sex! Use of money is prioritized with, obtaining drugs, as number one. You see, the addict has to have that drug! Unless his craving is appeased nothing can be all right for the addict. When they are compulsively obsessing over the need to satisfy the cravings few barriers exist. Principles, rules and morality become non-existent. This is the truth regarding the disease of addiction that changes a user into the fiend that addicts eventually become.

How can this be?

I can’t imagine anyone being that weak!

Don’t they care about anything?

I just can’t understand what is wrong with him!

Doesn’t she see what is happening to her life?

ADDICTION IS A DISEASE OF THE BRAIN,, RESULTING IN FUNDAMENTAL, LONG LASTING CHANGES!

You are going to need to remind yourself that addiction is a chronic,

progressive, fatal disease… At the same time, seeing it as a disease cannot be an excuse… its being a disease is the “reason” for many things, but not an excuse. Addiction is a “treatable” disease even though it is chronic and subject to relapses. As with most potentially fatal diseases, addiction often requires more than one episode of treatment.

Understand this; you are an addict because drugs have changed your brain. Your state of being has been totally taken over by the drug. Learn to equate this disease with diabetes. It is not cured. It is held back by multiple ongoing episodes of treatment. As with most diseases, often a crisis occurs that requires more than the daily maintenance that suffices most often. This is most often a relapse into using.

Though addiction is a disease of the brain, it is also much more than that. It is far more complicated because of the fact that the human brain is the most complicated organ in any living organism. The brain controls every system in the body. Every characteristic unique to the human being is a result of our uniquely complicated brain. The human brain produces things that are mostly exclusive to humans. Conscience, remorse, morality, philosophy, religious beliefs, science, mechanics, and the list goes on… drugs have fundamentally caused long lasting changes in the addict, in the thing responsible for all of this… the Brain. Is it any wonder that you have trouble understanding the problems that result from addiction?

NEUROTRANSMITTERS: chemicals in the brain that are responsible for communication between the nerve cells of which the brain and all of the nervous system are composed… The cells themselves and a few very unique organs in the body produce these type of chemicals.

Don’t worry, this chemistry lesson is about as complicated as we’ll get!

“DOPAMINE”

The changes in levels and availability of this neurotransmitter or brain chemical, somehow cause changes at a cellular level that translate into compulsive, uncontrollable drug use on the behavioral level! This means that these brain changes, over time, get translated into behavior changes. this is why you are bewildered at what you observe.

ABOUT DOPAMINE:

Initially, people take drugs because they like what they do to their brain. Amid a whole series of brain changes, one is a surge of Dopamine, that occurs when the drugs we commonly classify as addictive, are taken. When a drug produces a really sharp spike in Dopamine it is extremely pleasurable. The odds are very high that one will experience extreme euphoria with this drug, and it will be addictive! It’s no surprise that Dopamine is the brain chemical involved in signaling all of our normal pleasurable experiences, such as… Sex, eating, laughter, love, smoking, and surely, getting high. Here the problem arises! After taking drugs for a lengthy amount of time, this includes all addictive substances we know of, the addict’s Dopamine levels are generally lowered. This in itself will cause a nearly complete personality change. Some people experience chronic dysphoria and/or depression as a result. Major behavioral changes become apparent at this point. This then is no longer the person that you once knew. They now have a basically different brain, as if the mad scientist accidentally transplanted the “wrong” or “bad” brain. This is hard to accept if you don’t know the things that you are now learning. To learn more go to my Web Site, Addiction: Why Me?

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Easy Home Hemorrhoids Treatments

Sunday, January 10th, 2010

If we’re looking for easy to prepare quick relief medication for hemorrhoids here are simple suggestions we can easily make ourselves. All we need is follow these instructions on how to prepare natural hemorrhoids treatments.

Hemorrhoids prolapse is a big discomfort to have. But we can always remedy it with a simple Horse Chestnut remedy. It’s a favorite among some Europeans. When used for treatment it improves blood circulation, reduces inflammation, and strengthens veins. However, we should avoid this hemorrhoids treatment if we have liver or kidney problems. It is also detrimental for breast feeding or pregnant mothers

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When the hemorrhoid gets too itchy and painful, we need a special washing solution to also serve as hemorrhoids treatment. Consider mixing equal amounts of Lobelia extract, zinc sulfate, and an extract called Baptisia. Mix these well with water. Then use the mixture to wash and cleanse hemorrhoids 2 times a day. We can also mix Vaseline and sulfur together and gently applied on the hemorrhoid with cotton sticks. Do this several times a day.

During night time, for a comfortable sleep, try applying witch hazel oil on the affected part using clean dry cotton. Or make a wad of the cotton and put the hazel oil on it. Then use it to cover the hemorrhoids with before sleeping. This hemorrhoids treatment brings relief during our sleep. In case of a bleeding hemorrhoid we can take a glass of water mixed with apple cider vinegar each meal 3 times daily. Try also applying topically a cotton ball soaked in apple cider vinegar.

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If we are familiar with thermotherapy, we may use the procedure as a hemorrhoids treatment. Do it several times a week. It can reduce the size of hemorrhoids and also control bleeding. One way of doing this is sitting on a tub of warm water for hours until relief is had. This simple treatment can relax the patient suffering from pain and swelling. Or, we may also try mixing a teaspoon of Alum in powder form with water in a glass and then apply topically on the affected area.

To control bleeding hemorrhoids we may try drinking a glass of water with about a small measure of cayenne pepper. Echinacea extracts on cotton are also effective for itching and pain caused by hemorrhoids, and also lard and Calomel heated on a spoon and applied topically.

A simple hemorrhoids treatment may mean a world of relief from the discomfort and pain of hemorrhoids. We should know these easy home remedies for the ailment.

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Failed state

Sunday, January 10th, 2010

 NATIONAL DISASTER – A FAILED STATE

Preface

A country India where millions have no guarantee of living like a human being, where only Indian styled glorified titled public servants enjoy the free loot of national exchequer, NOTHING IS PEOPLE/USER FRIENDLY.  Be it Government run banking sector, IT sector, or whatever, it is just a big screw up.  Public servants as experienced for years are at liberty to extort the people and are at liberty to throw the people away from their work place.  And, this is India in 2009.

In India, in old age, my father had no pension, had no guarantee of living like a human being.

 “Freedom fighter”, fighters’ pension was refused by him.  By this time by leaving a glorified titled public service in India,  I had opted to live in civilized countries to prove myself and had come to see him almost every two or three years.  On such a visit, I found an envelope boldly marked O.I.G.S…

 Since our relations were like friends, I enquired about this letter.  “find it out yourself”- was the reply.  Little did I know it was a letter for offer of pension as “freedom fighter” and in line with many other Indian glorified titled papers and it was dated about four months back?  “Why didn’t you sign and send it back”- I asked.  He replied “we struggled for independence on principle, not for money.  Whatever the foreign ruler was, they did not beat us up in lock up or in jail. They did not provide garbage as food.  At least they had some humanitarian feeling”.

 He also added, after all, these rulers were from a foreign country. Naturally, they would like keep themselves above the locals and in history, this is quite natural. In so called independent India, members of Parliament, (some of them with criminal charges) devised VIP, VVIP, Gazetted etc., for their own identity to keep themselves separated from the people being ruled, making them free to loot the national exchequer.. Look at the present India. Sons of the soil are killing each other in one name or the other.  So called elected glorified titled public servants enjoy/loot the people, at the same living like “Raja” and “Maharajas” so are their stooges, all at the cost of “have nots”  whereas for the rest of India have guaranteed are starvation, deprivation, anarchy, lack of security what not,  and have turned poor to poorer  Are these people human being- he growled. You’re my pension.

 In the process the present generation of India most of whom have degenerated to self centered foot lickers of these glorified titled public servants elected and/or appointed perhaps will call my father a “mad cap”.

 I respect my dad from my heart. In my teenage I had found him working on lacks of rupees of cash completely in-charge of a business operation of a devotee of Shri Shri Ma Anandamoyee.

 His salary was INR90.00 per month.

 Surprisingly, people with high priced cars used to visit him at the slums we used to live and touch his feet with reverence and used to enjoy the food with us, that we had lintel and gourd creepers.

 Fortunately for me, as long as I was working in India with foreign oil companies there were no scope of cheating me for financial gain or otherwise, for the fact it was open expense account, and I could help the needy also.  All my employers wanted work.  It was best of my career in India.

 Having achieved a ripe age, I’ve nothing to regret for my deeds.

 What are the deprivations and consequently degeneration to criminal activities taken for granted in the shadow of so called Indian politics named as VVIP, VIP and their stooges, amass wealth definitely disproportionate to known earnings, and the rest who can’t tow the line, sufferings, torture, even life threats are daily affair, killings, are the granted conditions of billions of people of India?

 Millions have given their life to achieve freedom for India.  To my knowledge, most are forgotten.  But, did they want this India where only glorified titled public servants elected and or appointed resort to all unscrupulous means to amass wealth even killing hundreds or thousands of their own people!

 If there is something known as God, how long will he/she tolerate this unabated torture of the sons of the soil, mass, including foreign visitors?

 Today my father did not have to witness the worsening situation of the society and that of the so called Government.  He is gone to eternity. When in India, I find myself mentally pauper.

 The way it is now, where people feel pleasure of doing damages to others,

criminals in disguise of public servants are the VIP and VVIP and what not enjoy on the fats of have nots –

“emon larak kothayo khujey pabey nako tumi,  Criminaleyr swarga setaa Bharatbhumi.”  I sing, meaning, you will not find a better hell than this, this is the paradise for the criminals.  Some predicts this land India which had been subjected to be slave of others for centuries, will soon be once again.

 Disclaimer:  Whatever seen, suffered, torture imposed upon me and likewise millions of sons of the soil even to foreigners are written here.  Any personal similarities are purely coincidental.  Exceptional if any, are like my father.

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Common scenario

 

“Raja” the Chief Minister of an Indian province in Indian terms is known as VVIP of a country number wise the biggest democracy in the world  with red beacon and screaming sirens is having a ride with a chauffer driven car, escorted by tens of cars of Police forces, paramilitary forces all having automatic killing weapons.  Even the personal bodyguard has automatic killing machine. And the cyclist who happened to be on the way was beaten up mercilessly by the police and left on the road. 

The so called ambulance does not have any right of way and press reports indicate that these are used to carry arms of weapons for the hired goons locally called “cadres”.

 Raja lives in a house at the cost of national exchequer near a forest conservatory.  One pregnant jackal started howling at night and immediately a Superintendent of Police (these people head the police force in a District) shot the jackal.  Little did the pregnant jackal know that Raja is living there and she will be shot on expressing her happiness?  One wonders, what little good this Superintendent of Police he did for the mass of have nots?

 Surprisingly, the Constitution of India says that all are equal before the eye of the law.

 The so called law has been circumvented by few elected people by raising their hands in the Parliament  and these people are called VIP, VIPs and what not.

 Although a local High Court in Delhi has ruled that these people are not national assets, hence such luxuries, pomp and grandeur at the cost of national exchequer must stop.  But who cares?

After all, these people are VVIPS, VIPS in Indian terms, law of the land, and, in practice ruling of the court, is not applicable to these people.

 

People get charged for falsely by the police if opportune arises and/or if ordered by the so called VVIP, VIP and their stooges.

 Incase a criminal is caught most of whom are patronized by the so called VVIP, VIP and or stooges, the police let him free on order from higher ups.  Of course, there is no documentation or record for such orders.  What poor policemen are going to do?  After all they salute these people for reasons best known to them. Besides, criminals caught intimidate the witnesses with dire consequence if they dare tell the truth before the court of law.  Police is there to protect the public servants known as VVIP, VIP and many other local glorified titled public servants.  In reality, they’re not to provide protection to the common people.

 “You fool don’t you realize that “Raja” and his stooges will be at the top luxurious conditions and will have assets so that next fourteen generations all at the cost of national exchequer so that they can have the same life is the accepted practice here”- somebody retorted.  This is unbelievable in a democratic society.  But, this is the fact of life, here in India. Who cares if some die in starvation, who cares if somebody gets killed by the so called stooges of these VIPs, VIPs, who cares if you get robbed right in front of police station/s, who cares if one gets raped?  When asked by the press “Raja” answers these do happen everywhere.  Accepted, but where is the law and order and justice, financial compensation for these losses. “We can’t afford” is the reply of “Raja”.  But Raja and their stooges can blow away billions from national exchequer for their own ends to meet.

 Who cares about accountability? Who cares about the stinks raised by the Comptroller and Auditor General?

 Raja and their stooges have luxurious foreign trips in one pretext or other, be it medical ground, be it sons/daughters schooling, be it in name of foreign investments and the pretences are endless, all of course, at the cost of national exchequer.

 Raja and their stooges all glorified titled public servants have endless expenses for their telephones, colonial style living, colonial style guest houses free meals and who pays for all these, the billions who gets practically nothing from the national exchequer.

 Of course there are endless commissions set up, normally headed and/or members by the political parties (the fact states, hardly there are politics over here, rather “criminalitics” a word based on the reality) supposed to find the facts and most of the findings of these commissions are not law binding.  Everything is national secrets, even the expenses of these Rajas and their stooges. And, very recently there had been a law “Right to freedom of Information”.  Like all laws here, who cares? And, which judge in India is going to put on trial the Rajas.  Most likely, he’ll not be a judge in the same court next day. And the next judge taking over the hearing will find nothing wrong and exonerate the Rajas and their stooges with honor.

 And, if there are proofs that are hard to be refuted by the judge, the case will be never ending and meanwhile Rajas and stooges with all criminal charges hold public offices continue having free lunch and luxuries until the case is disposed of by the court which may take 30 years if not more.  What a justice! In name of fundamental right glorified titled disguised criminals can go up to Supreme Court of the country even for getting a bail. There’s no non appeal able ruling of the court, even in case of Consumer court. Imagine the condition of a daily wage earner, can they afford to fight for injustices in stages to Supreme Court of the country!  Of course, in law books it is written that these people will be provided with free legal service.  As the people say, it’s not that simple.  Even here, the bosses of “criminilitics” and their stooges have the final say, people tell me. 

 District level and or state level or even in national level what services are provided to the people is “god’s guess” but definitely all services are guaranteed to VIPs, VIPs and their stooges.  This is the practice and reality in today’s India.

Even a Municipal Chairman enjoys the same luxuries and free lunch and dare sanction all kinds of illegal activities such as violating all national building codes, in violation basic principle of engineering digging up the roadside soil for the water to log for mosquito breeding, Environmental Pollution with immunity and people say, either by the orders of the higher up of practitioners of “criminalitics” and or by greasing the palms.

 By international pressure many new laws have been implemented by the Government of India and insiders say all on the pressure of civilized nations who grant aids and or loans to India.  Among these is the centralized provident fund for all industrial workers, Human Rights, Consumer protection, Environmental Protection act, Right to Information, and so on.

 Dhop Dhop Ram Fatfatwala (fictitious name) owns jute mills manned my hundreds of worker.  And Mr. Fatfatwala has not deposited the fund of the workers to the Central Provident fund and consequently the central provident fund commissioner issues an arrest warrant.  Rajas come in the picture and orders police not to arrest him.  The jute mill was closed and Mr.Fatfatwala is out of the province to devise another scheme to loot the national exchequer and or cheating the common people. The workers die in starvation or forced to enlist themselves in the “goon squad” of the Rajas in name of politics. This scenario is taken for granted by the mass of India for the fact they have no other choice.

 Excepting few tenacious and right doing and thinking people who can fight forever even in some cases 20 or 30 years and meanwhile if one is not dead by natural process and/or get killed, may be there may be some justices and/or remedies.  The rest suffer in mute.

 One Central Police Officer had the guts to arrest one of the Rajas of a province and put him in jail with umpteen numbers of criminal charges.  Of course, for the Raja the jail was an air-conditioned government bungalow with all luxuries as enjoyed and this Raja was set free by the court on bail.  Who knows what happened to criminal charges, but this provincial Raja has a cozier place in the Central Cabinet Ministry.  It had been years. 

 Local papers state that this man is a management guru and goes to lecture to Harvard University and what not.

 Once a clerk of a biscuit manufacturing company, the nincompoop son of a Raja had a desire to go into business to enlist him as industrialist a fancy name coined the local political personnel and their stooges. Nationalized banks granted him billions of local funds and god only knows what happened to those funds and what industry had been set up.  This Rajputra (son of Raja) is now known to be in UK with all legalized paper to stay there.

 After all, as claimed, this is biggest democracy in the world!

 Hearsay is that one of the Raja had a Barrister-at-law title from UK.  But the local competition is tough to gain any ground in the legal sector.

He opted to wear a torn shirt got some followers and used to move in slums claiming he is the savior of the poor.  He taught his followers the slogans like “break it down, grind it down”, “it will not work”, “our demands must be met” at the same he taught to burn the buildings, transports, and what not!

 And, this savior of the poor had been Raja, freeloading and luxuries for more than 30 years.

 Another Raja who was dethroned manipulated to put her nearly illiterate (as I had seen, and heard, university degrees with right connections are for sale and or offered) wife as Chief Minister of the province.

 These so called democratic Rajas had been reigning at least for last 60 years.  And, India’s freedom had been for 60 years.

 In all other democratic countries that I had lived, visited, I did not see any VIPs, VIPs and did not see anybody being escorted by Armed Police and paramilitary forces.  Even a police constable can arrest anybody found breaking laws, irrespective of Ministers, Secretaries, Janitors.

 After all, India is the biggest democracy in the world they claim!

 Is it the biggest anarchy of the world?

As I have heard the definition somewhere, I quote, “for the criminals, by the criminals of the criminals….”.

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How it had been working so long!

 

The so called political parties (better stated in reality, criminal parties) have infiltrated in all spheres of administration having a parallel political administration with that of established machinery of public service set by British Raj. These are so called elected (some elected at gunpoint, coercion, intimidation, and what not, and other unfair means, a locally acceptable methods) parallel administration is termed as administrative reforms in disguise to provide service, even criminal (as had been reported in the press) to meet need of the every members of the party, including hiring unlicensed armed goons in name of party workers, who massacre innocent people who do not tow the line of “criminalitics”, in front of the police forces where police is a silent spectator.

 After all, the way it is, Police is the stooges of Rajas and police dare not intervene.  Police will extort, harass, and lay false charges who oppose the activities of Rajas and their stooges and or to people who hardly make even one time food/day.

 If Rajputras (Rajas’ son) is pick-pocketed police will definitely recover the purse within an hour. It’s guaranteed.  In anybody else’s case who cares?

After all, police have won the right to form union from the Rajas and like local appointed public service have guaranteed pay cheque for life, without providing safety and service to the mass.

 And, this is the largest democracy of the world!

 This is the scenario in every sphere of Public Service. They are there to salute the Rajas and their stooges and provide service in a flick of a moment to them even if it is criminal.

 Al Capone, the criminal king of the then USA, Gestapo of Germany’s Hitler, a cobbler’s son, Nicolae Ceausescu of Romania, (by mass uprising he and his wife Elena were executed by firing squad)  Saddam Hussein of Iraq, who was hanged to death, are perhaps the most nearest examples one can find equivalent to scenario in India.

 The so called political parties have established network of party workers some call “goon squads” with illegal automatic killing weapons from village level to top hierarchy of the administration.  These all have fancy local names with immunity to all criminal activities from the state police and only the unfortunate ones get identified by the individual exemplary Central Police.

 Again, the funny thing is that Central Police can not take up any criminal investigation until and unless it is blessed by the Rajas and/or one goes through the High Court procedures and in some cases, these are objected to by the state administration of Rajas.

 Again, hearsay is that Central Police is also not beyond the scope of the all unethical practices of local public service. Exceptions if any, are there but, statistically they don’t count.

 All the laws of the land are meant to be ignored with immunity by the so called political workers some term them as “goon squad” who has the patronage of the law and order and of course administration.

 Rajas party is having a public meeting.  Children from primary schools, teachers, local professors, farmers, and who not, all the members are shipped by “goon squads” of the Rajas commonly known as cadres/leaders and their stooges the public meeting at the order of Rajas and their stooges.

Who cares about the schooling and suffering of children and other functions of public service?  Who cares about the inconvenience of the public, who cares about the noise level generated?  Who cares about gathering of millions of people in already overcrowded city. Of course, there are laws for it.  Who will implement it, as long as it is done by the “goon squad”/cadres of the Rajas and their stooges? Who cares about the Environmental Pollution, right to leave in peace and whatever fancy words are printed in the constitution of the country.

 And, changing the constitution of the country, India, is very easy. For the convenience of the so called elected they’ll raise their hands to change the constitution for their own free looting and luxuries.

 In other civilized countries, as I had observed, once the national parliament approves a change in the constitution of the country it must be approved unanimously by all provincial assemblies.  Even one objection from the provincial assemblies makes the proposed change null and void.

If the central government feels that it is for the betterment of the mass it has option to put on referendum for the people to give their “yes” or “no”. The constitution can only be changed and the law can only be changed if it is accepted by the referendum, not held at gun point, or intimidation or whatsoever.

 In reality, public service is there to salute and provide services to the VIPs, VIPs and their stooges.  Run around for months, years, and being thrown out of office and or police station are very common scenario.  And, the way it is people has no choice to avoid the public service and the public servants, either elected and or appointed in general, are habitual liars, extortionists, procrastinated, and it appears that these people are there to harass the public, not to provide them service until and of course their unwritten conditions are met.  Even if you grease the palm of these public servants, there is no guarantee that your needs will be taken care of. Exceptions do exist and they don’t count and hardly allowed to get things done.

 There hardly exists any humanitarian feeling and helping fellow humans. Those who are still left with human qualities are scorned and barrage of slang are thrown upon them and, if police finds a scope to extort or to implicate the innocents they’ll also show their color.

 Procedural law and order:

There are no securities for the people. Even the odd balls police officer take a humanitarian view, he has nothing to go by.  He/She has one stick his hand. He can not shoot to protect your life, that’s the practice not the police Act enacted by the British Raj and modified by the present rulers, as it appears, to use the police as their slave.

 There are reports in the press in state run government hospitals for granted reasons Autopsy reports are fabricated, so are the Forensic reports. This science only exists in the book, so is the DNA reports.  To get these tests done from reliable source is a highly expensive affair for the individual. One is lucky enough to get a person or persons with integrity.

 In summary, lawlessness and looting of the national exchequer is an accepted way of life.  People are beaten to death by the mob (goon) squad in public anybody objecting to it, subject to face the same situation. If one can afford the prohibitive cost and dares to go to judiciary, it is experienced that highest judiciary of the Province locally known as High Court, overlook the proven points in the judicial application and let the applicant go in circles a never ending process which may not materialize in one lifes term.  JUDICIARY IS A NIGHT MARE IF YOU DON’T HAVE BILLIONS.  If one does not have billions, can not get justice if it is against the state machinery, irrespective of violating all the rules and laws of the land.

 And as per the World Bank data, per capita income is $1.06/day.

 Humanity was the backbone of Indian Culture from Vedic era.  That’s history. After all, this is the largest democracy of the world!

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-Public service and or Public undertakings.

Few examples:

 Food and food supplies:  There is a food rationing system by the state governments by providing ration identity cards.  Even if you’ve one, there is nothing in the ration shop for your family.  As per the press reports supplies from the government storages are distributed to retailers in the market with the market price.  As the ration shop keepers claim that they have to do this to satisfy the greed of local members of the “goon squad” in name of “criminalitics”. Even to get a ration card identity it is a process of never ending but by the members of “criminalitics” and their stooges have a way with it with no time lost.

 With IT catching up with the rest of the world, I was told by a IT professional that they’ve discussions with the Rajas’ stooges to have the ration card issued digitized and at the same, they’ve been told that there are more than 20 million false cards and these have to be accommodated in the IT system, to be legalized.

 Adulteration of all food products, it appears is an accepted way of life.

Be it milk, edible oil, whatever.  As experienced, and as per the press reports life saving medicines are also adulterated. Even rotten fish, uncertified live animals are butchered publicly and sold.

 Again there are thousand and one public servants to check on it.  It’s anybody’s guess what they do and/or what they’re allowed to do by the practioners of “criminalitics”.

 Education:

 Private schools approved and recognized by the local government for Medical, Engineering, Law, Management, IT, and what not have sprung up all over the country.  Experience indicates in these private schools one who can afford to pay the extraordinary entrance and tuition (in comparison to state run schools and fees) fees have access to it and get out with all kinds of degrees.  Students in these schools what do they learn, is anybody’s guess?  This is one of the good businesses to get in to suck the public if you’ve the clout and capital investment. But they get public service with guaranteed pay cheque irrespective of output and or service to the public.

 Be it High School students or higher classes, in general they’ve no respect for the elders, no respect for the laws, not even self respect, not even the teachers, as I observed.  No manners, no ethics and even hard to believe they possess any humanitarian quality. In general they find it a pride to throw slang at ladies, elders, disabled, and what not?  As experienced, poisoning somebody’s pets, throwing stones at window panes, even hand made bombs, threatening with life, is their pride.  They invariably show respect and salute the practitioner of “criminalitics” and their stooges and “goon squad”.

 Even most of the teachers keep silent about it, so are most of the law and order keepers.

Exceptions, if any, are known as mad caps.

 Leaving aside few state run well renowned autonomous learning institutions, it had been observed anybody can have a degree by one way or the other and hold different local high sounding public service, of course with local blessings of practitioner of “criminalitics”.

 Communications, Telephone and IT:

 This was a monopoly by the public service until recently. Billions are spent from the national exchequer for members of Rajas and their stooges.  People are burdened with fictitious bills and I am told the local law says that you pay the bill first then only the telephone provider will talk.  Most of the web address of the Government Departments don’t function. And the service provider a Government business do not care to provide service and scrupilious enough to pass one’s data to another for few Rupees (in case of Internet) to charge fictitiously and if you go to court it’s another nightmare.

 One does not have any choice to go to court of law to sort out, if at all, in their lifetime.

 Medical:

 As usual, Rajas and members of the family and some public servants who are likely to be stooges of “criminalitics” have free medical even in the costliest paid hospitals and or nursing homes.  Some even go to developed countries of course at the cost of national exchequer to get cured and or for medical treatment.  As seen in the press advertisement, they recruit VIP doctors at the All India Institute of Medical science in New Delhi.

 Mass goes to local government run hospitals that are controlled by “goon squad” in name of “criminalitics”.

 Even the worst victims of accidents and or mishap can get no treatment or admitted in the hospital if it is not patronized and blessed with “goon squad” and or practitioner of “criminalitics”.

 They meet with the eternity in helpless conditions.  The local press is full of news with these news and news of massacre by the “goon squad” where police is either a silent observer or intentionally not present.

 Most state run Government hospitals stink with urine and stool smells and smells of piling garbage.  Even stray diseased dogs and cats find a shelter in the hospitals and medicine stores nearby as people say, sell medicines at exorbitant prices and insiders say that these are medicines that come from government storage to hospitals for the patients.

 About 25 years back I took a patient with swallowing poison to such a government run sub-divisional hospital and the so called doctor attending the patient never heard of a stomach pump and the patient had to die.

 If one goes to court of law to seek redress, the so called local Indian Medical Association will find nothing wrong with the failing doctors for malpractice and or willful negligence.  Very recently a visiting NRI doctor a Professor in Medical College in USA, got his sick wife admitted to a highly expensive medical facility at Calcutta where she died as per the NRI doctor for negligence and malpractice of the doctors.  He took to them court of law and got them jailed.  But the state High Court let these doctors free and as per the press, Indian Medical Association got nothing wrong with these doctors.  It appears all are in hand and glove.

 To add, the local press was full of scorn, false accusations, about this NRI doctor.

 My efforts to start a manufacturing unit with the help of American MNC met with all kinds of handouts, extortions, laying fabricated criminal charges, and the list is endless. And, added to it, were the standard slogans with red flags as taught by practitioner of “criminilitics”.  I just ran out of the country after clearing all the criminal charges and greasing the palms as required and fortunately for me, I found an advocate (who is a High court Judge now) took pity on me and in state High Court, I was cleared of all charges.  But the local judiciary in sub-divisional level who was influenced by the members of “criminalitics”, who had no reasons and or legal ground not to dismiss the charges, did not do so.  This so called sub-divisional judicial magistrate/judge died of cancer and he is fondly called by the bar association as “cancer ghosh”.

 As is seen, state police is just the slaves of the masters of “criminalitics” so called elected public servants and their stooges, in India commonly known as VVIP, VIP and what not.  They’ve no respect of the law of the land and the so called Constitution.

 Besides, even police catches hardened criminals, there will be no witness in the court for the fact, and the “goon squad” has thrown life threat ultimatum to these witnesses, with life, wife, daughter, son and what not! Police do not protect the witnesses.  After all, police is busy as they say “VVIP duty”.  Mass do not count.

 Infrastructure:

 In most parts of the country the roads maintained by the public service are beyond imagination to drive upon, even bicycling.  Ministers and their stooges portray their images with all big sounding words in the press unveiling the beginning of a project by spending millions from national exchequer and that project it appears is never ending and in the process, finds allocated for the project is siphoned off. In spite of all kinds of acts, like Environmental pollution act, Safety, it is taken for granted.  The head of the municipality definitely of ruling goon squad, orders taking out the soil in front of the house supposed to be green area and sell it.  This is definitely a crime and against all Engineering norms to weaken the foundations of residential houses.  Police is a silent on looker and when written complaints are provided to Police which they normally refuse to acknowledge and file suit at the court from experience they appear, are just deaf.  For years, the roads plying heavy vehicles had subsided and instead of bringing the road to the “as built” condition the local members of the “goon squad” finds all kinds of excuses of digging out the soil and haul it. And get some money for it.  Most public servants with the title of Engineers are not regulated any professional organization.  At the whims of “goon squad” anybody can be a Engineer without having any professional recognition.

 What does one expect from this scenario?  Infrastructure funds are for purchases of personal cars, houses and what not?

 These people change the master plan of the municipality to their advantage (mostly money), even though there’s order of the Supreme Court of India that nobody is authorized to change the master plan of a locality.

 Water Supply:

 If there is water on your tap, one is lucky to have mud, worms and all kinds of bacteria and viruses in the water supply.  It is taken for granted.  There are umpteen numbers of glorified titled public servants to ensure that everything is done in line with the standardized norms but, who’s going to stand against the head of the institution that belongs to the groups of Rajas’ goon squad?

After all, they’ll want to live in peace and have their eyes closed.

 Once in Calcutta, I was witnessing a large diameter pipeline being laid and there was a fellow standing like a hero supposedly to be some kind of Engineer and or Supervisor.  When I asked “what’s this going on, this is not being done by engineering norms”.  He showed me the office of the local Superintending Engineer nearby and asked me to tell it to him.  Since, by this time my eyes have opened about the “hand in glove”, and this project was funded by the World Bank, I just fired a letter to then World Bank president Robert McNamara.

 By this time I was gone to my work to civilized countries.  Robert McNamara came to Calcutta and enquired about me and did what he thought prudent to be done.

 Public transport:

 It is regulated by the state vehicles department.  Even the routes are allocated by the members of the “goon squad”.  In residential area these vehicles pass by with electric horns to make a dead to stand on its feet and emanating all emissions both of which are against the Environmental Act and the Master plan of the locality.

 As reported in the press, some state run public buses don’t have route permits.  Well, they say, it’s just the system.

 Local, glorified titled public servants’ roads are blocked by putting iron bars so that no heavy vehicle can pass through.

 Economy:

 There are kinds of statistics, figures thrown in the press by all concerned including VIPs, VIPs and their stooges indicating a 10% annual growth.  Good.  If so, why mass suffers without any basic guarantees of life, added with extortions, killings, tortures and what not, and the so called VIPs, VIPs and their stooges loot the national exchequer!

 Of course, this is the biggest democracy of the world!  (Depends on the definition of democracy).

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State runs businesses:

 Banking:

State run banks do give a damn about customers.  Employees, bank tellers, are just gossiping and talking to each other about their girls and the customers are standing in mute in line.

 If objected to, state run members of the “criminalitics” who manages the state run unions roughs up the public and unhesitatingly roughs the manager of the bank if he/she takes any disciplinary action against the defaulting employee.

 In 40 years in civilized countries I had no discrepancy with my banking.  None of my requests were ignored.  My monthly remittance to India to Indian nationalized bank for supporting the people India had no discrepancy in inward remittances.  Few remittances were missing.  The reply of the guaranteed pay cheque holder of the Indian bank with a fancy title sternly replied to me it is your bank that did not remit.  How am I going to make this glorified title holders of state run Indian banks that this do not happen in civilized countries.  I just closed my a/c and looked for better of the evils.

 I wrote a cheque for my housekeeper and asked her to deposit it to her account in a state run bank.  She never saw that money.  For years, I’d to fight in the court of law to get that money.

 There are no limits of harassments and damages caused by the Public sectors and the locals take it for granted.  Why they don’t have “hire and fire” if the clients (in this case public) are not provided with service? Who’s going to do it?  As per press reports quite a good number of MPs, MLAs, have umpteen numbers of criminal charges.  But they are still MPs, MLAs, so called law makers.

 It appears that public service in India are there to push peoples’ backs in the wall and in every step of life. Either the mass suffer in mute or those who can and still have finance and energy and time eternal, go to the court of law as a last recourse.  Not that this is a panacea or remedy but one doesn’t have any choice.

 Exceptions are hard to come by.

Transportation:

Railway implemented in India by the British Raj has developed into one of the largest network of railways in the world.

 Like the King George VI, the Railway Minister takes the whole train accompanied by all attendants, personal assistants, Secretaries, and all luxuries, automatic weapon armed security personnel and what not.

 The mass hangs on the hand rails of the railway compartments at the peril of the life and some even travel on top of the train to get electrocuted for the fact there is no room in the railway compartments.

 Well, after all a VVIP, VIP and their stooges, by Indian practice can do so.  Let the mass go to hell, is the clear message every time. Even the sons, daughters, and any other relatives of the railway minister just forces themselves into the air-conditioned compartments of the railway, and paying for it?  You must be joking.  After all they’re minister’s relatives. The ticket checker has only one head on his shoulder.

 Some railway employees take it granted to have their palms greased.

 Air:

 I was having a return ticket by Air India to India and back.  I had confirmed reservation at Ashoka Hotel in Mumbai.  When asked for the hotel to the Air India employee at Mumbai, “yahaa so jaon” (sleep here) was the reply, and he showed me the floor.

 There are VIP lounges at the Airports free of cost for the Indian glorified titled public servants.

 At New Delhi my connecting confirmed reservation by Indian Airlines was denied by the booking clerk (boarding pass issuer).  A slip of INR100.00 note to the porter did the trick.  I got my boarding pass.

 On return journey from Mumbai, sitting behind me I had lady passenger going to New York and she had a baby crying continuously from Mumbai.  She had the calling button pressed and the red light was on. In three or four rows before me there were Indian couple sitting and all the air hostesses, it appeared to me were performing “Bharat natyam” and serving all kinds of drinks, snacks without caring about the crying baby, and the rest of the passengers of a near empty Boeing 747.

 My conclusion that this couple was flying at the cost of national exchequer, i.e. freeloaders and must be glorified titled public servants of India was right. When in international territory, I objected to baby’s crying, and non existent of service. Baby’s mother needed some hot water to make milk to feed the baby. The captain of the flight apologized.  I’d flown pretty well in all airlines in the world.  This experience one can get only in India and in Air India.

 Good bye Air India.

 I had a mind to report it to Heathrow Airport and other international bodies but I just philosophized “no matter what washes are done, coal will not change its color”.

 My schedule for five days at Sanfrascico was cancelled. Since there were no queue in first class booking counter I approached the booking clerk (I was not rudely challenged, as I had experienced in the state run Airlines of India, by the booking clerk why have I got into this counter, since I don’t have a first class ticket) to help me out. My ticket from Sanfracisco to India was immediately rebooked next day by Singapore Airlines at no cost and since my flight arrived late at night in Sanfracisco by Aleyska Airlines; the booking clerk of Singapore Airlines politely provided me complimentary hotel and transportation, although it was not there responsibility. The Airline showed a humanitarian gesture.

 My flight from Edmonton to Calgary was late and the connecting flight to Sanfracisco already left.  Air Canada without any hassle provided with a free five star hotel with food for the night and taxi to and from the hotel and ensured that I’d a confirmed reservation from Edmonton to Sanfracisco and by Singapore Airlines, the next day.

How does it compare with Air India showing me the floor to sleep in at Mumbai Airport, and the crying baby not getting hot water to make milk for feed?

 One Maharaja (locally known as Prime Minister) of India used to fly with two Boeing 747 accompanied with whomsoever he liked and the logic provided to mass is that in case one has technical trouble, Maharaja can take the other one.

 And, the rest of the majority of populations of his kingdom are below poverty level even by Indian standard, let it not be compared with developed countries.

 By laws of average, Rajas and Maharajas of India and their kin and stooges have a free lunch, luxuries, wealth disproportionate to their income.  In practice, they’re above the laws of the land.

Mineral trading in international scenario:

 Iron ore exported with more than 70% Fe contents are reported to have been received at destination with 50% Fe contents.  After all, these are controlled by all regulatory authorities at both ends.  This scenario is very common in all raw minerals trading.

 Energy:

 a. Coal mining is a national sector.  Billions are siphoned off by the mafia from the coal mines and some even have their organized gang with automatic weapon to kill anybody they like.  Rajas, Maharajas and their stooges have, as they say, have their share.

 b. Power generation and distribution:

 Input versus output is nobody’s business.  Propaganda flies all around in all media that some power plants are operating at 150% efficiency factor. Whereas in reality it does not even function at 30% efficiency.

 At the whims of the Rajas and Maharajas power generation units are located even where there is not sufficient water to have one boiler feed of water.  So what? Rajas divert the ever drying river to the power plant site.

 In blatant violation of public safety, naked aluminum conductors are run through localities for distribution to households.  Monkeys, passers by get electrocuted and become dead and by local practice it’s taken for granted.

 It is told that in locality where Rajas and Maharajas and stooges live safety norms are followed.

 Whereas Rajas, Maharajas and their stooges have uninterrupted power supply, in some areas people will be lucky to have six hours’ of power supply, of course at the cost of national exchequer, some call it “free lunch” at the cost of mass who have guaranteed starvation, deprivation, torture and what not? One will be lucky to have 60 watt unit run in constant voltage.

 Unending greed and corruption, guarantee of protection of “goon squad” in different fancy names, guaranteed inefficiency and guarantee of pay cheque are the backbone of all this practice for years since so called independence of India.

 Rajas and Maharajas and their stooges don’t have to bother about their own needs.  Special units are there to ensure that communications, power supply, transportations, luxuries and what not are at top conditions. For the consumer, to have an electric meter functioning properly must be a miracle and fictitious billing is just an accepted way of life.  One has to run around in never ending circles to have the meter checked, and here comes two persons so called meter expert with a light bulb to check the meter?  Telephone requests if answered, do not work.

 As per the local information and the local press stolen transformers of State Electricity Board are sold back to State Electricity Boards.  Again, as per the local reports, spent oil from the transformers are mixed with edible mustard oil to smell it like mustard oil.

 Liquid and gaseous hydrocarbon:

 For the last 50 years it had been a monopoly of state.  Adulterations of the product at the retail outlet, manipulation of metering units are just very common business.

 With international liquid hydrocarbon sky rocketing prices one wonders how every Joe Blow has cars like ships and how do they maintain it?

 And as per UNO statistics the average per capita income of a person in India, is not even $400/year.

 Of course VIPs, VIPs and their stooges don’t have to bother about it?

It’s all at the cost of national exchequer.

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-Bitter medicines-

 From personal knowledge, lot of people of Indian origin suggested in writing to government of India to implement the following:

 (a)    Issuance of Social Insurance numbered card to everybody resident in India.

 (b)    These days IT being the backbone any administration, this number will be tagged with all government departments, i.e. police, judiciary, banking, income tax, social benefits such as medical, medicines, election and what not. Not the present “hotch potch” system of voter identity cards, ration cards, PAN cards and these as one can see is there to manipulate at the convenience of so called elected and their stooges. 

(c)    This will enable to have some control of the situation of anarchy.

 (d)     Implement “hire and fire” in public service (in this case public) complain.

  (e)    In name of democracy abolish parallel administration of “criminalitics” from village level to top hierarchy.

 (f)       The question is, if any Joe Blows are elected in peoples’ vote why would they need security from the public?

 If people are elected by the people, not at “gun point” and / or other coercive method/s why would they need protection?   In all the democratic countries nobody excepting “Head of the State” gets any police protection.

 (h)    Why ambulance and fire brigade is not escorted by police vehicles?

 (i)      Why so called elected and or glorified titled public servants will be spared to face the law like anybody in the country.  Abolish important status and what not.  In democratic country and society who’s more important that others.

 (j)      Who’s got the right to violate others’ right to live in peace and all other rights that a state must guarantee to its residents.

 (k)    Public service is there to provide service to the public not to harass them or push their backs in the wall, a locally standard practice.

 (l)      Those who can afford, why people as a last resort to go to court of law for any public servants’ wrong doing? Why the departmental heads and the responsible Minister do not take remedial steps for any complaints filed by the people? If needed, to show the door.

 (m) In other civilized society as I had seen persons charged with criminal

      charges are not allowed to hold any public office. Look at India?

 (n) It is mandatory in other developed countries that no public servant

      can hold two public offices.

 (o) With national social security numbers, if these super intelligent

people, does not create fabricated national social security numbers there are no scopes of “black money” and or benami (fictitious names) bank accounts and properties spread all over the world.

 

(p) It appears that cancer has spread in every cells of the national body,       and the question is “who has the desire and guts of curing” it?

 

All the people are talking about ICBMs, Environment and what not all big

sounding words.  For years after writing to so many doctorates who heads national

and provincial Environmental Protection, I had to seek the recourse of the Kolkata

High Court and surprisingly, (as I know the reality now, it is no surprising to me)

one of the judges rejected my writ petition under article 226 of the Constitution of

India and in the Divisional Bench it was referred to District Magistrate whom I wrote

about a decade back and it was attached with my writ petition.  What a justice now? 

Meanwhile I had been squeezed to death financially by the so called advocates.

 

Who cares about these big words Microchips, ICBMs, Polymer applications in

Engineering which are very common knowledge these days when everywhere it is

apparent law of the land and International laws are broken with impunity in India and

people die of starvation, lack of  medical treatment.

 

Let India first learn the science of Human Science and Engineering as a law then

only it can justify its standing in the world.

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Where it is heading to?

 Years back I transferred technology, to the Ministry of Mines and Minerals,(name changes and not practicable for me to keep track) and a Indian Professional body asked my permission to have it published in their journal.

 Assuming that the concerned ministry of Govt. of India had agreed to implement the technology, I wrote a registered letter to the concerned minister stating that I will have the technology implemented with Indian source and manpower and any fees they’re willing to pay may please be remitted to my father (who was then living).  As usual in line with Indian scenario it was not replied.

 One American Engineering organization’s business development manager, one of my ex-coworkers, invites me for lunch near my work place.  Surprisingly, he produced a photocopy of my report and said they’ve the job and their opinion was asked about the report. On my enquiry he replied “we’ve only one skin on our back and ethically, how can we say anything different, you’re in North America and we are working for you on the same technology”.

 “How is that possible”- I enquired.  It’s simple. The minister was here and we did what is to be done.

 I and many of my associates, friends of Indian origin had witnessed many such incidents in our lives.

 Again, when Rajsthan Atomic Power Project was being constructed by Atomic Energy of Canada, having involved in such projects all over the world, I opted to go to Rajsthan and take a working role.  In Canada, the head of the project invited me to have lunch with him.  “Hey we know you, but you’ll not be able to get anything done over there for the fact you’re of Indian origin.  Even we send a white brick layer from here; over there, all of them will call him Sir, and get the job done”.  Such facts are endless.

 Now the question is how long this will continue?

 In Vedas (Gita) it’s stated that I (God) come to this world to destroy the evils and protect the humane religion.

 Again, God get it done by us.  And when the people of India are going to awaken up and do the justification to the so called “biggest democracy of the world”.

 To make stunts here and there, few missiles are fired.  One or few nuclear explosions are done.  Communication satellites are lunched and at the cost of millions of national exchequer all local Rajas, Maharajas and their stooges are welcome at any place with red carpet welcome and garlands whereas, the mass have deprivation, starvation, torture, extortions, and millions of other evils for granted.

 Is it not a “failed state” where people do not have the guaranteed basic needs of life?  They’re guaranteed of starvation, to be bitten by street dogs at Government run hospitals, not treated by medical doctors, if in trouble with “goon squad” the uniformed “goon squad” locally known as police are not there to help, and the list of evils and inhumanity is never ending.

 In 1960s “Hindi-Chini bhai bhai” (India and China are brothers) a slogan originated by the then prime minister of India Nehru, when China butchered the Indian soldiers (I was working in the area then and mandatory salary deduction for defense at that time deposited in bank is a lost cause for me) occupied part of India, still under their occupation, is going to be repeated, or other courses of nature will dictate itself to bring justice to the people of India.  In Mahabharata kaurabs destructed themselves.

 Forget all the tyranny that had been on since 60 years’ of so called inpendence of India.

 Let India learn to take care of its residents not the VIPs, VIPs and their stooges with glorified titles in Public Service and the “goon squad” of practitioners of “criminalitics” locally known as politics.

 It must be done forthwith. Time has run out.  Otherwise, history repeats itself. Hope it does not end up like that.

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what’s the name of this movie?

Sunday, January 10th, 2010

It was one of the first victims of AIDS. was a professional model, was infected of the illness by the use of drugs, she returned to her mother’s home for rehabilitation and thought that the symptoms were because the detoxification of her body. died in a hospital accompanied only of her mother and nobody wanted to attend her because her illness.

please, is an old movie, maybe 80′s.
I think the name of the movie is her name also, but not sure
thanks.

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Can I call my wife’s therapist to tell them what she’s not?

Sunday, January 10th, 2010

Okay, so hold on to your seats…

In April, my wife decided she did not want to be with me any more. She said she wasn’t happy, and needed to be happy with herself before she could be happy with anyone else. She took our son and went to her parents house.

From then until August we were either fighting or not talking to each other. I had suspicions that she was cheating on me, although she would deny them and made me start to feel like I was crazy for thinking the things I thought. She was seeing a counselor and a psychologist for her issues, and I was seeing a counselor as well.

In late August, she brought our son back to stay with me. She then told me that she had been diagnosed as being clinically depressed. She also told me that she had been cutting herself and was bulimic since before we were together (5+ years). This was incredibly shocking to me, but we talked and I told her I still loved her very much and supported her.

Fast forward to a few days ago. She calls me and tells me that she has been having an affair for the last few months. I was incredibly furious, and we fought about it for quite some time. Then it turns out shes been kicked out of her parents house, and shes now living with the guy shes been seeing. He’s a jobless, car-less drug addict who lives with his sister.

She was kicked out of her house because she refuses to attend an in-patient rehabilitation program her therapist is recommending. She feels as though living with this scumbag is helping her.

Her parents and I have had enough. We know she’s not telling her therapist everything, because she claims that her therapist told her that her new relationship is just fine. Since I began talking with her parents we’ve all realized that she’s doing nothing but lying to us about everything.

Will I be violating any kind of ethics or doctor patients confidentiality if I contact her therapist and let her know a few things that she probably doesn’t know about her patient.

I know theres a doctor patient confidentiality, and she can’t tell me anything. Her mother is trying to get some kind of access that will allow her to be there for a session, and allow the doctor to notify her if she stops taking her meds or misses an appointment.

We also know she’s not telling everything since the doctor has apparently only recommended an eating disorder outpatient program.

I love me wife, and her family loves her. We just want her to get better for the sake of our son. Can I do this, and does anyone have any advice?? Please help.

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(Rehab 911) Mom’s Trees, Plants, Oceans and Herbs Mother Nature’s Remedies

Sunday, January 10th, 2010


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